activism

I’ve made a big, weird decision that I’m still getting used to, but the cogs are in motion and it is happening. Effective with the spring issue and the start of $pread’s fourth year in print, I’ve decided that I will no longer be the executive editor of the magazine, nor will I be directly involved in the writing, editing and production of the magazine.

It’s taken me several months to let go, to really make the clear decision that my time at $pread has come to a close. But it has, and it’s time for me to move on.

Amber has written recently about activism and burn out and feeling like great things can’t be accomplished. This is kinda-sorta-notreally what I’m going through. I firmly and solidly believe that great things can be accomplished – and I believe that $pread can accomplish great things, and so can I. I am, however, feeling burnt out from three years of being an executive editor. Oh, I forgot one very important word: VOLUNTEER. Yes, it’s true – $pread is run entirely by a staff of devoted, passionate volunteers. And that takes a lot out of a person, especially after three years – three years in which I’ve started to make it as a writer and an editor in my own (paid) right.

In the future -which is to say, like, tomorrow- I will continue to work on sex work issues. I’m definitely not abandoning that part of my work, it just has to take different forms. Instead of working very specifically and separately within the sex worker communities on these issues, I want to fold them into the grander work I’m doing – like what I did with my book, writing about sexuality and sex work issues side-by-side. I have some stuff brewing that I don’t want to write about publicly and get it all jinxed, but we’ll see how everything develops over the next few months.

In the meantime, I’ll also be figuring out other ways of supporting $pread and the folks involved with the magazine, through other kinds of advocacy and hell-raising. We’ll see how it all pans out, and I’ll certainly be writing about it all as I figure it out.

And folks, this also means that $pread is looking for new contributors and people to work on editorial projects. We (they? – wow, that’s going to take some getting used to) aren’t ready to hire a full-on editor, but there is that need and opportunity once you prove your salt. Here’s the call, feel free to pass it on to anyone who might be interested:

$pread Magazine – an award-winning independent publication by and for people in the sex industry, is seeking past and current porn actors, phone sex operators, escorts, prostitutes, streetworkers, dommes, webcam workers, strippers / dancers, massage parlor workers, etc to submit work to our magazine.

We accept submissions from female, male and trans people who have done sex work in the past, as well as those who are currently still in the industry. We maintain an extremely inclusive editorial policy, as our
broadest aim is to be an informative and shameless voice of people who’ve worked in the sex industry.

STAFF-TRACK POSITIONS
We are currently looking for qualified people to become columnists / section editors, and prefer to work with people on a single writing piece first, before consideration for a longer-term assignment.

WRITING
We are seeking writers [editorial experience a bonus] to submit creative writing, pitch articles and write reviews and contribute to our various sections.

SECTIONS: We are always looking for writing for include:
Cunning Linguist – definitions of industry terminology
Scene Report – short articles about what a specific industry is like in a region [eg, dancing in Atlanta]
News – articles on news items relating to the sex industry
Creative Nonfiction, Fiction and Poetry – memoir and stories from the perspectives and experiences of people in the sex industry
Reviews – of recent books, movies, performances, websites, media etc. related to the sex industry
-We also are always looking for panelists to review products or argue
a position in some of our regular columns.

-STYLE: As well, we are looking for sexworkers who design clothes to submit information for consideration for review in our style section, and people to submit photographs of themselves in work and non-work clothes for a personal

-ARTICLES: We also welcome pitches for longer articles or interviews with people who work in or around the sex industry.

-ART: We welcome submissions of illustrations and photographs for individual usage and photo essays.

We do not offer payment for articles or art at this time, but you will receive a publishing credit and a copy of the magazine in which your work appears.

Find out more about us at www.spreadmagazine.org. Email us at contribute[at]spreadmagazine[dot]org if you’re interested in working with us – we look forward to hearing from you.

Audacia has a 2007 wrap-up piece up at Eden Fantasys, entitled Ten Hot Sexuality (And Gender) Issues of 2007. The Sex Carnival gets a mention!

Here are the ten topics:
Pole Dancing: For Fun, Exercise and Empowerment
Porn Goes Public: The Rise of Porn Film Festivals
Print vs. Online Erotica
Teen Sexuality: A Laughing Matter?
Social Media and Sex
Sex-Positive: Revolution or Meaningless Label?
Transgender Politics and the Law
Sex Worker Activism: Speaking Up for Themselves
Alt Porn: Transgressive or Mainstream?
Sex Toys Go Green: Questioning the Materials Used to Make Sex Toys

Click here to read the whole piece

Audacia Ray’s column for Hot Movies for Her appears the first Monday of every month.

