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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Uncoiling – I slip the blade between your hip and the fabric of the undergarment, and slide. The pretty thing splits easily, and the panty leg opens, revealing your skin underneath.

Ahead of Time - I know you don’t like to know ahead of time when I’m going to let you out, but I just wanted you know that it’s going to be, well, a long time.

Blogging For Choice: My Story – Should I begin with Catholic high school? Sure, why not. I suppose that’s when I first began thinking about abortion, especially when the opportunity for double credit for community service hours rolled around.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Vignettes: Virtual Peep Show - I kept my bullet vibe on low to draw it out as long as possible for me as I stared, mouth open, at the two cute girls who loved to show off. I let the room in general, and the girls too, know that I was watching, appreciating and jerking off with them. I was encouraged by the greedy, horny men in the room to join them on camera.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

I missed you… – I could smell your cologne as I reached past you, key in my hand to unlock the door. That smell always set me off and you knew it. Your eyes told me what you wanted. You saw in mine what I couldn’t say out loud.

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Founded in 2003, CineKink is an organization that recognizes and encourages the positive depiction of sexuality and kink in film and television, most visibly through its annual film festival, CineKink NYC.

Featuring a specially-selected program of films and videos that celebrate and explore a wide diversity of sexuality, with offerings drawn from both Hollywood and beyond, works presented by CineKink range from documentary to drama, camp comedy to hot porn, mildly spicy to quite explicit – and everything in between.

In addition to screenings, the annual festival also includes a short film competition, audience choice awards, presentations, parties and a gala kick-off fundraiser, all followed by a national screening tour.

We’ve got so much great programming jammed into CineKink NYC this year-and with just two weeks to go–a headliner overview of the schedule might give you a firmer grasp on how you’re going to be spending February 16-21st!

SCHEDULE

KICK-OFF!
Put on your shiny finery and come help us kick off the seventh annual CineKink NYC in proper style! An evening to embrace fantasy and a pansexual celebration of epic proportions, in addition to music and performance, our opening night gala will feature a fine pair of spectacular cinematic morsels—THE 400 BLOW JOBS and THE SHEEP AND THE RANCH HAND. And with all proceeds going to support the continuation of CineKink’s sex-positive and kink-friendly program mission, it’s mixing and mashing for a good cause!

Tuesday, 2/16 – 8 PM
Kush Lounge
191 Chrystie Street
Suggested donation – $15/$10 advance

CINEKINK NYC SCREENINGS
The festivities then move to Anthology Film Archives (32 Second Avenue, NYC), Wednesday, February 17 through Saturday, February 20, with several different film and video programs scheduled for each day.

WEDNESDAY
Among the headliners, first up on Wednesday, February 17 at 6:45 PM, is the festival’s CineKink Season Opener screening of S&M JUDGE, a compelling drama in which a respected judge finds his job, reputation and family life in jeopardy after he and his wife begin to explore sadomasochism.

Then, at 9:10 PM, the documentary BODY MODIFICATION FREAKS, takes a first-hand look at several Japanese underground scenes–tattoo, piercing and body modification–with photographer and journalist Ryoichi “Keroppy” Maeda, himself a long-time member of the body modification community.

THURSDAY
On Thursday, February 18 at 6:45 PM it’s KINDA KINKY?, a collection of kinky shorts that will whet your appetite for a slap of the hand and a taste of the deviant.

Then, at 9:10 PM, “boylesque” sensation WAXIE MOON takes the world of neo-burlesque by storm in a hilarious and thought-provoking portrait of one artist’s unlikely journey.

FRIDAY
On Friday, February 19 at 6:45 PM, MODERN LOVE IS AUTOMATIC is the bitterly comic tale of an apathetic nurse who moonlights as a dominatrix, her aspiring model roommate, and the sad, strange world in which they live.

At 9:10 PM, SWINGERS has first-timers Diana and Julian inviting a couple they’ve met online to join them for an adventurous weekend in the country.

And at 11:00 PM, DES JOURS PLUS BELLES QUE LA NUIT, a collaboration partly from CineKink award-winner Jennifer Lyon Bell, is an homage to real, explicit love shot in real-time, opening the door to a world where arousal creeps up slowly and sweetly until it ignites.

SATURDAY
Kicking off Saturday, February 20 at 1:00 PM, MY SEXUALITY: A SENSORY EXPERIENCE shines light on five ordinary women from different backgrounds, sexual preferences and past experiences as they experiment with five deliciously different activities intended to boost both sense of self and sexuality.

At 3:00 PM a special industry showcase, BRING IT!, features a dazzling array of talent from today’s adult cinema, each representing a wide range of genres and visual styles, all stepping up with a hot sampling of their recent creative endeavors.

At 5:50 PM, FIXATION is a diverse collection of sexy shorts, with each focused obsessively on that one, particular…something.

At 8:00 PM it’s YES, MISTRESS, the film shorts program that asks (and sometimes answers!) the question: “How may I be of service?”

And, closing out the festival’s regular screening schedule at 10:10 PM, STORIES OF SEX(ES) is a sexy French romp–with sex included!—where two cheerful circles of friends, men and women divided, spend a night of intimate chatting about their erotic adventures, conquests, disappointments and fantasies.

CINEKINK AWARDS CELEBRATION – Sunday, 2/21 @ 6:00 pm
Be sure to come out and drink a toast to this year’s fantastic crop of CineKink filmmakers! Featuring encore screenings of jury-selected best shorts from the festival, along with presentations of the annual CineKink Awards. (FREE admission; location tba)

CINEKINK AFTERGLOW PARTY – Sunday, 2/21 @ 8:30 pm
But wait, there’s more! You’ll definitely want to make plans for our popular AfterGlow Party, one last chance to meet, mix and mingle with your fellow CineKinksters and enjoy a few more select screenings, this time in a relaxed play party setting. Lounge on the sofas, find yourself a private nook or recline across a spanking bench and settle in for one final evening of CineKinky goodness unfolding all around you. Not to be missed! (More info to come, but please note that a very limited number of $30 advance purchase admissions will be released; priority VIP admission will be given to CineKink NYC All-Access Pass holders.)

CINKEKINL @ B-SIDE
We’ve once again partnered with the wonderful folks at B-Side, who have helped us create a special CineKink NYC community online, allowing you to access all of the festival info in a myriad of ways. You can take in the CineKink schedule at-a-glance, look up detailed film information and venue locations, check out the latest festival buzz and get tips on must-sees, create a personal calendar, rate and review films, forward screening information to your friends via email and Facebook–and then follow links to purchase your advance tickets and make sure you get into the show!

