Join the Friends of Jefferson
on August 27, 7 p.m. to 10 p.m.
at
Happy Ending Lounge
302 Broome Street, NYC • B or D to Grand Street
J, M, Z to Bowery • F to Delancy
$20 suggested donation—but pay what you wish
Come and get your spank on at the Spanking Booth! Enter to win:
Babeland gift certificates • Books • Venus Ropes Whip-and-Cane Bag Set and Rope • A Scene or Lesson with Boymeat • The Erotic Art of Spanking DVD w/ book, by Lolita Wolf • Hitachi Magic Wand • Home Depot Pervertables Kit • DVDs • For Your Nyphomation Flogger Trunk • A Scene or Lesson with Lolita Wolf • and more!
100 percent of door donations and raffle proceeds benefit the Friends of Jefferson Legal Defense Fund, which is administered by the Sexual Freedom Legal Defense and Education Fund
[Graphic by Lynsey]
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Jezebelism (Lizz Winstead, Huffington Post):
I don’t know if they came to the show drunk, or just ended up drunk by the time they hit the stage, but what I do know is that the discussion that ensued was deeply disturbing to me for a few reasons:
1. Because they had no regard for the people who came that night and paid money to hear them speak.
2. They do not understand the influence they have over the women who read them, nor do they accept any responsibility as role models for young women who are coming of age searching for lifestyles to emulate.
Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking (Anna, Jezebel.com):
These three women had the chance to have a fun, spirited discussion — or a serious talk; it remains unclear what the event was “supposed” to be — about issues like pop culture, politics, lifestyle choices, what it means to be a woman and/or a feminist, and the intersection of personal and professional responsibility. That chance was squandered. Some blame the format, or the participants, or generational differences, or alcohol, or the provocative subject matter, or unrealistic expectations, inarticulateness and lack of preparedness. I believe that everyone, however, can agree that the whole thing was a fucking shame.
Jezebel Writers Too Smart To Be Raped (College Candy)
We have no problem with the choices these women make in their personal lives, but we do have a problem with the fact that they take an issue like rape and make light of it. Pass it off like it’s funny, impossible, fictional and that they are too smart to let it happen to them…
Though we may not want to be role models, blogging comes with that responsibility. We would be jobless if it weren’t for the people who read and emulate us, so it is disgusting for these two ladies of Jezebel to ignore their responsibilities and make light of such a serious situation. . .
It may have been the wine talking, but what they said is embarrassing and just plain wrong. Women today are very lucky to live in a society that allows us the freedom to choose our lifestyle; we cannot take it for granted.
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I am pleased to announce the brand spanking new home of my blog, Lolita’s Predictions & Predilections. This spiffy new design is at my own domain,
http://www.leatheryenta.com. Viviane, my Blog Mommy, has been working on this move for months! Thank you,
Viviane! And thanks to
Nayland Blake for the banner photo.
In addition to the new home for my blog, there are some new features:
- A page with my class list (38 classes).
- A page with my reviews and recommendations.
- 100 Divas has been moved here (I’m hoping to add to the list).
- My blogroll is on the links page which also features links to organizations and my favorite vanilla links.
- The archives have been transferred over as well.
- And there’s a tag cloud to help you find other posts that may interest you.
- I’ve also cleaned up the affiliates in the sidebar. Good Dyke Porn has been added. Look for more affiliates to be added in the coming weeks.
If you are reading this through a feed reader, you shouldn’t see any difference, except for some additional posts that you’ve already read will show up again. I am switching the feed address right tonight.
You can subscribe to read my blog through my feed:
http://feeds.feedburner.com/lolitawolf
You can also subscribe to receive the posts via email:
http://www.feedburner.com/fb/a/emailverifySubmit?feedId=871726&loc=en_US
If you are reading this on a LiveJournal synidicated feed, go to http://syndicated.livejournal.com/lolitaspnp/profile and add as a friend and then you will get a mirror of the blog into your LJ.
If you link to me or if I am in your blogroll, thank you! Please change the link to http://www.leatheryenta.com in order to stay up to date.
I am so thrilled with my new home on the internet!
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I had my first threesome with two friends last night. Needless to say, that is so tooooootally not how I expected yesterday evening / this morning to turn out.
