san francisco

I celebrated the Carnival’s second birthday by meeting both Melissa Gira and Violet Blue (with Hacker Boy in tow). Finally.

Here are some pics from when Violet took me to visit Survival Research Labs. The discussions with each of them were wonderful. I am probably the techiest person I know. And they put me to shame.

Now that I have a free place to stay in San Francisco, I might come out more often. There are some really interesting conferences going on.

Sometimes you have those sudden moments of total clarity, and they often find you in circumstances that could best be described as “timeless.” I found mine on my knees in a dingy and dark club in the Tenderloin at about 1 in the morning Saturday night — I was, in fact, in a spotlight, on bended knee, sliding a size 15 Lucite stripper heel onto a slightly belligerent, bewigged tranny emcee, who, microphone in hand, was sitting on my date’s lap and admonishing the crowd for not tipping enough. While also publicly admonishing my date for being a tall drink of boyish cuteness and being decidedly straight. I was the drunken Cinderella’s footman, and it was well past midnight in a neighborhood far from mine. It was one of those Barbary Coast nights. Again. (more. . .)

A New York Times Sunday Magazine article about Kink.com:

Peter Acworth is 36 and trim, with a pale, boyish face. He grew up in the English Midlands, the son of a sculptor and a former Jesuit priest, and came to the United States in 1996 to get a Ph.D. in finance at Columbia University. He had already worked for Baring Brothers in London and was on track to do analytical research on Wall Street. Then, after his first year, he read in a British tabloid about a fireman who sold pornographic pictures on the Internet. “He had made a quarter of a million pounds over a short period doing nothing very clever at all,” Acworth told me not long ago, pointing to the clipping framed in his office in downtown San Francisco. “So I basically just ripped off that idea.”

Acworth has since built what is arguably the country’s most successful fetish porn company, Kink.com — a fast-growing suite of 10 S-and-M and bondage-themed Web sites, each updated weekly with a new half-hour or hour video segment. Kink has 60,000 subscribers; access to each site costs about $30 a month. Acworth founded Kink’s first site, Hogtied, while still at Columbia. He purchased licensed digital photographs for content, many of which were simply old bondage-magazine spreads, torn out and scanned. Almost immediately, Hogtied made several hundred dollars a day — then, with a few ads in place, more than a thousand. In 1998, Acworth dropped out of grad school and moved to San Francisco, which he had always regarded as the world’s “fetish capital,” to run Hogtied full time. His mother worried that the lifestyle of a self-employed Web master might get lonely.

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bookcover Molly Crabapples Left Coast Tour
March 24th Phoenix, AZ
Book-signing at Perihelion Arts ( http://www.perihelionarts.com/)
with the brilliant Liz McGrath (http://www.elizabethmcgrath.com/)
1500 NW Grand Avenue (at 15th Avenue)

March 25th Phoenix, AZ
Molly hosts Dr. Sketchy’s Anti-Art School PHX
The Trunk Space
1506 NW Grand Ave
7-10 pm

March 28th Los Angeles, CA
Book-signing and mini Dr. Sketchy’s at
Meltdown Comics

7522 Sunset Blvd
7-10 pm
with gorgeous fetish model Zoetica Ebb

March 31, 2007
San Francisco, CA
Book signing and mini-Dr. Sketchy’s at
Modern Times Bookstore
888 Valencia Street
with burlesque queen Sparkly Devil and free booze and cupcakes
3-5 pm

April 1st San Francisco, CA
Molly hosts Dr. Sketchy’s Anti-Art School Barbary Coast
The Stud
399-9th St @ Harrison
4-7 pm

Kink.com is facing community opposition for their purchase of San Francisco’s State Armory and Arsenal building, a 200,000-square-foot landmarked building in the Mission District. Kink.com is an online fetish film company devoted to bondage and sadomasochism, and the area is zoned for this sort of use.

An informational hearing has been scheduled for March 8 at San Francisco City Hall from 10-12:30. Kink.com needs lots of people to show up and support Kink.com‘s right to be in business. There’s no need to speak or out yourself, you can simply attend in support.

Please take the time to support Kink.com!

Date: Informational Hearing: March 8, 2007
Time: 10am-12:30pm
Location: City Hall
Address: 1 Dr. Carlton B.
San Francisco, CA

[from the ImSL list]

SAN FRANCISCO, Feb. 11 — It is hard to imagine a city prouder of its sexuality than San Francisco, a place with an active strip club district, a union for erotic dancers and an annual parade on Folsom Street where those not wearing leather and chaps are the odd ones out.

So it came as something of a surprise when a kerfuffle arose because of the newest addition to the city’s sexual landscape: the State Armory and Arsenal building, a 200,000-square-foot landmark in the Mission District that was just purchased by Kink.com, an online pornography company devoted to bondage and sadomasochism. (more…)

cover0702 Common Ground: The Sex Issue

crabapple Dr. Sketchys 2007 Book and Propaganda Tour

I’m now absolutely certain that Bill O’Reilly is the reason ball gags were invented.

Two weeks ago, Fox commentator Bill O’Reilly and Newt Gingrich used the term “San Francisco values” as the three dirtiest words they could think of to label future Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi (and her Democratic brethren). While politer pundits rally for and against what these words mean, citing liberal issues and pot clubs and immigration, we all know what “San Francisco values” posited as dirty words really mean. When someone says, “San Francisco values,” they mean sex.

But while conservative pundits cite San Francisco’s sexual values as the new evil — no doubt imagining all kinds of lurid details about assless chaps and sodomy, glory-hole fellatio and white shoes after Labor Day in the Castro — they are actually right. In truth, San Francisco’s sexual values go further and run deeper than they can even imagine. Because if we’re going to talk about San Francisco as a placeholder for a certain kind of sexual value, let’s really talk about what’s so different about San Francisco’s collective sex life. (more…)