Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Dec 3rd, 2009
The Sex Doctor Is Out / Violet Blue: Talk to your doctor about sex? You’re better off asking Twitter – Picking out a new doctor that you'll feel comfortable talking to — and hope to get accurate answers from — is a challenge with a health care system that is not consumer friendly, nor awake [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 30th, 2009
R-Wipe & Clean – CNET Download.com – We like this system-cleaning utility's feature set and flexibility. Naturally, R-Wipe & Clean can erase your browser's cache, cookies, temporary files, and typed URLs. In addition, you can securely delete any file via the right-click menu in Windows Explorer. You can perform common system deletions as well, such [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 11th, 2009
Text Scarleteen | Scarleteen – To ask Scarleteen a question via text, just text 66746 and start your question with the keyword ASKST.
it’s not rope: couture Shibari in Exit Magazine | violet blue ® :: open source sex –
Film Festival Secrets: Programmer Profile: Lisa Vandever of CineKink – Nothing wrong with a little titillation [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Oct 30th, 2009
160 Handy Twitter Tools and Resources | Social Media Strategies and Tools Explained –
FWD/Forward – FWD (feminists with disabilities) for a way forward
Richmond High School gang rape: Cops arrest 2 in attack on Calif. teen girl; Bystanders did nothing | NY Daily News – The 15-year-old Richmond High School student hospitalized in stable condition [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Oct 27th, 2009
These are my links for October 25th through October 26th:
Scary Sex Toys – Sex Toys That Are More Scary Than Sexy | Cory Silverberg – the sex toys below are ghoulish not just in their looks, but in misguided conception, poor design, and sometimes obvious danger.
Social Networking – Legal and Ethical Issues for Lawyers and [...]
Posted in bdsm, book, dominance, domination, kink, submission, submissive on Oct 15th, 2009
“Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns” was not the first book I have ever read on BDSM. When I first started getting interested in BDSM, the internet was my guide, some of it useful, some of it ridiculous, everyone had an opinion. I then read “Different Loving” and “Sensuous Magic”, both excellent books relating [...]
Posted in comstock films, erotic, erotica, lesbian, lesbians, movies on Aug 1st, 2009
Like Comstock’s other films, “Ashley and Kisha” showcases an intimate relationship between two lovers, whose story is tender and unique. Ashley and Kisha are two young women who met in college and became lovers. Ashley is an out-and-proud lesbian, while Kisha considered herself “straight” and not interested in women, until she met Ashley. During their [...]
Posted in dating, social media on Oct 20th, 2008
. . .In the days of social networks, always-on PDAs, real time tweets and FriendFeed links that update at the speed of light—and are visible to every Looky Lou perusing your account, deleting friends when things cool off can be a highly visible activity (as Xeni Jardin and Violet Blue each discovered when Xeni deleted [...]
Posted in Blogging, bloggers, relationships, social media on Oct 7th, 2008
Cancel, unsubscribe, unfollow. Sort out how you want to react to the breakup only after you’ve canceled the relationship, unsubscribed from her Tumblr, or blocked him from Twitter. To undo a relationship that made it online in any form—whether you’ve got photos together all over MySpace or earned your own tag on Gawker—requires investing as [...]
Posted in polyamory on Oct 6th, 2008
. . .Polyamory gained a degree of cultural vogue in the sexual revolution of the 1970s, when books like “Open Marriage” made best-seller lists and swingers capitalized on the concept to justify experimentation. But while it failed to survive the era of fern bars for the mainstream population, a small but vocal collection of adherents [...]
Posted in sex on Oct 2nd, 2008
By Kate Carraway
How we spend our money says as much about our priorities as the people we choose to share a bed with, and often, those two decisions are hopelessly intertwined. Sex, dating and relationships are expensive: flowers, hairdos, clothes, contraceptives, lube, cabs, texts, dinners, (breakfasts?) — how much does it actually come to? Is [...]
Posted in nyc on Oct 1st, 2008
Sex in the city
Have better sex
TONY PD
Routine checkup
One tiny little problem
What’s the frequency?
NYC sex stats
The freaks come out
How to…Negotiate a threesome
How to…Make a sex tape
The Sex Poll
The Web’s best amateur porn
The kinks
Boy in Babeland
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Posted in Dark Odyssey on Aug 19th, 2008
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008. Banner photo by Hypnox
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008
September 10-15, 2008
Northern Maryland
RATES GO UP AUGUST 25!
My readers of my blog are entitled to a discount – please email me.
The confirmed list of presenters and workshops for Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp ‘08 just went live on the website and we [...]
Posted in relationships, sex on Aug 19th, 2008
My friend and fellow blogger Mimi’s most recent post ‘Legacies from the Men in my Life’ got me thinking, not in a general sense but in a sexual one. Funny that. In truth, the men in my life have probably taught me more about sex than about anything else. I’ve always been a self-contained, opinionated [...]
Posted in relationships on Aug 19th, 2008
And I don’t mean money. I mean culture, understood in the widest sense.
Whatever about the men, intimacy with them put me in touch with a wide variety of microcultures.
I wonder what legacies, if any, they have from me.
* * *
from my first husband
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Posted in dating on Jul 8th, 2008
I’ll admit that casual sex for me is a total defense mechanism in order to experience intimacy without risking emotional detriment. I’d so much rather be fucked than fucked with. So when some guy suggested to me last week that we merely make out all night instead of have sex, I was immediately cautious of [...]
