Thursday, March 18
Staten Island Kink munch
TES Relationships Group Excursion to “BDSM Night” at In The Flesh
BDSM Night at In The Flesh Reading Series

Friday, March 19
DSF: “Breath Play” w/ Mistress Clarissa
LSM: “Taboo Play, and Working Through Extremes” w/ Mollena Williams
Subspace party
The Avant~Garde BDSM/Fetish Play Party
Switch Party

Saturday, March 20
Poly Patao Productions: Afternoon Delight
TES Spanking Group: “Spanking Techniques from Sensual to Discipline and more” w/ Lady Sabrina
TES Novice Excursion
TES Latex Fetish Play Party hosted by The Baroness and Jeff
Stimulate party
Spam party
Black Party

Sunday, March 21
Instigate: “Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy” w/ Mollena Williams
New York Bondage Club
Fixe Fetish Party

Monday, March 22
CV: “Edgeplay from the Top” w/ Corey Alexander

Tuesday, March 23
TES: “Abuse-Proofing for Submissives or How to Take Responsibility For Yourself”

Wednesday, March 24
TES Bondage SIG: “The Many Moods of Bondage” with Murphy Blue

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Jack:

. . .I’ve never been in a relationship like that since, but similar feelings have been stirred up lately when I played around with something the kids call Queening.

I’ve been in the position of having a girl sit on my face before, I enjoy it, but recently when M and I were playing around in bed and I brought up that maybe she should do that, it suddenly turned into something very different.

The dynamics of M and I are fun. I am the daddy type top and she is the sometimes timid and often bratty little girl bottom. These are roles we slipped into nearly immediately upon meeting and play around with in a variety of ways that we both find hugely entertaining.

Bratty and rambunctious are one thing, but as we started playing that night it felt a little different. I felt different and she had a new glint in her eye.

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Mollena Williams. Photo by Colm McCarthy

NYC is lucky this week, because my friend, West Coast based kinkster and educator Mollena Williams, is in town. These are workshops you’d otherwise have to travel to national conferences to see, so take advantage of her presence here, and go!

Here’s her schedule:

Tuesday, March 16
TES Presents: RACE: The Final Frontier”

The idea of playing into stereotypes and bigotry, of doing scenes that recall horrors from the darkest moments of history is, in many folk’s opinion, best left alone. But…for those who are drawn to explore deeper crevasses of our psyche, the desire to explore that taboo can be compelling. Even if you’re not desirous of acting on these fantasies, taking charge of them and letting go of guilt can be an amazing release. Should you decide to act on these fantasies, you’ll get tips on how to approach this edgeplay, what to do if things do not fall out as planned and the pros and cons of doing these scenes in public venues. Expect the unexpected and prepare to surprise yourself.
http://fetlife.com/events/14083

Thurs., Mar. 18
BDSM Night at In the Flesh

Get kinky with memoir writers, BDSM educators, erotica authors, a porn star, and more at In The Flesh. Featuring Melissa Febos (author of dominatrix memoir Whip Smart), blogger Selina Fire (Pleasure Salon), rope bondage expert Monk (Twistedmonk.com), Julie Powell (author of Cleaving and Julie and Julia), erotica writer Xan West (contributor, Best SM Erotica 3), Mollena Williams (author, “BDSM and Playing with Race” in Best Sex Writing 2010, BDSM educator Lolita Wolf (LeatherYenta.com) and feminist porn star Madison Young (MadisonBound.com). Note: Both floors of Happy Ending will be opened for this event.
http://fetlife.com/events/11598

Friday, Mar. 19
LSM presents: Taboo Play, and Working Through Extremes

If you have ever had a scene that lured you with the promise of edgy intensity, but wondered if you could handle the situation before, during or afterward, this discussion is for you! We will explore the reasons some people enjoy play that is VERY edgy psychologically, emotionally and physically, and how you can go about making that fantasy a reality. Inherent in this discussion is the level of responsibility of both / all partners, how to manage risk, and how you can support your partner in the aftermath. Edgy play can be hot, and we will look at ways to avoid some common pitfalls, as well as how to recover with grace and honor when things go off of the planned path.
http://bit.ly/91f2gk