Jump in and take a look around:
http://cinekink.bside.com/2010/

Schedule view:
http://cinekink.bside.com/2010/schedule

List of films/parties:
http://cinekink.bside.com/2010/films

ADVANCE TICKETS AND PASSES ON SALE NOW!
Save big with a discounted CineKink NYC All-Access Pass, including admission to all 12 regular film programs, PLUS the Kick-Off Gala, the Awards Celebration and – priority VIP entrance to! –  the AfterGlow Party.
Representing a nearly 50 percent discount over individual ticket purchase, supplies will be restricted, so get yours ASAP !

For more info and to buy now:
http://cinekink.bside.com/2010/extra

ALL HANDS ON…
Want to help out during CineKink NYC?  We’ve got a variety of volunteer shifts and positions available–and can offer you comp tickets and our eternal thanks and admiration in return!

To sign-up, go to: http://www.cinekink.com/volunteer

We promise to put you to very good use! (Well, if that’s what you’re into…)

SUPPORT KINKY FILM…BECOME A CINEKINKSTER!
Want to get in on the action and draw some attention for your own kinky endeavors? Want more publicity for your blog? Own a business that could use more kinky customers? Love supporting sex-positive expression? A donation of just $50 gets your name and URL listed in the CineKinksters area of our website.  A new level of sponsorship created for individuals and small businesses, it’s a great way to help out and get yourself noticed.

http://www.cinekink.com/donate

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Men, Women, Trans, Welcome! In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety.
Participants must be over 18yr.

Location: Greenwich St.  (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site) Specific building number will be emailed upon registration.
Cost: $25- per person
Instructor: Lolita Wolf
Assistant instructor: V

The Rope Share is a bondage workshop that is structured to fit your skill levels and interests. There is one highly skilled rope instructor and one teaching assistant. The attendance will be limited to 12 students.

This month’s Rope Share workshop is a concentrated class for the beginner/novice. The instructor will teach you the basics of safety, negotiations and the elemental ties needed to start your bondage exploration.

This is a lab-environment setting and we will practice on one another. Please be open to both tie and be tied for the sake of education. Please wear comfortable clothing as there is no nudity during the class.

Bring Rope: 4 lengths of 25ft. rope; 2 lengths of 50ft.; and safety scissors. Cotton, nylon, hemp, and jute are all fine.

To sign up, send an email to RopeShare AT @gmail DOT com Title the subject line as “Novice Rope Share Sign Up” and include the following information in your email:

1. Your name (Scene name or legal)

2. Contact number and email address

3. Rope bondage experience and skill level ( Please be brief)

4. What you are interested in learning

5. How you heard about this workshop

Sign up now as places are expected to fill quickly! Beginners to advanced rope players are all welcome!! If you have never tried rope before, but are curious, this is a safe space to share and learn rope bondage.

Lolita Wolf discovered the BDSM scene back in the late 80’s when “online” meant being on the phone sex lines. She is an activist who defends the sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains “to have fun.” Lolita has learned skills Midori’s Rope Dojo and many other instructors at Shibaricon and many other events. Lolita has taught workshops for organizations and events across the country. She is well-known for a fun and entertaining style. She is co-facilitator of the TES Bondage Group. Lolita is an Emeritus Board Member of of both TES and Leather Leadership Conference. She is a former Chair of Lesbian Sex Mafia, an honorary member of GMSMA and an Associate Member of New York boys of Leather. She is active with National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and Leather Pride Night. Her writing has appeared in On Our backs and Prometheus magazines and she has authored two books: Spanking and CBT in a Nutshell.

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When I was doing my strange sex toy reviews, the G-Pop would have been a good addition.  Not that it is bizarre like the replica Wolf Penis I reviewed, or blasphemous like the Jackhammer Jesus, or even fantastical like the Dragon’s Tongue… But, it definitely is not what I ever expected a G-spot dildo to look like.  In fact, when I first saw it I was sure it was a percussion toy.

So a G-Pop is basically a sex toy with a long steel rod having a plastic handle on one end and a heavy steel ball on the other.  It comes in different sizes: 1.5″, 2″ and 2.38″ diameters and various colors.  The manufacturers, Steel Vineyards, also make them in gemstone varieties as well.  Mine came in Cherry Red with a 2” diameter, which is very large, heavy and hard as hell.  It is a heavy metal dildo that will either rock your G-spot to bliss, or leave you in serious pain.

When I first got my G-Pop it sat on my desk and I used it for percussion to massage my shoulders.  It worked very well bouncing lightly off my shoulder muscles, but you have to be extremely careful not to hit the bone (even lightly) as you could seriously hurt yourself.  My partner didn’t like the feeling of it as a percussion toy, saying it wigged him out.  I think two of these would make ideal percussion toys together on the soft cushions of the butt, playing the flesh like a xylophone.

Percussion play is not the G-Pop’s intended purpose, however.  It is meant to be inserted, like a dildo and rocked or pumped to excite the G-spot.  Well, I thought I could handle a 2” diameter of unyielding steel.  After all, the large end of my NJoy Pure Wand is 1 ½”, so I didn’t think an extra ½” would be anything to worry about.  I’m afraid I was wrong.

I first applied my new G-spot gel, Shunga’s Rain of Love arousal gel to my G-spot.  I then lubed the G-Pop up well and began rubbing it around my vulva and slowly inserting it.  No go. I obviously needed some extra stimulation to get more aroused.  I grabbed my trusty lusty plug-in massager the Fairy Wand and went to work on my clit, while my partner slowly rolled and twisted the G-Pop at the opening of my vagina.  Every time it almost went in, it felt like my pelvic bone was going to crack and my G-Spot burned painfully.  We tried this for a while to no avail.  I couldn’t insert the G-Pop without feeling pain, tensing up and popping it out.  Holy mother-fucker and did it hurt! The worst of it was, I was afraid if I did manage to get it inside, I would never get it out.  I imagined a trip to the emergency room with this thing sticking out of me, and well, it freaked me out.

While I have tried many sex toys in the name of “science” (Ha!), I am not willing to undergo pain or fear for a review.  I read both AAG’s and Essin’ Em’s reviews of the G-Pop, and while they both had to carefully work it in, they both did manage to insert the toy and both found it exquisite once inside.  AAG had the largest one and Essin’ Em the smallest.  So, while the G-Pop didn’t fit me in the 2” size, it would obviously fit other people.  I have a small vagina and I’ve never had kids, so 2” was way too large for me.  I do know that had I got the 1 ½” that it would have fit, because after trying unsuccessfully to insert the G-Pop, I got my NJoy Pure Wand out and the large end slid easily inside me, making me squirt uncontrollably. (My reward to undergoing the G-Pop pain!)

I still think that the G-Pop is a pretty groovy, unique sex toy.  I would still love to try the 1 ½”, and from now on will keep that in mind when getting new toys.

