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My legal battles began in July, when my ex filed a motion seeking full custody of our children. But the battleground was laid a year ago this week, when my ex discovered coverage of One Life, Take Two in Time Out, New York’s annual “Secret Lives” issue.
This week, Time Out, New York pays a [...]

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FAQs on Jefferson’s Custody Case

Below Jefferson has answered some frequently asked questions about his custody case. Please feel free to contact him at One Life, Take Two to ask others or follow-up questions.
How did your ex learn about your blog and sexuality?
My ex has always known about my sexuality. I was out as bisexual before we met, and [...]

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links for 2008-05-29

The End of Innocence and Making It Big: The NYTimes spins yet another lost girl tale of innocence, regret and discreetly hot sex | BlogHer
Is there truly any less foolproof way to sell the Sunday issue that to get huge viral buzz from a damsel in distress story played out in that most modern of [...]

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Sugasm #128

Photo: Sapphic Erotica
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #129? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks

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This week, the potential of the Internet to expose and disgrace when marriages fall apart came into stark relief as Tricia Walsh Smith, who is being divorced by Philip Smith, a theater executive, put a video on YouTube announcing that they never had sex, and yet she found him hoarding Viagra, pornography and condoms.
Not surprisingly, [...]

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links for 2008-04-18

Renegade Evolution: No, Enough! No, This is Silencing.
So, I seems I might be uninvited to the forum at William and Mary. Why? Because apparently, Sam Berg, who has been booked as a panelist longer than I and is traveling further than I, is uncomfortable with me being there.
(tags: sexwork)

Yale Daily News – For senior, abortion [...]

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When the Chutney’s Gone (NY Times)

By SUZANNE FINNAMORE
I GAINED my husband with soup. Not charm, wit or lingerie, but soup. Not canned soup or deli, but real homemade soup, simmered for hours over a hot Jenn-Air. The kind of soup that makes your eyes roll back in your head and your body feel, for a brief time, safe.
I carried this [...]

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links for 2008-02-26

Lori Gottlieb: On Settling for Mr. Good Enough – The Huffington Post
I suggest settling specifically for women in their thirties who don’t want to be alone for the rest of their lives and/or want the kind of traditional family in which there are male pubic hairs on the toilet seat in the master bathroom.
(tags: marriage)

sexegesis: [...]

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links for 2008-02-12

Butterfly on the East Side: The end …
I was very lucky I had recorded the incident on video, and even luckier that the little slut was just a few weeks shy of 16.
(tags: divorce)

How Sticky Is Membership on Facebook? Just Try Breaking Free – New York Times
Some users have discovered that it is nearly impossible [...]

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links for 2008-01-30

welcome to the fuck house: archives of a misunderstood slut: a non-breakfast breakfast
ok – i actually thought when she contacted me from 1300 miles away, and said that she wanted to meet, that we would probably have a good time messing around – but i didn’t expect the OTHER side.
(tags: sex sexblogs)

Bridget’s Boy(s): Full
“Boys. A [...]

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U R dumped–one in seven say they have suffered the same fate as Britney Spears’ ex-husband and been told it’s all over via text message or e-mail, a survey said on Friday.
While hiding behind technology might appear a cowardly way of splitting up, it contrasts with the 4 percent who simply drop all communication with [...]

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How does Suzanne Craig, wife of the outed Senator, stand next to her disgraced Potty Liar of a husband at a press conference, and not hurl her guts?
She’s not the first political wife to put on a show. The spectacle of a prominent woman standing by her man, now revealed to be an adulterer— and [...]

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links for 2007-08-08

Mommy Needs A Cocktail
cause sometimes the chocolate brownies just won’t do the trick
(tags: blogher07 bloggers motherhood blogs)

Felicia C. Sullivan
NY based writer
(tags: blogher07 blogs bloggers)

the Constant Observer
“Interactive online for over ten years, I’m now a professional blogger, consultant, writer”
(tags: blogher07 blogs weblogs bloggers)

Why Black Women Are Angry
Welcome to the blog dedicated to addressing the assault on [...]

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…There is a widening gulf between how the best- and least-educated Americans approach marriage and child-rearing. Among the elite (excluding film stars), the nuclear family is holding up quite well. Only 4% of the children of mothers with college degrees are born out of wedlock. And the divorce rate among college-educated women has plummeted. Of [...]

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She is newly single, and keen to set the record straight. Dita Von Teese, the world’s most glamorous ‘demure stripper’, speaks frankly for the first time about the lessons she’s learnt from life with – and without – the shock-rocker Marilyn Manson
The world around Dita Von Teese may be on fire with speculation about her [...]

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Ring Toss: Links for 2007-03-28

London author and sex blogger Suzanne Portnoy is organizing a local Perverts’ Saloon so if you’re a sex blogger, a sex journo, an erotic writer, a sex educator or working in the adult area, get in touch with her. I need an excuse to come to London this Fall!
5 Way to Increase Your Blog Traffic [...]

