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homemidori14 10 Registration for Midoris Rope Bondage Dojo in Philadelphia now open!

Dojo Dates: April 19 – 20, 2008
Info and Registration:http://www.RopeDojo.com

Are you serious about improving your rope bondage skills?
Do you want to erotically please and sexually pleasure your partner using rope? Do you want to learn how to be a better bottom or receiver of rope pleasures? Ready to get to the next level of education? Do you want to do safer rope suspension bondage the right way?

If so, you’ll love Rope Bondage Dojo®.

It’s designed with a multi skill-level layered education style to create an exceptional learning experience for both the experienced and novice players.

In two days, your rope skills will improve dramatically through16 hours of concentrated, personalized and hands-on education by Midori and DeLano, two of the best instructors around. It’s a weekend-long immersion and training course unlike any other!

Do you need previous rope bondage experience?
No! All we ask is that you are over the age of 18 and you are able to tie your shoelaces. (Seriously, a lot of basic rope skills and rope physics are included in this basic skill.)

For other frequently asked questions to help you prepare for the experience, take a look at the FAQ page.

This will be the only East Coast Rope Dojo this year.
Meals, goodies and a Saturday night party included!

Photo: Midori by Michele Serchuk

ccs200712201 Bondage fantasy: Cool Cat Studio

(Reprinted with permission from Cool Cat Studio (Script: T Campbell / Art & Creator: Gisèle Lagacé)

Found out about this from Steve B., the first person who ever suspended me. I had to reduce it to fit the post box. Go visit the site, so you can see what it is meant to look really like.

I remember the red rope….thick and shiny…..and then there were small ropes…and she began to bind each breast until the stuck out like Thanksgiving Balloons…..big and hard….OH OH OH…..it felt like heaven to me…..there was no pain….only deep sensation….it was ecstasy….and then she took out my clips….

“Sasha? You use these clips on your breasts and labia? They are really strong….are you sure?”

I nodded….I didn’t realize that they were strong…..I actually liked them better than the metal ones….I felt her put one on my right nipple….and I felt my breath and my voice answer to the sensation…..and then my left nipple……OH OH OH…….YES YES YES…….

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midori Midori in Berlin, Nov. 22 25

Photo by Steve Diet Goedde

Lucky you, those who live in Berlin. Midori will be teaching 6 workshops in 4 days, Nov. 22-25 (rope bondage, erotic role play, creating successful SM scenes, Backdoor Betty, seducing with the whip).

by Tristan Taormino

Last week, the autopsy report was released for Rev. Gary Aldridge, who died in June of accidental asphyxiation while engaged in self-bondage and autoerotic asphyxiation. By now, you’ve probably heard something about the pastor of Thorington Road Baptist Church in Montgomery, Alabama, who was a friend of Jerry Falwell and was found dead in lots of rubber with a butt plug in his ass. There have been plenty of blog entries about how he was yet another closeted, kinky, conservative hypocrite who preached salvation but practiced sin. But in reading the details—especially from the coroner’s report—I was struck by something else: Man, this guy was really into bondage. He was found alone wearing two rubber wet suits, a face mask, a rubber head mask, rubber underwear, diving gloves, and flippers; the various ways he was restrained seem to indicate he was hogtied, which is difficult (but not impossible) to achieve by yourself. He was definitely not a novice bondage fan.

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Boymeat gave the keynote at Rio Grande Leather, and spoke about the origin and creation of the TNG (The Next Generation) special interest groups, which supported younger members interested in SM:

Something that we realized through this process was that it is possible to build community through creating safe spaces for niches of our community. We hadn’t realized it before, but this had always been part of the community we grew up in. There was The Chicago Hellfire Club, The Satyrs, Samois, LSM, GMSMA, and The Exiles. These groups are part of our common history and look at how much they did to build the scene to what it is today. Specialized spaces for specific subgroups. Inclusion through exclusion. A community built block by block. TNG did this, too. We can barely fathom how many young people turned away from our organizations, feeling like they didn’t belong, before TNG came into existence.