You can get your own G-Pop in various sizes at SexToy.com from “virgin” to “adventurous” to “masochist”!

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The winners of the Dark Odyssey Winter Fire complimentary admissions are *drumroll please*

• Adisson

• Jo

Congratulations!

Can you please email me through the contact form, and I’ll take it from there. Thank you all for participating!

Only more  3 weeks to Winter Fire!

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Thursday, February 4
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue

Friday, February 5
NYC Munch
DSF: “Predicament Bondage” w/ Dov
Paradise Lost party

Saturday, February 6
NYC TNG General Munch

Sunday, February 7
MAst:MetroNY: “Life’s Lesson: Tears to Triumph…This is our story” w/ Master Steve & slave tami
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Monday, February 8
CV: “Japanese Rope Bondage” w/ Sebastian

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Wednesday, February 10
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Location: Brown University, Wilson Hall
Street: Intersection of Brown Street and George Street
City/Town: Providence, RI
Google Maps: http://bit.ly/a4a7gB

KinkForAll is an ad-hoc educational unconference about the convergence of sexuality with the rest of life for anyone and everyone. It is 100% free and open to the public. Anyone with the desire to learn or with something to contribute is welcome and invited to participate.

KinkForAll is a 100% free event that is open to the public. It is an intense event with discussions, presentations, and interaction from all participants. There are no spectators, only participants. To attend, you must give a presentation or otherwise help out in some way (check the wiki or email queer@brown.edu if you want to know more about ways in which you can get involved!).

KinkForAll events aim to create shared knowledge with lasting benefit to humanity. KinkForAll is inspired by and based upon the BarCamp community and unconference model.

• Add your name to http://wiki.KinkForAll.org/KinkForAllProvidence to sign up!
• Watch some videos from past KinkForAlls
• Learn more about what to expect at http://wiki.kinkforall.org/WhatToExpect
• Learn more about the event guidelines at
  http://wiki.kinkforall.org/TheRulesOfKinkForAll

ABOUT ACCESSIBILITY:
KFA Providence will be hosted on the campus of Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island. We have four rooms in Wilson Hall at our disposal (101, 103, 105, and 109), all on the first floor (though there are stairs in front of the building). However, the building is unfortunately NOT handicapped accessible, so if you believe you will need special accommodations of any sort, please contact Aida Manduley (queer AT brown dot edu) as soon as possible.

Participate online before the event at your favorite social networking
web site:

Homepage (and to RSVP): http://kinkforall.pbworks.com/KinkForAllProvidence
Google: http://groups.google.com/group/kinkforall
Twitter: http://twitter.com/KinkForAll
Identica: http://identi.ca/kinkforall
Facebook: http://bit.ly/ds5War
Fetlife: http://fetlife.com/groups/2962

All organizational efforts are coordinated in public via the mailing  list. Join for free and help turn ideas into realities!

http://groups.google.com/group/kinkforall

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Dear reader:

Co-founder and director of CineKink Lisa Vandever is looking for a group of kinky film-lovers to help spread the word about the kinky film festival. I’ve helped judge the short films for the past 2 years and am looking forward to this year’s submissions. Like Rachel Kramer Bussel has said: “Cinekink is a really wonderful event, every year, and they really do have a great range from XXX hotness to thinkier but still hot pieces.” Cinekink is going on its 7th year – please help keep it going for many more!

- Viv

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The seventh annual edition of CineKink NYC is scheduled for February 16-21, 2010.

Once again the kinky film festival will feature a specially-curated program of films and videos that celebrate the wide diversity of sexuality. Along with a wealth of screenings, plans for the event also include a short film competition, audience choice awards, presentations, gala kick-off party and sexy AfterGlow celebration, all to be followed with a national screening tour.

While we’re just finalizing the schedule, among this year’s stories are a couple’s first brush with the world of swinging, a judge forced to choose between his legal career and his wife’s hunger for S/M and a French sex farce with actual sex in it! Viewers will also get a look at the boylesque sensation Waxie Moon and take part in “Bring It!,” our annual show-down between some of adult entertainment’s hottest directors.

Attendance at the CineKink NYC event, which runs over six days, averages 3,200-3,400 overall.  Turn-out for tour appearances, which vary market-to-market in terms of venue size and number of screenings, ranges between 150-1,500 per city.

Additionally, mail updates currently go out direct to nearly 2,000 CineKink subscribers.  These updates are also posted to various lists and groups both local and national, targeted primarily to people interested in alternative sexuality, and forwarded regularly to others within the communities. Estimate total reach for this is around 20,000 people per update.

Mention of our sponsors also goes out to our list of approximately 1,200 press contacts which cover mainstream, adult and alternative media outlets. All sponsors are included in press releases we send in advance of CineKink NYC; press releases for tour appearances include mention of all sponsors at the Gold level or higher.

We would love to have you as one of our official sponsors! Included below is information on our sponsorship packages, each designed to give businesses and individuals affordable opportunities for exposure. In addition to the levels detailed below, we will happily tailor a package or benefit to meet your individual marketing needs. Alternative opportunities might include the sponsorship of a specific event or screening, or even a CineKink festival award presented in your company’s name. Information on additional options and advertising opportunities can be found on the CineKink sponsorship page or send me an email with any other questions!

Want to get in on the action and earn some nice publicity for your own kinky endeavors? A donation of just $50 gets your name and URL listed in the CineKinksters area of the website. This is a new level of sponsorship created for individuals and small businesses; it’s a great way to help out and get your name seen by a huge sex-positive crowd.

Want more publicity for your blog? Own a business that could use more kinky customers? Love supporting sex-positive expression? Donate today.

Read on for more ways to support this event!

CineKink NYC 2010 Sponsorship Levels

Presenting Sponsor ($10,000, limited to one)

• Exclusive year-round recognition, including the NYC festival and all tour appearances, as a Presenting Sponsor of CineKink.
• First-tier position 120 x 300 banner ad/logo and link in Sponsor area of website for CineKink NYC 2010 and all subsequent events of the year.
• Company logo with a “Presented by” credit on all CineKink NYC advertisements and printed festival promotional materials, in first-tier position.
• Dedicated display space in upstairs theater lobby throughout CineKink NYC screenings.
• Key signage and banner placement at primary venues throughout CineKink NYC.
• Exclusive sponsorship of a CineKink NYC event or screening.
• Centerfold two-page-spread ad in the CineKink NYC program.
• Logo and company name on single frame of CineKink NYC trailer, which opens each screening.
• Company logo on all CineKink NYC badges.
• Company’s promotional or giveaway material on Sponsorship table and in Kick-Off Party gift bag.

