Does someone involved in BDSM or polyamory do so due to pyschopathology? That question will be addressed in the next phase of our custody case.
As anticipated, the judge has ordered psychiatric evaluations of each parent. In my case, this is called for due to the BDSM and polyamorous activities described in my blog.
As we go [...]
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Not long after I announced that my ex had discovered my blog and made an emergency application to the court seeking sole custody of our children, I was contacted by numerous parents who had been though similar court challenges of their custody based upon their particular sexual lifestyles.
A father wrote to share his sympathies, offering [...]
Here’s a note from Jefferson about last night’s fundraiser. Thank you to all those who contributed, volunteered or attended! -Viviane
Last night’s Friends of Jefferson event was a great success. Thanks to everyone who attended and contributed. Thanks especially to those who donated items to the raffle—which included, my gosh, an original drawing by Nayland Blake!—and [...]
Friends of Jefferson Fundraiser, Aug. 27
Posted in Events, Fetish & Kink, Jefferson on Aug 26th, 2008
Join the Friends of Jefferson
on August 27, 7 -10 p.m.
at
Happy Ending Lounge
302 Broome Street, NYC • B or D to Grand Street
J, M, Z to Bowery • F to Delancy
$20 suggested donation—but pay what you wish
Come and get your spank on at the Spanking Booth!
Enter to win:
GRAND PRIZE – original drawing by [...]
Friends of Jefferson fundraiser, Aug. 27
Posted in Events, Fetish & Kink, Jefferson on Aug 20th, 2008
Join the Friends of Jefferson
on August 27, 7 p.m. to 10 p.m.
at
Happy Ending Lounge
302 Broome Street, NYC • B or D to Grand Street
J, M, Z to Bowery • F to Delancy
$20 suggested donation—but pay what you wish
Come and get your spank on at the Spanking Booth! Enter to win:
Babeland gift certificates • Books [...]
Save the Date – Friends of Jefferson
Posted in Events, Fetish & Kink, Jefferson, sex on Aug 16th, 2008
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An important member of the sex-positive community
urgently needs our help.
Jefferson—blogger, educator, and dear friend to so many of us—is at this moment fighting a court battle with his ex-wife, who is seeking full custody of their three children.
Jefferson’s love for his children has been well-documented on his blog One Life, [...]
Join the Friends of Jefferson
on August 27, 7 p.m. to 10 p.m.
at
Happy Ending Lounge
302 Broome Street, NYC • B or D to Grand Street
J, M, Z to Bowery • F to Delancy
$20 suggested donation—but pay what you wish
Come and get your spank on at the Spanking Booth!
Enter to win:
GRAND PRIZE – original [...]
Happy birthday, Jefferson!
Posted in Jefferson, birthday, sexbloggers on Jan 17th, 2008
Happy birthday to my dear friend Jefferson of One Life Take Two. It all started in January 2005, when I typed the words “sex blog” into Google. And look where we are now. ;-D
He’s off on a cruise with Dee. Walt would not be pleased. (Jefferson says naughty sites are filtered out.)
Tags: sex, sexblog, [...]
Jefferson’s New Boots
Posted in Jefferson, Lolita Wolf, boots on Jun 13th, 2007
Lolita writes:
There was a lot of flogging going on at Jefferson’s sex party. Some regular pigs and some newbies who wanted a taste. Jefferson was excited that he had a new flogger.
I admired the new flogger. “Oooh! This is nice! You needed something a little lighter and softer.”“Madeline and I went to Purple Passion. They [...]
For Pornographers, Internet is Now a Curse (International Herald Tribune)
Posted in Jefferson, media, pornography on Jun 2nd, 2007
The Internet was supposed to be a tremendous boon for the pornography industry, creating a global market of images and videos accessible from the privacy of a home computer. For a time, it worked, with wider distribution and social acceptance driving a steady increase in sales.
But now the established pornography business is in decline – [...]
Weekly roundup
Posted in Jefferson, galleries, naked, news, nude, roundup, sexbloggers, sexblogs, tgp on Jun 2nd, 2007
Diah (Hegre)Sex blogger files for bankruptcy (Yahoo)a star-spangled booty (pretty dumb things)Big numbers!Danae (Met Models)We’ve been nominated for the Erotic Awards 2007 Who Sleeps Around? Scientists Know (Yahoo) Lara Is Not A Porn Star (Violet Blue, SFGate)NYC Weekly Leather Dates May 31-June 6 Another bad penny turns up again: Naomi Wolf on porn (Figleaf’s Real [...]
We’re going to Spring Fire
Posted in Dark Odyssey, Events, Fetish & Kink, Jefferson, Marcus, Selina Fire, Tristan Taormino, bdsm, bondage, erotic, polyamory, sex, sexbloggers, sexblogs, tantra on Mar 23rd, 2007
Remember how Jefferson, Selina, Marcus and I went to Dark Odyssey’s summer camp?
Remember what clueless, trembling, newbies we were? Hell, at least I was. Now, we are going to be presenting at Dark Odyssey’s Spring Fire. How hilarious is that?
We’ll be doing a panel on sex blogging. I will be moderating. Wish [...]
Tea Party: Showing appreciationfor a Sissy Maid
Posted in Jefferson, Suzanne Portnoy, sissymaidstephanie on Mar 20th, 2007
Tea Party: Showing appreciationOriginally uploaded by viviane212.
When a sissy maid does a good job, one of the ways to thank her for good service, is to bend her over, and show your appreciation on her butt!
At Sunday’s tea party, Lex, Jefferson, Suzanne Portnoy and Viviane spanked and flogged Sissy Maid Stephanie, until it was a [...]
