bondage

by Mark Fass

A Manhattan judge has ordered the New York City Police Department to shine a light on the hazy legal line separating bondage, domination and sadomasochism from prostitution.

In a decision last week, Supreme Court Justice Carol R. Edmead directed the NYPD to provide the Urban Justice Center’s Sex Workers Project with documents regarding police investigations of several Manhattan bondage, domination and sadomasochism clubs between 2006 and 2008.

The judge, however, ruled that the police department is not required to turn over a copy of a confidential Vice Enforcement Division manual, which sets forth the procedures used by undercover agents to identify, engage and arrest suspected prostitutes.

“Disclosure of this information…would ‘furnish the safecracker with the combination to the safe,’ as it would alert the potential violators of the prostitution laws to the unique factors and methods the undercover police officers are likely to use to communicate with the other members of the team,” Justice Edmead wrote in Urban Justice Center v. New York Police Department, 400988/2010 (Subscription reqd).

The Sex Workers Project, which provides legal services and policy advocacy for people who work in the sex industry—exotic dancers, dominatrices and pornography actors, among others—considers the contested documents essential to understanding how the NYPD interprets and enforces New York Penal Law 230.00, the single-sentence statute that prohibits engaging in “sexual conduct” for a fee, but fails to define “sexual conduct.”

Since NYPL 230.00 was enacted in 1969—”prostitution” had previously been treated as a form of vagrancy, according to the annotated McKinney’s Penal Law—the definition of “sexual conduct” has slowly been teased out by the courts. Homosexual intercourse is “sexual conduct,” courts have ruled, though “lap dancing” is not—so long as the person providing the lap does not touch the dancer’s naked breasts or buttocks.

The case law provides scant guidance regarding bondage, domination and “fetish for a fee” services. Only a single reported opinion, the 1994 Brooklyn Criminal Court decision People v. Georgia A., 163 Misc.2d 634, addresses whether such acts constitute prohibited “sexual conduct.”

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08/04/2010
8:00 PMto10:00 PM

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Where: Joria Studios, Address: 260 West 36th Street, 3rd floor, NY, NY
Cost: $4 for TES Members, students with ID, or members of other fetish groups with ID cards, $8 for Non-members

Securing large cold metal objects into your partner can be a lot of fun. Unfortunately they have a tendency to come out if they are not secured properly. In this class we will demonstrate how to keep pussy and ass hooks in place with rope. Add a vibrator and some more rope and you are all set for a fun scene.

Doors open at 7:30 p.m., Meeting starts at 8 p.m.

TES Fest 2010

by Viviane on 05/26/2010

in Events, sex

07/02/2010to07/05/2010

tesfest2010 1 TES Fest 2010

Location: Piscataway, NJ

TES Fest  is the annual gathering for the BDSM and sex-positive communities to celebrate the steps TES‘s founding fathers took in 1971:  the opportunity to find our freedom.

Taking place over the Fourth of July weekend, TES Fest is the premiere event in the NYC Metro region for everyone (from amateurs to seasoned veterans) to socialize, learn new skills and simply have a great time. With classes and special events covering the gamut of topics and special interests, TES Fest allows people to explore, educate and entertain themselves in a healthy, safe and sane environment.

TES Fest 2010 will be held July 2-5, 2010 at a 3 star hotel in Piscataway, N. J. We will have the ENTIRE hotel for the weekend. There will be no shuttle buses to ride, everything all in the same place.

We have tons of classes, great vendors, and fabulous play-space setup by The Crucible. Come out and relax and play. No stress. Cool people. Who needs the beach when we have a pool all to ourselves? What more do you want for a holiday weekend.

See the TES Fest website for information about registering, presenters, special events, the event hotel, etc.