The idea of pornographers with ethics and strong political convictions seems ridiculous to many people. After all, isn’t porn just about overly-tanned hedonism, driven by the desire to make a mint while surrounded by swarms of hot chicks who wouldn’t otherwise give you (assuming the portly, fiftyish male “you”) the time of day? Not so fast, assumption-maker.

[snip]

Amateur and independent porn began getting buzz with the advent of the home video camera and the newly glorious ability it bestowed on the average electronics geek to film his or her pasty white ass bobbing up and down in a poorly lit guest bedroom in New Jersey (not to stereotype or anything). But it really took off in the early 2000s as the Internet began to emerge as the go-to place for sex businesses, especially homemade ones. More specifically, young, technologically inclined idealists began to turn to the Internet to create their visions of sex-positive culture online.

When the oft-cited Suicide Girls was launched in 2001, it positioned itself as a site of female-empowerment via Internet nudity. In subsequent years, this turned out to be a bit more complicated and maybe not really the way things were running behind the scenes. Still, there are independent pornographers whose hope for the empowering mojo of independent porn springs eternal. The Sharing is Sexy (SiS) collective is one such group – their freshly hatched and totally free website launched just last week. Unlike Furry Girl, the SiS folks have no intention of making a living from their work on the site. In fact, as collective member lotu5 puts it, “SiS came out of anti-capitalist activism. …all our content is free, we try to spend as little as possible, dumpster what we can, leech resources from universities and jobs and make everything free.” At the same time, lotu5 says that, “One of our primary goals is to not discredit sex workers and ‘for pay’ porn sites.”

Click here to read the full article.

Sugasm #102

by Viviane on 10/23/2007

in erotica, sugasm

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

Join the Sugasm

This Week’s Picks
She Told Me
“She told me she had a headache.”

Fantasy: If you can’t stand the heat…
“You set the ice cube down and force my legs apart.”

Sugarbutch Star: Bad Bad Girl
“I brought my lips down on hers hard, crushing, devouring, insistent.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Upskirt Video from V Magazine

Editor’s Choice
Blog Action Day: Sexual Activism or Lightning Doesn’t Strike Twice

BDSM & Fetish
My Wife is a Skank! pt2
Peep Show
The piss slit
Significance of a Collar
Under his Thumb

Sex News & Reviews
Featured Design: Go Ahead and Ask Me
My first speculum

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Capture
Faking It
Geriatric SEX! yeah. Part 2 of an interview with mimi about her (relatively) new relationship
Rant to follow!
Tantra and Kink: Energy Charge
The Grey Area
TMI Tuesday #105 (Dating Edition)
Top Ten Songs to Do It To
What To Do With Cum (Part 2)

Sex Work
Comfort Sex
Cuckold Fantasies and the “N” Word
Sex Work And Religion: Crucifixion

NSFW Pics & Videos
Catalina Loves Bondage and Nikki Nefarious
Cerydwyn (I Shot Myself)
Erotic Art Show: Houdini
Janette – Morning Blue
Jungbauern Calendar 2008
Naughty Nurse
Ron Harris Studio’s Latest Erotic Photo and Video

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Auto-erotic
Behind glass
Christening
Encounter 1, Part II: Disaster Averted
Find ‘em, Fuck ‘em and Flee
Honey I’m home.
How I Love The Fall
I need you, now
My Afternoon with Alejandro
Rubbing one out
Ruf < cake > Smooth
Sacred & Profane
Sex Tourism
Vignettes of a Cuckoldress

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

pia Sugasm #102

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.

This Week’s Picks
She Told Me
“She told me she had a headache.”

Fantasy: If you can’t stand the heat…
“You set the ice cube down and force my legs apart.”

