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tony logo small new Writers inquiry: Time Out New York

For an article in Time Out New York’s upcoming Sex issue, they are looking for both contacts and websites on the following topics:

  • Adult babies/diaper lovers
  • Foot fetishists
  • Circle jerks

Deadline: Monday, September 24th
Contact: klowenstein AT timeoutny Dot com

Thanks!

Thursday night, I went to hear Midori talk about sex culture in Japan. The perverati were out in force: Kate Bornstein & Barbara Carrellas, Michelle Serchuk, Betty Dodson, Laura Antonious, Morpheus (you need to be on his NYC Alt Events list), MayMay, Eileen and Lolita Wolf. Midori talked first about being a dual outsider , about Orientalism (that romantic notion of “the Orient”), and a view of Japanese kink that gaijin never get access to.She is petite, but spoke with tremendous verve and authority about love hotels, sex clubs, cosplay coffee shops, sex shops the size of U.S. supermarkets.It was a fascinating talk, but MoSex is a really uncomfortable venue. We were in the first floor gallery and the building had turned off the AC. Then there was the continuous rattling of some motor in the background, which was really distracting. Why would you turn off the AC? What does it say about the conservation practices of the museum? I guess there aren’t any.

wildsidesex 4  Midoris New York Tour

Midori is coming to New York the weekend after Labor Day.

She’s holding her famed rope bondage Rope Dojo for the first time in NYC on September 8-9. It’s sold out, but you can get on the waiting list (I am – one can always hope).

On Wednesday, 9/5 she’s teaching CBT for the Adventurous at Purple Passion. She will share clever and sadistic ways that she likes to play with the family jewels. Not for absolute beginners.

On Thursday, 9/6, she’ll be at the Museum of Sex, talking about Pink Japan: Contemporary Sex Culture:

From cuisine, music, fashion, technology to anime, Japan’s cultural influence on the West is immense. In many ways the Japanese erotic cultures are also influencing today’s Western tastes. Yet the daily realities of Japan’s gender relations, sexual habits, sexual consumer culture and gay/lesbian/transgendered world remain hidden to us, creating an aura of mystique. In this funny and insightful talk, join Midori for a double-expatriate’s photo tour of Japan’s hidden sexual culture today.

On Friday, 9/7, she’ll be speaking at the Lesbian Sex Mafia on Beyond Twisted: Permutations of Kinkiness:

A sadist must of course be a dominant. A submissive must of course be a masochist. Right? Wrong! Come along as Midori explodes the standard definitions of kink roles and expands the idea of what kink is all about. In Beyond Twisted, she maps out a fine-tuned and flexible framework that anyone can use to help describe their deviant desires. And as we all know, that’s the first step to fulfilling them! This is a class for those who don’t quite fit into the standard boxes…and for anyone who’s curious about their own possibly untapped potential!

(Note: LSM events are open to all women 18 years of age or older; this includes transgendered women, as well as transgendered men who were born as women.)

I’ve got my ticket for her MoSex talk, and am going to try and get to the LSM meeting. See you there? Thanks to Seraphin and Lolita for the info and the corrections.

September 12-17, 2007
Northern Maryland

We know you’re having a really busy summer. We got your emails about being on vacation, offline, or losing track of time but wanting to register. We heard you, and we’re responding: we’re happy to report that we’ve extended the current registration rate that was supposed to expire on August 20, so register today and you’ll still get the lower rate!

We also want to remind you exactly why we hope you’ll join us in a few weeks. Sure, there are plenty of other events out there, but no other place like Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp, with over 75 workshops, 17 special events, and an amazing community of sex-positive people.

Here’s a taste of things you can find only at Dark Odyssey

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do2007splash image new01 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp class list is up!

The confirmed list of presenters and workshops for Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp 07 just went live on the website and we are so excited to share it with all f you!

