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leather

12/16/2011
8:00 PM

SassafrasLowrey Lesbian Sex Mafia presents Leather Storytelling with Sassafras Lowrey

Leather Storytelling is about taking ownership of why we find solace, and pleasure in the things that we do, and coming out of the shadows to make our voices heard. This workshop is designed for all variety of folks who find leather to be a driving force in their lives regardless of context or dynamic(s). The workshop is not specifically about writing porn/erotica though of course sexually explicit themes are welcome, but rather this is focused on telling the stories of our dynamics, of our communities, and of ourselves. Leather Storytelling is focused on exploring what it means to tell our stories when as leather folk we are often silenced, and pushed out of even the most progressive spaces who deem us as inappropriate or obscene. Through guided writing exercises, workshop participants will discover the transformative power of storytelling and how it can be used to break down divides, foster and preserve community, and build coalitions within leather community and beyond.

Let’s celebrate the holidays with a kinky grab bag ($5/max per item) and some light refreshments!

Where: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th St. (7th/8th Ave)
Cost: LSM Members: Free admission with grab bag gift ($5 max). Non-members: $5 with grab bag gift.

About Sassafras Lowrey

Sassafras Lowrey is an internationally award-winning storyteller, author, artist, and educator. Ze is the editor of the Kicked Out anthology, which brought together the voices of current and former homeless LGBTQ youth. Hir prose has been included in numerous anthologies and ze regularly teaches LGBTQ storytelling workshops at colleges and conferences across the country. Sassafras and hir Daddy live in Brooklyn with two dogs and two cats. To learn more about Sassafras and hir work, visit www.PoMoFreakshow.com

About Lesbian Sex Mafia

Lesbian Sex Mafia (“LSM”) is a social and educational organization for women and transfolk who have a positive personal interest in BDSM with other women. Our tenets are safety, consensuality, confidentiality and the right of women to explore their sexuality as they choose. Membership in Lesbian Sex Mafia is open to all women 18 years of age or older including gay, straight, bi, and transsexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women, and all female-born transgendered persons who have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. For membership information and benefits please visit www.lesbiansexmafia.org.

LSM reserves the right to deny admission to non-members it has reason to believe will not abide by the LSM principles of safety, consensuality and confidentiality.

For ASL interpretation request please email LSMNYC@hotmail.com.

No member is turned away from an LSM event based upon ability to pay. Please contact us in advance to request a scholarship.

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06/19/2009
8:00 PMto10:00 PM

Who:  Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSM)*
Where: The LGBT Center, 208 West 13th Street between 7th and 8th Avenues
Cost:  $5 for members;$10 for non-members

Some people think of spanking as the least challenging of BDSM skills, requiring the least knowledge. It’s not flamboyant like singletails or edgy like knife play so it can’t be as exciting. However, in the proper hands, spanking can be a slow, sensuous climb to orgasm or a sharp, harsh discipline. It can be used to create a loving, hands-on scene, reduce the strongest person to tears or re-create a cherished fantasy.

Lady Sabrina will show how spanking can be a valuable tool in your arsenal as she discusses the different styles of spanking, value of role play, safety and use of toys. .

About Lady Sabrina

Lady Sabrina has been a member of the BDSM community for over 15 years presenting for TES, Knot4Everyone, DSF, Black Rose, John Jay College, PEP and others. A BDSM educator, she’s presented on such topics as Designing Protocols, slave training, scene etiquette, flogging, hot wax, Basic Dom Skills, etc. and has acted as an informal Mentor to many in the scene.

Having a love of paddles, floggers and books, Lady Sabrina supports her habit by selling BDSM gear and fetish wear at events like Folsom Street and Leatherfest through her business, My Lady’s Toys.

Lady Sabrina is currently on the Boards of TES, NY Leather Weekend, MAsT Metro NY, Cercle des Dommes and East Coast Leather Town Hall. She’s also a member of ONYX Pearls, LPN, SCONY and FM Masters. Lady Sabrina is honored to be the recipient of the 2008 Pantheon of Leather Northeast Regional Award.