Sunday, Mar. 21
Instigate NYC: Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy

Self-identification is difficult for anyone in the alternative lifestyle. It can be even more challenging for people who see themselves as strong in their lives but desirous of submission. There is a great deal of pressure in the BDSM community to “seem submissive,” so what do you do when you see yourself as strong and fierce and yet crave mastery and domination? Believe me, you are not alone. There are many submissives and bottoms and slaves who are strong and independent and finding their way through the maze of the Kink Community! This class is an intense discussion of self-assessment personal identification, passion and power. From those who struggle with their desire to submit, to those who strive for greater strength of purpose, this class will be a wonderful opportunity to bond with the likeminded and suss out your strength in an open setting. And for tops, dominants and masters, this is an excellent opportunity to get into the mind of those who are strong and embrace the dichotomy of strength in submission and freedom in slavery!
http://fetlife.com/events/14295

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Start Without Me – It’s for when one of us is too tired, or not in the mood, or out of town, or the other of us is too horny to wait. But now, here, right in front of me, you’re touching yourself, playing yourself, and it is the fucking hottest thing I’ve ever seen.

Wicked Tongues - There are so many different ways that a mouth can connect themselves with my cunt. And so many partners, each with their own way of connecting with me.

“Vanilla” Bigotry – I effectively retired my personal usage of the word “vanilla” when one of these sick fucks told me that he hated that term. He said it was condescending, and the implication that kinky people have any idea what goes on in other people’s bedrooms just because they aren’t fucking around in a dungeon was ridiculous.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Audible – More hushed giggles, more kissing sounds. A gasp followed immediately by a quiet, restrained moan. I had to make up the images in my head, try to picture what caused that gasp, who’s mouth was on what body part. Or was it even a mouth?

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Swing Shift Volume 33- We’re “Sexually Festive!” – What I do know is that I love Veronica now more than ever, that we choose our extra-marital partners with care and respect, and never fail to remember that our primary relationship is the most important one.  If we’re considered sluts or promiscuous by others, so what?

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Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

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Controlling or Petty?
Dating and Fucking
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The Good Kind of Wake-up Call
That Kind Of Girl…Who Gets Off In A Crowded Bar
The Hammer
The Threesome
The Golden Goddess
The Stranger
The realest thing
Wicked Wednesday: Date Night

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Location: Bluestockings Bookstore
Street: 172 Allen St., NYC

Body Heat is a fierce, sassy, irreverent Femme artist collective setting performance art communities ablaze and smashing Femme stereotypes. They’ll challenge your assumptions, entertain the hell out of you, and leave you panting and begging for more!

Armed with an arsenal of erotic song, dance, camp, poetry, smut, and prose Body Heat was hailed by the Center for Sex Positive Culture (Seattle, WA.) as “The best Femme porn writers in the country.” These `pull no punches,’ `it’s never too nasty,’ power femmes are touring to support and promote queer femmes and their contributions to erotica, the sex industry and the sex-positive movement. Thru the use of art and performance they are literally, visually, emotionally, psychologically and socially revealing a more complex sexual identity for queer femmes.

The line-up will feature :

• Kathleen Delaney (Atlanta, GA.)–Body Heat founder and spoken-word performer
• Meliza Bañales (San Francisco, CA)–Sister Spit vet, former slam champion, filmmaker, writer
• Jen Cross (San Francisco, CA)–published author and sex-workshop facilitator
• Nicky Click (Durham, NH)–Nationally renowned singer / performer
• Alex Cafarelli (Oakland, CA.)–martial artist, writer, versatile performer, and Psycick Slutz co-founder
• Vagina Jenkins (Atlanta, GA)–The Queen of Queer burlesque
• with special guests:
• Diana Cage (NYC)–former On Our Backs editor, radio personality, and acclaimed author
• Gigi Frost (Boston, MA)–The Femme Show founder & performer
• J. Dellecave (Riverside, CA)–dancer and performance artist extraordinaire

