Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 30th, 2009
Keep Your Passwords Private–and Handy–With LastPass – PC World – To guard against password thieves, I use LastPass. The tool offers a free password-managing add-on for Firefox on Windows, Linux, or Mac OS X; Internet Explorer on Windows; and Safari on Mac OS X.
How to Use Twitter Lists To Create Reputation Management Problems – So [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 4th, 2009
Fishnets & Furry Handcuffs: The Perception of Kink in Popular Culture | kink+culture – Tilda’s slideshow from the first Kink For All New York City
How to make Midori’s Dildo Harness w scarves | Midori’s Thoughts and Distractions – I created this totally cool DIY dildo harness design – and I’m often asked on how to [...]
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Posted in Events, Tony Comstock, nyc on Sep 23rd, 2009
[ September 23, 2009; 6:15 PM to 8:15 PM. ] WHERE: Michelson Theatre, Tisch School of the Arts, 721 Broadway, Room 648
Department of Cinema Studies
Tisch School of the Arts, New York University
A Film Studies Center Special Event
The world is awash in sexualized imagery, but that imagery rarely speaks to or captures the pleasurable reality of sex. Award-winning filmmaker Tony Comstock takes us into the legal [...]
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Posted in internet on Jun 4th, 2009
Sarah Seltzer:
The last time a doctor was murdered in cold blood for providing abortion care to women, we were not in the digital age. While the pro-choice community in the 90s reacted to Dr. Bernard Slepian’s murder with the same outrage and hurt as it has this week to Dr. George Tiller’s, the Internet has [...]
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Posted in girls on Mar 9th, 2009
. . .On my way to meet her that Saturday, my mind wandered back over our long relationship. We were both about six when I received her as a gift one holiday morning. I loved her instantly, with her perfect, dancer’s figure, dainty feet, luscious red lips and coy expression. My affection for high-heeled mules [...]
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Posted in media on Mar 2nd, 2009
. . .Which isn’t to say there haven’t been noticeable changes, beginning in the late ’80s, when k.d. lang became an icon of lesbian chic. Nor is it to minimize the impact of ‘‘The L Word,’’ a tribute to the high testosterone level of gay babes, or to ignore hip same-sex Hollywood couples, like Lindsay [...]
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Posted in media on Feb 25th, 2009
Posted at the request of Alana Lowe, who’s developing a documentary style, reality TV show for a major cable network about a group of friends, some of whom are part of the lifestyle:
Real swingers on TV?! The media portrays the lifestyle as a bunch of old, unattractive weirdos – but we all know the truth! [...]
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Posted in sex on Oct 14th, 2008
Jefferson has posted an FAQ about the custody case, which is still pending.
AAG is writing about an ugly situation with an affiliate company.
The Village Voice has a slideshow of this past weekends NY Leather Weekend.
Lee Harrington’s October newsletter and appearances may be found here.
The children of Dr. Martin Luther King are fighting over love letters [...]
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Posted in media, sex on Oct 9th, 2008
Violet Blue says that if you think “sex sells” then you’re not paying attention.
VB (Violet Blue): Does sex really sell?
SH (Steve Hall): According to some studies, the “sex sells” adage in misleading if not wrong. Several studies have found ads laced with sexual imagery of women targeted to women actually turn women off to the [...]
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Posted in feminism, publishing on Sep 18th, 2008
from publisher Debbie Rasmussen:
First the bad news: The print publishing industry as a whole is staring into a void. Across the board, newsstand magazine sales are in a slump, subscriber numbers are down, and paper and postal costs continue to rise. But it’s not magazines like US Weekly or Vogue that you’ll see disappearing from [...]
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Posted in bdsm, media on Sep 9th, 2008
1. Sex-slave conviction overturned
2. Murder-suicide autopsies: 3 died of gunshot wounds
3. ‘Booger Red’ Gets Life
4. This swinger feels persecuted
5. Study Suggests Polygamy May Lead To A Longer Life
6. For some, Gitmo interrogation techniques are a real turn-on
7. Court overturns conviction of NYC’s ‘S&M Svengali’
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom — Media Update
media@ncsfreedom.org
August 22, 2008
NCSF Media [...]
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Posted in gay, media, sex on Aug 25th, 2008
According to OutSports.com, of the 10,708 athletes at the Olympics this year, just 10 have identified themselves publicly as being gay. Of the 10, Australian diver Matthew Mitcham is the only male gay athlete.
Yesterday, Mitcham won the gold in the in the 10m platform diving event, scoring an upset over the Chinese team, which was [...]
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Posted in media, sex work on Jul 3rd, 2008
A British take on the world’s oldest profession.
. . .when a number of high-profile memoirs have turned out to be, to some degree or in their entirety, not what they professed to be. Unfortunately, I couldn’t find them in the Ho section of my local Barnes & Noble (the subtitle of the American edition, earnest [...]
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Posted in media, sexwork on Jun 17th, 2008
Aren’t we past this, yet? Is this even a question? Are journalists so incompetent, so incapable of carrying out the most basic research, that they can only assume that sex, for us, is intolerable? Or are these journalists really just uninterested in sex themselves and can’t resist transferring their sex-is-gross attitudes to the women who [...]