Sugarbutch Star: Bad Bad Girl
“I brought my lips down on hers hard, crushing, devouring, insistent.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Upskirt Video from V Magazine

Editor’s Choice
Blog Action Day: Sexual Activism or Lightning Doesn’t Strike Twice

BDSM & Fetish
My Wife is a Skank! pt2
Peep Show
The piss slit
Significance of a Collar
Under his Thumb

Sex News & Reviews
Featured Design: Go Ahead and Ask Me
My first speculum

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Capture
Faking It
Geriatric SEX! yeah. Part 2 of an interview with mimi about her (relatively) new relationship
Rant to follow!
Tantra and Kink: Energy Charge
The Grey Area
TMI Tuesday #105 (Dating Edition)
Top Ten Songs to Do It To
What To Do With Cum (Part 2)

Sex Work
Comfort Sex
Cuckold Fantasies and the “N” Word
Sex Work And Religion: Crucifixion

NSFW Pics & Videos
Catalina Loves Bondage and Nikki Nefarious
Cerydwyn (I Shot Myself)
Erotic Art Show: Houdini
Janette – Morning Blue
Jungbauern Calendar 2008
Naughty Nurse
Ron Harris Studio’s Latest Erotic Photo and Video

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Auto-erotic
Behind glass
Christening
Encounter 1, Part II: Disaster Averted
Find ‘em, Fuck ‘em and Flee
Honey I’m home.
How I Love The Fall
I need you, now
My Afternoon with Alejandro
Rubbing one out
Ruf < cake > Smooth
Sacred & Profane
Sex Tourism
Vignettes of a Cuckoldress

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Join the Sugasm

Photo: Pia (errotica archives)

Please do some activism on behalf of sexual freedom between consenting adults.  Do it now before September 10th.

The federal government is proposing regulations that would effectively kill adult social-networking sites. This is being done under the guise of fighting child pornography.  The proposed regulations would force adult social-networking services to obtain and maintain personal information about their users, including the user’s photo ID (driver’s license, passport, or military ID).  While this activism is being done by the NGLTF, it affects heterosexuals, too, both kinky and vanilla.

Read more here and send a letter.

sex20 badge 145x85 no sloga Sex 2.0, April 12, 2008, Atlanta

Sex 2.0 will focus on the intersection of social media, feminism, and sexuality. How is social media enabling people to learn, grow, and connect sexually? How is sexual expression tied to social activism? Does the concept of transparency online offer new opportunities or present new roadblocks – or both? These questions, and many more, will be addressed within a safe, welcoming, sex-positive space.

There will be lectures, discussion groups, book signings, demonstrations, parties, film screenings, an art show, burlesque performances… all in all, a rollicking good time!

When? April 12, 2008
Where? Spring4th Center, 728 Spring St., Atlanta, GA
How much? $10
SIGN UP: http://sex20con.com

A sampling of sessions:

* Choose Your Own Adventure: How has the escorting business changed with the advent of the Internet? – Kristi Kane

* Erotic Writing 101 – Rachel Kramer Bussel

* Sexual Subculture as Internet Phenomenon – Joseph G

* Sex Styles of the Internet Famous – Melissa Gira

* Teaching Kink in the Information Age – Graydancer

* And keynote speaker Audacia Ray, author of Naked on the Internet and director of the award-winning film The Bi Apple.

Vendors
We have several vendor spaces available for a price of $40 each. If you are interested in vending at Sex 2.0, please contact Amber Rhea at amber at gapodcastnetwork.com.

Spread the word:
If you’ve already signed up, thanks! Please spread this information around and get the word out. This is an event you don’t want to miss. We’re hoping you can attend this historic event, have a great experience, and help promote as well.

A major archive of papers relating to the early gay-rights movement in America has been donated to the New York Public Library’s Manuscripts and Archives Division. The Barbara Gittings and Kay Tobin Lahusen Gay History Papers and Photographs consist of letters, photographs, handbills, manuscripts, publications, and ephemera accumulated over nearly 50 years by the late activist and writer Gittings (1932–2007) and her life partner, photojournalist and author Lahusen.

Gittings’s papers document her activities on behalf of gay and lesbian rights from 1958, when she founded the East Coast chapter of the Daughters of Bilitis, the first national lesbian organization. Her writings influenced the American Psychiatric Association’s December 1973 removal of homosexuality from its list of mental disorders. As a longtime leader of the American Library Association’s Gay Task Force (now the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered Round Table), Gittings was influential in developing programs to highlight the availability of gay materials for use in libraries. She was awarded an ALA honorary membership in 2003.

Lahusen’s extensive photographic collection includes images of early protesters, portraits of prominent lesbians, and photos chronicling gay activism through 2005. “Barbara and I always wanted our papers and photographs to be cared for and made available in a secure, world-class repository,” Lahusen said. “And we wanted our letters and photos to be surrounded by those of friends and colleagues in the cause. The New York Public Library’s marvelous archive division was the obvious choice.”

