February 2010

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Thursday, February 25
Hot Knots

Friday, February 26
DSF: “The Humble Clothespin, Instrument of Beauty & Torture” w/ Earthwalker & TylerRose

Saturday, February 27

Sunday, February 28
Kinky Jews: Crazy Kinky Purim Extravaganza
New York Bondage Club
Suspension party

Monday, March 1
CV: “Tightlacing” w/ Halo Jones

Tuesday, March 2
TES: “Medical Bondage” w/ slave 705-468-560

Wednesday, March 3
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “An Evening with Efrain Gonzalaz”
Pleasure Salon

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Cherry Torn and Sarah Shevon on theupperfloor.com

e[lust] #8

by Lolita Wolf on 02/24/2010

in sexbloggers

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Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #9? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

This Isn’t Play. . . BDSM and Rape – The very basic principle that we hold so dear in BDSM play, “Nothing without consent” seems to stand in stark contrast to a very common form of play, “Rape Play”.

Half-Full – When I get my ass beaten, is it as much for the sensation as it is for the “Good girl…I knew you could take that for me.” that I want so badly at the close of the scene?

House Party Part 2 -His wife walked by at one point and he cryptically asked her to “do what she did to so-and-so earlier”. His wife disappeared behind me, but I felt her hands touching me and his cock as it entered me.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Backseat Orgasms - We kissed lightly and without focus, both a sensual act and maddening at the same time. More, I needed more. In a blur I was on my knees on the seat, straddling his leg, his mouth latched onto one nipple and his fingers hunting for the key to undoing my dress pants.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Are You Watching Me? – A plan of devious proportions begins to form. Before this is over with, I will have forced you into a corner…forced you to act…forced you to give ME what I want.

See also: Pleasurists #64 and 65 for all your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

A story of FL
Contemplation
Cuddling
Floor Exercises
Good day for a milking
Goodbye
G-Spot Orgasms Galore – Part 2
Initiation
Logan
Mark. Confession #423
Mouth
Nothing says I love you quite like…
Playful and Dangerous
Play your part
Plotter
Splish Splash
The Library Hotel
The Secret I Couldn’t Keep
Triple X
Three A.M. Surprise

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Anatomy of Desire (PT. Two)
Better Cautious Than Raped
Lingerie Tales Vol 1 An Obsession Begins
My life as a gamer’s slave
Perplexed
Saturday Texting
So Simple
The Elusive Female Orgasm
The G Spot Mouse or How To Make A Woman Squirt
Transtastic: On Language

Kink & Fetish

A No Limits Slave?
Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?
BDSM Advice Series: Pet Play
Bondage 101—Part 1: Bondage Basics
Breaking the Demons
Dark/DirtyBlog Crush
Factory Doll
Hand vs. toys
I’m on a book cover: ‘The Punishment List’ by Abel
Kink
Men as sex objects
Rough Porn
Raleigh and La Fortress
Savouring the texture of my skin with his teeth
The Way They Look At Me
The Slut Chronicles #13 ~ The Auction
Whither the spankosphere?

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Happy Valentines Day!
Hookers, Catholic School Students and Facebook
Lane Bryant Makes Puppies and Kittens Cry
Pussy Cosmetics and Vagina Myths

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Gia DiMarco on hogtied.com

Mylene by Rylsky

by Viviane on 02/23/2010

in galleries

mylene6 Mylene by Rylsky

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This and That. . .

by Viviane on 02/23/2010

in sex

e1265561996 This and That. . .

Seymore Butts and Mari Possa from Paulie & Pauline's "Off the Set"

I used to have a link post, but I think that’s too easily confused with the links I’m posting on Delicious – so I’ve renamed it. Here’s a collection of links, from Twitter and my inbox, that I want you to know about:

A second KinkforAll in Washington, DC is in the works: http://kinkforall.pbworks.com/KinkForAllWashingtonDC2.

Furry Girl’s strap-on project, CockSexual is now live, and it’s hot.

The SF Site has a lengthy review of the Arse Elektronika anthology, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?

LustCinema.com  is now hosting the work of German photographer Kristyan Geyr, and fetish filmmaker Maria Beatty.

Get whipped on your lunch break: Domina-mobile. (Thanks, E!)

Cameryn Moore is a phone sex operator and performance artist.

Supervert’s new book, Perversity Think Tank is out. It attempts to formulate a philosophical conception of sexual perversion: what is perversity?

JuicyPinkBox, which just debuted two shorts at this weekend’s Cinekink festival,  is casting for its next erotica series, Therapy.

The first episode from Em & Lo’s new 10 part series from Alive Mind Media, Sex: How to Do Everything is now available online. Use the coupon code WATCHEMLO (valid until 2/28/10).