* About LSM
LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. And, who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way.

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5 NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Nov 13 19

Trinity Post and Mark Davis on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, November 13
LSM: “Damned if you do. Damned if you don’t…Predicament Scenes” w/ Sir C (open to all genders)
Queens BDSM Munch

Friday, November 14
GMSMA: 1st Annual Gil Kessler Lecture Series w/ Ray Matienzo & John Weis (open to all genders)
NYC Sex Blogger Calendar launch party
ClubFemNYC Munch
Xris SMack! and Mindswerve Studios present: STIMULATE
DSF: “D/s dating How to snag a Dominant woman!” w/ Scarlette Stangata

Saturday, November 15
GMSMA: Leatherfest 2008 (open to all genders)
Rope Share
TES Spanking Group: “Corporal Play” with Mistress Berlin
TES Novice Excursion
TES Latex Fetish Party w/ Jeff
New York boys of Leather Bar Night with a rubber theme
SPAM party

Sunday, November 16

Monday, November 17
CV Meeting: “Intro to Sex Blogging” w/ Viviane

Tuesday, November 18
TES: ” Violet Wand” w/ Master Jay

Wednesday, November 19
TES Bondage SIG: Tie Me to the Ends of Love w/ Mac Koehler

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04 NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Oct 30 Nov 5

Beverly Hills and Berlin on Chanta’s Bitches

Thursday, October 30

Friday, October 31
TES Nightmare Menagerie Halloween Party w/ Antonia & Goddess Coko
The SMack! Zombie Fetish Ball
Paradise Lost party

Saturday, November 1
DSF: Darkside Halloween Fetish Ball

Sunday, November 2
LSM Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members
MAsT Metro NY: “How to maintain your identity when you are not in an M/s relationship”
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue: The Baroness’ Birthday and Masquerade Ball

Monday, November 3

Tuesday, November 4
TES: “Converting a Vanilla” w/ Margaret Davis

Wednesday, November 5
TES Equestrian Club (TEC): “Performing at a Fetish Event… How to create a Winning Performance Piece”
Pleasure Salon

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19 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Oct 23 29

Charley Chase on publicdisgrace.com

Thursday, October 23

Friday, October 24
Le Cercle des Dommes meeting
DSF: “The Science of Transforming Pain into Pleasure and” with Lady Caro

Saturday, October 25
TES: Single-Tail Workshop w/ Thrash  CANCELED
DSF: Halloween Fetish Costume Ball

Sunday, October 26
TES TNG: Scary Movie Outing
ONYX-Pearls Northeast: “No toy bag?  Now what?!!”
Suspension Play Party
Endless Night NYC Masque Ball

Monday, October 27
CV Meeting: “Erotic Literature!”

Tuesday, October 28
TES: “Seduction in the Scene w/ Ardenne

Wednesday, October 29
TES TNG “Microbranding (Cell Popping)” w/ Soulhuntre
Grapple Den party

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23 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Oct 16 22

Mark Davis and Mz Berlin on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, October 16
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, October 17
Apple Munch
DSF: “Martial Arts and BDSM” w/ Patrick Washburn
LSM: Pressure Points to Cause Pain 101 w/ tomo
Switch party

Saturday, October 18
Purple Passion workshop: “Elegant Pain Compliance & Control” w/ Mojodaddy
Purple Passion workshop: “Self-Defense for Women in BDSM / Sexual Situations” w/ Mojodaddy
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “What Is It About Spanking That We Love?”
TES Novice Excursion
TES Cowboys & Indians Party w/ Thrash & Lady AliceSin
New York boys of Leather: Uniform Fetish Gear Party
SPAM party

Sunday, October 19
Men’s Rope Share

Monday, October 20
CV Meeting: “The Art of Florentine Flogging” w/ Richard Cordage

Tuesday, October 21

TES: “Power of Words & Inflection” w/ Flagg Thursday, October 16

Wednesday, October 22
TES Bondage Group: “ Piercing as Bondage” w/ Sarah Sloane

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03 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Oct 9 15

