From the monthly archives:

September 2009

CineKink NYC–”the kinky film festival”–is seeking films and videos, of any length and genre, that explore and celebrate the wide diversity of sexuality. Dedicated to the recognition and encouragement of sex-positive and kink-friendly depictions in film and television, we’re looking to blur some boundaries and will be considering offerings drawn from both Hollywood and beyond, with works ranging from documentary to drama, camp comedy to hot porn, mildly spicy to quite explicit–and everything in between.

Cutting across orientations, topics covered at CineKink have included–but are by no means limited to–BDSM, leather and fetish, swinging, non-monogamy and polyamory, roleplay and gender bending, sex work and sex geekery. Basically, as long as it involves consenting adults, just about anything celebrating sex as a right of self expression is fair game. (Far be it from us to define “kink” – if you think your work might make sense in this context, please send it along!)

Scheduled for its seventh annual appearance February 16-21, 2010, the specially-curated CineKink NYC will also feature a short film competition, audience choice awards, a special adult entertainment showcase, presentations, parties and a gala kick-off event, with a national screening tour to follow.

Discounted, early-bird entries have a post-marked deadline of October 23rd, while the standard deadline is November 15th and the final deadline is December 4th.

For more information and to download an entry form, visit http://www.cinekink.com/entries.

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150 Abat nuit

by Viviane on 09/30/2009

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150 Abat nuit by ~ChristianPeter on deviantART

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Sugasm #173

by Viviane on 09/27/2009

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nikkycase whitebikini Sugasm #173

Photo: Nikky Case (Met-Art)

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #174? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Dressing Room Voyeur
“I caught his gaze this time, on purpose.”

It’s Always the Quiet Ones…
“So grabbing her hips, I pulled her in for a kiss.”

Behind Closed Doors
“Others had watched, she beat me, brought me to tears, held me and then began to untie me.”

Sugasm Editor
The Mouse Drama

Editor’s Choice
Let the Rain Come

News, Reviews & Interviews
Book Review: Anal Pleasure and Health
Champion
Earth Angel podcast review – the first 100% green sex toy!
LELO Gigi
Lelo Gigi Made Me A Very Happy Girl!

Thoughts on Sex & Relationships
Dating Options 101: Whatchagot
Finally, my thoughts on marriage equality
I hate online dating period

BDSM & Fetish
Being Bendy, Beaten and Punished
Make Me Want It
Male Chastity Devices
Miss Susan, Nick B and Montreal Fetish Weekend
Moments
The One I Miss the Most
Sissy Hubby
Spanking Fake
Tuesday Night – The First Time

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
2 Pretty maids severely spanked
Aimee Addison
Deep cutting cane stripes
Hal-Nekkid Anniversary pt2
Huge wobbly buttocks
Kelly Brook in Sexy Lingerie
Sunflowers part III
Take Comfort

Sex Advice
Can a Woman Feel When a Man Ejaculates Inside Her?
How To Fuck in Public or Recession Era Hook-up Spots

Erotic Writing & Experiences
The Accidental Orgy
Blowjobs and Beautiful People
The Conclusion of the Duchess’s Adventure
Cottage Country part 1
Countdown. Confession #340
Dance the Night Away, Part 2
Darklady’s Detention Hall (an Event Report)
Flasher: Regrets
Glow
HNT: The Gift
Keys
Lessons Learned (1/2)
Red And Blue Make…
Rub Me Up The Right Way
She Deserves Better
The Succubus Wakes
Voicemail
Working.

Erotic Poetry
Her Warmth
Licking The Beatles

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It was pretty amazing, thanks for   asking. Until I get around to doing a round up, here are some searches you can run:

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09/25/2009
8:00 PMto11:00 PM

Location: Reflections Yoga Studios
Street: 250 W 49th Street, 2nd Floor, Manhattan
Cost: Free, though a $10 donation is most appreciated!

Masters of Ceremonies- Richard Anton Diaz, founder of SexySpirits.com & Alan Steinfeld, founder of NewRealities.com

Our Keynote speakers include-

*Carla Tara
*Reid Mihalko
*Baba Dez
*Luba Evans
*Sheri Winston
*Mark & Patricia Michaels
….and more to come!