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Thursday, March 11
Queens BDSM Munch
NYC TNG Party Night
Impact

Friday, March 12
ClubFEM NYC Munch
DSF: “Constructing Grand SM scenes – thinking out of the box” w/ Master Virage
Mr. Rawhide Meet and Greet

Saturday, March 13
Mr Rawhide Leather Contest www.mrrawhidenyc.blogspot.com
CHOMP
Poly Patao Productions: “Afternoon Delight”
DSF: “The skills emporium- “An educated Sm’er is always the best SM’er.”
NYboL Uniform Party

Sunday, March 14
New York Bondage Club

Monday, March 15

Tuesday, March 16
TES: ” RACE: The final Frontier” with Mollena Williams

Wednesday, March 17
TES Dominant Woman/Submissive men’s Group: “Qualities of Great Tops and Bottoms” w/ Margaret Davis

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Where: Happy Ending Lounge
Address: 302 Broome Street (Between Forsyth & Eldridge.), NYC
Directions: (B/D to Grand, J/M/Z to Bowery, F to Delancey or F/V to 2nd Avenue, )  Look for the hot pink awning that says “XIE HE Health Club.”
Cost: Free

Get kinky with memoir writers, BDSM educators, erotica authors, a porn star, and more at In The Flesh. Featuring Melissa Febos (author of dominatrix memoir Whip Smart), blogger Selina Fire (Pleasure Salon), rope bondage expert Monk (Twistedmonk.com), Julie Powell (author of Cleaving and Julie and Julia), erotica writer Xan West (contributor, Best SM Erotica 3), Mollena Williams (author, “BDSM and Playing with Race” in Best Sex Writing 2010, BDSM educator Lolita Wolf (LeatherYenta.com) and feminist porn star Madison Young (MadisonBound.com). Hosted and curated by Rachel Kramer Bussel (Best Sex Writing 2010, Bottoms Up, Spanked, Yes, Sir, Yes, Ma’am). Prize giveaways sponsored by Kink Academy (shirt, journal, purse, aftercare blanket, memberships and more) and Eden Fantasys (suede flogger and faux fur bondage cuffs). Authors’ books will be available for sale by Mobile Libris. Free cupcakes by Baked by Melissa along with chips, candy and other snacks will be served.

In the Flesh is a monthly reading series hosted at the appropriately named Happy Ending Lounge, and features the country’s best erotic writers sharing stories to get you hot and bothered, hosted and curated by acclaimed erotic writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel.

Full writeup and reader bios  here.

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Location: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th Street (bet 7th and 8th Ave.)
Cost: $5/LSM members, $10/Non members

If you have ever had a scene that lured you with the promise of edgy intensity, but wondered if you could handle the situation before, during or afterward, this discussion is for you! We will explore the reasons some people enjoy play that is VERY edgy psychologically, emotionally and physically, and how you can go about making that fantasy a reality. Inherent in this discussion is the level of responsibility of both / all partners, how to manage risk, and how you can support your partner in the aftermath. Edgy play can be hot, and we will look at ways to avoid some common pitfalls, as well as how to recover with grace and honor when things go off of the planned path.

*Please be advised: Some highly controversial scenes (i.e. racial or incest play, weaponry, etc.) will be discussed. Please do not attend if these are outside of your comfort zone.

About Mollena Williams

Mollena Williams is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, solo-performer, BDSM Educator and Executive Pervert. She travels hither and yon speaking on a broad spectrum of subjects within the Leather Lifestyle. She’s a founding member of the Crowded Fire Theater Company, lives in San Francisco and blogs at The Perverted Negress. She is also proud to have been awarded the title Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009.