Berlin and Derrick Pierce on FuckedandBound.com

Berlin and Derrick Pierce on FuckedandBound.com

Thursday, October 9
Queens BDSM Munch

Friday, October 10
New York Leather Weekend
ClubFEM NYC Munch
DSF: “Keeping the Flame White Hot” w/ Master Jim & Little Amanda

Saturday, October 11
New York Leather Weekend
Desire play party http://www.polypataoproductions.com/parties/desire.php

Sunday, October 12
Brooklyn Leatherfolk munch
New York Leather Weekend

Monday, October 13
CV Meeting: “What Do I Need Anyway? Relationship Negotiation from D/s to Poly” w/Corey Alexander

Tuesday, October 14
TES: “Dealing With Chronic Illness” Panel Discussion moderated by the Countess

Wednesday, October 15
TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group: “ Living with Love & Your Kink Every Day” w/ Morgan Lewis HMQ

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8 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Oct 2 8

Tia Ling and Derrick Pierce on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, October 2

Friday, October 3
NYC Munch
DSF: “Seduction, Play Abduction, Play Rape” w/ Morpheus

Saturday, October 4
Poly Pride Picnic + Rally
Brooklyn Leatherfolk Munch
The Sexies Awards
Mr Eagle NYC
VII Official Foot Part/Stink Contest
NY Renegades All Club Bar Night

Sunday, October 5
MAsT Metro NY: “Integrating M/s into our daily lives”
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue: Circus Freaks, Dog and Pony Show

Monday, October 6

Tuesday, October 7
TES: “Domestic Violence: How To Do It Right” w/ Vetiver Lane & Damien

Wednesday, October 8
TES Novice Group: “Understanding Age and Daddy/Mommy Play” w/ Lady D & a panel of Daddies
GMSMA: “Electricity: Shockingly Affordable or How to Enjoy Your Electric Bill”

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02 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Sept 25 Oct 1

Derrick Pierce and Robyn Truelove on fuckedandbound.com

Thursday, September 25

Friday, September 26
Le Cercle des Dommes meeting
DSF: “D/s From Both Sides of the Leash ” w/ Lady Elaina
PARADISE LOST Vampire/Fetish Party

Saturday, September 27
The Equestrian Club at TES: “The Return of TEC” with Thrash
Rope Share
Submit party

Sunday, September 28
Kinky Jews: A History of Jews, Sex and Politics on the Lower East Side Walking Tour
Cat O’ Nine Fetish Gala
Suspension Play Party

Monday, September 29
Conversio Virium Meeting: “Acceptance and Relationships in BDSM” w/ Dr. Charley Ferrer

Tuesday, September 30
TES: “The Mistress Didi*’s Transcendent Tramplingâ„¢ Workshop” with Mistress Didi

Wednesday, October 1
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “D/S and Love will take you to New Heights an examination of Formal vs.Relaxed D/S”
Pleasure Salon

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9 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Sept 18 24

Finn Damion and Van Darkholme on boundgods.com

Thursday, September 18
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, September 19
LSM: “Breath Play” w/ Suzannne SxySadist
DSF: “Tease & Denial” w/ Mistress Coraline

Saturday, September 20
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “Back To School”
TES Novice Excursion” hosted by Lady D & Bo
TES “Back to School Party” hosted by Nix and August
NYboL Bar Night (new location!)
Spam party

Sunday, September 21
ONYX-Pearls Northeast meetimg:”Fire, Ice and Wax.”
Kinky Jews: A History of Jews, Sex and Politics on the Lower East Side Walking Tour
Truck Stop
Queer Fetish French Ball

Monday, September 22
Conversio Virium Meeting: “Wrestling for Play” w/ the wrestlers of Grapple Den & Doom Maidens

Tuesday, September 23
TES: “Erotica 101″ with Rachel Kramer Bussel

Wednesday, September 24
TES Bondage Group: “A Bondage Experience” w/ Dov, Shibari Warrior and Lolita