Premiere Sponsor ($5,000+)

• Year-round recognition, including the NYC festival and all tour appearances, as a Premiere Sponsor of CineKink.
• Second-tier position 120 x 240 banner ad/logo and link in Sponsor area of website for CineKink NYC 2010 and all subsequent events of the year.
• Company logo included as a Premiere Sponsor on all CineKink NYC festival promotional materials, with second-tier sizing and placement.
• Display space in upstairs theater lobby during select screening at CineKink NYC.
• Key signage and/or banner placement at selected festival event or screening.
• Exclusive sponsorship of a festival event or screening.
• Two-page-spread ad in the festival program.
• Logo and company name on CineKink NYC trailer, which opens each screening.
• Company’s promotional or giveaway material on Sponsorship table and in Kick-Off Party gift bag.

Platinum Sponsor ($2,500+)

• Year-round recognition, including the NYC festival and all tour appearances, as a Gold Sponsor of CineKink.
• 120 x 90 banner ad/logo and link in Sponsor area of website for CineKink NYC 2010 and all subsequent events of the year.
• Company logo included as a Gold Sponsor on all CineKink NYC festival promotional materials with fourth-tier sizing and placement.
• Key signage and/or banner placement at selected festival event or screening.
• Full-page ad in the festival program.
• Logo and company name on CineKink NYC trailer, which opens each screening.
• Company’s promotional or giveaway material on Sponsorship table and in Kick-Off Party gift bag.

Gold Sponsor ($1,000)

• Year-round recognition, including the NYC festival and all tour appearances, as a Gold Sponsor of CineKink
• 120 x 90 banner ad/logo and link in the Sponsors area of website for CineKink NYC/2010 and all subsequent events of the year.
• Company logo included as a Gold Sponsor on all CineKink NYC promotional materials with fourth-tier sizing and placement.
• Key signage and/or banner placement at selected festival event or screening.
• Full-page ad in the festival program.
• Logo and company name on CineKink NYC trailer, which opens each screening.
• Company’s promotional material on Sponsorship table and in Kick-Off Party gift bag.

Silver Sponsor ($450+)

• Festival season recognition as a Silver Sponsor of CineKink NYC 2010.
• 120 x 60 banner ad/logo and link in Sponsor area of website for CineKink NYC 2010.
• Company logo included as a Silver Sponsor on select CineKink NYC promotional materials, space permitting, with fifth-tier sizing and placement.
• Half-page ad in the festival program.
• Logo and company name on CineKink NYC trailer, which opens each screening.
• Company’s promotional or giveaway material on Sponsorship table in theater lobby.

Bronze Sponsor ($250+)

• Company name and link in the Bronze Sponsors area of website for CineKink NYC 2010.
• Company name on CineKink NYC trailer, which opens each screening.
• Company name and website listed in the festival program.
• Company’s promotional or giveaway material on Sponsorship table in theater lobby.

CineKinksters ($50+)

• Name and link listed in the CineKinksters area of the website for CineKink NYC 2010.

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Location: Happy Ending, 302 Broome St. NYC (Pink awning says “Xie He Health”
Cost: Free

With guest host CineKink.

We will have pre-cut hearts for you to create your own Valentine. Fill it out, give it to Cupid (played by the vivacious Ivy) and she will deliver it to the person (or people) you desire.

The Pleasure Salon has been created to build community, allowing sex-positive activists to cross-pollinate. Our gatherings bring together members of the BDSM, swinger, alternative gender, LGBT, sex-activist, sex educator, nudist, sex-magic, polyamory, Pagan, radical faerie, tantra, dark odyssey, sex-blogger, porn, pervert and sex-worker communities, and others whose passion is sex. (Let us know if we missed any one of you!) Through building networks in the sex-positive community, The Pleasure Salon hopes to help create a sex-positive world. It is a place for the open exchange of ideas and sensual expression.

Join us in building New York’s pleasure positive community, and bring your like-minded friends to this social gathering. The Pleasure Salon embraces respect, acceptance, and non-judgmental support in this public space.

In pleasure,
Patricia Johnson, Selina Fire & Mark Michaels

PS. Winter Fire 2010 Fundraising Effort for Haiti. Now through Monday, January 25 at midnight PST, they will donate $20 of each new Dark Odyssey registration to Doctors Without Borders to help the relief effort in Haiti. The challenge is to raise $1,000 or more. If they raise at least $1,000, PuckerUp.com will match the donation, doubling the amount of money they can give! So please help spread the word: register for an amazing event and help Haiti at the same time.

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• Courting Attention: Covering Calif.’s Marriage Trial : NPR – In California, lawyers are two weeks into a landmark federal court case challenging California’s Proposition 8, which bans same-sex marriage in that state.Margaret Talbot has been blogging about the trial for The New Yorker’s Web site, and she has written about it in this week’s issue of the magazine.
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Thursday, January 28
Alphabet Soup

Friday, January 29
TES-TNG: “Rope Share”
TES College Night Toga Party
Paradise Lost

Saturday, January 30
Rope Share
Submit

Sunday, January 31
New York Bondage Club
NYC TNG Party Night
Suspension party

Monday, February 1
One of the Most Important Tests You’ll Ever Take
CV: Erotic Writing as a Tool for Seduction and Negotiation with Jack Stratton. Columbia Univ., Hamilton Hall, Rm 316, 9:00 PM

Tuesday, February 2
TES: “Punishing Holds: Dominant Wrestling Holds to Learn and Enjoy” w/ Damien TD & VeVe

Wednesday, February 3
TES “TEC@TES: Blue Ribbon Round-Up”

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Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #7? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Exposing My Self to Airport Security - I stared right at her until she looked away and called for assistance for a pat-down search.  I gaped, chin dropped: holy shit, they’re gonna give me a pat down cuz I’m packing a silicon cock.

Prefect’s Prerogative - When I neglect this duty, or don’t perform it to his satisfaction, he makes me light a fire in his room, and stand in front of it in just my school shirt and white socks.

Attention Women: There is Something Wrong With Your Vagina - Yes, that’s what your vagina needs: a breath mint. Because, just like vagina shouldn’t smell like vagina, it also shouldn’t taste like vagina.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

The Perfect Fat – Why do clothes designers assume that if you’re plus-sized you’re 1. over 5′9″ and 2. over the age of 45 or “matronly and modest”? At the age of 32 I am not yet ready to dress like my grandmother.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Zipless - “I have some Scotch in my room—maybe you’d join me? You know, in the interest of not drinking alone…” She smiled. Perhaps she could yet salvage the day’s ending.

See also: Pleasurists #61 for all your sex toy review needs.
Also in recent sex news, check out the coverage of the Adult Entertainment Expo that happened in Las Vegas a couple weeks ago. You’ll see videos and articles from our fellow sex-bloggers on fun things like a rodeo penis and new sex toys not even on the market yet!