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We talked. Safer sex, my history, hers, why I don’t go down, that I wanted to with her. This conversation, inevitably, led to kissing, my mouth on her neck, clavicle, nipples, which was suddenly such a heightened sensation because we were both so aware
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Wedding bells will begin ringing for California’s same-sex couples at 5 p.m. June 16, state officials said Thursday. (Note: they also are seeking volunteers to help with the weddings)
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J.K. Rowling’s commencement address to the graduating class of 2008.
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As it seems, this story has accomplished just the opposite of helping her come clean. Among both bloggers and those that follow them, Gould is now known as a calculating narcissist who chose to cash in on the very same strategy that presumably drove her t
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He used such a crass image to verbally smack me in the mouth. To shut me up. I suppose he referred to my other colleague’s private parts to prevent any possible accusation that he’d suggested sexual acts done on him. He changed the rules of engagement to
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I sat back down on the bed and took his hard cock into my hands as he scratched at my legs and fondled my breasts, making me drip with delight.
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It contradicts all the cultural beliefs we have about the way men are and/or are supposed to be, but the dirty little secret is… American men are flagging in their desire for sex.
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Bright referred to something that she called “slut-baiting,” and while I wasn’t sure exactly what she meant when she said it, what Gawker did with Chen is sure it.
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Today, thanks to the profit lust of our media outlets, the prevailing motive in the coverage of government affairs is to fluff the reader.
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Following our (Dan and my) return from ShibariCon we found that our Myspace page had been deleted. No warning, no notification, just gone (we had over 2000 friends). However, all is not lost. We started a new profile, and doing our best to re-build our nu
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Fairness and fear of legal liability convinced New York Gov. David A. Paterson to direct all state agencies to immediately recognize as valid same-sex marriages solemnized outside of New York, the governor said Thursday.
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I combed the panoply of reviews of and writings about film that have come online over the last week, in order to cull five different commonly-cited grounds for why this film is a toxic scourge on the entirety of the human race.
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Is there truly any less foolproof way to sell the Sunday issue that to get huge viral buzz from a damsel in distress story played out in that most modern of locales, the blogsphere?
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Since Grey already does nearly every hardcore thing consumers might want to see her do, she is selling a new kind of porn stardom.
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But if we dare be more than pretty eyeballs driving the market, we must challenge the deep misogyny pulsing at the heart of the hypertext transfer protocol. Consider this a collective Swiftian kick to the panties.
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Unlike me, she wound up being drawn into her parents’ conflict, and much of Loose Girl is about trying to make sense of their divorce and her conflicted feelings about where she belonged, and doing so by jumping into bed with boy after boy, then man after
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Gov. David A. Paterson has ordered state agencies to overhaul regulations to recognize same-sex unions performed and sanctioned elsewhere, a knowledgeable source said last night. A directive from the governor’s top lawyer said gay couples married in other
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Seek out good writing about sex and relationships that doesn’t prescribe a solution to all your woes.
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Thank goodness for Mark Kernes, the only reporter on the planet who has the temerity to go traipsing around the country, attending every obscenity trial that Porn Valley hath spawned.
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So rather than being troubled by the fact that Gould — or Bushnell, or Bradshaw, or whoever — has the spotlight, why not question why so few other versions of femininity are allowed to share it?
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My fabulously funny and just plain fabulous friend Sonia (author of The Sonia Show) wrote this hilarious essay about her online dating experiences, including ten all-important tips for those just dipping their toes into the online dating pool.
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Ms. Addams runs Deep Stealth Productions, Inc., with business partner Andrea James, producing media with an awareness of the truth and value of trans people’s contributions to society.
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Often a full examination of the facts of a notorious case reveals that events were ambiguous and the reality is not as bad as early reports suggested. This case does not fit that pattern; it gets worse on inspection.
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All the spare time I have to myself these days is spent staring at the ceiling, catching up on sleep, feeding myself properly when I remember to, and trying to exhaust myself at the downtown all-night fitness. And I’d go tonight, but all I want to do at t
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…these cards are handy for those who already know how to tie proper knots, but don’t do so every day and need a quick reminder.
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A new book which suggests that the German occupation of France encouraged the sexual liberation of women has shocked a country still struggling to come to terms with its troubled history of collaboration with the Nazis.
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Many of Kink’s regular models switch roles, but Donna is the first webmaster of a site to undertake the training program.
