Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Feb 25th, 2010
Report: Teen gets 15 years for Facebook blackmail | Digital Media – CNET News – A Wisconsin teenager convicted of using Facebook to blackmail classmates into sex was sentenced to 15 years in prison, according to an Associated Press report.
Apple creating “explicit” category for App Store | TUAW -
Ask an Expert: How to Watch Porn [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Feb 16th, 2010
Buzz off: Disabling Google Buzz | Webware – CNET – Instructions on purging your profile, blocking followers, then turning off Google Buzz.
Google Says Buzz Needed Wider Testing, Issuing Fixes This Week – google buzz – Lifehacker – In one week, Google's Buzz social network has moved through a splashy launch, a quick fix, a major [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Feb 11th, 2010
The "groundbreaking sex robot" Roxxxy is neither groundbreaking nor a true robot. – By Veronica Belmont – Slate Magazine – The "groundbreaking sex robot" is neither groundbreaking nor a true robot.
The 6 Weirdest Things Women Do to Their Vaginas | AlterNet –
Why I Had to Stop Making Hardcore Porn | Sex & Relationships | [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Dec 19th, 2009
Man on Man: The New Gay Romance (LA WeeklyO – In many ways the growing popularity of gay romance represents nothing less than a tectonic shift in a culture that says women don’t (and shouldn’t) consume porn. Hot and steamy gay-romance literature is to women what Internet porn is to men: They get off on [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Dec 17th, 2009
Facebook’s “Privacy Fiasco” Reaches New Milestone With FTC Complaint – Unfortunately for Facbeook, a group of ten privacy and consumer groups announced today that they have filed a complaint with the FTC, alleging that the the privacy-policy changes violate federal law.
Facebook | Updates on Your New Privacy Tools –
Project ‘Gaydar’: An MIT experiment raises [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 30th, 2009
Keep Your Passwords Private–and Handy–With LastPass – PC World – To guard against password thieves, I use LastPass. The tool offers a free password-managing add-on for Firefox on Windows, Linux, or Mac OS X; Internet Explorer on Windows; and Safari on Mac OS X.
How to Use Twitter Lists To Create Reputation Management Problems – So [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Nov 20th, 2009
WordCamp NYC – AtD Wrap Up « After the Deadline – Presentation by Raphael Mudge, developer of the After The Deadline plugin – spelling and grammar checker.
Belle de Jour: On science and prostitution – CultureLab – New Scientist –
NYC wireless Hotspots status map –
Professional Facebook privacy in under 10 minutes | Lawyerist – [...]
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Posted in bloggers, sex blogs on Nov 20th, 2009
(…) What it took me years to realise is that while I’ve changed a lot since writing these diaries – my life has moved on so much, in part thanks to the things that happened then – Belle will always be a part of me. She doesn’t belong in a little box, but as a [...]
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Posted in Blogging on Nov 16th, 2009
(…) A better example of someone operating on her own terms it’s hard to imagine. Anonymous bloggers everywhere can read Belle’s story and take heart in the fact that it really is possible to be both successful and anonymous in the Internet age.
There’s just one problem: it isn’t.
Let’s give Belle and the Sunday Times the [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us, sex on Oct 27th, 2009
These are my links for October 25th through October 26th:
Scary Sex Toys – Sex Toys That Are More Scary Than Sexy | Cory Silverberg – the sex toys below are ghoulish not just in their looks, but in misguided conception, poor design, and sometimes obvious danger.
Social Networking – Legal and Ethical Issues for Lawyers and [...]
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Posted in privacy on Jun 24th, 2009
Let us be clear: this is not a fight between ‘old’ and ‘new’ media. This not about blogger vengeance or a mob mentality wanting to lay in to print media. This is about journalistic integrity, immorality, and a few unethical hacks desperate to make their mark in the newspaper industry.
The digital age has given people [...]
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Posted in social media on Jun 18th, 2009
As a prosecutor, the first thing I do when I get a case is to Google the victim, the suspect, and all the material witnesses. I run them all through Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, You Tube and see what I might get. I also do a “Google image search” and see what pops up. Sometimes there’s [...]
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Posted in Blogging on Nov 21st, 2008
Intro To Sex Blogging
View SlideShare presentation or Upload your own. (tags: sex security)
Here are my slides from Monday’s talk at Conversio Virium. I spent much more time talking about sexual privacy than about setup and promotion. Thanks again to Elizabeth and MayMay for the opportunity to speak. This presentation is available on the Blogging page.
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Posted in privacy on Oct 23rd, 2008
. . . Facebook’s privacy settings are the most flexible and the most confusing privacy settings in the industry. Over and over again, I interview teens (and adults) who think that they’ve set their privacy settings to do one thing and are shocked (and sometimes horrified) to learn that their privacy settings do something else. [...]
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Posted in privacy, security on Oct 9th, 2008
I used to use the AddThis bookmarking widget, because it let users add content to many different services and didn’t look too cluttered.
My friend JC forwarded me an email from the WWWAC list. Addthis was bought by ClearSpring last month. Starting yesterday today, they are now slipping a ClearSpring Flash Tracker Object into all [...]
