Male bisexuality faces a double standard within kink communities. Whereas female bisexuality is encouraged—indeed, presumed—male bisexuality is often denied or suppressed.
A couple of years ago, Jefferson started teaching a class on the place of male bisexuality within alternative sex cultures. Next Tuesday, June 3, he’s teaching it in New York for the first time, at [...]
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Hello!
My name is Carmen Machado, and I’m a filmmaker in Washington, DC. I am currently producing a short segment of a documentary (working title: “AmBIguous Dating”) on bisexual dating. The segment is being directed by filmmaker Giovanna Chesler (her website can be found here).
As two bisexual women who are also navigating the world of dating, [...]
Fleshbot and Jack U Off
Posted in anal, bisexual, fleshbot, g spot, orgasm, sex, sex blog on Jan 5th, 2008
This week’s Sex Blog Roundup at Fleshbot is for those who resolve to keep it fresh in the new year. It ain’t necessarily the same old same old.
Those of you who enjoy stalking me will find me disturbing breath, taking in waifs and watching Letterman.
Lily writes me with the news that we’ll [...]
Celebrate Bisexuality Day
Posted in bisexual on Sep 23rd, 2007
Today is Celebrate Bisexuality Day.
Check out the Bisexuality Resource Center, and this year’s events.
Take a moment to remember Brenda Howard.
Join the LiveJournal Bisexual community.
How am I celebrating? I’ll be spending it with several of my dearest (bisexual) blogger friends. And reflecting back on the where I was last week, amongst my DO cabinmates.
How you’ve all [...]
Sugasm #93
Posted in bisexual, bondage, erotica, galleries, intercourse, sex, sexbloggers, sexblogs on Aug 21st, 2007
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #94? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Between Baths
“His tongue [...]
Sugasm #86
Posted in bisexual, bondage, erotica, galleries, intercourse, sex, sex blogs, sexblogs on Jul 2nd, 2007
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #87? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Ménage
“Sometimes, she’s even [...]
Sugasm #85
Posted in bisexual, bondage, erotica, galleries, intercourse, roundup, sex, sex blogs, sexblogs on Jun 25th, 2007
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #86? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
A Little Fun at Home (fexual-strustration.blogspot.com…)
“She surprised herself when her fingers found the actual ice [...]
Sugasm #84
Posted in bisexual, bondage, erotica, galleries, intercourse, roundup, sex, sex blogs, sexblogs on Jun 18th, 2007
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #85? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
C’s Little Witch (un-cool.blogspot.com…)
“Tom wrote on his blog I would do anything carnal to please [...]
Sugasm #83
Posted in bisexual, bondage, erotica, fucking, galleries, gay, intercourse, roundup, sex, sex blogs, sexblogs on Jun 11th, 2007
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #84? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
Saying No (lafillemariee.blogspot.com…)
“Would saying no really make it all okay?”
Beyond slutdom (junohenry.wordpress.com…)
“My eclectic slutfest continues, [...]
Looking both ways with Jennifer Baumgardner
Posted in Jennifer Baumgardner, bisexual on Apr 16th, 2007
Feministing has a lengthy interview with Jennifer Baumgardner, author of Look Both Ways: Bisexual Politics:
With Look Both Ways, I wanted to talk about bisexuality and younger feminists–and the phenomenon of younger women, ostensibly straight, dating women that I didn’t see so openly replicated among men. More than that, though, I didn’t really feel equipped to [...]
Metacognition (One Life Take Two)
Posted in Afrodite Superstar, Bi Apple, Jamye Waxman, Mister Marcus, Simone Valentino, Valerie Harper, Veronica Vera, audacia ray, bisexual, candidaroyalle, porn, sex, sex blog, sexblog on Mar 24th, 2007
“I’m not sure where we are speaking,” Simone said, looking around the conference room. “I mean, the chairs are arranged here, so maybe we’re talking before the movie?”
“They wouldn’t have you speak beforehand, would they?” I asked. “How would the Q&A work?”
“The screening is in the theater,” Dacia said. “You’re probably talking afterwards. The chairs [...]
Sharing the Love (Sex in the City - The Real Version)
Posted in bisexual, bisexual, bloggers, sexbloggers, sexblogs on Mar 21st, 2007
Martin and I go to a party for my bisexual support group. It’s a party in which we all perform: I play guitar and sing, and then read from my Penthouse Forum porn column, and others read poetry, perform music, or read their own work. At the end of the evening they ask me to [...]
Bisexual Healing (In These Times)
Posted in Jennifer Baumgardner, bisexual, bisexual on Mar 18th, 2007
By Jessica ClarkLook Both Ways: Bisexual PoliticsBy Jennifer BaumgardnerFarrar, Straus and Giroux · $24.00
Cringing is often a sign of unfinished political business,” according to feminist author Jennifer Baumgardner.
She should know. Since 2002, Baumgardner has been spearheading the confessional “I had an abortion” campaign—most recently captured in the documentary film Speak Out: I Had an Abortion [...]