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By choosing sex as her theme, Emin also hopes to exact a measure of artistic revenge. “I want to curate something which would upset Ruskin because he destroyed Turner’s pornographic art and I won’t forgive him for that,†she said.art
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“I’ve got no interest in kinbaku myself. But I like how the bakushi and his models can communicate through a single piece of rope, even though there’s no actual conversation between them. I wanted to capture this communication on film.”
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If Ted Kennedy’s cancerous lesion is a glioblastoma multiforme, the most common kind of brain tumor, it may have been caused by a virus from the herpes family.
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i am going to confess to You today my arousal involving women that have been drenched in baby oil and are all shining and glistening or even the wondrous phenomena of sweat sex, when a woman has just gotten done with fucking her well hung stud and her tit
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“Mmm, Cindy… this looks good enough to eat,â€, I said and Judy breathed in sharply. I leaned over and lightly brushed my nose and lips through her pubic hair. Judy practically jumped out of her skin, but quickly relaxed again.
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CELEBRITY chef Jamie Oliver says British women should deny their partners sex until they agree to learn to cook.
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With a relentless fountain of fizzy one-liners, Horsley’s book details a life of sex with hookers, gleeful drug addiction, infidelity and a public crucifixion for publicity’s sake.
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AlterNet talked to Durham on the phone about the sexual objectification of girls in the media and how to help them challenge regressive messages about their sexuality.
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Created for attendees at my South by Southwest (SXSW) presentation Adult Conversations: Sex, Intimacy & Online Relationships, the following resource list helps you keep current on what sociologists, bloggers and sex researchers are saying about interpers
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REPUBLICAN dirty tricks specialist Roger Stone is spilling new details of how he learned of Eliot Spitzer’s passion for hookers and reported the love gov to the FBI four months before he was forced to resign.
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Bernier’s first crime was leaving “secret documents†in the apartment of his former girlfriend Julie Couillard, who naturally decided that to sell the story to the press. But here’s where it gets even better: Couliiard has links to organized crime
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Euro RSCG Brazil has created a special spooky magazine campaign printed with fluorescent ink that, when the lights are turned off, presents a very different ad visual and a payoff headline that reads (translated) “Pedophilia. You might not see it, but it
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Jack is an occasional restaurant, by which we mean that it is only occasionally in existence. We are open for one seating per night at 7 pm on Saturday nights, once a month or so.
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We all make friends differently in ‘real life’ and I suspect will do best when we approach blogger networking in our own way and bringing our own personality to the task.
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Grace was born and raised by loving hippies on a goat & apricot farm deep, deep in the New England countryside.
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In this episode of Naked City TV, Michele ruminates on the ways sex in New York has changed since he moved here in 1978.
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…In all this time, only three people have tied the real person to the blog without my help. One was told the URL by an irate friend; I am now at peace about this. The other two people, my parents, were told by God. I am most decidedly not at peace about this.
They know the address, but they maintain that they have not yet read the writing here. They’ve only read places where it’s been linked or mentioned on other sites. Therefore they seem to have an unnecessarily unbalanced view of what I’m writing, and by extension, of what I’m doing with my life.
I’m torn. I’ve been torn for the weeks since they told me of the trespass.
I could, I suppose, refuse entirely to discuss this with them. They stepped where I’d specifically asked them not to; it would seem reasonable not to let them gather any more knowledge than they already have. I could block their IP (for what it’s worth) or demand that they knock off the intrusiveness.
This option brings with it a boatload of complications. They already violated my wishes by hunting me down; they prolly aren’t going to be too pleased to be told that it’s not up for further discussion. Nor too willing to comply. Most importantly, it does not address the basis of the problem: They want more access into my life.
(more . . .)
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A Missouri woman who prosecutors say used a fake MySpace persona to “torment, harass, humiliate and embarrass” a 13-year-old girl who committed suicide was indicted on Thursday on federal charges.
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A Cunning Minx freshly back from Sex 2.0 relishes the memories of the conference.
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Achieving orgasm, brain imaging studies show, involves more than heightened arousal. It requires a release of inhibitions engineered by shutdown of the brain’s center of vigilance in both sexes and a widespread neural power failure in females.