Whether you are a beginner, a skeptic, or already involved in the conscious, spiritual sexuality movement, this is your chance to learn from leaders and pioneers in Sacred Sexuality in one fell swoop. Gathered together in one place, meet and engage with dynamic men and women who are pioneers in the sacred sex revolution. Listen to their thoughts and ask them all that you want to know.

This incredible sexy spirited gathering kicks off the Great North-East Sacred Sexuality Round-Up in New York City (September 25-27, 2009) which will encompass 3-Days / 2-Nights of Learning, Networking and Community Building with the World’s leading Sacred Sexuality Educators!

RSVP As soon as possible to Guarantee a seat!

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alumina Alumina Revolve Dildo

The Alumina Revolve Dildo is a fantastic idea.  What is it?  Well, it is a double-ended dildo made from aeronautical-grade aluminum that is anodized so it will not corrode or wear.  These cool dildos screw apart in the middle so you can attach either end to another dildo in the same collection to interchange them and make a new toy.  This line comes from Tantus, leaders in silicone sex toy products.  According to them, “Aluminum is the most abundant metal in Earth’s crust, is recyclable and safe… All Tantus products are hand-made… using green manufacturing processes in the USA.”  The complete Alumina line, like their silicone dildos are “non-porous, easy to clean and it is earth friendly.”

Aluminum (like ceramic) is the new glass!  Like glass sex toys, aluminum is hard, so good for G-spotting, and heats up or cools well for temperature play.  The Alumina Revolve is designed for G-spot play with a large bulb on one end and a smaller beaded shaft on the other, measuring 8 inches long and 1.25 inches wide.  Unlike steel sex toys, aluminum is much lighter and ergonomically shaped, so easier on the old wrists if you really want to give it a work-out.

The Revolve feels great against the skin, very cool and thrilling.  The smooth texture glides easily in with very little lubrication, and the bulbous end is perfect for G-spot stimulation.  I found this toy easy to use for that purpose and to pump my G-spot to blissful ejaculations!  Please remember that a sex toy doesn’t have to be inserted far for the G-spot (only 1-2 inches) and that rather that deep thrusting, a pumping/ rubbing action is more effective until it becomes enlarged.  Even then, you don’t want to thrust deeply, passing the G-spot, but into the G-spot.  It seems to be hard for some women to figure this out, but you will know when you are getting it right!

Not only are these dildos practical, but they are very pretty as well.  They come in their own, sleek cardboard storage box and look like fancy Christmas ornaments that you could hang on your tree, all shiny-shiny!  This gives you an excuse to buy the whole set and mix and match.  It is a tradition in our house to give a Christmas ornament each year on top of a present.  So you could make naughty Xmas ornaments out of these to give to your lover(s).  Very cute!

Get your Alumina Revolve Dildo from the friendly folks at AdamEve.com!

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Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #46? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #48? Submit it here before Sunday September 27th at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

Madame Editrix

Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

On to the reviews…

Vibrators

Dildos

Anal Toys

Toys for Cocks

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

BDSM/Fetish

Adult Books

Adult Movies/Porn

Sex Furniture

Miscellaneous

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09/23/2009
6:15 PMto8:15 PM

WHERE: Michelson Theatre, Tisch School of the Arts, 721 Broadway, Room 648

Department of Cinema Studies
Tisch School of the Arts, New York University
A Film Studies Center Special Event

The world is awash in sexualized imagery, but that imagery rarely speaks to or captures the pleasurable reality of sex. Award-winning filmmaker Tony Comstock takes us into the legal and business realities that shape and often warp the sexual imagery we see. Drawing on examples from Hollywood’s history of self-censorship, landmark obscenity cases, and the collision of technology and image-making, Comstock offers an expanded framework for understanding of how what we do and do not see in cinema affects our understanding of our own sexuality

This event is FREE and open to the public.