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Arousal is not consent
Psychosexual: Does the G spot exist? Do I care?
Reputable Help for Haiti
Squicked
That’ll be 151 Nickels
The Case of the Mysteriously Vanishing G-spot
Transtastic: Joking About Being Trans
Vegas – Day One – Diva’s Quick Recap
Vegas – Day One – Tess’s Thoughts
Why Don’t They Just LEAVE?

Kink & Fetish

Anatomy of a Mindfuck
Bad Submissive
Claiming: Go Pantiless After
Dating Refresher
Electric fuck
Fetishes and me
Kinky With Class
Laziness never pays off
Piercing reversal
Resolution
Titty Fuck
The Coffee Date, Part 2
The Job Interview
Without Reason

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

BDSM Relationship Advice for Newbies
Greedy For The Verse
Hang Ups and Hand Jobs
Ivy Madden
If she had just been a better wife…
Insomnia
Swinging
The Sexiness Beneath
Weightlessness

Erotic Writing

42DD
A Different Kind of Fuck
Across the Room
All in a Play Party’s Night
Amazing Night
Bedtime Story
Behind You
Breathe and Let Go
Done by a Clown
Evening Home
Glow
Lick You As Long As You Like
Moments of Clarity
Naughty Neighbor
Saturday Night’s Alright (For Swapping)
Sex and Video Games
Slip sliding away
The Slut Chronicles #11 ~ The Dinner Party
Thursdays
Tyler
Visitors in my Bedroom
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Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.

Did you miss Pleasurists #61? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #63? Be sure to read our submission guidelines and then you can use our submission form and submit it before Sunday January 31st at 11:59pm PST.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

• Em and Lo Book Contest Deadline: January 29th.
• EZ Bend Vibrator Giveaway Deadline: January 31st @ 6pm Central.
• V-Day Cards Deadline: January 31st.
• Glassvibrations – a Contest Deadline: January 31st.
• Evolved Vibrator Giveaway! Deadline: February 1st.
• Cupid’s Fun Factory Contest Deadline: February 10th @ 11:59pm.

Looking for something other than reviews?

e[lust] #5

Editor’s Pick

• Fun Factory Flexi Felix by Dr. Ruthie

Note: I really enjoy Dr. Ruthie’s reviews and also think she is absolutely adorable. I think this one is wonderful, especially as an anal review since she talks a lot about uses of anal beads as well as safety and the toy itself. There is also a written component to this review if you click on the link above.

Editrix

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On to the reviews…

Vibrators

• LELO Mona by Laurel
• LELO Mia by Toy With Me
• Je Joue Gi-Ki by Laurel
• I Rub My Duckie Bondage by Undressed Reviews
• LELO Iris and Gigi by Joanna Cake
• Thrusting Jack Rabbit by Melen’s Rayne
• Fly Micro Vibe by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
• LELO Iris by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
• Close2You Opus by EffinSara
• Cloud 9 by EffinSara
• Thrusting Jack Rabbit by Cinnamon
• Je Joue Gi-Ki by Bad Bad Girl
• Vibrating Panties by Bad Bad Girl
• Jimmyjane Iconic Pocket by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
• OhMiBod Freestyle by Pretty Power Tools
• LELO Ina by Saraid
• Spellbound Stud Curved Jack by Mistress Kay
• Onye Fleur by CarrieAnn
• iTap Egg by CarrieAnn
• Wisper Mistery by Kristi
• LELO Mona by Sammi
• Silicone Flexi Power Rod by Red
• Triple Treat Rabbit by Sammi
• Evolved Symphony Opus by Kateanon
• Evolved Citron by Pretty Power Tools
• Velvet Purple Pill by LikeSunshineDust

Dildos

• LELO Ella by Mistress Kay
• Don Wands Nubby Fat Head by Ginger Leigh
• LELO Ella by Dani Darling
• Tantus Compact by EffinSara
• Rainbow Nubby by Lithaewyn

Anal Toys

• Luxotiq Metal Plug by Sammi
• Luxotiq Glass Plug by Saraid
• Bootie by Profligacy

Toys for Cocks

• Gear Essentials Titan by Hubman and Veronica
• LELO Bo by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
• Boss Cock’s Pleasure Ring by Mistress Kay
• Wave Rider Cock Ring by Sammi
• LELO Bo by Kateanon

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

• Astroglide Shooters by Undressed Reviews
• Intimate Organics Aromatherapy Massage Oil by Saraid
• Intimate Organics Relaxing Massage Oil by Red
• Hathor Aphrodisia by Domina Doll

BDSM/Fetish

• Lavish Nipple Clamps by Cinnamon
• Zeus Deluxe Digital Power box by Bad Bad Girl
• Superstrap Ankle Cuffs by Melen’s Rayne
• Fulfill-a-fantasy Suede Flogger by Mistress Kay
• Six Vaginal Electrodes by Sweet Tart
• Nipple Clamps by Domina Doll

Adult Books

• The Human Pony by Cinnamon
• Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex by Dani Darling
• Moregasm by Alley
• The New Topping Book by Domina Doll

Adult Movies/Porn

• Nina Hartley’s Guide to Erotic Bondage by Domina Doll
• Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage by Lexi B.
• Real Lesbian Sex: Jay & Pike by The Porn Librarian
• Vengence by FrzKey
• Riot Grrrls by J.D. Bauchery
• Straight Guys for Gay Eyes – Bo Dean by The Porn Librarian
• Princess Kali – Domme In Training by FrzKey

Sex Furniture

• Liberator Memory Foam Body Pillow by Beautiful Dreamer

Storage

• Tunti Illuminating Toybox by Domina Doll
• Tunti Toybox by Mistress Kay

Miscellaneous

• Teneo Uno and Duo by Beautiful Dreamer
• Portable Pink Dancing Kit by Beautiful Dreamer
• Ophoria K-Balls by CarrieAnn

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The SaSi vibrator invented by British company Je Joue has been touted as the best thing since sliced bread.  Well, maybe not sliced bread, but it was named the best sex toy of 2009 by Cosmo magazine and 1 of the top 10 toys of 2008 by Fleshbot.  And, while it can’t slice your bread, it is supposed to be the closest thing to cunninglingus next to a real life tongue.  (Yes, even better than the most excessively promoted sex toy this year, the Sqweel [my review]).

So, what’s the hype all about?

To be honest, I have been one of the many sex toy reviewers who have been craving to get their pussy next to a SaSi.  Who wouldn’t want to try a “sexual intelligence” sex toy that claims to mimic oral sex and learns what you like, just like a lover?  But are these claims true?