Why TNG needed to happen is surprisingly misunderstood, and to clear things up right up, it was neither to get laid, nor to keep anyone else from getting laid. It was not to keep you from hitting on us. It was not to create our own world and not include you. It was not to stop anything other than the graying of our community. To put an end to the undertone that those under a certain age were unwelcome.

Read the entire speech.

3910 1 Find Lolita – September 2007 and beyond

Pinky Lee on Hogtied.com

Sept 12-17 – Northeastern MD
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp: I am teaching The Greedy Pig Loves Threesomes, Power Flogging, The ABC’s of BDSM and King Tut’s Kink: Mummification!

September 22 – Trenton, NJ
KFE: teaching The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-eyed Monster

September 26 – New York, NY
TES Bondage Group: “Another Bondage Experience!” with Lolita, Boymeat, Dov, and Jason

September 28-30 – San Jose, CA
Folsom Fringe: teaching “CBT n a Nutshell” with Michael Blue and “The Greedy Pig Battles The Green-Eyed Monster” plus doing the keynote speech with Boymeat

October 12-14 Fayetteville, NC
NCEdge: teaching “Sensory Deprivation & Control”

November 10 Chicago, IL
GD2: teaching TBD

November 18 Baltimore, MD
Friends of Play House: teaching “Suspension Bondage”

December 11 – New York, NY
TES: I’ll be Lolita Claus for the Holiday Potluck Social

February 15 – New York, NY
LSM: teaching “Hot Wax to the Max”

February 22-24 Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching TBD

May 1-5, 2008 – San Francisco, IL
International Ms Leather Weekend: teaching TBD plus running The Celebrity Auction

wildsidesex 4  Midoris New York Tour

Midori is coming to New York the weekend after Labor Day.

She’s holding her famed rope bondage Rope Dojo for the first time in NYC on September 8-9. It’s sold out, but you can get on the waiting list (I am – one can always hope).

On Wednesday, 9/5 she’s teaching CBT for the Adventurous at Purple Passion. She will share clever and sadistic ways that she likes to play with the family jewels. Not for absolute beginners.

On Thursday, 9/6, she’ll be at the Museum of Sex, talking about Pink Japan: Contemporary Sex Culture:

From cuisine, music, fashion, technology to anime, Japan’s cultural influence on the West is immense. In many ways the Japanese erotic cultures are also influencing today’s Western tastes. Yet the daily realities of Japan’s gender relations, sexual habits, sexual consumer culture and gay/lesbian/transgendered world remain hidden to us, creating an aura of mystique. In this funny and insightful talk, join Midori for a double-expatriate’s photo tour of Japan’s hidden sexual culture today.

On Friday, 9/7, she’ll be speaking at the Lesbian Sex Mafia on Beyond Twisted: Permutations of Kinkiness:

A sadist must of course be a dominant. A submissive must of course be a masochist. Right? Wrong! Come along as Midori explodes the standard definitions of kink roles and expands the idea of what kink is all about. In Beyond Twisted, she maps out a fine-tuned and flexible framework that anyone can use to help describe their deviant desires. And as we all know, that’s the first step to fulfilling them! This is a class for those who don’t quite fit into the standard boxes…and for anyone who’s curious about their own possibly untapped potential!

(Note: LSM events are open to all women 18 years of age or older; this includes transgendered women, as well as transgendered men who were born as women.)

I’ve got my ticket for her MoSex talk, and am going to try and get to the LSM meeting. See you there? Thanks to Seraphin and Lolita for the info and the corrections.

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Between Baths
“His tongue licks along the edge of my thong and then slips underneath, and then he pulls the material aside so he can get to me.”

