Posted in video on Jan 18th, 2010
I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.
Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on Jun 5th, 2008
Junkbuzzed: sex, lies, and .jpgs
Science …has shown us that there are three distinct types of sex-trolls plying their warez. Yahoos, Cheeseballs, and Douchebags – the holy trinity, the true McFuries of Craigslist posters.
(tags: dating craigslist)
Dial S&M For Marnie | SpoutBlog
What neither the feminists nor cinephiles seem to appreciate is that Marnie is one of the [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 30th, 2008
What constitutes sexual harrassment? Confessions of a woman who can finally admit that she experienced it | BlogHer
He used such a crass image to verbally smack me in the mouth. To shut me up. I suppose he referred to my other colleague’s private parts to prevent any possible accusation that he’d suggested sexual acts done [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 27th, 2008
The Jaded Hippy: Third Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy
(tags: carnival feminism LGBT military misogyny orientations patriarchy race sex sexwork)
Judy’s Story – Pt 5
“Mmm, Cindy… this looks good enough to eat,”, I said and Judy breathed in sharply. I leaned over and lightly brushed my nose and lips through her pubic hair. Judy practically [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 26th, 2008
Bailing On a Bad Idea – Figleaf’s Real Adult Sex
I mean, look at him! He spends his whole essay constructing all these wishes, and wish fulfillments, and sociobiology, and outright denigrations (gee, wouldn’t it be cool if a mistress wasn’t any more expensive than a waitress) and he chucks it all up bec
(tags: monogamy)
Decriminalisation of [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 25th, 2008
Sexuality Happens: Class Assignment: Best Sex Experience
The third night, there was a knock on my door; I opened it to be pinned against the wall, lips pressed against, fingers entwined in mine; I wasn’t sure if she was holding me up as my legs buckled, or holding me against the cheesy hotel wallpaper, but I
(tags: [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 24th, 2008
WCBS NEWSRADIO 880 – Aphrodisiac Kills New York Man
Health officials are warning New Yorkers to stay away from an illegal aphrodisiac made from toad venom after the product apparently killed a man.
(tags: health nyc)
Funky and Free: Sex in the Real World : NPR
The Sex and the City movie is almost here! While the show resonated [...]
Posted in Events, Fetish & Kink, bdsm, sex, tes on May 21st, 2008
I am so excited about the classes for this year’s TES Fest. Boymeat programmed them; Sue and I helped! Here they are (some of the titles will change but you can get the idea).
Bondage Track
1. Defining Moments – GrayDancer
2. Military Style Bondage – GrayDancer
3. Fetish Performance Techniques – GrayDancer
4. Laughter in Rope – Lochai
5. [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 19th, 2008
A Place To Draw Blood Laughing › Friday Night And Sweet White Wine
I want him. Fuck all the shit that says I shouldn’t want, that says I have distance and control. I have no distance. I barely have control. My lips pulse at him, the urgent need to just push him to the floor and [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 15th, 2008
pretty dumb things: on clowns and fear, itself
Fear is a lot bigger in our heads than it is in real life. In real life, it’s almost always not that bad. And here’s the other thing: those people who wanted to instill fear in me by attempting to out my blog identity to my students, they [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 14th, 2008
Twittergasms: The Real San Francisco Treat (Fleshbot)
A Twittergasm is a post to your Twitter profile indicating that you just had a real orgasm. You can use the codes ICSW (I came, so what?) and JOSW (jacking off, so what? related term to indicate you are jacking off), and we’ll track, count and include you
(tags: Twitter [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 13th, 2008
28 million women at risk of unwanted pregnancy | Health | Reuters
Each year, half of American women who would rather not get pregnant will have an unplanned pregnancy, often because they failed to use their contraceptive properly or forgot to use it at all, U.S. researchers said on Tuesday.
(tags: research pregnancy birth+control)
JUNK Magazine [the original, [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 9th, 2008
Choice USA – Leadership for a Pro-Choice Future
Talk Sex with Sue Johanson will end its run at midnight this Sunday on Oxygen.
(tags: sex sextoys)
Death of the D.C. Madam hits home / Violet Blue shows the side of sex work you won’t see anywhere but in new media
Unlike outlets like Salon who still insist on calling [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 8th, 2008
Two Families Grapple with Sons’ Gender Preferences : NPR
Psychologists Take Radically Different Approaches in Therapy
(tags: gender)
village voice sex naked city – Open Up: Women With Two Husbands
Tristan Taormino has a new book out this month called Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. Here on Naked City, she’ll be publishing weekly posts [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 7th, 2008
Sundance Channel : Green Porno
Isabella Rossellini’s Green porno videos , on the sex life of various insects.