From a world-renowned porn star and an infamous performance artist to ationally acclaimed authors and award-winning educators, we have presenters from around the world, including:

Barbara Carrellas * Bear * Beth and Preston Bobby * British “Lucky” Paul * Captain Beatrice & Benedick Del * Dossie Easton * Felice Shays * Fraulein Rottenmeier * Helen Boyd * Jacq Jones * Jefferson * Jim Deuder  * Jon and Carin * Lee “Bridgett” Harrington Levi Halberstadt * Lolita Wolf * Marcus* Margo Eve & Elkor * Mark Michaels & Patricia Johnson * Michelle Zee *Nina Hartley * Reid Mihalko & Marcia Baczynski * Sarah Sloane * Scherzoid * Sir C * Susan B * Suzanne SxySadist * SwitchMe * Tristan Taormino * Whittney Matlock

And over 75 of the most unique, exciting workshops anywhere, with an emphasis on hands-on demonstrations, including:

Beyond Bowed Heads: Rituals for Dominance and submission
Binding Intentions: The Art of Rope Magic
Border Crossing: Challenging Boundaries, Connecting Bodies
Delight in Difficult Dominance Discipline and Awareness: How To Enhance Life
And Play With Body/Mind Techniques
Making Your Move: a Flirting Class
Making Poly/Mono Relationships Work
Pain: Plight-Punishment-Pleasure
Playing in the Dark: Journeys Through Humiliation
Radical Ecstasy
Spiritual Body Modification
Trans-Sex & Identity
Uneven Libidos: When Your Partner Isn’t as Sexual as You
Urban Tantra

PLUS, LOTS MORE ON…

Sex: Lick her, Cocksucking, Anal Play, Fisting, G-spot, Threesomes
Identity: What Labels Give Us, What Labels Take Away
Relationships: ‘Ethical Sluts’ Workshop by author Dossie Easton
BDSM: Ecstatic Caning and Pick-Up Play for Bottoms
Spirituality: Energy Pull Ritual and Walking the Path of Ordeal And An
Entire Track of Classes & Events Devoted to Fireplay

In addition to workshops, Dark Odyssey features creative social activities, nightly special events, erotic rituals, lakeside bonfires, the Sex-O-Rama playspace, and a 10,000 square foot fully equipped dungeon open for play around the clock. Legendary special events include:

Body Beautiful * PT for Perverts * Night in Flames *Energy Pull Ritual * Garden of Carnal Delights * Cupid’s Gambit
Fucking Machines Show * Cigars & Chocolate * Cuddle Party *  Perverts’ Potluck * Fire Spinning * Petting Zoo * Pajama Party

All this happens in a fun camp environment at a retreat with great accommodations: forty cabins with real beds, full bathrooms, hot water showers, and electricity; two swimming pools, canoeing, and hiking; plus, breakfast, lunch, dinner, and a midnight snack included.

Unlike a typical conference event, where you have to pay for registration fees, hotel room costs, plus meals, Dark Odyssey is an all-inclusive event. Current registration rates are good through August 20, but you can register
up until September 12.

How a mob-run S&M club put your tax dollars to work

by Tom Robbins

Anthony Marini was the manager at the Vault, the old S&M club in the meat-packing district on the western edge of Greenwich Village, during its heyday in the 1990s.

As such, he never lacked for entertainment.

There was the guy who wore a dog collar and little else and who insisted on walking on all fours. There was the wealthy executive who donned chains and loincloth and rolled in the dirt, pleading that he was a Roman slave who needed whipping. There were the wannabe goths who wore capes, capped their teeth with porcelain fangs, and clustered in the corners biting one another. On the celebrity side, there was Madonna, who was so fond of observing these hijinks that she had much of her photo book, succinctly titled Sex, shot at the club. Al Pacino came to study up for an acting role. Marini remembers him as an apt student.