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Posted in marriage, ncsf, polyamory, sex on Jun 10th, 2008
Swingtown – Molly Parker as Susan Miller, Jack Davenport as Bruce Miller, Lana Parrilla as Trina Decker, Grant Show as Tom Decker (CBS Photo by Cliff Lipson)
Show Title: Swingtown
Episode Title: “Pilot”
Original airdate: June 5, 2008
Series continues: Thursday, 10 pm
Network: CBS
Produced by: CBS Paramount Television
Executive Producers: Michael Kelley, Allen Poul and Carol Barbee
Description
From the program’s website [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Jun 4th, 2008
5 Tips Every Traveler Should Know About Internet Security
But if we do stop to think about it, internet cafe computers (and any information you send or access from them) are clearly vulnerable. Fortunately, protecting yourself is not very difficult.
(tags: privacy)
Will the Success of Sex and the City Force Hollywood to Stop Ignoring Women? | Movie [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Jun 3rd, 2008
The 25 Most Disturbing Sex Toys | Cracked.com
Where once it was simple shoulder massagers and turkey basters that had to be adapted to nefarious purposes, nowadays anything you can think of (and probably a few dozen things you could never think of) are out there to give some lonely shut-in the pleasu
(tags: sextoys)
BuzzMachine » The [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 30th, 2008
What constitutes sexual harrassment? Confessions of a woman who can finally admit that she experienced it | BlogHer
He used such a crass image to verbally smack me in the mouth. To shut me up. I suppose he referred to my other colleague’s private parts to prevent any possible accusation that he’d suggested sexual acts done [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 29th, 2008
The End of Innocence and Making It Big: The NYTimes spins yet another lost girl tale of innocence, regret and discreetly hot sex | BlogHer
Is there truly any less foolproof way to sell the Sunday issue that to get huge viral buzz from a damsel in distress story played out in that most modern of [...]
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Posted in history, sex on May 28th, 2008
By Scott McLemee
Last week, Intellectual Affairs gave the recent cable TV miniseries “Sex: The Revolution” a nod of recognition, however qualified, for its possible educational value. The idea that sex has a history is not, as such, self-evident. The series covers the changes in attitudes and norms between roughly 1950 and 1990 through interviews and [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 27th, 2008
The Jaded Hippy: Third Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy
(tags: carnival feminism LGBT military misogyny orientations patriarchy race sex sexwork)
Judy’s Story – Pt 5
“Mmm, Cindy… this looks good enough to eat,”, I said and Judy breathed in sharply. I leaned over and lightly brushed my nose and lips through her pubic hair. Judy practically [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 20th, 2008
What Makes Married Men Want to Have Affairs? — New York Magazine
When the Eliot Spitzer scandal broke in March, I had only sympathy for him: another middle-aged married guy tormented by his sexual needs. I’m 52 and have always struggled with the desire for sexual variety. Everyone gets an issue, and that’s mine; it
(tags: sex [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 15th, 2008
pretty dumb things: on clowns and fear, itself
Fear is a lot bigger in our heads than it is in real life. In real life, it’s almost always not that bad. And here’s the other thing: those people who wanted to instill fear in me by attempting to out my blog identity to my students, they [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 9th, 2008
Choice USA – Leadership for a Pro-Choice Future
Talk Sex with Sue Johanson will end its run at midnight this Sunday on Oxygen.
(tags: sex sextoys)
Death of the D.C. Madam hits home / Violet Blue shows the side of sex work you won’t see anywhere but in new media
Unlike outlets like Salon who still insist on calling [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 30th, 2008
Law Blog – WSJ.com : Fallout from L’Affaire Spitzer: ‘Kristen’ Sues ‘Girls Gone Wild’ Founder
But the legacy of “Kristen” (a/k/a Ashley Alexandra Dupré), the prostitute whom Spitzer hired, lives on. The latest: Dupré is demanding $10 million from Joe Francis, the founder of the popular “Girls Gone Wild” series, for a video that Dupré ap
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Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 23rd, 2008
Dopp Juice » Blog Archive » Engage.com is neither bi-phobic nor lazy. (They’re just really busy and use slow servers.)
The question was: Why can’t I be bisexual on your website?
(tags: bisexual dating)
Condom Pocket Pants : Pants to Poverty
Safe sex and good pants go cheek to cheek and these pants celebrate both. Our condom pocket pants [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 22nd, 2008
bootblacking and beyond « Sex Geek
We need literature that covers the how-to of foot and shoe care in detail, taking into account the many varieties of shoes and boots out there; that discusses how to choose quality footwear that suits your body, your purpose and your kink, with questions
(tags: leather kink)
Franklin Veaux’s Journal – Rape [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 21st, 2008
Spreading a Blanket and a Meal – New York Times
But Central Park, if you haven’t been there lately, is pretty sizable: 250 acres of lawns means there are at least 400,000 spots to lay out a 5-foot-by-5-foot blanket. Add a few love nests in the woods, nudge a few rowboats out onto the Pond, and [...]
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Posted in Sex2.0, del.icio.us on Apr 15th, 2008
Eternal Apprentice :: Geek Confidence :: April :: 2008
I learned/solidified so many ideas during Sex 2.0 this weekend.
(tags: sex2.0)
The Sex 2.0 back-channel at Sex 2.0
…a.k.a., the One True Wrap-up Post To Rule Them All.
(tags: sex events sex2.0)
Renegade Evolution: Whores & Other Mercenaries…
I can sell my hair, sell my blood, donate a kidney, sell my eggs, [...]
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Posted in Sex2.0, del.icio.us on Apr 14th, 2008
The Japanese Art of Sex: 5 Mind-Blowing Oral Sex Techniques
For her book The Japanese Art of Sex: How to Tease, Seduce & Pleasure the Samurai in Your Bedroom, author Jina Bacarr studied the craft of the geishas, those legendary courtesans whose very image has been making men weak in the knees (among other places)
(tags: oral+sex)
BOINKOLOGY [...]
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