How to Be a Dominant Diva
by Georgia Payne and Julie Taylor
Ok, so who doesn’t want to be a Dominant Diva once in a while?Â Even if you are submissive by nature, or like your partner to be the one in control, sometimes it is thrilling, fun, and empowering to switch the power exchange and bring a bit of unexpected excitement into a relationship.Â This is what “How to Be a Dominant Diva” is all about.
This book is tremendously different than what I was expecting.Â First, I thought by the title that it was a book that focused on D/s play.Â And, while there is some spanking, bondage and blindfolding scenarios in the book, it is marketed towards vanilla heterosexual couples.Â Second, I thought it might be one of those lame books that gives you stupid ideas and quotes on every page, like: “Tonight, try a blindfold!” or “Flavored lubes are a great way to spice up oral sex!”Â But, this book is actually way deeper and more interesting than that.
First of all, the book is written by two fairly qualified Divas.Â Julie Taylor is a writer for Cosmopolitan and Glamour and “has written over 100 sex and relationship features for major magazines”.Â Georgia Payne is “one of America’s most prominent dominatrixes with a large clientele in both Los Angeles and New York.”Â Both these women are long time friends and have put their ideas and experience together in creating this book, with 69 sexy scenarios you can use with your partner to add a bit of spontaneity and exhilaration into an otherwise “ordinary” love life.
I was actually impressed with the thought put into creating these erotic adventures, such as “Naughty Nurse,” “Treasure Hunt,” “Driving Miss Diva,” “Naked Sushi,” “Abduction Seduction,” and “Caught and Cuffed.”Â Each scenario has a front page, then a pull out action plan to guide you through each encounter, detailing the props you will need to carry out your seductive quest.Â The following is an excerpt from the book, courtesy of DominantDiva.com “Meet me at Halftime”.
There are a lot of inspiring ideas that will certainly give some fuel to your fire and get your partner’s motor running as well.Â Each adventure uses the element of suspense and surprise to entice and seduce, which are techniques that many of us forget in our day-to-day lives.Â Many are played out like games or scavengers hunts, in which your lover wins sex as the prize.Â These sexual explorations are not just simple rolls in the hay but ideas that will turn each exploit into a sizzling “sexperience” and night to remember.
This book is a great activity book for those seeking ways to add more pleasure and excitement to their love life.Â It’s a keeper and will give you lots of food for fodder to create your own unique sexcapades as well.
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