“The collection donated by Barbara Gittings and Kay Tobin Lahusen,” said NYPL President Paul LeClerc, “is a remarkable firsthand chronicle detailing the battle of gays and lesbians to overcome the prejudice and restrictions that were prevalent prior to the activism and protest movements that started in the 1960s.”

[via fellow librarian badfaggot]

Sex-radical feminist and sociologist Elizabeth Wood writes at Sex in the Public Square.

1. I started blogging on June 27, 2006, not quite a year ago. Coincidentally that is my mother’s birthday and she has been a regular reader of my blog (and occasional commenter!) from the start. I started because I wanted a way to write short reactions to news articles about sex, or sexuality, without derailing myself from the book I’ve been working on. In other words, it was a place to put ideas that didn’t fit into the book but that were on my mind and that I didn’t want to lose track of. As it happens, the blog has turned into a significant project of it’s own and I’m thinking about expanding it into a larger web site that would create a real online “public square” for discussion and activism around sexuality and sex-related policy.
2. There are lots of things I like about blogging. I like the discussions that start in the comments area of posts. I like the ability to publish something immediately. I like the independence of blogging. One of the best things about blogging is that anyone can publish whatever the want (and of course that is one of the hazards of blogs as well!). I like the connections that blogging facilitates. I’ve met some fascinating people whose paths I’d never have crossed were it not for the blog.
3. Blogging has turned into a pretty major way of connecting with people. That surprised me at first! Through my blog I have met authors of books that I’ve mentioned, I met the Perverts’ Saloon folks, I’ve connected online with people around the US and around the world.
4. My blog is hosted on a free service, WordPress.com. Generally speaking I’ve been very happy with WordPress.com but recently I’ve been dismayed by the unsystematic way that they deal with content that gets reported as “mature.” I posted about this here, here, and here.
5. I don’t do a lot to promote my blog. I tag entries, but just with tags I generate myself. (Of course lots of these are tags other people use, too.) One of the things I like about WordPress.com is that it generates “global tag pages” for any tag created by a user. So when I use the tag “sex” my post goes on a WordPress tag page with all the other WordPress blog posts tagged “sex.” I don’t use Technorati tags only because I don’t know how! I do sometimes comment on other peoples’ blogs and I have a blogroll that links to blogs I read and that I recommend to others. I recently joined MyBlogLog after you and Susan Mernit both recommended it. I’ve been meaning to join BlogHer.org but haven’t gotten to it yet. But the greatest promotion of my blog has been done by readers. Occasionally readers have posted a piece from my blog on Reddit.com and that has brought lots of traffic, and several new regular readers.

lolita biapple 5 Questions about Blogging: Lolita WolfIntroductory post for this series.

BDSM educator and princess Lolita Wolf blogs at Lolita’s Predictions and Predilections.

When did you start blogging?
I am a “preblogger.” I started an email newsletter 13 years ago that was sent to over 1400 email addresses and was hosted on several BBS’s and websites. Over the years it has morphed into a blog.

What do you like about blogging?
I like connecting with people and inspiring them. So often I get feedback in person or via email that I have made a difference in their lives. I consider this a form of activism. I am also a bit of an exhibitionist.

Is blogging a major or minor way of connecting to other people for you?
My P+P has made me a minor celebrity over the years. I do have a sense of community through the NYC Perverts Saloon and getting to know people through LJ. But if you mean do I hook up through my blog? Not really. I do that in person.

Where’s your blog? Do you use a free hosted service (Blogger,Wordpress, Livejournal, AOL, Google Pages, etc.) or do you have your own domain and web server?
I have had a Blogger since 2003. There’s also an LJ account which contained all that is in my Blogger. I own a domain name (leatheryenta.com) and I heard that I can have Blogger host my blog at that domain so I am thinking of making that switch. I need to research that a little more (or maybe my Blog Mommy can help with that).

What do you do to promote your blog or your writing (using tags in your post, blog roll, del.icio.us, Digg, Pingoat)?
tags, blog roll, Pingoat, email signatures, putting my blog address on my class handouts.

Friday night on WBAI’s Riseup Radio from 9-10 pm listen to Audacia Ray and fellow $pread executive editor Eliyanna Kaiser talk about sex work, activism, and $pread.

On Sunday night at 6.30 Eliyanna and I are at it again on WBAI’s Equal Time for Free Thought, where we’ll be discussing commercial sex and healthy sexuality.