(tags: sex)
JasmyneCannick.com » A Black Parents Guide on What to Do and NOT to Do When Your Child “Comes Out”
So with that said, I am going to leave this post open indefinitely to catalogue your input on what you’d [...]
Photo: Danielle (Mc Nudes)
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #131? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 5th, 2008
pretty dumb things: on my 2,500 mile booty call
It was the vanilla custard of sex, and it made me recall how vanilla custard can be quite tasty. Vanilla custard can, in fact, hit the spot. Which this did, thank you very much…And when the custard hit that spot, and my hips up-arched like a Roman [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 3rd, 2008
Cybersquatting crisis-pregnancy centers | Feministing
Recently a faux-clinic in Wisconsin purchased a URL that was nearly identical to the URL for the website of Family Planning Health Services, the local women’s health clinic — so women who unwittingly typed in the wrong address were redirected to the anti
(tags: women abortion)
What Happens In Vegas Is Sexual Assault: [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on May 2nd, 2008
Masturbation Celebration: Happy Masturbation Month! (Yes, You Now Have An Official Excuse) (Fleshbot)
…check out a few resources to help you experience National Masturbation Month to the fullest … not to mention the other eleven months of the year.
(tags: masturbation)
Being Amber Rhea » R.I.P. Deborah Jeane Palfrey
Bound, Not Gagged was started in the wake of the [...]
Posted in Events, Fetish & Kink, Tristan Taormino, nyc, sex on May 2nd, 2008
Come celebrate the release of two exciting new books: Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino and Tantra for Erotic Empowerment: The Key to Enriching Your Sexual Life by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson.
Tantra teachers Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson and sex expert/Village Voice columnist Tristan Taormino will party [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 30th, 2008
Law Blog – WSJ.com : Fallout from L’Affaire Spitzer: ‘Kristen’ Sues ‘Girls Gone Wild’ Founder
But the legacy of “Kristen” (a/k/a Ashley Alexandra Dupré), the prostitute whom Spitzer hired, lives on. The latest: Dupré is demanding $10 million from Joe Francis, the founder of the popular “Girls Gone Wild” series, for a video that Dupré ap
(tags: [...]
Photo: Demi & Zelda (errotica archives)
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #130? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 23rd, 2008
Dopp Juice » Blog Archive » Engage.com is neither bi-phobic nor lazy. (They’re just really busy and use slow servers.)
The question was: Why can’t I be bisexual on your website?
(tags: bisexual dating)
Condom Pocket Pants : Pants to Poverty
Safe sex and good pants go cheek to cheek and these pants celebrate both. Our condom pocket pants [...]
In this latest episode Monk shows you how to create a hard point with a piece of nylon webbing and how to use 2 30 ft. pieces of rope to set up hard points on a bed. He also recommends the bed post ties in Chanta Rose’s Bondage for Sex.
I really could’ve used this [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 22nd, 2008
bootblacking and beyond « Sex Geek
We need literature that covers the how-to of foot and shoe care in detail, taking into account the many varieties of shoes and boots out there; that discusses how to choose quality footwear that suits your body, your purpose and your kink, with questions
(tags: leather kink)
Franklin Veaux’s Journal – Rape [...]
The interactive installation I Want You To Want Me, by Jonathan Harris and Sep Kamvar, commissioned by the Museum of Modern Art, for their “Design and the Elastic Mind” exhibition. (It runs Feb. 14 to May 12 at MOMA.)
I Want You To Want Me explores the search for love and self in the world [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 21st, 2008
Spreading a Blanket and a Meal – New York Times
But Central Park, if you haven’t been there lately, is pretty sizable: 250 acres of lawns means there are at least 400,000 spots to lay out a 5-foot-by-5-foot blanket. Add a few love nests in the woods, nudge a few rowboats out onto the Pond, and [...]
Posted in privacy, sexbloggers on Apr 21st, 2008
deabauchette writes:
So, I did this interview with Diane Sawyer. It was an anonymous interview in silhouette, with a distorted profile and an altered voice and a few other anonymizing tricks. A few of you already know about this — one of you said I was identifiable by the way I used the word ‘yeah’ and [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 18th, 2008
Renegade Evolution: No, Enough! No, This is Silencing.
So, I seems I might be uninvited to the forum at William and Mary. Why? Because apparently, Sam Berg, who has been booked as a panelist longer than I and is traveling further than I, is uncomfortable with me being there.
(tags: sexwork)
Yale Daily News – For senior, abortion [...]
Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 17th, 2008
Sex 2.0 Sex Commons Forum | Sex In The Public Square
This forum was created to continue the discussion started in Elizabeth Woods’ session on creating the sex commons.
(tags: sex2.0 sex)
A brief summary of the “sex commons” session | Sex In The Public Square
I introduced the idea of the sex commons this way: The commons is [...]