The CW network is now casting for a show called Secrets. They’re looking for women in their 20′s who are struggling with an intimacy addiction and
are trying to maintain their “perfect image” on a daily basis.

Photographers Paulie and Pauline’s book, Off the Set, is a fine art photography book showing the real private lives of adult entertainment stars. It comes out April 2nd. A selection of photos may be viewed here.

My pals MayMay and Emma have entered the Young Visionaries Contest being run by the International Women’s Health Coalition (IWHC). The contest winner receives a $1,000 USD grant to fund a project that will create lasting change in the world and advocate for the rights and health of women and young people worldwide.

Their project proposal called SexEdEverywhere, involves creating a new media campaign and network of educational websites based on the premise that we learn about sex in many locations and from a variety of sources, not just health class in schools. The funding and recognition from the IWHC can seriously help their vision a reality.

Having been involved with helping organize Kinkforall(s) and been a guest on KinkonTap a few times, I know they are extremely passionate about, and extremely competent at,  spreading knowledge and helping educate young people about sex and sexuality.

You can read more about the project and also vote by visiting http://j.mp/seeiwhc. Make sure you click on the “Vote!” button on the first screen. No signup necessary.

In my bedroom, I slip on my cock while she reapplies her lipstick. I pull her on top of me as I lay down on the bed and kiss her neck, her face. She gets breathless. Sucks in air as her mouth waters and tongue swells, I can see it, despite her lips already being darkened. I slide two fingers into her mouth, feel her tongue, push them just past the first knuckle so she can lick around the pads with her tongue. She closes her eyes and moans.

“Hmm, you like that?”

She moans a little. It’s not really a question I expect an answer to.

“Ready to get that lipstick all over my cock?” She looks up at me, gasps and her chest collapses a little, shuddering and giving in toward me. I grab her hair. Our lips are nearly touching. I run my fingers down her cheek and jaw and notice a smear of lipstick that must’ve been on them, from putting them in her mouth.

“Yes, ohhh,” she breathes softly. “I want to make you feel good.”

I lay back on the bed, hand in her hair, the other on her shoulder or arm or wrist. She positions her mouth over my cock. rings her fingers around the shaft slowly as she lets her mouth water, parts her lips, watches it in her hand as if it is getting bigger at her touch. I practically feel it quivering. Underneath, my clit swells and strains to feel her lips, to be swallowed in her mouth too.

When her lips finally touch it, it is always a revelation, always a surprise, how much I feel it, how much tenderness is in her light kisses, the soft soft pillows of her inner lips, her sweet wet mouth and tongue. She coos a little and I can’t help but to moan, she gulps down thick breaths of air when she pulls her mouth up and off, holds my cock her in her hand softly. Licks just the tip with her tongue.

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Anna & Brigi

by Viviane on 02/22/2010

in galleries, Hegre-Art, sex

anna brigi Anna & Brigi

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This sexual roundelay about power and powerlessness, about the imagination butting up against so-called “reality,” is played out by two contemporary characters. As it begins, we sit facing Thomas (Wes Bentley), a playwright who has written an adaptation of “Venus in Furs.” He’s in a rehearsal studio—a grayish, minimal, anonymous space with fluorescent track lighting. He is talking on the phone to his fiancée, at the end of a long day of auditions for his play; he wants to get home. We can hear thunder and rain outside. But no sooner has Thomas put down the phone than Vanda (the phenomenal Nina Arianda) enters, dressed in a trenchcoat and carrying a broken umbrella. Vanda is like the weather: a force of nature that drenches whoever gets caught up in its sway. She wants to know if she can audition for Thomas. He tries to brush her off, but the brassy Vanda sets about to convince him that she’s the only woman who can play the part. Sometimes she throws him a compliment; sometimes she tries to appear helpless, which she is not at all. She’s simply testing Thomas’s “maleness”—that is, his desire to be counted on, to be admired, to be “Daddy.” Would he like her to wear a white dress for the audition? she asks. (Thomas is too shocked or timid to mention the bondage-like gear that Vanda has on under her coat when she arrives.) Donning the white dress, she asks is it “real 1870”? She wants to know what kind of accent she should use to play Wanda, the dominating woman whom Severin eventually meets at the spa. When Thomas still doesn’t know how to respond, Vanda just does her thing. And, as soon as she starts to read, she’s no longer Vanda but Wanda, a measured woman with impeccable Continental diction. The transformation is subtle and not so subtle—acting is Vanda’s bag, and it becomes ours, too, as we watch Thomas become more and more powerless in the presence of her unconquerable vitality, her seductive energy.