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Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #45? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #47? Submit it here before Sunday September 20th at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

Madame Editrix

Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

Editor’s Pick

  • G-Twist by Shanna Germain
  • The battery housing is slightly confusing — you have to press the sides in really hard in order to open it (I struggled with it for so long, I thought about asking my neighbor for help, but since I’ve not said anything more to him than “hello” and “oh, it’s really okay that your dog barked all night long, no worries,” I figured that showing up at his doorstep with a pseudo-cock, a couple of batteries and a helpless look wasn’t the world’s best idea).

    Editor’s Note: While there have been a lot of G-Twist reviews lately from all the new GoodVibes Brand Ambassadors I think this one far surpasses the others (including my own). Not to say the others are bad, perish the thought, but just because this one actually made me smile at times and even chuckle at others.

On to the reviews…

Vibrators

Dildos

Anal Toys

Toys for Cocks

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

BDSM/Fetish

Adult Books

Adult Movies/Porn

Sex Furniture

Lingerie

Miscellaneous

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I have always wanted a remote-control vibrating egg, fantasizing about all the ways I could use it in public with no-one but me and the remote-holder the wiser.  Thanks to Extreme Restraints I now own the Trinity 10-Speed Vibrating Egg!

dinner date med1 The Trinity 10 Speed Vibrating Egg

You know the Fantasy.  You are sitting in a restaurant, eating dessert as your partner turns up the power on the remote vibe hidden between the lips of you vagina and makes you start to moan and squirm.  This vibe would definitely do this to you.  It is pretty powerful.  With 10 levels of vibrations from mild to zing, this little vibes will put a little bounce in your step, whether you use it anally, in the vagina or on the clitoris.  Great for couples who want to play games, and the ideal punishment vibe for naughty subs that need to be disciplined in public, as it can be used from across the room.

trinity vibe The Trinity 10 Speed Vibrating Egg

I really enjoyed this as a clit masturbator.  It took no time at all to get me off.  It was a lot of fun having my partner play with it as well, as I was always in anticipation of what he would do with it next.  Being a control freak (who is almost always in control of my orgasms) it was a unique and thrilling experience, giving up a bit of power.

Comes with batteries, which is a bonus and the egg vibe and remote link together so you don’t lose them.  One thing you should know about remote control vibes however, is that the batteries should be removed after use.  This is because the vibe is continually powered waiting for the signal from the remote, so they tend to die pretty quickly if you leave them in.  I learned this the hard way, and now I need new batteries (which are mini weird size N) so now I’m sure I will have a hard time finding replacements for it.  I often wonder why toy companies don’t invent vibes with regular AA batteries.  It would make everything so much easier!

Other than the battery issue, the Trinity 10-Speed Vibrating Egg is an amazing vibe.  Pick one up at Extreme Restraints.

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the opening of misty beethoven The Opening of Misty Beethoven

The Opening of Misty Beethoven (1976)
Studio- VCA / Crescent Films
Director- Henry Paris / Radley Metzger
Cast- Constance Money, Jamie Gillis, Jacqueline Beaudant, Terri Hall, Ras Kean, Gloria Leonard

“The Opening of Misty Beethoven” is a Pygmalion porn-story of a pathetic prostitute (Constance Money ) who is transformed into a New York “socialite”—or more accurately an elite passionate cocksucker—by “sex researcher” hedonist Dr. Love (Jamie Gillis).  If you have ever seen any of Jamie Gillis’ films he usually plays the part of a sexist (if loveable) pig quite well, and Misty Beethoven is no acceptation.  Many of his roles are in bdsm films featuring him as a cruel Top who like to humiliate and beat his subs, but he is often on the submissive end as well.

The film is seriously dated and like many 70s triple-X films features a pornocopia of orgies in lavish settings, hairy snatches, kitschy dialogue, dreadful acting, bad hair-dos and worse outfits.  Dr. Love teaches Misty how to suck cock like it’s her last meal, and there’s lots of other fucking as well as some girl-girl action.  In one scene Dr. Love tells Misty: “Most women stop sucking at orgasm, but that’s when a real woman starts sucking.”  The focus on the film is male pleasure and little is paid to want Misty (or a female audience for that matter) might want or enjoy.

