From the monthly archives:

February 2011

  • The Health of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender People: Building a Foundation for Better Understanding – Institute of Medicine – To help assess the state of the science, the National Institutes of Health (NIH) asked the IOM to evaluate current knowledge of the health status of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender populations; to identify research gaps and opportunities; and to outline a research agenda to help NIH focus its research in this area. The IOM finds that to advance understanding of the health needs of all LGBT individuals, researchers need more data about the demographics of these populations, improved methods for collecting and analyzing data, and an increased participation of sexual and gender minorities in research. Building a more solid evidence base for LGBT health concerns will not only benefit LGBT individuals, but also add to the repository of health information we have that pertains to all people.
  • Walk of Shame? Baby, I Strut | Sex and the 405 – In the past months I have spoken with people at Playboy and Fleshbot about properties like that of NakedCity, tossing around the incredible paradox posed by sex on the internet. The masses can’t resist sex. Any story about sex on any publication goes through the roof with views. Sex sells, goes the tired saying, and when you look at it this way, it does…But make a property devoted solely to sex and you find yourself in the precarious situation of being completely unable to show serious financial reward for your efforts. Sex, apparently, sells everything except advertising space and any hope of a decent search ranking.
  • Bringing up the rear – Tracy Clark-Flory – Salon.com – For my generation, the back-door option is like what the blow job was to the generation that came before — just a fun new taboo waiting to be broken. The phenomenon of heterosexual guys participating in all sorts of arse play is something different, though. I’ve seen female-on-male strap-on sex go from the sort of thing tittered about in women’s magazines to hearing a male friend once drunkenly blurting out in a bar that he loved it.
  • How a sex rebel was born – Sex News, Sex Talk – Salon.com – She may have traded in her punk rock leathers for one of the least erotic materials on the planet, but her fierce rhetoric about sexual freedom and pleasure has stayed the same.
  • Anne Roiphe: Sex, Art and Booze Back When Writers Broke Taboos | The New York Observer -
  • Why is this so hard? Google, Facebook and adult retailing | Econsultancy – My day-to-day marketing activities are somewhat different from yours. Instead of optimising campaigns and formulating strategy, with every day comes a new onslaught of ad disapproval, a rumour of a change in policy, a decline from an ad network or long email conversation with a boilerplate-spouting representative…In this article I’ll give you an insight into the surprisingly not-salacious world of Adult Retailing in relation to the internet’s biggest players: Google and Facebook.
  • Glee – Sexy – Sex Education on TV – The TV show Glee is great fun, but I feel like it has consistently done a terrible job talking about sex. Not only has it played young people’s sexual ignorance for humor value – a main character thought he got his girlfriend pregnant by being in a hot tub with her for much of the first season- it has allowed these misconceptions to stand as truth for months at a time.

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R.I.P. Lenny Waller

by Viviane on 03/30/2011

in new york

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Lenny Waller, Owner of the Hellfire Club, at Cinekink's screening of Michele Capozzi's "Pornology."

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Lolita Wolf and Lenny Waller, Barbara Nitke's Smooth Operator Opening

Although I moved to Manhattan in the 1980′s, I never mustered up the courage to visit the Hellfire Club, where Lenny Waller was the manager. I later got to meet him when Cinekink screened Michele Capozzi’s Pornology. Lenny was a pillar of the leather community and organized the annual AIDS Candlelight Vigil.

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The Daily Show With Jon Stewart Mon – Thurs 11p / 10c
A Room of One’s Own
www.thedailyshow.com
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Wyatt Cenac describes the exquisite (read: masochistic) dance between reporters and the White House as he’s handcuffed in the Nixon boiler room. Via Selina Fire.

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03/30/2011
7:00 PM

 

susiebrighttiara Susie Bright at Bluestockings: Reading, Signing, Memoir Discussion... and Feh Muh Nism!

Susie Bright. Photo by Stacie Joy. Used with permission.

Please join Bluestockings in welcoming the spectacular Susie Bright for a reading and signing of Big Sex Little Death, her enthralling and intimate memoir in which she reveals her extraordinary life story for the first time. From fearful Irish Catholic Girl Scout to gun-toting teenage revolutionary – and through to her emergence as the avatar of American erotica, Bright’s life was shaped by America’s sexual awakening while our sexual landscape was being altered by her life as a sexual freedom fighter. Come out and get an inspired taste of Susie Bright’s tale – bold, unpredictable, larger-than-life yet utterly-true.