TES Fest Class list (subject to change)

Self Skills
- So You Want to Be a Slut?… Survival Tips on How to Do it Safely, Sanely, and Just Have Fun! – Aiden Fyre
- What is Queer?: Dissecting Sex, Gender and Orientation – Aiden Fyre
- They’re Sexy, I’m Not. How To Get Over It And Find You! – Coral
- Gender Transformation – Klawdya Rothschild
- The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-Eyed Monster – Lolita Wolf
- 7 Touchstones for Getting and Keeping Passionate Relationships Fostering & Establishing Leather Families – Lady Hilary and The Marine

Ouch
- Flogging 101 – If Boymeat Can Flog, So Can You! – Boymeat
- Spanking – Pat Baillie
- Advanced Caning – Coraline
- Massaging Masochists – Joshua HighTower
- Beginner Single Tail Whips – Master George
- Advanced Single Tail Whips – Master George
- Sufi-inspired strategies for pain processing – Rope Boi
- Yielding to Brutality: Punching and Kicking with Love – Lady Hilary and The Marine

Potpourri
- Electricity – Shockingly Affordable! – Boymeat
- Aural Sex: The Erotic Power of Music and Words – Coraline
- Feral Play – Joshua HighTower
- I’m a Barbie Girl: Doll fetishes and mindset – Ms. CherriesJubalie
- Cram Your Strawberries! Food Play from Nibbles to the Edge – Nayland
- Sade and Masoch: A History Lesson – Rope Boi

Edge
- Once a Month… Menstrual Play – Coral
- Straight to the Point: Erotic and Intense Play Piercing – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
- Bloodsports 201 – Sharrin Spector
- Rituals in Blood – Sharrin Spector
- Embarrass, Humiliate Degrade, Objectify: Basics of Psychological Status Play – Nayland
- Fireplay 101 – Pairadox
- Fireplay 201 – Pairadox
- I Ask The Questions Here: Military Style Interrogations – Sir Guy

Rope
- Rope Bondage for Beginners – Lolita Wolf
- Breaking it Down : Symmetrical Ties (Part I) – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
- Breaking it Down : Asymmetrical Ties (Part II) – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
- Arm Binders – Leon von Monkey Fetish
- Fancy Simple Knots You Can Pervert for Fun and Profit – Dov
- Throwing away the Book: Techniques to Take Your Bondage to the Next Level – Leon von Monkey Fetish
- Partial Suspension – Dov
- Suspension – Klawdya Rothschild
- Dancing in the Ropes: Adding Dynamics to your Scene – Ms. CherriesJubalie

Sex & Love
- Intro to CBT – Helga
- Sounds and Catheterization – Helga
- Get Back Into the Love in Your Life – Morgan Lewis, HMQ
- Sacred Sex and Sacred Whoredom – Klawdya Rothschild
- Squirting 101 – Sammi Sui
- Anal 101 – Strap-on Jo
- Strap-ons 101 – Strap-on Jo

D/s & M/s
- Discovering Dominance: A Guide to the Dominant Beginner – Sir Guy
- Daddy as an Act of Service – Pat Baillie
- Master/slave Relations: A Corporate Approach – Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)
- Using Protocols to Make Your Relationship Special – Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)
- Components of a Submissive’s Psychology – Sea
- Languages of D/s – Sea
- Healthy Surrender – tomo
- Living the Life 24/7 – tomo

05/20/2010
7:00 PMto9:00 PM

web lolitawolf 300x241 Purple Passion Class: Rope Bondage for Beginners w. Lolita Wolf

Location:  Purple Passion, 211 West 20th St NYC

Tel: 212.807.0486

Cost: $20/per person. Prepaying and or preregistering  is advised. We are limiting the class size so that everyone will be able to learn. Because so many people have asked us to start doing workshops again, we are starting with our most popular one!

Learn some basics that will be the building blocks for creating ties that will give you versatility in the bedroom or the dungeon. Come with a partner or we will try to match singles up.

Supplies: Bring two lengths of 30 foot rope.