With over 12 years of experience in the BDSM and Alternative community she frequently travels nationally, teaching Leather Lifestyle Classes. Her work has been published by the Society Of Janus Newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Society’s magazine, Prometheus, as well as the online magazine at ALT.COM and Bondage.com. She was interviewed for The Bottoming Book, ColorLines Magazine, and the award winning documentary “Vice & Consent”. She also get all tied up in the instructional video, Jay Wiseman Teaches Rope Bondage. Her essay entitled “BDSM and Race Play” will be appearing in the upcoming Best Sex Writing 2010.

About LSM

LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. And, who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way.

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Thursday, March 4
The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue party: Liquid Latex Spring Metamorphosis!

Friday, March 5
Apple Munch
DSF: “Mummification: The Bound Body Altar” w/ Klawdya Rothschild
Eagle NYC: ”Full Fetish Friday”

Saturday, March 6
Rope Share w/ Lolita Wolf
NYC TNG General Munch

Sunday, March 7
MAsT MetroNY: “Demystifying the pedestal”
New York Bondage Club

Monday, March 8
CV: TBA

Tuesday, March 9
TES: “Erogenous Torture Workshop: Dicks, clits and nipples” w/ Madame Sade

Wednesday, March 10
TES Novice Group: “Fem Domme Kink Academy” w/ Princess Kali

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Men, Women, Trans, Welcome!

In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety.

Participants must be over 18yr.

Location: Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site) Specific building number will be emailed upon registration.
Cost: $25- per person
Instructor: Lolita Wolf
Assistant instructor: V

Participants must be over 18.

The Rope Share is a bondage workshop that is structured to fit your skill levels and interests. There is one highly skilled rope instructor and one teaching assistant. The attendance will be limited to 12 students.

This month’s Rope Share workshop is a concentrated class for the beginner/novice. The instructor will teach you the basics of safety, negotiations and the elemental ties needed to start your bondage exploration.

This is a lab-environment setting and we will practice on one another. Please be open to both tie and be tied for the sake of education. Please wear comfortable clothing as there is no nudity during the class.

Bring Rope: 4 lengths of 25ft. rope; 2 lengths of 50ft.; and safety scissors. Cotton, nylon, hemp, and jute are all fine.

To sign up, send an email to RopeShare@gmail.com. Title the subject line as “Novice Rope Share Sign Up” and
include the following information in your email:

1. Your name (Scene name or legal)
2. Contact number and email address
3. Rope bondage experience and skill level ( Please be brief)
4. What you are interested in learning
5. How you heard about this workshop

Sign up now as places are expected to fill quickly! Beginners to advanced rope players are all welcome!! If you have never tried rope before, but are curious, this is a safe space to share and learn rope bondage.

Lolita Wolf discovered the BDSM scene back in the late 80’s when “online” meant being on the phone sex lines. She is an activist who defends the sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains “to have fun.” Lolita has learned her rope skills from Midori’s Rope Dojo and from many other instructors at Shibaricon, and many other events.  Lolita has taught workshops for organizations and events across the country, and  is well-known for a fun and entertaining style. She is co-facilitator of the TES Bondage Group. Lolita is an Emeritus Board Member of of both TES and Leather Leadership Conference. She is a former Chair of Lesbian Sex Mafia, an honorary member of GMSMA and an Associate Member of New York boys of Leather. She is active with National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and Leather Pride Night. Her writing has appeared in On Our backs and Prometheus magazines and she has authored two books: Spanking and CBT in a Nutshell.

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Where:  Lesbian Gay Bisexual & Transgender Community Center, 208 West 13th Street, Manhattan
Cost: Single $350, Pair $600

Are you SERIOUS about improving your rope bondage skills? Do you want to erotically please and sexually pleasure your partner using rope? Do you want to learn how to be a better bottom or receiver of rope pleasures? Ready to get to the next level of education? Do you want to do safer rope suspension bondage the right way?

If so, you’ll love Rope Bondage Dojo®.