(more. . .)

do2007splash image new01 Registration now open for Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp

Imagine a vacation where you can explore the many facets of sexuality in a private, intimate community of like-minded people. A wholly unique experience which brings together sexuality, spirituality, education, and play in a fun, supportive, non-judgmental, diverse environment where fantasy becomes reality.

Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp 2007, a journey of sexual exploration for the spiritual and creative sex-positive communities returns for its fourth year. It will be held at a secluded, two hundred acre retreat in Northern Maryland. Our mission is to cross-pollinate ideas and concepts between these groups of individuals who desire to explore different areas of alternative sexuality.

Yes, registration for Dark Odyssey Summer Camp is now open! You know you want to go. There’s a great lineup of teachers – Lolita Wolf, Marcus, Mark Michaels & Patricia Johnson, Lee “Bridgett” Harrington, Felice Shays, Helen Boyd, Sarah Sloane, Barbara Carrellas, and Jefferson.

What’s camp like? Here’s Jefferson’s writeup of last year’s camp. And here’s last year’s roundup post.

Yep, yep, yep, we’re registered. Wouldn’t miss it. Now. to assemble that packing list (electric blanket, air mattress, rope, toys, etc.).

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #91? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Fat can be sexy
“I understand what it’s like to be surrounded by images that reinforce that skinny is the ONLY way to achieve sexiness.”

Are Women Visual Critters, Too?
“With the invention of the internet, however, I think that it gets even more complicated.”

Marriage, Monogamy, and All that Jazz
“My chosen lifestyle and relationship type wasn’t making any sense to the other women.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
S Magazine

Editor’s Choice
Supply and Demand

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Am I Missing Anything, Really?
Catalina loves the Museu de l’ Erotica
Cheating Men
“How much confession can one read before becoming uncomfortably numb?”
I’m a Woman Man: Episode 2 – Faces
Lulu Forever
Playground positions
So many rabbits…

BDSM & Fetish
Car Wheels on a Gravel Road
Dirty words
Fetish Film – English Punishment Series (Spanking, Caning)
The Flesh Remembers
Fun with a subby boy
Luring the Guardian Angel
The Percentage Game
Sukebe Otaku: Happy Tears, Revisited
Teeth and claws and cock and cunt
Thunder: Service With A Smile
The Violent Kiss
Wake up bitch…
Worshipping post-erior – leaving my mark
You suck!

Sex News & Reviews
Lelo Nea Mini Vibrator Review
Sex In The Virtual World – Computer Games

Sex Humor
How To Get His Attention

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Amy of 24.7 in the Kitchen
Drum Solo (video)
Half-Nekkid Exhibitionist
Ivett

Sex Work
Busy Princess Play Day

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Distracted by Her shoes
Endangered
I Want
No reservations, part 1
An old friend
Pink
Sleeping Beauty…
Supply and Demand
That Kiss
Torrential
We were in heat

nadya Sugasm #82The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #83? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Back Surgery and Sex-How do you connect sexually when you can’t connect physically? (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)
“There was no sex. It wasn’t possible.”

A Hard Day’s Play – part 4 (curvaceousdee.blogspot.com…)
“But all the while, there was the awareness of the runes.”

Unrequited (junohenry.wordpress.com…)
“The man in question is a friend and sometime fuck-buddy.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Google Search: &imgtype=face (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice
Coffee (gentlygently.blogspot.com…)

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday (Fleshbot.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Friday Night Bookstore Crowd (silent-porn-star.blogspot.com…)
A hundred blowjobs in one night? (www.katiegirl4u.com…)
Poly & Death (perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)
Polyamory from a Lesbian Point of View (practicalpolyamory.blogspot.com…)
“When he was just a word.” (un-cool.blogspot.com…)