Misty debuts as a fantastic pervert at a party orgy, where Dr. Love humiliates her in public by taking credit for her newly acquired skills.  Misty gets fed up with Love and splits, but then returns to surprise suck/fuck him as one of his maids.  Meanwhile, Love can’t forget about Misty and is perhaps wishing he had treated her better?  The end of the film shows Misty transformed into the “teacher” and Dr. Love as her slave in chains of bondage in an “ironic” twist.

If you are into retro porn, The Opening of Misty Beethoven is a classic, more so for its “porn with plot” than titillating sex scenes, though.

Buy The Opening of Misty Beethoven at Babeland where you will find many unique adult films.

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3 NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Sept 10 16

Felony and Cherries Jubalie on hogtied.com

Thursday, September 10
Queens Munch
Suspension party
Night of the Queens

Friday, September 11
ClubFEM NYC Munch
DSF: “Violet Wands- Basics and Beyond with Dr. Clockwork”

Saturday, September 12

Sunday, September 13
MAsT Metro NY/MAsT NY: “Guest speaker: slave david stein”
NY Bondage Club

Monday, September 14

Tuesday, September 15
TES: “The Business of BDSM: S&M as a Profession and The Law” with Collin

Wednesday, September 16
TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group: “The Mystic of the Black Dominant Woman”

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delight Delight G spot Vibrator

In the world of G-spot sex toys, there are ones that stand above the others.  The Delight G-spot Vibrator, by German manufacturer Fun Factory, is one of the ones that really shines.  Like all Fun Factory toys (including my favorite G-spot dildo the Curve), the Delight is a top quality product, made of body-safe materials and features a very innovative design.

Good G-spot sex toys feature the G-spot “curl” on the penetrating end to ensure that the toy will hit your G-spot effectively.  Remember, that the G-spot is only 1”-2” inside of the vagina, so the shaft doesn’t need to be long, but does have to have a curl or bulb on the end.  As you can see by the image, the Delight is designed in an S-shape with the curl (bulb) at one end and a looped handle at the other.  This ergonomically designed handle makes the Delight very easy to control and pump the G-spot once inserted with just your finger or thumb.  The penetrating head of this vibe is coated with soft silicone (so only use water-based lubes with it) and the handle is made from plastic.

Just this basic design alone, would make this toy a fantastic G-spot tool.  But, it also vibrates, adding to the intensity of your pleasure and stimulation.  While some women don’t care for vibration on their G-spot (and I use to be one of these) I have come to learn after much experimentation that my G-spot does respond to specific types of vibration.  The vibrations are especially good when I am warming up my entire vulva and just starting insertion and are controlled by (+) and (-) buttons, so very basic and easy to use.  The shape of the Delight allows for pressure against my G-spot and clitoris simultaneously, when I am working the toy in and out, building my pleasure in both areas to give me a dual clitoral and G-spot orgasm with lots of gushing!  The vibrations are very strong, so this toy works great for clitoral stimulation as well as G-spot, and both feel delicious.

The very best thing about the Delight (aside from giving me amazing orgasms!) is that it is a rechargeable vibrator.  I have found that, on top of being environmentally friendly, that rechargeable vibes are often much more powerful than battery operated ones, much like plug-in massagers.  This is definitely the case with the Delight, which has multiple speeds as well as various pulsation settings that rotate through the various oscillations. What is really cool is you just place your Delight into its hard plastic storage case which then plug-ins and it recharges in a few hours.  The charge lasts for quite a while as well, when not in use, as I charged mine a few days before I reviewed it (used it) and it was still strong.

The Delight G-spot Vibrator is delightful and gave me one of the most pleasurable G-spot and dual orgasms I have ever experienced, so now is my #1 favorite G-spot toy, which I intend to abuse again and again!

After using my Delight the first time (because I’m an orgasm maniac) I tried a new G-spot enhancement gel with it the second time: the Discover G-spot Gel by Intimate Organics.  This is my first time using Intimate Organics products and I was very impressed.