Location: Bluestockings Bookstore, 172 Allen St., NYC. Get directions using Hopstop.
Cost: Free
More info:  http://bluestockings.com/events/

Big Sex Little Death – A Memoir by Susie Bright
http://bigsexlittledeath.com/

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03/31/2011
7:00 PMto8:00 PM

bigsexlittledeath susiebright 199x300 Susie Bright at Strand Books, NYC

Doug Henwood Interviews Susie Bright (A live taped Audible interview)

One of the country’s foremost sex educators, activists and writers, Susie Bright is an outspoken advocate of sexual equality and freedom. She came of age during a time in our country’s history when sex and politics began to collide. In this widely-anticipated and intimate memoir, Big Sex Little Death, Bright recounts the adventure, sacrifice, danger and controversy of her unexpected and extraordinary life.

Doug Henwood, publisher of Left Business Observer and contributing editor of The Nation, will interview Susie Bright on the Strand Stage.

Where:     Strand Bookstore, 828 Broadway (12th/13th St), New York, NY
cost:     FREE

Book Tour Info: http://bigsexlittledeath.com/44588494

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viladia 07 Viladia (I Feel Myself)

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03/23/2011
8:00 PMto10:30 PM

Thor Stockman returns with a new installment of his popular S/M AT THE MOVIES film clips programs, this one featuring the best (and worst) of bondage scenes and situations in Hollywood and foreign cinema, ranging from highly proficient and erotic Japanese-style bondage to tie-downs Thor classifies as “bondage my grandmother could get out of.” Come see some familiar favorites as well as new discoveries! Special prizes will be awarded for those who come dressed and restrained from their favorite movie bondage scene, as well as those who sit through the entire film clips program in bondage!

Location: The Eulenspiegel Society, 260 W 36 St. 3rd Fl
Cost: $8 admission

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Rope Share

by Viviane on 03/14/2011

in Events,rope,shibari

03/20/2011
1:00 PM
1:00 PM

The next Rope Share will be on March 20, 2011 from 1 PM to 4 PM. We’ll concentrate on full body harnesses. Any one of these ties is all that you need to make a person feel “tied up”, yet each of them can also serve as the foundation for more elaborate bondage.

We’ll work on four great ties:

  • The Alien Baby Harness
  • Master Mike’s Prisoner Harness
  • The Lightning Harness
  • & The Knitting Harness

For this Rope Share, you’ll need only one 50-foot length of rope (preferred), or two 25-foot lengths. We’ll give you plenty of time for hands-on practice, and each participant will get individual attention.

People of All Genders and Orientations are Welcome! Participants must be over 18.

Location: Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site). The specific address will be emailed upon registration.

Cost: $25 per person

Instructors: Tyutumi and Master Mike

ROPE SHARE is a series of bondage workshops that are structured to fit your skill level and interests. There are two highly skilled rope instructors. The attendance will be limited to 12 students.

This is a lab-environment setting and we will practice on one another. Please be open to both tie and be tied for the sake of education. Please wear comfortable clothing as there is no nudity during the class.

BRING ROPE: 1 length of 50 ft. (preferred), or 2 lengths of 25 ft.; and safety scissors. Cotton, nylon, hemp, and jute are all fine.

TO REGISTER, send an email to RopeShare@gmail.com with “Rope Share Sign Up” as the subject line.

Include the following information in your email:

1. Your name (Scene name or legal)

2. Contact phone number and email address

3. Rope bondage experience and skill level (Please be brief)

4. What you are interested in learning

5. How you heard about this workshop

Sign up now as places are expected to fill quickly! Ropers at any level of skill/experience are welcome!!

Each participant will receive individual attention, and we will progress at your pace.

Instructors’ Bios

TYUTUMI is a bondage enthusiast who has been teaching rope bondage since 2003. He received advanced training in Japanese-style bondage from Midori, and continues to study with her at every opportunity. A graduate of Midori’s Advanced Dojo, Tyutumi also studied with well-known rope artists at Shibaricon. He was a member of Gay Men SM Activists (GMSMA) for many years, serving on its Program Committee and presenting a number of GMSMA programs and workshops. He is a longtime member of the New York Bondage Club and Delta International. He has presented bondage demos and classes at The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), GMSMA, Mid-Atlantic Leather (MAL), The Museum of Sex, Rope Share and Delta. Tyutumi is the founder of the Rope Dojo of New York.

MASTER MIKE has been practicing Japanese rope bondage since 2006 and is a graduate of Tyutumi’s shibari class. His proficiency as a roper prompted an invitation to join Tyutumi’s monthly rope dojo, and he has been a valued instructor at Rope Share. He holds a certificate from Midori’s intensive Rope Bondage workshop. Master Mike completed the six-month GMSMA novices special interest group in 2006 and was an active member of GMSMA until 2009. He enjoys teaching others what he knows about rope and creating imaginative, safe bondage scenes. Master Mike’s effectiveness as a rope instructor derives from his authority, humor, clarity and gentleness.

