Who Are You & What Do You Want? – The Bottoming A-Z Survival Guide
Oct 16th, 2009 by Viviane
| October 18, 2009 | ||
| 5:00 PM | to | 7:00 PM |
Location: The LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St (7th/8th)
Cost: Sliding scale $5 – 0
Presenter: Seraphin
Presented by Instigate NYC
You’re a Bottom. What does that mean? The answer to that question isn’t simple. Who you are as a bottom and what you want can only be defined by you. The possibilities are limitless. What turns you on? What terrifies you? What turns you on because it terrifies you? What qualities are you overlooking in yourself that help to make you a great bottom? Exploring/Examining your desires will help you identify what you want, need & how to pursue the dynamics, play & scenes that fit you. Are you brand new? Or, do you feel like you’ve seen & done it all? Thinking about what really does it for you & what makes you unique can kick start & give direction to your explorations. It can also help you to remember what it is about bottoming that turns you on in the first place. Come ready to think, learn, question & share.We’ll touch on topics including identity, physical do’s & don’ts, processing pain, edge play & situations such as – ‘when you thought it’d be hot, but its not’. It’s all about getting where you want to go& what to do once you get there.
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Seraphin is a NYC based queer switch masochist & occasional sadist experienced in numerous permutations of bottoming. She has served as Programming Co-Chair for LSM and has been a member of TES, MAST & NCSF. She has co-presented, assisted and demoed alongside some of the best and brightest at events such as South Plains Leatherfest, Pacific Friction, TES Fest, Floating World, Boston Fetish Flea & Dark Odyssey. After years of contributing her bottoming perspective to numerous presentations and pushing the limits of extreme play publicly, she’s now most often found behind the scenes. Seraphin has served as a consultant for various media pieces on alternative sexuality and is co-founder of the LGBTQ booking agency, PhinLi Bookings.
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