Yes.  The SaSi does feel as close as a sex toy can get to a good clitty lickin’. Under a soft silicone stretchy surface, a little pleasure nub sticks out to rub and titillate your clit.  Depending on your mode, this nub strokes, circles and flickers, much like a real tongue, while you control the speed and vibration.

Pre-Programmed Mode

The nub has five settings in the pre-programmed mode, which are the most favored among the test users.  You can cycle through the modes by pressing the next button, or go back.  It is a good way to first get introduced to the various motions of the nub, before trying the Custom Mode out.

Custom Mode

In Custom Mode the SaSi tries various movements which you can pass on by pressing the next button, or tell SaSi you like it, by clicking “Don’t Stop”.  Gradually, SaSi remembers your likes and dislikes and eventually changes the Pre-Programmed Mode to your favorites.

Getting to Know Your SaSi

Like a lover, the SaSi requires a bit of time to get to know her.  She becomes a better lover over time, once she gets to know what you like, and once you get used to her functions.  She’s much more sophisticated than any wham-bam-thank-you-ma’m vibrator and therefore requires more romance before you get down and bed her.  Give the SaSi time to show you her moves so you can make the most out of what she has to offer.

Design

The SaSi is curved to fit neatly between the labia and hug the clitoris.  It takes a while to position the SaSi perfectly, so the nub moves around and touches the clit in just the right way.  Lube is a must and while it takes a bit of trial and error, you’ll know when you got it in just the right place.  In Custom Mode I recommend going slowly through the modes and trying each one as you move the SaSi around to find the best feel.  If it’s not working for you, move on.  When you do find one you like, hit the “Don’t Stop” but then continue on as SaSi just might surprise you with other tricks up her sleeve.  You will find that the SaSi will perform better the second time you use her than the first, as there is a bit of a learning curve with using her.

Controls

I found the buttons a bit difficult to use at first.  This is because I have long fingernails, and it makes it hard to push the buttons, especially the next button when in use.  After a bit, I was better able to control the buttons with practice using the pads of my fingers.

Power

The SaSi needs to be charged before using.  She comes with several plug adapters for use in the North America, UK, Europe, and Australia.  Just plug her in and her indicator will be red when uncharged which turns to green when fully charged.

The SaSi also vibrates in addition to the nubby motions it makes.  On high, this vibration is pretty good (not mind blowing, but satisfactory and comparable with Lelo’s).  Combined with the nub movements, it is enough to get you over the edge to orgasm.

The SaSi is more of a slow seduction that will allow you to gradually build to orgasm, rather than a Va-voom, rock-your-world kind of sex toy.  People who rely on the Hitachi would hate it.  However, if you are into a slow, seductive evening of self-pleasure, then the SaSi is your gal.

SaSi is available at PinkCherry.com.  Shopping in Canada?  Try PinkCherry.ca!

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Where: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th Street (bet 7th and 8th Ave.)
Cost: $5/LSM members, $10/Non members

For many queers, gender roles are a construct which we discard as one of those Tools Of The Patriarchy when we begin deconstructing heteronormativity. But regardless of the rejection of the compulsive normative roles, many queers still uncover and meander our way toward our own unique gender identities and expressions.

Adding gender dynamics to your role play in sex can be a delightful and informative way to encourage deeper gender self-discovery, to solidify or express identities which are budding, or to further identities already in progress.

This will be an interactive workshop on exploring the addition of gender to power dynamics in sexual role play scenarios to increase desire, vulnerability, self-knowledge, and intimacy.

About Sinclair Sexsmith
Sinclair Sexsmith enjoys whiskey, topping, the serial comma, political activism, and has been known to get on her knees in order to fix the strappy sandals of a queer femme.

Mr. Sexsmith’s online writing and photography projects such as Queer Eye Candy and Top Hot Butches explore queer sexuality, gender theory, butch/femme identity, and interpersonal relationships. She was named 2008’s #1 Top Sex Blogger for Sugarbutch Chronicles: The Sex, Gender, and Relationship Adventures of a Kinky Queer Butch Top at sugarbutch.net, and received both the Best Lesbian Gender Bender Blog and the Best Lesbian Sex/Erotica Blog awards from The Lesbian Lifestyle in 2009. Her writing can be found in various anthologies, including the Best Lesbian Erotica series and in Visible: A Femmethology volume two.

Featured in the New York City Sex Blog Calendar benefiting Sex Work Awareness in 2009 and 2010 as a pin-up, Sinclair has also written for The Lesbian Lifestyle, Eden Fantasys, Carnal Nation’s Perv Panel, Mamba Girl, and Sappho’s Girls in the CyberDyke Network. She is starting a regular column on Radical Masculinity for Carnal Nation. She lives in New York City.

About LSM
LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. And, who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way

Upcoming: March 19: Mollena Williams, Taboo Play, and Working Through Extremes

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By DENNIS LIM

WHAT did gay liberation do for gay cinema? To begin to tackle this question, one has to survey the shadowy history of on-screen homosexuality, consider the elusive notion of a gay sensibility and — as with all minority-group debates — weigh the conflicting ideological positions on difference and assimilation. But while there may be no easy answer, the coincidental appearance this week of two gay-theme events in New York repertory houses provides a window into the evolution of gay cinema, both in the shadow of liberation politics and far beyond it.

“Word Is Out,” a 1977 documentary that is being revived in a restored print at Anthology Film Archives starting Friday, interweaves the stories of 26 gay men and lesbians who speak openly about coming out, finding love and fighting prejudice. It was a milestone in the developing public image of the gay-rights movement.

When “Word Is Out” was released in theaters and broadcast on public television more than eight years after the Stonewall riots, media depictions were still largely confined to unflattering stereotypes, and gay audiences had yet to see their experiences reflected on screen. Reviewing the film in The Advocate, Vito Russo declared, “The silence of gay people on the screen has been broken.”

But gay (and gay-friendly) filmmakers were never exactly mute, nor have they all opted to speak in the same ways. Queer/Art/Film, a monthly series that begins its new season at the IFC Center on Monday, serves as a reminder that there is a strain of gay cinema that predates and runs parallel to the consciousness-raising tradition pioneered by “Word Is Out.” Organized by the filmmaker Ira Sachs (“Forty Shades of Blue”) and the journalist Adam Baran, the series is programmed by gay artists and writers invited to present a film they find personally significant.

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“Oh my God,” Tilda shouted over the music. “Devo! I haven’t heard this in years.”

“I think I remember how to dance to this,” I shouted back. I punched her upper chest with the flat of my fist. “When a problem comes along . . .”

She threw back her shoulder and lifted her chin. “You must whip it!” We danced, the beat punctuated by my fist against her chest.