It’s designed with a multi skill-level layered education style to create an exceptional learning experience for both the experienced and novice players.

In two days, your rope skills will improve dramatically through16 hours of concentrated, personalized and hands-on education by Midori and DeLano, two of the best instructors around. It’s a weekend-long immersion and training course unlike any other!

For more information: http://www.ropedojo.com/home/?cat=7

To register: https://fire-horse-productions-inc1.ticketleap.com/NYCDojo2010

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Thursday, February 25
Hot Knots

Friday, February 26
DSF: “The Humble Clothespin, Instrument of Beauty & Torture” w/ Earthwalker & TylerRose

Saturday, February 27

Sunday, February 28
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Monday, March 1
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Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #9? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

This Isn’t Play. . . BDSM and Rape – The very basic principle that we hold so dear in BDSM play, “Nothing without consent” seems to stand in stark contrast to a very common form of play, “Rape Play”.

Half-Full – When I get my ass beaten, is it as much for the sensation as it is for the “Good girl…I knew you could take that for me.” that I want so badly at the close of the scene?

House Party Part 2 -His wife walked by at one point and he cryptically asked her to “do what she did to so-and-so earlier”. His wife disappeared behind me, but I felt her hands touching me and his cock as it entered me.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Backseat Orgasms - We kissed lightly and without focus, both a sensual act and maddening at the same time. More, I needed more. In a blur I was on my knees on the seat, straddling his leg, his mouth latched onto one nipple and his fingers hunting for the key to undoing my dress pants.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Are You Watching Me? – A plan of devious proportions begins to form. Before this is over with, I will have forced you into a corner…forced you to act…forced you to give ME what I want.

See also: Pleasurists #64 and 65 for all your sex toy review needs.

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Nothing says I love you quite like…
Playful and Dangerous
Play your part
Plotter
Splish Splash
The Library Hotel
The Secret I Couldn’t Keep
Triple X
Three A.M. Surprise

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Anatomy of Desire (PT. Two)
Better Cautious Than Raped
Lingerie Tales Vol 1 An Obsession Begins
My life as a gamer’s slave
Perplexed
Saturday Texting
So Simple
The Elusive Female Orgasm
The G Spot Mouse or How To Make A Woman Squirt
Transtastic: On Language

Kink & Fetish

A No Limits Slave?
Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?
BDSM Advice Series: Pet Play
Bondage 101—Part 1: Bondage Basics
Breaking the Demons
Dark/DirtyBlog Crush
Factory Doll
Hand vs. toys
I’m on a book cover: ‘The Punishment List’ by Abel
Kink
Men as sex objects
Rough Porn
Raleigh and La Fortress
Savouring the texture of my skin with his teeth
The Way They Look At Me
The Slut Chronicles #13 ~ The Auction
Whither the spankosphere?

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Happy Valentines Day!
Hookers, Catholic School Students and Facebook
Lane Bryant Makes Puppies and Kittens Cry
Pussy Cosmetics and Vagina Myths

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Seymore Butts and Mari Possa from Paulie & Pauline's "Off the Set"

I used to have a link post, but I think that’s too easily confused with the links I’m posting on Delicious – so I’ve renamed it. Here’s a collection of links, from Twitter and my inbox, that I want you to know about:

A second KinkforAll in Washington, DC is in the works: http://kinkforall.pbworks.com/KinkForAllWashingtonDC2.

Furry Girl’s strap-on project, CockSexual is now live, and it’s hot.

The SF Site has a lengthy review of the Arse Elektronika anthology, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?

LustCinema.com  is now hosting the work of German photographer Kristyan Geyr, and fetish filmmaker Maria Beatty.

Get whipped on your lunch break: Domina-mobile. (Thanks, E!)

Cameryn Moore is a phone sex operator and performance artist.

Supervert’s new book, Perversity Think Tank is out. It attempts to formulate a philosophical conception of sexual perversion: what is perversity?