BDSM & Fetish
Goldslut on Top (goldslutstandard.com…)
Featured Fetish – Good Old Fashioned Bondage – YAY! (www.quipsandchains.com…)
Flogger Session (www.sub-burbs.com…)
Game Type B (lolitawolf.blogspot.com…)
Happiness Is A Rosy Bottom (cherryredreport.blogspot.com…)
Ownership, sharing and monogamy (twentyfoursevends.blogspot.com…)
Pained need (insidedarkpixie.blogspot.com…)
The power of the Anakin’s paddle (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
What a weekend it has been… (everythingoze.blogspot.com…)
What vanilla guys can do when they try (kinkyfarmwife.blogspot.com…)

Sex Humor
At seventeen (hard-and-fast.blogspot.com…)
Isn’t That The Thing That Killed The Crocodile Hunter? (funnyextreme.com…)

Sex Work
Bad Call Breakdown (radicalvixen.com…)
Found in Translation (thismuse.blogspot.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Christine Vinson Nude (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Danae (Met Models) (viviane212.blogspot.com…)
Feeders (Tiffany Lynn) (pornster.blogspot.com…)
Friday’s Here…Time For Beer!!!!! (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
Giving Head (video) (kimandethan.com…)
Hegre Art’s Latest Nude Photo Shoots (www.taratainton.com…)
Nella and Simone (www.nellablog.com…)
Oily (myhotbox.blogspot.com…)
Summer Cummings – Red and Black Boots (video) (thebootcam.com…)

Sex News & Reviews
Pocket Rocket Plus Review (stilettodiaries.blogspot.com…)
Porn Star’s Claims Merit Trooper’s Suspension ( www.tarasnaughtyshop.com…)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
30-again (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com…)
Casual (sexcakes.blogspot.com…)
Charlie and Bess (in-your-pants.blogspot.com…)
The Cock Slayer (confessions112.blogspot.com…)
First Trip To The Nude Beach (watchingmywife.blogspot.com…)
On Living in the Moment… (whatmyfriendsdontknowcanthurt.blogspot.com…)
Put your hands on me…. fantasy friday (dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com…)
A saucy tale (erotischism.blogspot.com…)
Some Very Lovable Neighbors (4) (eroticjournals.blogspot.com…)
Up Against The Wall… (classyelegantlady.blogspot.com…)
Welcome To School…. (afterschoolmonologues.blogspot.com…)
When you need some time to play basketball (lastbreath.wordpress.com…)

Photo: Nadya (Met Art)

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #82? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Do / Do Not (lafillemariee.blogspot.com…)
“Do – stop in the hallway to kiss and fondle me before even getting to the room.”

The Red Cross of Fucking (perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)
“They can pay her a “finder’s fee,” and everybody will be happier.”

Review: The Amputee’s Guide to Sex (www.radicalvixen.com…)
“When he first mentioned it he turned his disability into a fetish.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Meet Lin Chong, Dong Assistant (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice
Mothers day 3 (joeheather.blogspot.com…)

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday (Fleshbot.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Agly (theadulteress.livejournal.com…)
All Day Love (talktovanessa.com…)
Do You Know? (fexual-strustration.blogspot.com…)
Heartbeats and Breaths (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com…)
Hidden Desire – Submission #1 (confessionjournal.blogspot.com…)
Horny Sales Girl Giving Pleasure (humandigest.blogspot.com…)
Joshua Three – Part Three (junohenry.wordpress.com…)
Lay With You (www.smuttydirt.com…)
One More Night pt. 3 (kislee.naughtyblog.net…)
Overtime With The Boss (eroticjournals.blogspot.com…)
The Pussy Slayer (confessions112.blogspot.com…)
Room Service (gentlygently.blogspot.com…)
Watch Me Squirm (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
Welcome home honey (orangeuglad.blogspot.com…)