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Posted in google, security, sex on Aug 22nd, 2008
Let’s talk security and why you should take advantage of Gmail’s recent SSL feature, and why you might want to be careful using other non-SSL webmail services.
But first, make sure your connection is secured using SSL.
How do you know a connection is secured by SSL? The handy “s” after “http” will tell you. For example, [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Jun 4th, 2008
5 Tips Every Traveler Should Know About Internet Security
But if we do stop to think about it, internet cafe computers (and any information you send or access from them) are clearly vulnerable. Fortunately, protecting yourself is not very difficult.
(tags: privacy)
Will the Success of Sex and the City Force Hollywood to Stop Ignoring Women? | Movie [...]
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Posted in privacy, sexbloggers on May 27th, 2008
…In all this time, only three people have tied the real person to the blog without my help. One was told the URL by an irate friend; I am now at peace about this. The other two people, my parents, were told by God. I am most decidedly not at peace about [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 22nd, 2008
Study: Big Brother IS Watching At Work
The study, conducted by Proofpoint, shows 41 percent of large U.S. companies — those with 20,000 or more employees — admit to having staff members in charge of monitoring or analyzing outgoing emails.
(tags: privacy)
Japanese and their strange fetishes
Bebigyaru is an adult site with pictures of women dressed in diapers.
(tags: [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 15th, 2008
pretty dumb things: on clowns and fear, itself
Fear is a lot bigger in our heads than it is in real life. In real life, it’s almost always not that bad. And here’s the other thing: those people who wanted to instill fear in me by attempting to out my blog identity to my students, they [...]
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Posted in privacy, security on May 15th, 2008
Last month a US court ruled that border agents can search your laptop, or any other electronic device, when you’re entering the country. They can take your computer and download its entire contents, or keep it for several days. Customs and Border Patrol has not published any rules regarding this practice, and I and others [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on May 9th, 2008
Choice USA – Leadership for a Pro-Choice Future
Talk Sex with Sue Johanson will end its run at midnight this Sunday on Oxygen.
(tags: sex sextoys)
Death of the D.C. Madam hits home / Violet Blue shows the side of sex work you won’t see anywhere but in new media
Unlike outlets like Salon who still insist on calling [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 29th, 2008
Suzanne Portnoy: What Your Parents Don’t Know Can Hurt Them – The Huffington Post
My parents may not live my life, but they are happy I have found happiness on my own terms. They don’t judge, but they know they themselves are judged. “It doesn’t bother me,” my mother once told me, “but I don’t want [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 11th, 2008
AlwaysArousedGirl » Puppy Pile
“Just like dipping into a bucket of KFC,” I pointed out as they fucked, rubbed, pinched and licked me into a screaming orgasm, which could not have been any stronger even if all of us hadn’t been laughing in a manner unlike anything ever shown in po
(tags: sex sexblogs)
I Have an Election [...]
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Sex 2.0 will focus on the intersection of social media, feminism, and sexuality. How is social media enabling people to learn, grow, and connect sexually? How is sexual expression tied to social activism? Does the concept of transparency online offer new opportunities or present new roadblocks — or both? These questions, and many more, [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 7th, 2008
Sexual-Eccentricity: Saturday Night Fever
I reached down between her legs and started stroking her again. She kneeled on the couch around my waist so that her cock was up on my chest.
(tags: sexblogs transsexual)
Sex offender satellite suffers serious flaws (Shake Well Before Use)
A satellite system devoted to tracking sex offenders recently released from prison suffered from [...]
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Posted in del.icio.us on Apr 1st, 2008
Suzanne Portnoy
…he very quickly realised the way my pussy works, massaging my clit so gently, teasing it so lovingly that I had more orgasms in a single night (and day) than I can recall having in a very long time.
(tags: sex sexblogs)
Rise Up: Eon McKai’s “The Doll Underground” (Fleshbot)
So even if “The Doll Underground” isn’t [...]
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Posted in sex on Mar 17th, 2008
Against Sexual Scandal (Lauren Berlant | The Nation)
Instead, what stories like this really do is to damage the reputation of sex. Whenever there’s a sex scandal, I feel sorry for sex.
(tags: sex)
WNYC – The Brian Lehrer Show: Revelation Number Nine (March 11, 2008)
Eliot Spitzer’s governorship is in turmoil. What are the implications for New York [...]
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Posted in sex on Mar 1st, 2008
violet blue™ :: open source sex | “shockingly, the internet does not rape your children”
Janis Wolak and co-researchers examined several fears about child sexual predators online — and they concluded that many are myths.
(tags: internet crime research)
Your Privacy Is An Illusion: Why Facebook employees are profiling users
The claimed abuses varied: Looking at restricted profiles to [...]
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Posted in sex on Feb 29th, 2008
Kink.com Hires New Public Relations Manager – XBIZ.com
Veteran writer and sex educator Roche will help company to focus on community-based outreach and kink-positive message
(tags: kink.com)
One D at a Time: Got My Swerve On With A Curved One
Needless to say, I ended up having sex with that dick (not the chocolate one, but the original that’s [...]
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