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Ask Ducky
Ducky answers a common question she hears at her workshops…
- August 20, 2007
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Ducky Doolittle’s getting into video blogging. This clip is from her talk at MoSex from last January.

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Beth Ditto: What Would Beth Ditto Do?
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Ask MetaFilter: Posts tagged ’sex’

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How does one come to peace with unfulfillable sexual fantasies?
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(Pic of fellow librarian Badfaggot. His T shirt refers to the controversy around the Newberry Award winning book, The Higher Power of Lucky.)
I was interviewed, but didn’t make the cut. Thanks, Jessica! Maybe because I gave them a picture that totally obscures my face? And of course, the women are wearing glasses.

What are your favorite [...]

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I’m a straight girl, but drag kings turn me on. Does that make me bi?It doesn’t make you bi. It makes you awesome.
How can I convince my girlfriend to try drag for me? She says she’d feel silly.She shouldn’t feel silly — drag is a fantasy. I know kings that have been asked to go [...]

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Erin Bradley: Miss Information (Nerve)
Em & Lo: Ralphina Macchio: “My boyfriend’s being a crybaby because I can beat him up.”
Judy McGuire: Date Girl: Mizz Manners (Seattle Weekly)
Dan Savage: Savage Love
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Mistress Matisse: Mistress of Masturbation (The Stranger)
Tristan Taormino: The Cum of Alt Fears (Village Voice)
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By Mike Penner Times Staff Writer
During my 23 years with The Times’ sports department, I have held a wide variety of roles and titles. Tennis writer. Angels beat reporter. Olympics writer. Essayist. Sports media critic. NFL columnist. Recent keeper of the Morning [...]

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Tristan Taormino, award-winning author, columnist, editor and sex educator, is the featured speaker at Barnard’s sex-positive event “Sexhibition.”
The Path to Sexual EmpowermentSulzberger Parlor - Barnard campusTonight, Wed, April 25 - 8pmFREEWhat is sexual empowerment? What does it mean to be sexually empowered? Tristan reveals the pleasures and pitfalls of her journey from law school reject [...]

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Jay Michaelson, Wayne Hoffman, Felice Shays, Lisa Beth Kovitz,
Phil S. Stein, Ronnie KoenigDate: Mar 22 2007Time: 7:00pm - 9:00pmLocation: KGB Bar, 85 East 4th St., NYC
Jay Michaelson is an award-winning writer, educator, and student ofcontemplative practice. He is a columnist for The Forward,the chief editor of Zeek: A Jewish Journal of Thought and Culture,and the [...]

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Columnist Roundup

Erin Bradley: Miss Information (Nerve)
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Judy McGuire: Date Girl: Desperado (Seattle Weekly)
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Cory Silverberg: Ruining Sex for the Next Generation
Mistress Matisse: Word to the Wise (The Stranger)
Tristan Taormino: Hard to Swallow (Village Voice)
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Jessica Guynn, Chronicle Staff Writer
While it may be tough for the middle-aged of Silicon Valley to find a perfect partner, it’s never been easier for the young and the restless in the high-tech industry to make a love connection.
Members of this uninhibited generation can hit the launch-party circuit or hook up with the opposite sex [...]

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Originally uploaded by rkb1.
Thank heavens for Sexytime- the comedy show that’s ready to bone the everloving crap outta you RIGHT NOW!
Expect risque antics from cohosts Brandy Crawford and Heather Fink along with a great lineup. Comedians Dave Hill, Giulia Rozzi, and Jordan Carlos, bring their kick ass jokes to [...]

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Feisty, take-no-prisoners columnist (she nicknamed President Bush ‘Shrub’) and author Molly Ivins, passed away yesterday, after a long battle with breast cancer:

The 62-year-old writer was a rare commodity in Texas – a liberal – who wrote a twice-weekly column that appeared in at least 300 newspapers. Based in Austin, her commentary appeared in national magazines [...]

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Forbes’ first annual listing of the biggest stars on the internet. It includes my favorites Xeni, Cory, Merlin, Markos and Violet.
“Sex educator Violet Blue is the best-selling, award-winning author of over a dozen books on sex and sexuality, as well as the sex columnist for The San Francisco Chronicle. She’s also nearly omnipresent on the [...]

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They’re all on Sirius Satellite Radio!
Ducky writes:
That’s right! SIRIUS SATELLITE is giving me two nights LIVE on the air as a test run for MY OWN SHOW! If all goes well, I’ll be on Monday to Friday from 10pm to 1am! But for now it is just a test. No promises. The more calls, [...]

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I got some bad news today. ‘RIP, Lusty Lady column’ was the subject line of the email Rachel Kramer Bussel sent out today.
This week’s Village Voice column, will be her last. RKB She was informed by the editor in chief David Blum that they have hired a new sex columnist. Gawker speculates it’s [...]

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In The Flesh Erotic Reading SeriesErotic Memoir NightWednesday, January 17 At 8 PmAt Happy Ending Lounge, 302 Broome Street, NYC

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Judy McGuire: How NOT To Date

Y’know how you dish with your friends about the terrible date you had?
Here’s your chance to see it in print. Judy McGuire (former NY Press columnist, current Seattle Weekly Dategirl columnist and all-around awesome writer) is writing a book about bad dates and the mistakes people make and needs your stories:
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If conservative Southern Christians are to be believed, introducing a topic as “racy” as oral sex into the school newspaper won’t just lead the children to eternal damnation — it’ll also make them flunk class, too.
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violet blue just announced that she has a new column with the San Francisco Chronicle:

It’s official. I’m now the sex columnist for the San Francisco Chronicle.
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