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Fear is a lot bigger in our heads than it is in real life. In real life, it’s almost always not that bad. And here’s the other thing: those people who wanted to instill fear in me by attempting to out my blog identity to my students, they just wanted
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You or someone you know is having an affair. We know, it sounds surprising, shocking even, but apparently that is the case. Cookie Magazine and “AOL Body” did a survey on the subject and 30,000 people responded. As far as surveys go, that is a big number,
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Mothers pass down pot roast recipes to their daughters. But they’re reluctant to pass down crucial life content to help them and their daughters appreciate how women cope at those crossroads, and how that influences which way they move forward.
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Starting next year across the country, rape victims too afraid or too ashamed to go to police can undergo an emergency-room forensic rape exam, and the evidence gathered will be kept on file in a sealed envelope in case they decide to press charges.
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The ultimate list of the world’s most beautiful women.
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Plagiarism Today (PT) is a site targeted at Webmasters and copyright holders regarding the issue of plagiarism online. Though it deals with many legal issues, in particular the DMCA and copyright law, it is not a legal blog and is, instead, a blog regardi
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Interviews about Sex 2.0 These interviews were conducted by me as part of an upcoming Huffing Post piece (will post link when I have it) about Sex 2.0:
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PasswordSafe.com has been your secure personal assistant username / password manager since 1998. All connections are encrypted, all data is stored encrypted and backed up every 4 hours. Use our free service for your web site accounts, online shopping, onl
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We’re not the first to notice and double-take. Penthouse Media Group Inc.’s ownership of a Christian dating website called BigChurch.com has been mentioned by a few publications, but usually as an ironic side note. Understandable. It’s kind of a heavy (ye
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A Twittergasm is a post to your Twitter profile indicating that you just had a real orgasm. You can use the codes ICSW (I came, so what?) and JOSW (jacking off, so what? related term to indicate you are jacking off), and we’ll track, count and include you
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In return, I learnt more about women in two months than I had gleaned on my own in two decades. This does not mean, by the way, that I think women are like two-year-olds and should be treated as such
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Esteemed and hard-working sex educators and writers Tristan Taormino, Patricia Johnson, and Mark Michaels joined forces last night to launch their respective books.
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A joking remark he made about his sex life has gone national, spreading through the blogosphere quicker than anything the potential vice presidential hopeful has said about global warming, property tax caps or health-care access funds.
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As I see it there are a number of responses – all of them are valid (although I’d avoid #2) and some will appeal to different people depending upon the life stage of their blog and time commitments.
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I’m interested in Snuff because I was on the set of a World’s Biggest Gangbang movie years ago… I’d moved to LA and started writing about the porn industry only about a year or so before, and this was the first time I’d experienced an event that I would
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Photo: Danielle (Mc Nudes)
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #131? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Gross Spelling Errors Turn Me Off
“Here are a few other word issues that come up in sex writing that throw me off and drive me crazy.â€
L’Artiste
“I want time to sip my whisky, to drink you in as you unveil yourself, as you offer your body to my steady gaze.â€
Learning My Limits (Part 1)
“It hurts. It’s gorgeous. â€
Mr. Sugasm Himself
24-Months of AVN Online, $0
Editor’s Choice
The Few, The Proud, The Pornless
BDSM & Fetish
Catching Up on the Back Story
Cut to the chaste
A date with Lumpo
Damaged Lovers
Desire beyond reason but within bounds
Follow My Rules-Part 1
His Slut
It’s just a through and through
M
Messy Kitchen Figging and Thrashing Video
On fire
Points of Order
The Promise
What a way to start the day!
Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Leave It to Beaver
Masturbation Month Is Here!
New At Nuts4chic – Pick Up Lines That Make You Groan
New Jimi Hendrix SEX Tape out Now!!
Rascal Wear Leather Wrist And Ankle Cuffs Review
Sex Toy Review of The Rude Boy For Babeland
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Audrey Bitoni and Angela
Bedroom Radio #14 “Sex 2.0 and Spankingâ€
Half-Nekkid on Silky Pillow Cases
Half-Nekkid Thursday: Flashing the Neighbors
Pictures ( a bed & 2 guys!)
Sasha Grey (Goddess)
Scarlett Johansson – Fucking Hot Babe in Red
Sex Advice
Putting the “Play†Back into Playing with Yourself
Strap-Ons 101
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Confession
Denial.
Encounter
I want….
