Posted in Events, housekeeping, sex, women on Feb 17th, 2010
[ March 23, 2010 to June 4, 2010. ]
A totally unique way to grow your sexuality.
Facilitated by Amy Jo Goddard, M.A. in NYC
Are you ready to own your sexuality, to reclaim it, heal it and celebrate it? Women need a safe space in which to heal, explore, examine and learn about their sexuality. In this sex-positive space, women will be able to do [...]
Posted in sexuality on Jan 12th, 2010
by Rachel Kramer Bussel
This just in: The G-spot doesn’t exist! At least, according to British researchers who’ve made splashy headlines with this claim in a new study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. According to the abstract, “1,804 unselected female twins aged 22–83 completed a questionnaire about their sexuality and G-spot knowledge” and the point [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Dec 19th, 2009
Man on Man: The New Gay Romance (LA WeeklyO – In many ways the growing popularity of gay romance represents nothing less than a tectonic shift in a culture that says women don’t (and shouldn’t) consume porn. Hot and steamy gay-romance literature is to women what Internet porn is to men: They get off on [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 16th, 2009
I want you back, says Belle de Jour’s lover | News –
Generation B – Anything He Can Do, She Can Do | NYTimes.com – IN September 1998, David Buechner, then 39, a prominent classical pianist, came out as a transgender woman, explaining that from then on, she would live and perform as Sara [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 13th, 2009
SHPANK, CRØSS & STÖCK: Flat-pack on your back — Bookkake – Fake ikea instructions for bondage gear
Where The Party’s At: The Real Stars Of The Fleshbot Awards –
Bad Reputation: Doing Damage Control on Your Internet Profile | TechCoquette – If you find that you’re not pleased with how the internet reflects you, there are [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 9th, 2009
High Schools Struggle When Gender Bends the Dress Code – NYTimes.com – Dress is always code, particularly for teenagers eager to telegraph evolving identities. Each year, schools hope to quell disruption by prohibiting the latest styles that signify a gang affiliation, a sexual act or drug use…But when officials want to discipline a student whose [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Oct 30th, 2009
160 Handy Twitter Tools and Resources | Social Media Strategies and Tools Explained –
FWD/Forward – FWD (feminists with disabilities) for a way forward
Richmond High School gang rape: Cops arrest 2 in attack on Calif. teen girl; Bystanders did nothing | NY Daily News – The 15-year-old Richmond High School student hospitalized in stable condition [...]
Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Oct 22nd, 2009
These are my links for October 21st through October 22nd:
Mollena Williams Named Ms. SF Leather 2009 | San Francisco Bay Times – Originally from New York, Mo has been active in the BDSM community since 1996. She is a founding member of the Crowded Fire Theater Company and speaks at leather events across the [...]
Posted in sugasm on Apr 20th, 2009
Photo: Carina (errotica archives)
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #164? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s [...]
Posted in body on Apr 20th, 2009
…I recently saw a post on FetLife calling for demo bottoms. Since this was for an event I’m attending, I was eager to volunteer. Then I read the post. The instructor specifically asked for slender models, because (and I am paraphrasing a bit) fuller-figured people’s skin doesn’t clamp / pinch easily.
I was really angry. [...]
Posted in girls on Mar 9th, 2009
. . .On my way to meet her that Saturday, my mind wandered back over our long relationship. We were both about six when I received her as a gift one holiday morning. I loved her instantly, with her perfect, dancer’s figure, dainty feet, luscious red lips and coy expression. My affection for high-heeled mules [...]
This sex positive carnival highlights posts/articles promoting the sexual rights and freedom of women:
This theory of feminism is known more commonly as Sex Positive Feminism, a movement that developed in the 1980s in response to feminists against pornography and prostitution. Sex Positive Feminists (or sex-radical, pro-sex or sexually liberated feminists) believe that women’s sexual freedom [...]
Posted in women on Feb 9th, 2009
. . .I might be rushing to state this next point, and bear with me if I am because this is just a blog post ripped from the top of my fecund mind and not a fully researched article. I’m going to say it nonetheless: if you want to know what values a culture holds [...]
I’m hosting the next Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy on February 16th 2009.
This sex positive carnival highlights posts/articles promoting the sexual rights and freedom of women:
This theory of feminism is known more commonly as Sex Positive Feminism, a movement that developed in the 1980s in response to feminists against pornography and prostitution. Sex [...]
We won’t find out by trying to separate biology from culture.
The cover asks “What is Female Desire?” and the story title, “What do Women Want?” seems to promise that scientists are getting closer to figuring out one of life’s great mysteries. Daniel Bergner, in fact, does not attempt to answer those two questions (and the [...]
Posted in birth control on Jan 23rd, 2009
by Daniel Pellegrom
President Obama signed an executive order late Friday afternoon ending the Global Gag Rule.