To contact Tyutumi and Master Mike for private lessons: tyutumi at gmail dot com

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Bookmarks

by Viviane on 03/11/2011

in del.icio.us,sex

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Full gallery (Joymii)

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MIDORI G 224x300 Midoris March and April NYC Appearances

Thursday, 3/17
“Interrogation & Military Play” at Purple Passion

Fri  3/18
“Hands-on Rope Body Harness workshop”  for Lesbian Sex Mafia

Sat, 3/19- Sun, 3/20            
Rope Bondage Dojo
(sold out, but there is a waiting list)

Wed, 3/23
“JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man” at The Pleasure Chest. (FREE)

4/13 – 4/14
Special small group classes organized by Midori at a private location. Stay tuned for info!

Fri 4/15 – Sun, 4/17
ForteFemme Women’s Dominance Weekend Intensive

Mon, 4/18
“Predicament Bondage” at Purple Passion

Mon, 4/25
“Backdoor Antics” at The Pleasure Chest

Questions? Send any replies or questions: Ask@PlanetMidori.com

 

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Deja Chan Deja Chan (Nena Blue)

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Bookmarks

by Viviane on 03/02/2011

in del.icio.us,sex

  • Control Tower by Mistress Matisse – The Stranger – Because being a nerd—especially if one participates in nerd culture around things like comic books, science fiction/fantasy, RPGing, etc.—is excellent training for becoming an active member of the BDSM community. The young nerd, shunned by the elite, perforce becomes accustomed to hanging around other nerds and social outcasts of all types. Nerds thus develop a high tolerance for socially nonconforming people and come to feel that such individuals are, by definition, nicer and more interesting than the Cool Kids. They embrace being weird, in other words.
  • Majoring in Kink | The Eye – I’m at the semester’s first meeting of Conversio Virium, Columbia’s BDSM, or kinky sex, education group, witnessing famed fetishist Dov demonstrate “rough body play,” or “thug play.” The demonstration is instructional, with an emphasis on avoiding actual bodily harm, but it’s easy to forget this as Dov maneuvers her onto the floor, grip strong, demonstrating an impressive and creative repertoire of ways to twist her body and apply force.
  • The Cambridge Porn Debate Story « The Sexademic – I waited to hear what I knew would be many misrepresentations of the porn industry as well as false data. It came rather quickly when she stated that the average age of internet porn exposure was 11.
  • Sex, Law, and Cinema in the Digital Age (1989-2010) – James Fallows – Personal – The Atlantic – On that cheery note, here’s my survey of the key social, legal, cinematic, and technological moments of the last 22 years, with my take on how they delivered us (and by “us” I mean “me”) to where we are now.

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03/22/2011
7:00 PMto10:00 PM

RS31 Tristan Taorminos Rough Sex 3: Adriannas Dangerous Mind Release Party

Fleshbot and Tristan Taormino
invite you to celebrate the release of

ROUGH SEX 3: ADRIANNA’S DANGEROUS MIND

Celebrate the release of this much-anticipated film which represents a collaboration like no other–between feminist pornographer Tristan Taormino and adult superstar Adrianna Nicole. Adrianna picked her co-stars and the scenarios based on her real fantasies; the film she imagined gives viewers an unprecedented look at her explosive sexuality. See what’s inside Adrianna’s dangerous mind.

  • Meet Adrianna Nicole, co-star of the film Jiz Lee, director Tristan Taormino, Danny Wylde and other special guests
  • Complimentary Original Sin Hard Cider from 7-8
  • Sip on “The Eleven” and “Pure Plug,” the signature cocktails of the evening inspired by Adrianna’s favorite toys
  • Celebrate Adrianna’s birthday
  • Get your free poster signed by the stars and a sexy gift bag
  • See a sneak preview of the movie!

Where: Fontana’s, 105 Eldridge St, NYC (Get directions using Hopstop)

Cost: FREE

Co- Sponsored by

Gift bags sponsored by

More info: http://bit.ly/taorminoRS3

Facebook RSVP: http://on.fb.me/ttrs3fb

Fetlife RSVP: http://fetlife.com/events/44095

Updated:

Tristan’s been posting (NSFW) pics from the Rough Sex 3 on her Tumblr:

Adrianna Nicole and Jiz Lee
http://bit.ly/fEiu7i

“Cash” starring Adrianna Nicole & Ramon Nomarxxx
http://bit.ly/gvTRVg

Adrianna Nicole & Jada Fire
http://bit.ly/g8J00u

“Jock” Nat Turnher, Danny Wylde, Keni Styles & Evan Stone give Adrianna Nicole a workout
http://bit.ly/edzMmu

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