Posted in sex on Mar 4th, 2009
My legal battles began in July, when my ex filed a motion seeking full custody of our children. But the battleground was laid a year ago this week, when my ex discovered coverage of One Life, Take Two in Time Out, New York’s annual “Secret Lives” issue.
This week, Time Out, New York pays a [...]
Posted in barbaranitke, censorship, parenting on Mar 4th, 2009
I’ve long been an admirer of the photography of Barbara Nitke, both for its artistry and for its message of emphasizing the humanity of people in alternative sex communities. I was also struck by her bravery in defending free speech in challenging the constitutionality of the Federal Communications Decency Act of nineteen ninety-six, which regulates [...]
Posted in sex on Oct 11th, 2008
Below Jefferson has answered some frequently asked questions about his custody case. Please feel free to contact him at One Life, Take Two to ask others or follow-up questions.
How did your ex learn about your blog and sexuality?
My ex has always known about my sexuality. I was out as bisexual before we met, and [...]
Does someone involved in BDSM or polyamory do so due to pyschopathology? That question will be addressed in the next phase of our custody case.
As anticipated, the judge has ordered psychiatric evaluations of each parent. In my case, this is called for due to the BDSM and polyamorous activities described in my blog.
As we go [...]
Posted in legal on Sep 10th, 2008
by Glenn Sacks
…LGBT activists believe courts haven’t adequately protected the rights of lesbian social mothers because of the tenuous legal status of gay marriages and relationships, and they’re partly correct. But much of the problem lies in the way courts treat noncustodial parents, regardless of sexual orientation.
According to the Children’s Rights Council, a Washington, DC-based [...]
Graphic design courtesy of Leila Taylor
An important member of the sex-positive community
urgently needs our help.
Jefferson—blogger, educator, and dear friend to so many of us—is at this moment fighting a court battle with his ex-wife, who is seeking full custody of their three children.
Jefferson’s love for his children has been well-documented on his blog One Life, [...]
