Ducky Doolittle‘s getting into video blogging. This clip is from her talk at MoSex from last January.
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- Beth Ditto: What Would Beth Ditto Do?
- Ducky Doolitle: Ask Ducky
- Erin Bradley: Miss Information
- Chelsea Summers: 8 Reasons Why Internet Dating is Not For You
- Judy McGuire: Help! I’m Sleeping With an Almost-Monk
- Cory Silverberg (About.com): Sugar, Spice, and Vomeronasal Organs
- Dan Savage: The Sex is Awesome
- Matisse: For the Record
- Violet Blue: Sleepless in San Francisco
- Tristan Taormino: Third-generation pornographer hopes to change industry
- Help me commit Ethical Adultery
- How does one come to peace with unfulfillable sexual fantasies?
- Please help me not be the next 40 year old virgin!
- My girlfriend gets an UTI after almost every time I go down on her. Help us save our sex lives!
- Can I learn to enjoy the taste of vagina? I really want to.
- I’m involved in a long term relationship with a bad boy. Can I keep doing it?
- Help me identify my roommate’s spots.
- Just found out that my long time love is a daily phone sex participant and while away on a business/pleasure trip (staying with friends whom I spoke with on the phone) is posting and responding to online “casual sex” posts for both men and women. I don’t know if meetings occurred.
- What’s my kink?
(Pic of fellow librarian Badfaggot. His T shirt refers to the controversy around the Newberry Award winning book, The Higher Power of Lucky.)I was interviewed, but didn’t make the cut. Thanks, Jessica! Maybe because I gave them a picture that totally obscures my face? And of course, the women are wearing glasses.
- What are your favorite works of erotic literature?
- What is the best way to pick up a librarian?
- There’s this girl I really like, but once we got in the sack, the sex turned out to be awful. Is she a lost cause?
- My boyfriend can’t come from blowjobs. Can anything be done?
- My boyfriend has a foot fetish, but I’m not into it. How can we reconcile this?
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I’m a straight girl, but drag kings turn me on. Does that make me bi?
It doesn’t make you bi. It makes you awesome.
How can I convince my girlfriend to try drag for me? She says she’d feel silly.
She shouldn’t feel silly — drag is a fantasy. I know kings that have been asked to go to bed with a couple because one of them wouldn’t try drag. Let her know if she won’t do it, someone else will.
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It’s great that my boyfriend can go for hours, but sometimes I get bored. How long is a reasonable amount of time to have sex before telling him time’s up?
My girlfriend and I usually make love for two hours, but that’s a lot to some people. You should talk about your boredom outside the bedroom. Tell him what would make it more interesting to you. Call it constructive criticism.
My boyfriend loves going down on me, but I can’t seem to orgasm from it. Is that normal? Can I change that?
Not everybody can come from oral, but your boyfriend has a duty to try. Tell him to add penetration, add vibration and hang in there. When you’re going down on someone, you have to be a soldier.
I have this one particular fetish that a lot of people consider weird. How many times should I sleep with a girl before telling her about it?
Wait at least two months before busting it out. By then, you’ll have a bond that will make her more likely to indulge your fetish. If you try it two weeks in, she’ll probably be like, “Peace.”
Are crotchless panties hot or unsanitary?
Unsanitary, yet hot. Put them on right before you take them off.
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