Sex News & Reviews
Ow! You’re On My Hair! (aslipofagirl.blogspot.com…)
Since when is stripping news? (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Aria Giovanni Nude (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Audio: Pussy Lickin’ Good (www.taratainton.com…)
Girlfriend of “Sexual Expression” in the Kitchen (kitchen-girls.blogspot.com…)
Half-Nekkid and Guilt-Free Hiney (www.tarasnaughtyshop.com…)
Happy HNT – Hand spanking video (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
Irina & Alena (viviane212.blogspot.com…)
Natali Demore and Lady Dalbin (video) (thebootcam.com…)
Presenting Avril (onlymet.blogspot.com…)
Supermodels from Peru (myhotbox.blogspot.com…)
Titty Tuesday (imelda-imelda.blogspot.com…)
Video #1/”Sexual Nostalgia” (sexualnostalgia.blogspot.com…)

Sex Work
A Day In The Life Of A Professional Fetish Blogger (www.quipsandchains.com…)
Madeleines (thismuse.blogspot.com…)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Alpha & Beta (smart-girls.blogspot.com…)
Defining Erotic (www.thenaughtychick.com…)
Friday (sexcakes.blogspot.com…)
I loved this then and still love it now… (darkdaughta.blogspot.com…)
The Problem with Porn Part II: Manifestations Online (un-cool.blogspot.com…)
The Sex Kitten History; The Sex Kitten Future (www.sex-kitten.net…)
Spanked by Robin Byrd, or not that innocent (lustylady.blogspot.com…)
A Strange New World of Emotion (practicalpolyamory.blogspot.com…)

Sex Humor
Man Gets Out Of Traffic Ticket, Potential Threesome Cited (funnyextreme.com…)

BDSM & Fetish
Art, human condition and spanking (www.spankingwriters.com…)
Darkness (transformher.blogspot.com…)
I’m Easy (Sort of) – Reflections on Cuckolding (mrsemmakelly.blogspot.com…)
Star Trek and BDSM (twentyfoursevends.blogspot.com…)
Wednesday Session (www.sub-burbs.com…)
Wolves vs. vampires (lastbreath.wordpress.com…)

sarax Sugasm #80The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #81? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.


This Week’s Picks

A Blue Hot Horny House Call (dirtydetails.blogspot.com…)
“Saliva splashed to her hands as she worked me to a mighty stiff erection.”

Part Three: Sorbet at Night ( smart-girls.blogspot.com…)
“With every thrust, I was louder and louder, my hands clawing for something to squeeze besides the brick wall of his building.”

Tighter: the hotel (erotischism.blogspot.com…)
“One by one, I tied the ropes to the cuffs, and then made adjustments so that she was taut, with her arms and legs splayed out.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Photo Manipulation (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice

Office Masturbation – part one (eroticawriter.blogspot.com…)

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday ( Fleshbot.com…)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
I watched some gals in kalamazoo ( hard-and-fast.blogspot.com…)
Porn and Erotica and Threesomes (mercedessexadventures.blogspot.com…)
Taste yourself: another irritating tool of misogyny (in which I do get explicit) ( un-cool.blogspot.com…)
When Is Sex “Genuine”? ( perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)

Sex & Politics
Media Exploitation of a Sex Worker Past (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)

Sex Work
Sex and Disability Part II (englishcourtesan.blogspot.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Audio: Rubbin’ My Duckie (www.taratainton.com…)
The Crotchless Bodysuit: An Introduction (marriedexploits.blogspot.com… )
Half-Nekkid by Request ( sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com…)
HNT – It’s A Wrap (talktovanessa.com…)
I Feel Myself (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Sara X (Gothic Sluts) (viviane212.blogspot.com…)
Warmer Days (dirtyandthirty.blogspot.com…)

BDSM & Fetish
Blind Faith (www.betweensheets.net…)
Happy HNT – Shadow paddling (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
Still sex-starved…relatively speaking (twentyfoursevends.blogspot.com… )
A Submissive Girl’s Learning Curve ( shesinheat.blogspot.com…)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
After Concert (davidsconfessions.blogspot.com…)
At the Gym (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
Glistening…. (clearslate2007.wordpress.com… )
Half-Nekkid Sex Blogging Stud (www.tarasnaughtyshop.com…)
Hedonism on Paradise – Part Five (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com… )
Hospital Freaks ( confessions112.blogspot.com…)
It can be anyone! ( lastbreath.wordpress.com…)
On My Back (thenakedrhetoricaltruth.blogspot.com…)
Oral Sex (imelda-imelda.blogspot.com… )