JuicyPinkBox, which just debuted two shorts at this weekend’s Cinekink festival,  is casting for its next erotica series, Therapy.

The first episode from Em & Lo’s new 10 part series from Alive Mind Media, Sex: How to Do Everything is now available online. Use the coupon code WATCHEMLO (valid until 2/28/10).

The CW network is now casting for a show called Secrets. They’re looking for women in their 20’s who are struggling with an intimacy addiction and
are trying to maintain their “perfect image” on a daily basis.

Photographers Paulie and Pauline’s book, Off the Set, is a fine art photography book showing the real private lives of adult entertainment stars. It comes out April 2nd. A selection of photos may be viewed here.

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My pals MayMay and Emma have entered the Young Visionaries Contest being run by the International Women’s Health Coalition (IWHC). The contest winner receives a $1,000 USD grant to fund a project that will create lasting change in the world and advocate for the rights and health of women and young people worldwide.

Their project proposal called SexEdEverywhere, involves creating a new media campaign and network of educational websites based on the premise that we learn about sex in many locations and from a variety of sources, not just health class in schools. The funding and recognition from the IWHC can seriously help their vision a reality.

Having been involved with helping organize Kinkforall(s) and been a guest on KinkonTap a few times, I know they are extremely passionate about, and extremely competent at,  spreading knowledge and helping educate young people about sex and sexuality.

You can read more about the project and also vote by visiting http://j.mp/seeiwhc. Make sure you click on the “Vote!” button on the first screen. No signup necessary.

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In my bedroom, I slip on my cock while she reapplies her lipstick. I pull her on top of me as I lay down on the bed and kiss her neck, her face. She gets breathless. Sucks in air as her mouth waters and tongue swells, I can see it, despite her lips already being darkened. I slide two fingers into her mouth, feel her tongue, push them just past the first knuckle so she can lick around the pads with her tongue. She closes her eyes and moans.

“Hmm, you like that?”

She moans a little. It’s not really a question I expect an answer to.

“Ready to get that lipstick all over my cock?” She looks up at me, gasps and her chest collapses a little, shuddering and giving in toward me. I grab her hair. Our lips are nearly touching. I run my fingers down her cheek and jaw and notice a smear of lipstick that must’ve been on them, from putting them in her mouth.

“Yes, ohhh,” she breathes softly. “I want to make you feel good.”

I lay back on the bed, hand in her hair, the other on her shoulder or arm or wrist. She positions her mouth over my cock. rings her fingers around the shaft slowly as she lets her mouth water, parts her lips, watches it in her hand as if it is getting bigger at her touch. I practically feel it quivering. Underneath, my clit swells and strains to feel her lips, to be swallowed in her mouth too.

When her lips finally touch it, it is always a revelation, always a surprise, how much I feel it, how much tenderness is in her light kisses, the soft soft pillows of her inner lips, her sweet wet mouth and tongue. She coos a little and I can’t help but to moan, she gulps down thick breaths of air when she pulls her mouth up and off, holds my cock her in her hand softly. Licks just the tip with her tongue.

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This sexual roundelay about power and powerlessness, about the imagination butting up against so-called “reality,” is played out by two contemporary characters. As it begins, we sit facing Thomas (Wes Bentley), a playwright who has written an adaptation of “Venus in Furs.” He’s in a rehearsal studio—a grayish, minimal, anonymous space with fluorescent track lighting. He is talking on the phone to his fiancée, at the end of a long day of auditions for his play; he wants to get home. We can hear thunder and rain outside. But no sooner has Thomas put down the phone than Vanda (the phenomenal Nina Arianda) enters, dressed in a trenchcoat and carrying a broken umbrella. Vanda is like the weather: a force of nature that drenches whoever gets caught up in its sway. She wants to know if she can audition for Thomas. He tries to brush her off, but the brassy Vanda sets about to convince him that she’s the only woman who can play the part. Sometimes she throws him a compliment; sometimes she tries to appear helpless, which she is not at all. She’s simply testing Thomas’s “maleness”—that is, his desire to be counted on, to be admired, to be “Daddy.” Would he like her to wear a white dress for the audition? she asks. (Thomas is too shocked or timid to mention the bondage-like gear that Vanda has on under her coat when she arrives.) Donning the white dress, she asks is it “real 1870”? She wants to know what kind of accent she should use to play Wanda, the dominating woman whom Severin eventually meets at the spa. When Thomas still doesn’t know how to respond, Vanda just does her thing. And, as soon as she starts to read, she’s no longer Vanda but Wanda, a measured woman with impeccable Continental diction. The transformation is subtle and not so subtle—acting is Vanda’s bag, and it becomes ours, too, as we watch Thomas become more and more powerless in the presence of her unconquerable vitality, her seductive energy.