About our presenter: Lolita Wolf

She has been active in the BDSM community since the min 80′s. She has been active in many of the local groups TES, LSM, LPN, GMSMA.
Loves, loves, loves, bondage and has given numerous workshops around the country on this subject. She is very knowledgable in many other areas of BDSM, has won numerous awards and even produced some educational videos. If you are a novice and or someone who wants to learn the art of bondage, this is the workshop for you !!

Workshop Attendees get Special Store Discounts! All registered attendees get 15% off all merchandise before and after the workshop (except for sale items).

PP Purple Passion Class: Rope Bondage for Beginners w. Lolita Wolf

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  • What I Write for Money, Honey | Chelsea G. Summers | Filthy Gorgeous Things – The great irony about it all is that I hold great ambivalence about my sex writing—the only writing that I have complete confidence in. While it’s true that in the kingdom of ambivalence I wear the royal skort and eat with the royal spork, I remain unwaveringly ambivalent about the sex-writing.
  • Anna Paquin Comes Out as Bisexual – Anna Paquin : People.com -
  • Can Animals Be Gay? – NYTimes.com – Various forms of same-sex sexual activity have been recorded in more than 450 different species of animals by now, from flamingos to bison to beetles to guppies to warthogs. A female koala might force another female against a tree and mount her, while throwing back her head and releasing what one scientist described as “exhalated belchlike sounds.” Male Amazon River dolphins have been known to penetrate each other in the blowhole. Within most species, homosexual sex has been documented only sporadically, and there appear to be few cases of individual animals who engage in it exclusively.
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  • An Epidemic of Sex Addiction? | Dr. Marty Klein | Sexual Intelligence – I’ve been a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist for 30 years. That’s some 30,000 sessions with men, women, and couples—a ringside seat at the human circus. The guy was yet another supposed “sex addict.” I listened to his story carefully, and told him I sympathized with how he had damaged his life and hurt people with bad sexual decisions. “But I don’t treat ‘sex addiction,’” I said. I think it’s a bogus concept.

04/08/2010
8:00 PM

midori wildsidesex LSM Presents: Ultimate Dildo Harness & Other Cool Pervertables quickie tips with Midori

Where:  Pearl Studios, 500 8th Avenue (35th/36th), 12th Floor, NYC
Cost: $5/LSM members, $10/Non members

Come to this hands-on class to learn how to make the best fitting dildo harness ever! Great for all body types, secure and easy. No more fussing with straps, getting scratched with Velcro, poked by buckles or hassle of post-sex leather care. Also learn fast easy play tips with items in your closet. Midori will supply dildos, scarves and material to make your harness, but we strongly encourage you to bring your favorite dildo and long scarves.

About Midori

One of our favorite presenters at Lesbian Sex Mafia, frequent sightings of her from around the globe make us wonder if she ever sleeps or if she¹s cloned her self. A sex-positive activist, artist and educator, she¹s made an improbable career out of being the traveling sexpert. Don¹t miss the groundbreaking book “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” which first cracked open the mysteries to Westerners, the hot essays in “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink” and twisted dark science fiction in “Master Han¹s Daughter.” Learn the basics in “Midori¹s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage” DVD. Don’t miss her other classes while she’s in NYC. You’ll find her adventures, twitters, calendar and more at PlanetMidori.com.

About Lesbian Sex Mafia

Lesbian Sex Mafia is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. And, who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way.

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  • Q: What to do if attacked by Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks? | Sex In The Public Square – Margaret Brooks and Donna M. Hughes recently attacked Maymay, originator of the KinkForAll unconference model, in a bulletin published by their organization, Citizens Against Trafficking (CAT), which Maymay suggests is more suitably named Citizens Against Sexual Freedom and Discussion (CASFD). The bulletin [1] uses a technique typical of CAT CASFD: Take out-of-context statements and blend them with factual inaccuracies to produce a piece of writing capable of creating (or sustaining) irrational moral panic on the part of those who read it.
  • The mythology of prostitution – advocacy research and public policy | Ronald Weitzer – This article examines the claims made by organizations, activists, and scholars who embrace the oppression paradigm, evaluates the reasoning and evidence used in support of their claims, and highlights some of the ways in which this perspective has influenced recent legislation and public policy in selected nations. The author presents an alternative perspective, the polymorphous paradigm, and suggests that public policy on prostitution would be better informed by this <br />
    evidence-based perspective.