Photo: Sara X

selene Sugasm #79The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #80? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Joshua Three – Part Two (junohenry.wordpress.com…)
“Gently, I bit his earlobe, as his hands wandered lower to where i was primed, slick and ready for them.”

Who wants pretty blowjobs anyway? (lustylady.blogspot.com…)
“If any moment in that night would’ve gotten me off, that would’ve been it.”

Whore Sex Vs. Not Whore Sex, Episode 2 (thismuse.blogspot.com…)”I push him down again and have what I want.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Private Lives, Public Places (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice
Failing to have sex (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday (Fleshbot.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Dirty Mouthed, Hungry Slut (slutissimo2.wordpress.com…)
Doing the G (kimandethan.com…)
Fucks like a knife (dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com…)
Her Lickety Splits (dirtydetails.blogspot.com…)
I really shouldn’t drink (edinerotica.blogspot.com…)
Indecisive (thenakedrhetoricaltruth.blogspot.com…)
It Works Every Time (joeheather.blogspot.com…)
Let’s go for a ride 1 (lastbreath.wordpress.com…)
Map (theadulteress.livejournal.com…)
Ms. Wolfe (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
My Biggest Sexual Fantasy (maude-tim.blogspot.com…)
Teacher on Teacher Part Four…. (afterschoolmonologues.blogspot.com…)
Teacher on Teacher – Part V (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com…)

Sex News & Reviews
Girdle Love DVD Review (aslipofagirl.blogspot.com…)
I’ve Got Rants In My Pants (www.sex-kitten.net…)
Kama Sutra French Vanilla Creme Body Souffle Review (stilettodiaries.blogspot.com…)
Toy Review: The Eroscillator (talktovanessa.com…)

BDSM & Fetish
Andre’s good with the whip (plum001.blogspot.com…)
Happy HNT – Ghost Rider Fantasy (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
Hot Tuesday Night (www.sub-burbs.com…)
Meeboguest G confesses: “I know not to cum” (anawtymouz.blogspot.com…)
Playing with Punishment Books (www.spankingwriters.com…)
Pretty in Pink (pick-up-pieces.blogspot.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Audio: A New Toy for Self Play (www.taratainton.com…)
Chastity Clock: The Lizard’s Predicament (mrsemmakelly.blogspot.com…)
Feel Her (myhotbox.blogspot.com…)
Half-Nekkid in Stockings (sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com…)
Half-Nekkid Ode to the G-String (www.tarasnaughtyshop.com…)
Jade | Netikas (viviane212.blogspot.com…)
Mistress Melissa of The Chateau (www.thebootcam.com…)
A new french friend (mypenis.thumblogger.com…)
One Toque Over the Line (kitchen-girls.blogspot.com…)

Sex Work
Reflections on the Foot Slut (www.radicalvixen.com…)

Sex Humor
The Story Of W – A President’s Submission (funnyextreme.com…)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
It’s My 1-Year Blog-aversary! Happy Birthday, Total Sensuality!! (totalsensuality.blogspot.com…)
Jiggle, Skin and Giggles (perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)
When I’m on top (kislee.naughtyblog.net…)

Sex & Politics
On what obviously sells. (celebrateyournaughtiness.blogspot.com…)
Sex Cults (un-cool.blogspot.com…)

Photo: Selene (Met Art)

charlize Sugasm #78
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #78? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Coming into my own: How I learned to masturbate (rubytellsall.com…)
“Eventually I could no longer help myself, and I stealthily slipped my hand under my panties.”