President Obama’s decision to lift the Global Gag Rule gives me extraordinary reason to rejoice. I became Pathfinder International’s president in 1985, shortly after President Reagan imposed the original version of the Global Gag Rule (also known as the Mexico [...]
Posted in politics on Jan 21st, 2009
by Emily Douglas
President Obama took office just 24 hours ago, and the world is already a very different place for women and their reproductive health.
Global Gag Rule, Conscience Rule, and Ban on Stem Cell Funding on the Chopping Block
Word is that the administration will repeal the global gag rule tomorrow, on the 36th anniversary [...]
Posted in Events on Jan 6th, 2009
Where: NYC LGBT Community Center, 208 W.13th St, NYC, 10011
When: January 23, Reception at 6:30PM, Screening at 7:30PM
Cost: $8 in advance, $10 at the door
Director Tony Comstock will be present
Additional Information
Lesbian Cinema Arts will present a one night only screening of Ashley and Kisha: Finding the Right Fit, Friday evening, January 23, at the [...]
By Jason Gale
Jan. 6 (Bloomberg) — A sex hormone stimulated by excess body fat may trigger deadly ovarian cancer, a new study found.
Researchers at the National Cancer Institute found that, among women who had never taken hormones after menopause, obesity was associated with an almost 80 percent higher risk of ovarian cancer, the deadliest type [...]
Posted in sex on Dec 23rd, 2008
Written by Latoya Peterson
*Trigger Warning*
Latoya’s Note: So, as promised, here’s the original version of the essay that appears in Yes Means Yes. If you see this popping up in your reader, I do not recommend you read it at work.
Rape is only four letters, one small syllable, and yet it is one of the [...]
I want to be judged purely on the basis of my appearance.
I love it that men might think me attractive, because, like, that’s all that matters to me.
I feel validated if men want to fuck me: the more that do, the merrier.
I think it’s great that how I look is more important than what I [...]
Posted in shibari on Nov 19th, 2008
Women’s Rope Share
Open to Women and those who identify in women’s space
Date/time: Dec 13th, Saturday, 1pm
Location: Greenwich St.
(btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site)
Specific building number will be emailed upon registration.
Minimum Donation: $20- and up/per person
Instructors: Michele Serchuk, Seraphin, V, and YIN
The Rope Share is a bondage workshop that is structured [...]
China has received plenty of criticism for the poor working conditions, heavy pollution, and sometimes-dangerous products associated with its remarkable economic boom. Now it is getting praise for increasing gender equality.
A World Economic Forum study released today says China climbed 16 places, to No. 57, in an annual ranking of sexual parity in 130 countries [...]
The posters displayed in Paris Métro stations show a slim woman in her 50s in a cocktail dress, reclining on a leather sofa. Her hair is natural, her makeup understated, her smile satisfied. In the foreground, a man, his torso nude, slips two 100-euro notes into his pocket.
The posters were advertising “Cliente,” a popular movie [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on Oct 29th, 2008
RH Reality Check’s Election and Reproductive Health Guide
Barbara Nitke has a beautiful new website, and is now blogging. I helped!
Lolita Wolf is a spanking expert – she was interviewed for the 30th anniversary issue of Penthouse Variations.
Gerard Damiano, director of Deep Throat, has passed away at the age of 80. (NYT).
Regina Lynn reviews the [...]
But the unending tide of Palin porn seems to me to be much more than pointing at a candidate and saying, heh, I saw her play flute in a bikini. Sexist? Too simple an answer — Palin’s platforms are sex-negative, and they were made for walking all over your rape kits, gay marriage and science-based [...]
. . . To bring Elizabeth’s argument back in: if the feminist marketplace of ideas cannot support a true diversity of sexual theory, and neither can the mainstream, then maybe blogging is a wonderful, messy middleground. Personal sex blogging may be (hopelessly?) marginalized to the hoary Blogspots of the the web, but within every [...]
The Environmental Security Hypothesis says that in tough times men will prefer women who are good at production, generally older, taller, heavier, less curvaceous women with less body fat. In good times, they will prefer women who are good at reproduction, generally younger, shorter, lighter, more curvaceous women. Pettijohn and and Jungeberg look [...]
Posted in porn on Oct 13th, 2008
by Theresa Darklady Reed
…Courtesy of the PGPorn.tv website, the mainstream film world’s brothers Gunn offer content that writer, director, producer James insists will provide visitors with “a place where the porn and mainstream film industries meet and get to have some understanding with each other.”
While this sounds great on its surface, the reality is far [...]
Posted in sex on Sep 30th, 2008
. . . WORKING from bed was a dream of the Internet age, and Hot 97 deejay Fatman Scoop and his wife, Shanda Freeman, have achieved it. True, their bed is currently in an MTV studio, but they were happy to truck it in from their New Jersey home.
The network picked up the couple’s podcast, [...]