-Hilton Als, writing in the New Yorker

I ventured out in during the snow day to see it, and it was totally worth the messy trip.  CSC is a small theater and this play is performed in 90 minutes with no intermission. The chemistry and power exchange that develops between the actors, both in the play and the play-within-a play, are riveting.. I’ve been telling everyone to see it. I found out from my pal Thor that the run has been extended until March 28rd. If you hunt around the internet, you may be able to get discounted tickets. If you’ve never read the book, you can find it at the Gutenberg Project.

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Thursday, February 18
CINEKINK NYC
TES Queer SIG: “Making It Last: Long-term Gay Master/slave Relationships” w/ david stein
Staten Island Kink munch
Alphabet Soup

Friday, February 19
CINEKINK NYC
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Saturday, February 20
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STIMULATE party: “The Post-Valentine’s Blood Massacre”

Sunday, February 21
Instigate NYC: “Film Presentation – Graphic Sexual Horror
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Monday, February 22
CV: “Menace” w/ Rob
Coco De Mer: “The Art of the Joystick Salon” w/ Midori

Tuesday, February 23
TES: “Sex in the City” w/ Susan Wright
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Wednesday, February 24
TES TNG: “Flogging & Whips” w/ Bo
Coco de Mer: “Hands On Rope Bondage” w/ Midori

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A totally unique way to grow your sexuality.

Facilitated by Amy Jo Goddard, M.A. in NYC

Are you ready to own your sexuality, to reclaim it, heal it and celebrate it? Women need a safe space in which to heal, explore, examine and learn about their sexuality. In this sex-positive space, women will be able to do the deep work on their sexual selves that can empower and affect every aspect of their being.

This apprenticeship will be a combination of deep work on the sexual self through discussion, coaching and self-exploration; examination of our sexual history and patterns; and education about sexuality and the sexual body. It will involve homework in between classes, allow participants to develop sexual/relational skills through guided exercises, push boundaries, and ask that people bring their whole selves to the process. It is a rare opportunity to dive deeply into the study and development of our own sexual selves. Women of all sexual orientations and backgrounds are welcome.

About the Facilitator
Amy Jo Goddard is a professional sexuality educator, writer, filmmaker, and sex and relationship coach. Amy Jo’s background includes a Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education, training as a sex coach, 15 years of experience teaching sexuality to adults, youth and children, extensive training in group process and facilitation, work as a comprehensive sexuality education and l/g/b/t issues advocate, writing about sexuality and sexual identity, working as a college instructor in New York City and teaching gynecology in medical schools, providing trainings on sexuality issues to professionals including how to address sexuality as service providers, ritual and shamanistic work, connection and service to women’s communities, and her own deep work as a sexual being.

For more information on this unique program, please go to www.amyjogoddard.com.
To request a free consultation or ask questions, please email amyjo at amyjogoddard dot com.

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Cost: Sliding scale – suggested donation $10-15. No one turned away for lack of funds.
For Fatties, their Friends & Fiends! All sizes encouraged to come!

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Christina Hendrick’s on the cover of  the Spring Fashion issue of New York Magazine.

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