A Hard Day’s Play – part 3 (curvaceousdee.blogspot.com…)
“Together, they create a new sensation, and I savour being able to literally taste their coupling.”

Sexist Sexy Hotel Kits (blog.babeland.com…)
“Kind of sexist? How about completely, amazingly, disgustingly sexist.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Dancers for Democracy (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice
On my 31st birthday, I gave my boyfriend two blowjobs… (lustylady.blogspot.com…)

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday (Fleshbot.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Dancing ’round the giant phallus (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)
I’m often asked, “Gracie, does size really matter?” (www.sex-kitten.net…)
I Want To Show Off…. Tastefully! (totalsensuality.blogspot.com…)
Meat Puppet? (mrsemmakelly.blogspot.com…)
Naked Polemics (secretlifeofaman.blogspot.com…)
Sex While Sick = Interesting Results (talktovanessa.com…)

Sex Work
Armed and Talking (radicalvixen.com…)
Photo Session – part one (verdannasdiary.thumblogger.com…)

Sex & Politics
Sexual Liberation? (un-cool.blogspot.com…)
Why Is Kink Taboo? Why Is SEX Taboo? (www.quipsandchains.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Audio: Celebrating Masturbation Month (www.taratainton.com…)
I Shot Myself (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Jenna and her sexy friend (myhotbox.blogspot.com…)
New Lingerie (imelda-imelda.blogspot.com…)

BDSM & Fetish
Al And Lynn Again?!!?!?!? (prettyfeetandlegs.thumblogger.com…)
Doors, to be opened (me.wolfhawk.net…)
Face fucking, continued (twentyfoursevends.blogspot.com…)
A girl in her cage~ (blog.atlantabondage.com…)
Half-Nekkid Sloppy Seconds (sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com…)
Happy HNT – Sexy Vancouver Canucks fantasy (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
Hasratda (kinkyfarmwife.blogspot.com…)
The Lady is a Tramp (shesinheat.blogspot.com…)
Pavlov’s pussy~ (www.kinkerbelle.com…)
Right Round, Baby (www.sub-burbs.com…)
Used (gentlygently.blogspot.com…)
Who’s your daddy? (cinekink.com…)
Women on Top (selinafire.blogspot.com…)

Sex News & Reviews
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zhang Sugasm #77The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #78? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

Thanks to the Sugasm editors, who deemed my post about the Google Mail vulnerability worthy of being an ‘Editor’s Choice’ pick.

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A New York Times Sunday Magazine article about Kink.com:

Peter Acworth is 36 and trim, with a pale, boyish face. He grew up in the English Midlands, the son of a sculptor and a former Jesuit priest, and came to the United States in 1996 to get a Ph.D. in finance at Columbia University. He had already worked for Baring Brothers in London and was on track to do analytical research on Wall Street. Then, after his first year, he read in a British tabloid about a fireman who sold pornographic pictures on the Internet. “He had made a quarter of a million pounds over a short period doing nothing very clever at all,” Acworth told me not long ago, pointing to the clipping framed in his office in downtown San Francisco. “So I basically just ripped off that idea.”

Acworth has since built what is arguably the country’s most successful fetish porn company, Kink.com — a fast-growing suite of 10 S-and-M and bondage-themed Web sites, each updated weekly with a new half-hour or hour video segment. Kink has 60,000 subscribers; access to each site costs about $30 a month. Acworth founded Kink’s first site, Hogtied, while still at Columbia. He purchased licensed digital photographs for content, many of which were simply old bondage-magazine spreads, torn out and scanned. Almost immediately, Hogtied made several hundred dollars a day — then, with a few ads in place, more than a thousand. In 1998, Acworth dropped out of grad school and moved to San Francisco, which he had always regarded as the world’s “fetish capital,” to run Hogtied full time. His mother worried that the lifestyle of a self-employed Web master might get lonely.

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