4 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Sept 18 24

Sasha Grey and Riley Shy on whippedass.com

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8 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Sept 11 17

Charley Chase and Lochai on hogtied.com

Thursday, September 11
Queens BDSM munch

Friday, September 12
Apple Munch
ClubFEM NYC Munch
DSF: ” Pressure Points To Cause Pain – 101” w/ Tomo

Saturday, September 13
TES: “Learning the Single-Tail Workshop” with Thrash
New Museum: “The Sade I Know: Screening and Lecture” w/ Paul Chan
Desire Play Party

Sunday, September 14
Brooklyn Leatherfolk munch
BYTE party

Monday, September 15
Conversio Virium Meeting: Welcome back Show and Tell!

Tuesday, September 16
TES: “Performance Anxiety: Keeping your Head Above Water in Service Positions” w/ a panel

Wednesday, September 17

TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group: “Demystifying Singletai

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6 NYC Weekly Leather Dates   Sept 4 10

Kimberly Kane, Wolf Hudson on meninpain.com

Thursday, September 4

Friday, September 5
NYC Munch
DSF: “Transition from BDSM to Master/slave” with Master Taino

Saturday, September 6
TES-TNG: “Back to School Excursion” w/ TNG co-facilitators Michelle Storm & Richard Cordage

Sunday, September 7
LSM: Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members
MasT: Metro NY: “Masters in Service” w/ Master Taino
NYboL Car Wash
Le Carnaval Fetish “Back to School”
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue Party and Latex Lovelies Competition

Monday, September 8

Tuesday, September 9
TES: Membership Meeting, Election

Wednesday, September 10
TES Novice Group: “Basic Skills…Female Domination – CBT & Other Terrible Things to do to Men” w/ Miss Calico

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11 NYC Weekly Leather Dates Aug 28 – Sept 3

Lobo and Sabrina Fox on thetrainingofo.com

Thursday, August 28

Friday, August 29
TES-TNG: “It’s Amazing What You Can Find” with Lolita Wolf
TES “Pirates of the Caribbean: At Summer’s End Party” hosted by Michelle Storm & August

Saturday, August 30
DSF: End of Summer BBQ & Slave Auction Party

Sunday, August 31
ONYX-Pearls Northeast meeting

Monday, September 1
Happy Labor Day!

Tuesday, September 2
TES: “Club / Event Closures and other Community Issues” with Susan Wright

Wednesday, September 3
TES Dominant Men/submissive women: “TNG Panel – What We Want From The Scene?”
Pleasure Salon

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14 NYC Weekly Leather Dates August 21 – 27

James Deen and Alexa Von Tess on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, August 21
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, August 22
Le Cercle des Dommes
DSF: “ The Art of Seduction” w/ Peter Tenorio

Saturday, August 23
TES: “The Art of Caning Workshop” with Mistress Trish
C.O.R.E. Gear Bash

Sunday, August 24
TES Nude Beach Excursion hosted by Joannie Bird
Queer Fetish
Suspension play party
Cat O’ Nine fetish party

Monday, August 25

Tuesday, August 26
TES: “Fire Cupping” with Brian (aka Pyro Sadist)

Wednesday, August 27
TES Switchables Group: “Heavy Hitting from Both Sides of the Fence” with Natasha
Friends of Jefferson party

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08 NYC Weekly Leather Dates August 14 – 20

Otto Bauer and Trinity Post on fuckedandbound.com

Thursday, August 14

Friday, August 15
DSF: “Spanking from A-Z” w/ a panel of spankers

Saturday, August 16
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “Spanking!” with Rachel Kramer Bussel
TES Novice Excursion hosted by Lady D & Bo
TES “Kinky Casino Night Party” hosted by Tony and Mary Ann
SPAM PARTY
NYboL Bar Night

Sunday, August 17
BYTE 4yr Anniversary – The Quadrennial
TRUCK STOP

Monday, August 18

Tuesday, August 19
TES: “An Evening” with Cecilia Tan

Wednesday, August 20
TES Relationships Group: “End of Summer Social”
Grapple Den

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