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The introductory post for this series.
Parent, pervert, Carnival contributor and my dear friend Jefferson blogs at One Life Take Two.
When did you start blogging?My blog began in November 2004 with an email to my friend Audacia Ray. I was new to dating after the end of my marriage, and she provided a sympathetic ear [...]

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WEDNESDAY, MARCH 21 at 8 PMAT HAPPY ENDING LOUNGE, 302 BROOME STREET, NYC(B/D to Grand, J/M/Z to Bowery, F to Delancey, http://www.happyendinglounge.com)Admission: FreeHappy Ending Lounge: 212-334-9676
This month, join Cheri Crystal (Erotic Interludes 3, 4, 5), Gwendolyn Joyc Mintz (Down & Dirty 2, Velvet Heat), Joel A. Nichols (Dorm Porn 2, Travelrotica 2), Carol Novack (Mad [...]

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The human body is a wondrous strange thing. That and narcissism go along way in explaining to totality of Western Art. And though we have no desire to sleep with chubby middle-aged women or old men, it is true, their bodies are fun to look at. They remind us that someday we too will be [...]

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By JEANE MacINTOSH and DAREH GREGORIAN
February 3, 2007 — The estranged wife of former New Jersey Gov. Jim McGreevey says she won’t make any divorce deals with her homosexual hubby until they resolve their “profound differences about what our daughter should be exposed to.”
McGreevey filed for divorce from Dina Matos McGreevey yesterday – just two [...]

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By SAM ROBERTS
For what experts say is probably the first time, more American women are living without a husband than with one, according to a New York Times analysis of census results.
In 2005, 51 percent of women said they were living without a spouse, up from 35 percent in 1950 and 49 percent in 2000.
Coupled [...]

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By Mark Fass
Although the Massachusetts marriage of two New York men is void under the laws of both states, the couple’s separation agreement is legally enforceable, a Manhattan Supreme Court judge has found.
Justice Phyllis Gangel-Jacob dismissed plaintiff David Gonzalez’s divorce action last week, finding his February 2005 marriage to Steven Green “null and void.”
The judge [...]

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From the New York Post:
January 5, 2007 — SHOCK-rocker Marilyn Manson is about to get one of the biggest shocks of his bizarre life – his stunning stripper-wife, Dita Von Teese, is dumping him after only a year of marriage.
Page Six has learned that the pasty-faced Manson, whose real name is Brian Warner, will be [...]

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‘Wouldn’t you like a proper boyfriend?’ asked my friend Jane recently. We had been discussing her love life, or lack of it, and as usual the conversation turned toward my love life.
It is, after all, more interesting because it’s more active – given that I am currently seeing six different men – even if it’s [...]

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On Monday, a Seattle web developer named Jason Fortuny started his own Craigslist experiment. The goal: “Posing as a submissive woman looking for an aggressive dom, how many responses can we get in 24 hours?”
He took the text and photo from a sexually explicit ad (warning: not safe for work) in another area, reposted it [...]

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Careers and Marriage: Forbes.com style

Forbes.com writer Michael Noer published a piece – Don’t Marry Career Women:
How do women, careers and marrage mix? Not well, say social scientists.
Guys: A word of advice. Marry pretty women or ugly ones. Short ones or tall ones. Blondes or brunettes. Just, whatever you do, don’t marry a woman with a career.

Uproar ensues (Thanks, Susan). [...]

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Mark FassNew York Law Journal05-15-2006
In New York, a state that requires aspiring divorcees to prove grounds — and that also provides ample economic incentive for their spouses to contest those grounds — defendants in divorce proceedings can find themselves needing to establish that they have not constructively abandoned their partners by denying them sex for [...]

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Many Couples Must Negotiate Terms of ‘Brokeback’ Marriages (NYT):
One hour into “Brokeback Mountain,” Amy Jo Remmele began to cry, and not just for the woman on-screen, standing in a doorway in Riverton, Wyo., watching her husband embrace a man.
“When I saw that look in her eyes, I thought, ‘Oh, yeah.’ Even though I [...]

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A Bed of Roses (Washington Post)

He was a combat soldier in Iraq. She was a divorced mom in California. They flirted, fell in love, committed . . . and then they met in the flesh
Melinda Jackson is on a quest for silk rose petals. She is sure the Wal-Mart in Hinesville, Ga., will carry them, because the one near her [...]

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They are the Pentagon’s new “rules of engagement” — the diamond ring kind. U.S. Army chaplains are trying to teach troops how to pick the right spouse, through a program called “How To Avoid Marrying a Jerk.”
The matchmaking advice comes as military family life is being stressed by two tough wars. Defense Department records show [...]

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