We had been meaning to come to Chemistry for a while. We rarely made it to sex parties other than our own and this one had been getting good marks from our friends. Held in a loft in Brooklyn, Chemistry offered the space for three distinct areas: a quiet space for conversation and massages, a boisterous dance area with a good DJ and a bring-your-own-bottle bar, and, the main attraction, a multi-tiered area reserved for sex. We knew we’d know some people there. Perhaps we’d also prowl for fresh meat.

We took a break from dancing to return to the sex space. We’d earlier enjoyed a spontaneous foursome with a bisexual fellow we knew in the company of a woman who confessed to crushing on Tilda. Now we wandered the room like casual shoppers, holding hands as we looked to see if anything caught our fancy. I saw room on a bench, next to a couple making out. I turned to Tilda. “Care for some cocksucking?”

Tilda put a finger to her cheek. “You know, I think I might like that.”

We walked to the bench. “Excuse me,” I interrupted the couple. “Mind if we join you on the bench?”

The woman looked over her shoulder and sized me up. “No, sure, that’s cool.” She returned to kissing her date. I thanked her, unfastened my belt and dropped my pants. Tilda lowered herself to her knees, smiling as she crawled closer to my lap. She moaned as she took me in her mouth.

“That’s nice, so good,” I said, caressing her hair as I grew hard in her mouth. Sitting back, I surveyed the room. On a raised platform to my left, I could see the shoulders of two men supporting the legs of the women they were fucking. A cluster of people writhed on the large bed below. A diaphanous curtain partly shielded an adjacent area from my view. Rows of couples had sex on the simple beds on the facing wall. My eyes returned to the couple making out next to us. She leaned forward to remove her bra. He stood to pull off his shirt. They were fast getting hot and heavy.

She was a certainly pretty, I thought, and he was a real looker. They were in their early twenties and, given the way they were shedding clothes with ease, as if accustomed to turning in together, night after night, I thought how nice it was that such a young couple was exploring parties like these so early in their relationship. Or perhaps they had been sweethearts for much longer, I conjectured as he went down on her; maybe they had applied to the same college so they could move to New York together.

I looked at Tilda. Her eyes were riveted on the couple as she continued to ride my cock with her face. My eyes turned back to see the couple looking at us. Tilda locked eyes with him as each of their mouths licked and sucked. The woman was staring up at me with a look that I could only answer with a kiss. She sighed into my mouth. I ventured a touch to her face; she turned toward me. I kissed her deeper, my hand moving to a breast, then, to the extent of my reach, to her soft flat belly.

He moved to retrieve a condom. She raised a hand to my neck. My cock grew deeper in Tilda’s mouth.

I kissed and was kissed, touched and was touched, as he fucked her, his eyes on us, watching. His smooth body was small and tightly defined, so that we could see the muscles twitch under his skin as he moved back and forth. A position changed and I could touch her wetness and, daring more, his cock in her. Her slight “oh God” told me to stay.

He came quickly. As he pulled out, Tilda took my cock from her mouth. “That was insanely hot,” she admired.

“Thanks,” the woman said, righting herself on the bench and shaking out her hair. “Thanks for watching. That was really hot.”

I indicated the hard cock in Tilda’s hand. “Would you care to go a little longer?”

She looked at me, confused for a moment before getting my meaning. “Oh no, thanks.” She pulled her bra onto her arms. “I’m good.”

“Happy to offer,” I said. “This is our first time here. How about y’all?”

“It’s my second,” she said.

“First,” he answered, tugging on his shirt.

“Oh,” Tilda said. “You also come separately? So you guys are in an open relationship, or . . .”

“Oh, no,” she said, looking back to him. “We just met.”

He wrested an arm from his shirt to extend a hand. “Yeah, hey. Jeremy.”

She took his hand in hers. “Cyndi.”

We laughed. “Okay,” Tilda said. “Now that was insanely hot.”

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Nostalgia (2009)
Studio- Reel Queer Productions / Good Releasing
Director- Courtney Trouble
Cast- April Flores, Kimberly Kane, Jiz Lee, Syd Blakovich, Madison Young, Trouble, Pepper Sox, Sealu Sideshow, Destiny Prince, Selena Raven, Tina Horn, Kimberlee Cline, Carson, Sadie Lune, and Carol Queen

In case you haven’t heard, GoodVibes.com now has its own adult porn production studio, GoodReleasing.com and I am overjoyed.  Two of my favorite girl-girl directors—Courtney Trouble (NoFauxxx.com) and Madison Young (MadisonBound.com)—are producing woman-made queer porn under Reel Queer Productions and were nominated at this years AVN Awards.  I have reviewed quite a few of both their films on PopMyCherryReview.com and also her on SexCarnival that you can also check out.

Nostalgia (2009) is a super-cool porno by up-and-cumming director, Courtney Trouble.  As the tile indicates, it has a nostalgic feel and pays homage to the late great Marilyn Chambers who sadly died of an aneurysm in April last year.  Marilyn Chambers was best known for her portrayal in Behind the Green Door (1972) in which her character Gloria gets kidnapped and “raped” before a live sleazy circus-like audience.

Scene 1- (Homage to Behind the Green Door) All girl three-way starring Jiz Lee

Two women are making out on a couch, one in a feather mask who is “warming” the other girl up (Gloria) to get her ready for the circus-rape orgy scene.  Killer tunes play in the background.  “Gloria” is then lead blindfolded into a dungeon scene where several spectators await including Carol Queen with a crazy voyeuristic smile on her face. “Gloria” is then “ravished” upon a stage by one the feathered girl, when in walks Jiz Lee, likewise feather-masked sporting a big strap-on.  The audience claps as both feather-masked women play with her, while Jiz mounts her, first slowly, then hard and fast.  She orgasms? Then both masked ladies squirt fem ejaculate over her.  This scene doesn’t have the impact that my memory has of the original film, but then I was probably pretty impressionable back then, and I can remember it being pretty “Wow!”  What may have lacked during this scene for me was the “rape” element.  In this film the scene is very “consensual” and doesn’t have the scary rape-fantasy scenario that many women fantasize about.  And, while I don’t agree with nonconsensual sex in real life, in fantasy having rough sex and being taken is hot.  Also, I remember the audience being more involved in the original than they are here. It was way more like a circus freak show, and being a freak, I loved the edgy atmosphere of the Behind the Green Door much better.  Of course, this is Courtney’s own take on it, but it just didn’t work for me as well as the original.

Interlude- Courtney & Pepper

Meanwhile, to begin the film and in between each episode, Courtney and real-life lover Pepper are making out as they watch the films via a computer screen. These are just short interludes until the end of the film.

Scene 2- (Homage to Deep Throat) All girl three-way with Jiz Lee, Syd Blakovich and Madison Young.