Fleshbot and Girls Next Door
Posted in Jefferson, Playboy, bisexual, blowjob, fleshbot, roundup, sex blog, sexblog, sexblogs on Mar 16th, 2007
This week’s Sex Blog Roundup at Fleshbot pays a social call on the girls next door, those neighborly gals who seem just like your sister or mom—though the stories they tell have no place at family hour.
Speaking of the girls next door, pay a visit to the girls in the next blog. I have recently [...]
Sarah Aswell tracks down the duclod man:
As early as 1992, students at Grinnell College, a small liberal arts school in Iowa, began receiving strange, anonymous letters in the mail. The letters contained homemade greeting cards with crudely drawn pictures—men crawling on the ground, toilets and trash cans, twin closet doors—and jokes that didn’t make any [...]
Call for Submissions: Beyond Masculinity
Posted in bisexual, gay, lbgt, masculinity, queer on Mar 1st, 2007
Deadline extended until May 31st!
Gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer men’s gender identities often exist somewhere outside the traditional categories of “masculine” and “feminine.” Sissies, drag queens, and leather daddies alike play with gender in a way that cannot be accounted for in traditional understandings of maleness. This collection — part blog, part anthology, part [...]
Fleshbot and Vanessa del Rio (One Life, Take Two)
Posted in GAYVN, Jefferson, Vanessa del Rio, babes, bisexual, fleshbot, galleries, gay, naked, nude, porn, roundup, sexblogs on Mar 1st, 2007
This week’s Sex Blog Roundup at Fleshbot comes a bit late, as my colleagues were up to their teabags with gay porn stars at last weekend’s GAYVN.
Alas, I missed those festivities in San Francisco, stuck as I was in snowy New York, churning my own smut of the boy-on-boy (-on-boy-on-boy . . . ) persuasion.
At [...]
Fleshbot and Emo
Posted in Jefferson, My Chemical Romance, bisexual, fleshbot, roundup, sex, sex blog, sexblog, sexblogs on Feb 9th, 2007
This week’s Sex Blog Roundup at Fleshbot takes us into the boy’s room to find that the fellows come in all flavors—from porn star to devoted hubby, from philosopher to sissy. Be careful, though; these gents are the ones your mama warned you about.
Except Rupert. Even my mama couldn’t have dreamed this one up. I [...]
Three Awesome Upcoming Things
Posted in $pread, art, audacia ray, bisexual, porn, porno on Feb 9th, 2007
I have been and will be really busy for the next few months, but it’s not the kind of busy I was in the fall, it’s the kind of busy where I leave my house and am social. Here’s what’s shakin’!
Monday, February 19th - 8 to 9.30 pm: $pread ReadingBowery Poetry Club: 308 Bowery @ [...]
Gay teens coming Out Earlier to Peers and Family (USA Today)
Posted in bisexual, coming out, gay, lesbian, teenager, transgender on Feb 8th, 2007
Kate Haigh, 18, a high school senior in St. Paul, recalls attending her first meeting at the school’s Gay-Straight Alliance club when she was in the ninth grade. “I said, ‘My name is Kate, and I’m a lesbian.’ It was so liberating. I felt like something huge had been lifted off my shoulders, and finally [...]
By Jennifer Baumgardner. Farrar, Straus and Giroux. $24.Book Review By Ann Friedman
Americans tend to see bisexual women in one of two ways: Either they’re lesbians in denial, or they’re “lesbians until graduation” who sleep with women while they pursue gender studies degrees and then go back to dating men. In Look Both Ways, Jennifer Baumgardner [...]
Sugasm #63
Posted in Met-Art, babes, bdsm, bisexual, bloggers, bondage, erotica, fucking, galleries, gay, intercourse, kink, naked, nude, porn, sex, sex blogs, sexbloggers, sexblogs, sexy, skin, sugasm, teen, tgp on Jan 23rd, 2007
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.
Join the Sugasm
This Week’s PicksThat sound (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)All she wanted was a cold drink when she woke up (http://thebinside.blogspot.com)Once, a long time ago (http://excessesofabasement.blogspot.com)
Mr. Sugasm HimselfAngelina Jolie’s Real Marvelous Breasts (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s ChoiceWhat Really Really Sucks [...]
2006 Dark Odyssey post roundup
Posted in Dark Odyssey, Jefferson, Lolita Wolf, Marcus, Tristan Taormino, bdsm, bisexual, erotica, gay, lesbian, nudism, polyamory, roundup, sex, sexblog, swinging, tantra on Dec 26th, 2006
Dark Odyssey is a journey of sexual adventure, where ‘open minded people gather to explore Tantra, polyamory, intimate communications, BDSM, alternative fifestyles and more.’
This is a roundup of various posts and articles from the September, 2006 camp, which Jefferson, Selina, Marcus and I attended. Each of us, in our way, had a really good [...]


