Fanboy (Lolita’s Predictions & Predilections)
Posted in Jefferson, Madeline, bdsm, bondage, lolitawolf, rope, shibari, spanking on Feb 15th, 2007
Model: MadelineRigger: LolitaFanboy: Jeffferson
Jefferson opened the door and I got a glimpse of Madeline standing there in a robe with a shy smile on her face. Jefferson kissed me long and deep. I returned his ardor, but I was actually thinking about how cute Madeline was. After the kiss, I turned to [...]
Sperm Cube
Posted in Jefferson, art, philippemeste on Jan 24th, 2007
As long as you’re giving it a tug, why not do it for art?
French artist Philippe Meste has a vision. He’s creating a large white cube that harkens back to the heyday of Minimalism, with one twist: Meste’s cube is filled entirely with sperm.
The sculpture is one cubic meter in size. I’ll spare you [...]
Candles, by Jefferson
My birthday is four days away.
Frankly, readers, I’m underwhelmed by your response to my Amazon Wish List. I know, everyone is tapped out and exhausted from the holidays. But can I help it that my parents were so fond of sex in April? Am I to suffer for their long-ago Spring fling?
If you [...]
But Where Do You Stow Your Metrocard?
Posted in Jefferson on Jan 12th, 2007
Jefferson (center) in last year’s No-Pants Subway Ride.
Improv Everywhere’s annual No-Pants Subway Ride has become such an over-observed phenomenon that there are often more reporters than participants. (This year, the organizers are demanding that the press be ready to drop their pants, too). Still, if you’ve never experienced the thrill of riding New York City’s [...]
Ambidextrous link to bisexuality? (GayNZ)
Posted in Jefferson on Jan 11th, 2007
These fence sitters just won’t come out as lefties.
JeffersonPeople who can write with both their right and left hands are more likely to be bisexual, new research has found.
For years, scientists have been fascinated by left-handed people and a number of studies have suggested lefties are more likely to be homosexual or to suffer from [...]
2006 Dark Odyssey post roundup
Posted in Dark Odyssey, Jefferson, Lolita Wolf, Marcus, Tristan Taormino, bdsm, bisexual, erotica, gay, lesbian, nudism, polyamory, roundup, sex, sexblog, swinging, tantra on Dec 26th, 2006
Dark Odyssey is a journey of sexual adventure, where ‘open minded people gather to explore Tantra, polyamory, intimate communications, BDSM, alternative fifestyles and more.’
This is a roundup of various posts and articles from the September, 2006 camp, which Jefferson, Selina, Marcus and I attended. Each of us, in our way, had a really good [...]
Video: Gay Spanked Out
Posted in Jefferson on Nov 3rd, 2006
Jefferson sent this to me, saying, ‘Can it be real?’
This guy gets really carried away, describing the time his Mom spanked him after catching him with another boy. The interviewer’s reaction? Priceless.
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Do You Take it in the Ass? (YouTube)
Posted in Jefferson, Wet Spots, video, wetspots on Oct 6th, 2006
Thanks to Jefferson.
Thanks to The Wet Spots.
Thanks to anal lovers everywhere.
(Bah-buh-bah-buh . . .)
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Riding the Shortbus (Village Voice)
Posted in Jefferson on Oct 4th, 2006
The Passion of the Christphoto: Tricia Romano
Sex-starved East Village hippies get naked for John Cameron Mitchell’s latest perverse utopiaby Tricia Romano
There was a naked woman covered in fake blood, a punk rock marching band, two slutty Catholic schoolgirls on a wooden cross, and two towers flowing with sumptuous liquid chocolate, where you could dip your [...]
Dishes (reading counterclockwise): Chicken paprikash (Selina), macaroni & cheese (Meg), mozzarella, tomato and eggplant salad (Zed), fried chicken wings (Jefferson), paella couscous salad (Viviane), chocolate chip cookies (Rachel). Center of table: salmon cakes (Les) and arugula, fontina and prosciutto salad (Tess)
Friday: Opening night at the New York Film Festival, The Queen. Spotted: [...]
No sooner had we left the Dark Odyssey camp grounds, we started debating, talking over each other, trying to remember everything that happened the past three days:
Were we really in a dining room full of perverts and swingers, sadists and submissives, queers and the transgendered, wearing kilts, chain mail, collars and sarongs?
Did Jefferson really [...]
NYC Perverts’ Saloon: Tea Party
Posted in Jefferson on Jun 21st, 2006
It was a lovely event and all the perverts behaved well, until Selina’s friend Martin came out wearing chaps, a dog collar, nipples clamps with a chain dangling from them and and not much else. You know you’re amidst a seasoned gang of pervs when Martin is getting paddled and conversation continues as normal. [...]
NYC Perverts represent!
Posted in Jefferson on May 6th, 2006
Jefferson and Chelsea Girl are the new contributors of the Fleshbot Sex blog roundup (well…I did suggest them).
Chelsea Girl’s roundup is here.
Jefferson’s is here.
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http://www.myspace.com/viviane212
Goddammit, Jefferson.
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Save the Date! NYC Perverts’ Saloon – Monday, April 3rd
Posted in Jefferson on Mar 23rd, 2006
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A family of strangers are New York City’s Sex Bloggers – online writers, telling tales of their sex lives in this City. Parents in their 40’s, sex workers in their 20’s, professionals with 9 – 5 [...]
My new project: TGP.COM!
Posted in Jefferson, Madeline, bdsm, bloggers, bondage, erotica, kink, nude, sex blogs, sexbloggers, sexblogs, sexy, skin, sugasm on Mar 9th, 2006
I’ve been really, really quiet here, because Sam Sugar has been cracking the whip. He’s assembled a formidable group of bloggers (including the beauteous and brainy Audacia Ray and Madeline Glass, into the SexNotWork blog network, which’ll cover a broad range of the adult space (or ‘jizz biz’, as the Sugar Daddy [...]