In this homage to Deep Throat Madison plays a patient who can’t orgasm, or even feel any arousal what-so-ever from sex.  She comes to Dr. Syd for help as Jiz plays the trusty nurse in a blonde wig.  Sid is amazing in her geek glasses as the doctor, very hot and funny.  Got some great lines and definitely doesn’t fuck them up.  Madison does a pretty good job, but is very melodramatic.  Given that it is comedic she was most likely supposed to ham it up a bit.  Dr. Sid tries several methods to arouse Madison: bondage, a hitachi, strap-on; each to no avail.  Dr. Sid then discovers that Madison’s clit is in her throat.  “Ah ha!  I zink we’ve found it!”  Madison then hungrily gobbles down Sid’s strap-on and is a pro at it.  You would really think she is getting off by it and perhaps she is.  Once the cock squirts silver glitter and fireworks ensue, the three get it on and Sid fucks Madison with a golf club, which is very cool and has quite a technique.  “I do believe you’re cured”, says Dr. Sid.  Fucking awesome scene!  Very fun, hot and funny!

Scene 3- (Homage to Babylon Pink) with Tina Horn

I never saw Babylon Pink, so can’t refer to it for comparison.  But, this scene was really kind of boring and didn’t seem to have much focus or built-up progression.  It features Tina Horn (who was awesome in Seven Minutes in Heaven).  Here, you can barely hear them over the music, and I never get into it.  The scenario is three gals sitting down to lunch in this weird room that looks like an empty stage.  One is a vegan and is uninterested in the other two women’s discussion about meat.  Turned off I guess is more appropriate.  So she fantasizes about having sex, first as the bottom, then turning the tables and topping the other two.  Like I said, press FF and skip it.

Scene 4- (Homage to the Devil in Miss Jones) with April Flores, Kimberly Kane, Courtney Trouble and Pepper

I didn’t see the original Devil in Miss Jones, but saw 3 & 4 with Amber Lynn and Vanessa Del Rio which was uber hot.  This scene stars April Flores as a lonely woman who commits suicide and then finds herself in purgatory.  I really love the beginning atmosphere of the scene as April stares at herself in the mirror and then runs the bathtub where she will slit her wrist (which is hinted at with red glitter running down the side of the tub and her floating in the bathtub full of blood).  It could have been more alt, edgy horror-show, but was very artistic and April is fantastic.  So, she is transported to purgatory (which is a lot like hell) and the scene becomes more comical.  Kimberly Kane (the Devil’s assistant) meets her at the door to hell and tells her she has a chance to go back if she engages in one of the deadly sins, which she of course picks lust.  Kane then brings April into a room where Courtney and Pepper are making out.  A fuck-fest ensues, but mainly the couples stay together until the end.  Kane and April are seriously hot and I wish the scene wasn’t as cut up as it was, and focused longer on them.  Not that I didn’t get into Courtney and Pepper, I just wanted more of Kane and April.  By the end they are all having sex together in a massive orgy and assume a very cool position with April and Courtney are facing each other as they boink tits and their partners lay under them eating them out.  Great scene!  But give me more April & Kimberly!

The END credits are dedicated to Marilyn Chambers and then there is an inserted vignette that goes back to Dr. Sid talking into a recorder about his last patient Madison, as Jiz fucks her from behind.  Dr. Sid talks about discovering a pleasure spot in her throat and calls it the Blakovich spot.  Again, pretty funny and unexpected.  It left me smiling and wanting more, more, more!

This film also has killer glitter-trash tunes featuring The Need, Veronica Lipgloss, TWIN, and Two Ton Boa, and was nominated for an AVN for the music.

Overall, Nostalgia was very good despite the third scene which didn’t cut it and the first which could have been much more edgy.  A great attempt at honoring these classics, which are big shoes to fit into.  I really love that Courtney Trouble is trying to do something radically different with porn and take it into a new, or even retro direction.

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Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, January 22
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Saturday, January 23
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New York Bondage Club

Monday, January 25
CV: “I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Hurt Me” w/ Mistress Coraline

Tuesday, January 26
TES: “TES Hands On Fun”

Wednesday, January 27
TES Switchables Group: “Humor in the scene”

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February 26-28 – Dallas, TX
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March 6 – NYC
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March 18 – NYC
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TES Fest: teaching TBA

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Master/slave Conference: teaching and judging Northeast Master/slave Contest

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I have been looking for a pair of vampire gloves for a long time.  Most of the ones I have found are large and kind of boxy (ie: not form-fitting).  So I was very hopeful that the Kinklab Vampire Gloves from Tabutoys.com would be different.  And, they are!

These gloves are just like a pair of women’s sexy leather gloves.  They are size small, snuggly form fitting, and are made of gorgeous soft leather.  No one will know you are wearing vampire gloves until you dig your claws into them!

These vampire gloves feature prickly metal points on the fingers which are great for doing sensation play.  You can use them to softly rub over the skin to create a tingling, ticklish sensation.  Use a bit more force and they nasty pain tools used to scratch or pierce as you grab, rub or smack the flesh.  Use them to entice as a sensual reward, or to punish as a vicious weapon, leaving tiny vampire teeth marks in your bottom’s bottom to remind them of their misdeeds.

These are the best Vampire Gloves I have found so far on the market and I’ve been searching a long while.  Very hot, nasty and oh, so sexy!  Spanks!

Buy these Vampire Gloves from Tabutoys.com

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Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #6? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

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Late Arrival: An Airport Encounter - I saw a possible haven ahead: a pilot disappearing into the pilots’ lounge. I could think of nowhere else that would offer us even a modicum of privacy. Time to brazen it out. With her still walking obediently alongside, I pushed my way into the lounge.

The Condom Question. Confession #397 – Luckily, this time I had my wits about me enough to reply with a categorical, Yes a condom is absolutely necessary, darlin, but history has proven that, while I’m naked and horny, I can offer no more justification as to why such protection is paramount.

No more… - “I’m so sorry, I can’t…”. Words, words, so many words… reasons and reasoning and things and stuff and none of it made sense, and through all of it, disbelief, dread, a sickness of heart… I couldn’t quite believe what I was hearing.

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Bad Girl – I take off my coat and stand proudly before her in my black lace corset, suspenders, stockings and heels. She looks me up and down and smiles at me when she catches my stare. Desire is already zinging through my body.

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I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we’ve come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

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Club Fem NYC: “Tying With Authority” w/ Jay Wiseman
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Friday, January 15
DSF: “It’s All about Caning” w/ Dr. Devon
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Saturday, January 16
Brooklyn Leather Munch
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Sunday, January 17
Instigate NYC: “Playing and Taking It Hard: How Black is Your Flag?” w/ Del
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Monday, January 18
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TES: “Squirting 101 w/ Sammi Sui
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TES Dominant Woman/submissive men’s Group: “ A Submissive men’s Panel”

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