02/25/2010
9:00 PMto10:30 PM

redress Hot Knots: A Fat Positive Bondage Benefit

A Fat-Positive Bondage Benefit
with the one and only Sarah Jenny
Queer-centric, allies welcome.

Please bring your own length of rope on which to practice! Ideally 25 feet but 10 feet is also okay. Otherwise, you can watch/take notes or find a partner to share with! Jute, hemp, or nylon are all good. Do not use clothesline. Quality rope can be purchased at Babeland or Purple Passion in Chelsea http://store.purplepassion.com/servlet/Detail?no=1230

All proceeds to benefit SAFER – Students Active for Ending Rape
Reforming college sexual assault policies through direct student action.
For more info: www.safercampus.org

Any questions/comments etc. can be directed to erin at safercampus dot org

Facebook link: http://bit.ly/cyAxkZ
Fetlife: http://fetlife.com/events/11961

Location: Re/Dress NYC, 109 Boerum Place, Brooklyn, NY
( F/G to Bergen)

Cost: Sliding scale – suggested donation $10-15. No one turned away for lack of funds.
For Fatties, their Friends & Fiends! All sizes encouraged to come!

02/06/2010
10:00 AMto6:30 PM

kfapvd KinkForAll Providence

Location: Brown University, Wilson Hall
Street: Intersection of Brown Street and George Street
City/Town: Providence, RI
Google Maps: http://bit.ly/a4a7gB

KinkForAll is an ad-hoc educational unconference about the convergence of sexuality with the rest of life for anyone and everyone. It is 100% free and open to the public. Anyone with the desire to learn or with something to contribute is welcome and invited to participate.

KinkForAll is a 100% free event that is open to the public. It is an intense event with discussions, presentations, and interaction from all participants. There are no spectators, only participants. To attend, you must give a presentation or otherwise help out in some way (check the wiki or email queer@brown.edu if you want to know more about ways in which you can get involved!).

KinkForAll events aim to create shared knowledge with lasting benefit to humanity. KinkForAll is inspired by and based upon the BarCamp community and unconference model.

ABOUT ACCESSIBILITY:
KFA Providence will be hosted on the campus of Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island. We have four rooms in Wilson Hall at our disposal (101, 103, 105, and 109), all on the first floor (though there are stairs in front of the building). However, the building is unfortunately NOT handicapped accessible, so if you believe you will need special accommodations of any sort, please contact Aida Manduley (queer AT brown dot edu) as soon as possible.

Participate online before the event at your favorite social networking
web site:

Homepage (and to RSVP): http://kinkforall.pbworks.com/KinkForAllProvidence
Google: http://groups.google.com/group/kinkforall
Twitter: http://twitter.com/KinkForAll
Identica: http://identi.ca/kinkforall
Facebook: http://bit.ly/ds5War
Fetlife: http://fetlife.com/groups/2962

All organizational efforts are coordinated in public via the mailing  list. Join for free and help turn ideas into realities!

http://groups.google.com/group/kinkforall

Shibaricon ’10

by Viviane on 12/16/2009

in Events

05/28/2010to05/31/2010

shibaricon Shibaricon 10

SHIBARICON
Learn Experience Share
May 28-31, 2010
Chicago, IL USA

(Register early & save $$! Only 2115 days left to register at the early reg price of $155.00)

It’s that time of year again. Registration for Shibaricon 2010 is open and many from over 23 US States & 3 countries have already registered for this can’t-miss event. Will you be among them? The Shibaricon staff is already working very hard to prepare a wonderful event just for you. Don’t be left out! Register early & save!