IO gspotgel Delight G spot Vibrator

All of my favorite lubes are body-friendly, natural organic products such as Yes! and Good Clean Love.  Intimate Organics is my new favorite.  This G-spot gel worked fabulously to begin to stimulate my G-spot and seemed to give me an even more intense orgasm.  It contains all natural ingredients including a blend of peppermint oil, Fo-Ti, Schizandra Chinesis and L-Arginine, which together draws blood naturally to the g-spot, increasing sensitivity and enlarging the area, making it easier to find.  About five minutes after I applied it I felt a mild cooling sensation and increased arousal.  From there, my body took over with ultimate pleasure, so excuse me if I can’t quite remember all the details, except, Wow! intense and amazing squirting orgasm.  The Discover G-spot Gel also does not contain harmful parabens, menthol (different from peppermint oil), animal products or glycerine.  People who have problems with genitals herpes will want to avoid it however because of the L-Arginine (which really works to increase sensitivity, but can aggravate the herpes virus).

As an added bonus, the Discover G-spot Gel comes with a little pamphlet, for those who are still in G-spot discovery mode, which is very helpful if you have yet to locate your own.  I highly recommend the Discover G-spot Gel by Intimate Organics.  In fact, it is the best G-spot stimulating gel I have ever tried and will definitely use it from now for the ultimate in G-spot pleasure.

Get your own Delight and Discover G-spot Gel at PinkCherry.com.

Shopping in Canada?  Try PinkCherry.ca!

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0 Find Lolita – September 2009 and beyond

DragonLily on everythingbutt.com

September 16-21 – Maryland
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp: teaching Kidz Rule!, Rope Bondage & Sex, Popping that Suspension Cherry, and The Well Hung Hand

September 25-27 – San Jose, CA
Folsom Fringe: teaching The Art of Co-Topping and Look Ma No Rope

October 23-25 – Chicago, IL
Kinky Kollege: teaching Kidz Rule! and CBT in a Nutshell

October 30-November 1 – Washington, DC
Black Rose: teaching Co-Topping, CBT, and Decorative Bloodsports

December 7 – NYC
Conversio Virium: teaching Trust

January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ
Southwest Leather Conference: teaching The Art of Co-Topping and Look Ma No Rope

Feb 5-6, Columbus, OH
Winter Wickedness: teaching TBA

February 26-28 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching TBA

April 15-18 – San Francisco, CA
International Ms. Leather: teaching TBA and coordinating the Celebrity Auction

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Sugasm #172

by Viviane on 09/07/2009

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francescab Sugasm #172

Photo: Francesca B (Met Art)

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #173? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
A Hot Fuck in a Parking Lot
“We got more daring and soon clothes were a hindrance to our insistent hands.”

I Think I’d Rather Misbehave
“I bet the secret thrill of this has your cock already climbing to attention.”

The Painter
“He says something, small talk, and I stutter something back, lost in the blue depths of his eyes.”

Sugasm Editor
Strildo?

Editor’s Choice
Yet Another Reason You Should Buy a Vibrator

Erotic Poetry

Enigmatic dance
Loved It.

Erotic Writing & Experiences
24 Hours To Cum
Be Careful What You Wish For…
Desire
Embarrassed, Amused and Turned On
Helping Hand
HNT 4 (and a savoury story)
Masturbation Madness
Mornings…
A much needed fucking…
Now She’s Giving The Orders
Shopping Day
This is Lolita on drugs (2)
This Is My Remedy
The Year 39 Update
You don’t want biographical info. I know what you REALLY want.

Sex Advice
Anal Play: Fingering
Brush Up Your Orgasm
Shay’s Condom Tips

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Burns of punishment
Famosas azotables
Fit to be Tied
Free Heidi Montag Playboy Pictures – September 2009
Learning the lesson…
Naked and Caned

BDSM & Fetish
4 Scenes
Collar, Cuffs And Clamps
Driven by lust….
Honey Pass Me the Nut Cracker
The Negress Natters: Submission.
The perfect body for three-minute porn

Sex Humor
How Many Licks?

Thoughts on Sex & Relationships
The Confession…Coming Soon
Half-Nekkid Heavenly Body
In Search of…. my Clitoris
Is this the dark side of porn?
(Mis)Adventures In Dating: Do You Know Who I Am?
Nonstop Orgasms – HER Perspective

News, Reviews & Interviews
Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin
Icegasm Kit
Top Five Tuesday – Win 1000 FREE Porn Minutes

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