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How To Set Up an MFM Threesome
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An Ode to Bondage
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Social Kink Interviews The Knotty Boys (Shibari, Bondage)
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Photo: Vanessa (Errotica Archives)

I was talking to Bad Man on Friday. Turns out he’s a top:

“One important question – marks or no marks?”
“Light marks are fine.”

Pulled out some rope. Wrist to wrist, ankle to ankle, ankles to wrists.

Admired my handiwork again. Grabbing a fistful of hair, exposing a vulnerable neck, wondering what to do. We’ve only just met, but there’s a comfort that I’m quite pleased with and what appears to be trust. Sex, or any semblance thereof, isn’t on the agenda for the evening, but my self indulgence is. This complicates matters, and makes them interesting.

Slaps on the stomach and back, exploring soft places. Slaps on the inside of the thigh, the outside of the thigh, and then pushing down into a crouch. Considered getting a blindfold, but I’d rather leave room for growth.

Inspiration strikes at the strangest times. Off to the kitchen to get a chopstick. Slaps with a chopstick on the tender soles of the feet. Moans in exchange. This is going well.

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The Pussy Hair Debate
“I’ve got a shaggy bush.”

Devoured
“Each bit of me that he touches arches toward him, demanding further contact.”

The Last Dance
“I start my journey down her body …”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sex in the Second City

Editor’s Choice
Feminist Carnival 42

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In the company of strangers, part 2
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I Left It at That
My evolving relationship with sex

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Hogtied

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A Little Fun at Home (fexual-strustration.blogspot.com…)
“She surprised herself when her fingers found the actual ice cube melting inside her cunt.”

The Anniversary Present (perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)
“But I knew that nothing would be more appropriate to the new path we’ve chosen than a threesome with another man on the night celebrating our wedding so many years ago.”

Girl’s Night In (thenakedrhetoricaltruth.blogspot.com…)
“Some of us are more conservative than one would have thought, and some of us, it appears from dropped jaws round the table, are less.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
7 Simple Ways to Future-proof Your Blog (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice
My Exam (wanklog.blogspot.com…)

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The Dragonfly (in-your-pants.blogspot.com…)
Greedy Eyes (paradisetiedup.blogspot.com…)
I awoke… (fantasy-nuggets.blogspot.com…)
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Party Games Part 2 (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
Petals….. (clearslate2007.wordpress.com…)
The Pirate Captain (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com…)
Razor Stubble (lafillemariee.blogspot.com…)
So good I could almost come (plum001.blogspot.com…)
Through the Crack (slutissimo2.wordpress.com…)
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Sex & Politics
Gay Marriage Survives (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Beautiful Agony Video (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Betcee May – Nude in Nature (seccpicsnude.blogspot.com…)
Filthy Food (myhotbox.blogspot.com…)
Sasha Cohen (gotcum.blogspot.com…)
Wild – Pictorial Presentation (eroticjournals.blogspot.com…)

Sex Work
Charlie and the Chocolate Covered Cock (ladyentertainers.com…)
When A Client Dies-Part 1 (www.radicalvixen.com…)

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The Control of a Submissive (vampyrandhisladye.blogspot.com…)
Happy HNT – Summertime spanking (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
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Thursday, June 21
TES Men’s Group: “The Acquisition of Masculinity” with Blaise & Corey
Leather Town Hall Meeting

Friday, June 22
22nd AIDS Candle Light Vigil
DSF: Obedience w/ Lady Elaina: Part 2

Saturday, June 23
TES “Introductory Workshop: Basic Skills for Dominants” – Lady Sabrina
TES Spanking Group: “Lights, Camera, Spank… Role Play and Spanking”
TES Novice Excursion hosted by Lady D & Bo

Sunday, June 24
Pride March We’re in Section 8, lining up at 11:45 on 54 St. between 5th and Madison

Monday, June 25

Tuesday, June 26
TES: ” Order of Discipline and Service: The House That Jack Built… Four Years Later” w/ Jack McG

Wednesday, June 27
TES Singles Group: “Erotic Toys” w/ Topaz