A Perfect Ten
Possibly the best, so far
Switch
Tease and Denial are NOT Reciprocal
Under My Thumb
Sex Work
Reality Check: Asshole Clients
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Am I or Aren’t I?
Green eyed monster
The Inevitable
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
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…check out a few resources to help you experience National Masturbation Month to the fullest … not to mention the other eleven months of the year.
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Bound, Not Gagged was started in the wake of the original breaking of the “DC Madam scandalâ€â€¦ and that is where I will be turning for information and updates. And I think now is a fitting time to revisit the words on their page, “Why a Blog for Se
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let’s tax it, and let’s mind our own business. Failing that, why don’t we arrest a couple of the high level clients whose names keep popping up on these lists and send them to jail? Who knows, that might bring about a shift in public policy
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A bill outlawing the possession of “extreme pornography” is set to become law next week. But many fear it has been rushed through and will criminalise innocent people with a harmless taste for unconventional sex.
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I enjoy a lover that knows what they want. I want them most of all to want me. However, that can take many forms.
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Jason Segel’s penis’s appearance no less than four times during the running time of the near-screwball comedy blew the minds of critics and entertainment pseudo-newsies used to women flashing their ta-tas while their male counterparts’ nether region
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Assuming you’re correct about her motivations, her doing this doesn’t make her an evil woman per se, although I think it means she’s a bit immature and possibly manipulative… the best reason to fuck someone is because you’re sincerely hot for them, and
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FBC interviews Zoe Margolis (Girl with a One Track Mind) at SXSW and see how many times they can say “sex” and “blogging.”
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I used my knee to open her legs even further, so she couldn’t get herself off the way she wanted. I wasn’t ready for that yet. I wanted to see more of her, learn more about her, bring her to the edge of ecstasy over and over.
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Who do you hate more: the madam, or the whore?
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The short features Donna, most often a domme in her scenes, and Lorelei Lee, who more frequently takes the bottom or submissive role; the women are close friends and have worked together for several years.
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And me, I notice the girls: you’re everywhere. Seasons changing brings new fashion in a big city like mine, and I cannot help but to stare at the shift in shoes, in hemline, in neckline, in sleeve cuffs, in ankles.
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I know I’m not alone now in figuring out how to express my own sense of grief and frustration. Some deeply personal and astute posts have already come out of our community
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Since I’m a relative newcomer to the Mac I followed the technology blogger’s advice and installed “Alex,” the newest, most natural-sounding voice and just started using it without fanfare.
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Kind of interesting that, as Maines, and Greer, and others point out, our set of social blinders leads us to deny, as Freud and others did, that women have no repression-induced erotic/neurotic fetishes at all when it’s pretty clear society is constructed
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An Antarctic fur seal has been observed trying to have sex with a king penguin.
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I simply spent time planning and doing fun activities with whoever was available. Forget The Rules and The Game. I called whichever of them I was in the mood to see, whenever I liked, for whatever activity struck my fancy.
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A default WordPress install will query the database twenty times every time you refresh the page, even if not one single element on that page has changed. Doesn’t that strike you as a bad idea? Maybe even, dare I say it, sloppy programming?
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We’re obsessed with getting information out into the world. Desperate to be useful. I’d say that we’re like news junkies, only we’re really interested in how we can contribute to making the news.
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It’s a familiar scene: A guy and a girl sit in a dorm room — the lights are dimmed, Portishead is playing in the background and they’re, of course, passionately making out. But mid-makeout, the girl decides that she wants to stop — so, she pulls back an
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to play Grand Theft Auto is to immerse oneself in a fantasy world. That fantasy world most likely won’t shape the real-world actions of a healthy person. Especially if that healthy person can have conversations about what they are seeing and experiencing
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I can’t say what works for everyone; here are five points that work for me
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Because this whole moronic outcry against what is nothing but an unabashed and unashamed articulation of Man’s basest impulses run amok is nothing but hypocrisy. Here’s a newsflash for you. This is the way people think. This is how things are. This is the
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The Wisconsin Law Students for Reproductive Justice had planned an event called “Sex Toys 101†to promote safe alternatives to sex, educate about sexual health and pleasure, and discuss law concerning sex toys, according to the group.
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Palfrey, known as the “D.C. Madam,†was convicted April 15 by a federal jury of running a prostitution service that catered to members of Washington’s political elite, including Sen. David Vitter, R-La. She had denied her escort service engaged in p
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