-Hilton Als, writing in the New Yorker

I ventured out in during the snow day to see it, and it was totally worth the messy trip.  CSC is a small theater and this play is performed in 90 minutes with no intermission. The chemistry and power exchange that develops between the actors, both in the play and the play-within-a play, are riveting.. I’ve been telling everyone to see it. I found out from my pal Thor that the run has been extended until March 28rd. If you hunt around the internet, you may be able to get discounted tickets. If you’ve never read the book, you can find it at the Gutenberg Project.

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Thursday, February 18
CINEKINK NYC
TES Queer SIG: “Making It Last: Long-term Gay Master/slave Relationships” w/ david stein
Staten Island Kink munch
Alphabet Soup

Friday, February 19
CINEKINK NYC
LSM Presents: “Gendering Power: How to Spice Up Your Role Play” w/ Sinclair Sexsmith
DSF: “A Household with Two Masters and Several slaves” w/ Sir Eric & Lady Christie
SWITCH Women/Trans/Genderqueer BDSM Party

Saturday, February 20
CINEKINK NYC
Black B.E.A.T. Munch
Brooklyn Leather munch
TES Spanking Group: “For the love of Spanking” w/ Wes & Michele
TES Novice Excursion
TES Mardi Gras Party
SPAM 8yr Anniversary Disco Party
STIMULATE party: “The Post-Valentine’s Blood Massacre”

Sunday, February 21
Instigate NYC: “Film Presentation – Graphic Sexual Horror
New York Bondage Club
CINEKINK Awards Celebration and Afterglow Party
Fixe Fetish Party

Monday, February 22
CV: “Menace” w/ Rob
Coco De Mer: “The Art of the Joystick Salon” w/ Midori

Tuesday, February 23
TES: “Sex in the City” w/ Susan Wright
Coco De Mer: “The Art of the Joystick Salon” w/ Midori

Wednesday, February 24
TES TNG: “Flogging & Whips” w/ Bo
Coco de Mer: “Hands On Rope Bondage” w/ Midori

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Maitresse Madeline, Isis Love, Dia Zerva, DragonLily, Kade, Derrick P., Ashley Fires, January Seraph and Zak Tyler on divinebitches.com

02/25/2010
9:00 PMto10:30 PM

redress Hot Knots: A Fat Positive Bondage Benefit

A Fat-Positive Bondage Benefit
with the one and only Sarah Jenny
Queer-centric, allies welcome.

Please bring your own length of rope on which to practice! Ideally 25 feet but 10 feet is also okay. Otherwise, you can watch/take notes or find a partner to share with! Jute, hemp, or nylon are all good. Do not use clothesline. Quality rope can be purchased at Babeland or Purple Passion in Chelsea http://store.purplepassion.com/servlet/Detail?no=1230

All proceeds to benefit SAFER – Students Active for Ending Rape
Reforming college sexual assault policies through direct student action.
For more info: www.safercampus.org

Any questions/comments etc. can be directed to erin at safercampus dot org

Facebook link: http://bit.ly/cyAxkZ
Fetlife: http://fetlife.com/events/11961

Location: Re/Dress NYC, 109 Boerum Place, Brooklyn, NY
( F/G to Bergen)

Cost: Sliding scale – suggested donation $10-15. No one turned away for lack of funds.
For Fatties, their Friends & Fiends! All sizes encouraged to come!

Christina Hendricks

by Viviane on 02/16/2010

in sex

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Christina Hendrick’s on the cover of  the Spring Fashion issue of New York Magazine.

Photo: Marco Grob

02/20/2010
1:00 PM

ducky e1265342357563 Love U Parties presents The Art of the Female Orgasm Workshop

Location: Ripley Grier Studios – 520 8th Ave (bet. 36th/37th Street) Google Maps
Cost: Free and open to the public. Wheelchair accessible.
Seats are limited. Reserve your spot by emailing: pascale AT loveloveparties DOT com

Women are a deep pool of pleasure and the Sex Educators of Love U Parties are here to teach you how to swim! They will demystifies the female pleasure anatomy, compare ancient knowledge, current scientific data, personal discoveries, tips & techniques and send you home with a wealth of orgasmic knowledge and resources. Walk away understanding why some touches deliver amazing stimulation and how to draw deeper orgasmic responses. This workshop is for women and those who love women.

Ducky DooLittle: She is a Sex Educator, Author of Sex with the Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered and President of Love U, Inc. Love U is a new, ethical, healthy-for-the-body sex toy company. Beyond pleasure-based sex ed, Ducky is also a Sexual Assault & Violence Intervention Counselor for 8 New York City Emergency Rooms. You may have seen or heard her talking sex on ABC News, CSNBC, Comedy Central, MTV, HBO, NPR, The Morning Show, NPR, or The Howard Stern Show. A few of her print credits include Reuters International News Wire, LA Weekly, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Village Voice, Bust Magazine, Glamour Magazine, Marie Claire Magazine, Redbook Magazine, and The New York Times.