Shibaricon is the premier annual pansexual educational conference for lovers of rope bondage, by lovers of rope bondage. The focus of the event is education, with over 90 classes being offered this year we will have our most packed schedule ever. There will be something for everyone, top, bottom, switch, newly curious or seasoned rigger, Shibaricon will offer something for you. Here’s what you can expect:

4 days filled with over 90 classes by over 45 of the best rope educators around including Midori, Zamil, Lochai, Mark & Lani DV8 House, Lee Harrington, Two Knotty Boys, Dr-Phil, Sir C, Scott Smith, Tony Buff & Derek Da Silva, Sophia Sky, LqqkOut, Mike West, Michael Sol, David Lawrence, Suzanne SxySadist, Dov, Taipan, Tatu, BossBondage & too many more to mention! Please check http://www.shibaricon.com for more details about presenter & schedule information in the next month or so.

Office Hours are back! Stop by the practice room for independent study or some extra tutoring.

Vendor Mall where you can buy rope, toys, corsets, shoes and equipment.

3 nights of play in our fully equipped spaces, including equipment by Bonds of Steel.

Special events including a meet & greet Thursday night where you can meet presenters & get to know your fellow attendees, Opening & Closing Ceremonies hosted by Psychokitty, a special Saturday night performance by Zamil .

Human feline friends, you won’t want to miss Psychokitty’s Kitty Play Party, back by popular demand!

Our home is a beautiful hotel near O’Hare airport with great amenities, a friendly service oriented staff, free airport shuttle and much more. For those of you looking forward to taking a few hours to shop at IML, our hotel is located walking distance from the train to downtown Chicago.

Please join us for a fantastic weekend filled with education, fun and friendship. Come find out why Shibaricon has become treasured tradition among so many rope lovers from all over the world. Check shibaricon.com for details and updates. We hope to see you there!

Thanks,
Diana & the Shibaricon Team

Shot in Barcelona, the short is part of a larger project currently in development.

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Sugasm #173

by Viviane on 09/27/2009

in sugasm

nikkycase whitebikini Sugasm #173

Photo: Nikky Case (Met-Art)

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #174? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Dressing Room Voyeur
“I caught his gaze this time, on purpose.”

It’s Always the Quiet Ones…
“So grabbing her hips, I pulled her in for a kiss.”

Behind Closed Doors
“Others had watched, she beat me, brought me to tears, held me and then began to untie me.”

Sugasm Editor
The Mouse Drama

Editor’s Choice
Let the Rain Come

News, Reviews & Interviews
Book Review: Anal Pleasure and Health
Champion
Earth Angel podcast review – the first 100% green sex toy!
LELO Gigi
Lelo Gigi Made Me A Very Happy Girl!

Thoughts on Sex & Relationships
Dating Options 101: Whatchagot
Finally, my thoughts on marriage equality
I hate online dating period

BDSM & Fetish
Being Bendy, Beaten and Punished
Make Me Want It
Male Chastity Devices
Miss Susan, Nick B and Montreal Fetish Weekend
Moments
The One I Miss the Most
Sissy Hubby
Spanking Fake
Tuesday Night – The First Time

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
2 Pretty maids severely spanked
Aimee Addison
Deep cutting cane stripes
Hal-Nekkid Anniversary pt2
Huge wobbly buttocks
Kelly Brook in Sexy Lingerie
Sunflowers part III
Take Comfort

Sex Advice
Can a Woman Feel When a Man Ejaculates Inside Her?
How To Fuck in Public or Recession Era Hook-up Spots

Erotic Writing & Experiences
The Accidental Orgy
Blowjobs and Beautiful People
The Conclusion of the Duchess’s Adventure
Cottage Country part 1
Countdown. Confession #340
Dance the Night Away, Part 2
Darklady’s Detention Hall (an Event Report)
Flasher: Regrets
Glow
HNT: The Gift
Keys
Lessons Learned (1/2)
Red And Blue Make…
Rub Me Up The Right Way
She Deserves Better
The Succubus Wakes
Voicemail
Working.

Erotic Poetry
Her Warmth
Licking The Beatles