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SXSW Interactive “features five days of compelling presentations from the brightest minds in emerging technology, scores of exciting networking events hosted by industry leaders and an unbeatable line up of special programs showcasing the best new websites, video games and startup ideas the community has to offer.” I’ve never been there, but it sounds like the ultimate geek fest. Plus I hear the parties and swag are pretty awesome.
The SXSW Panel Picker lets you browse and vote on the 2500+ presentation proposals. SXSW Panel voting ends at the end of the day on Friday, Sept 4th, so you have a little less than a week left to vote. (Update: voting is now closing COB on Monday, September 7th.)
I’ve searched the Panel Picker and listed what I could find of the panels relating to dating, sex, sexuality, social issues, privacy, the adult industry, etc.
If you haven’t yet, go vote. I’m especially interested in the panels Melissa Gira, Lisa Vandever and Nina Hartley (who I know from Dark Odyssey) are proposing, and suggest you vote for them too. Please help send them to to Austin, Texas!
Adult Industry
The Adult Industry and Social Networking (Jay Kopita, YNOT.com)
Future Smut: How To Become An ‘Adult Webmaster’ (Quentin Boyer, TopBucks.com)
The Intersection of Hollywood and Porn (Kathee Brewer, YNOT Network LP)
Nina Hartley: Porn Star, Sex Educator, Social Networker (Nina Hartley, Nina.com)
Not Your Mama’s Porn: Web 2.0 and Women (Jay Kopita, YNOT.com)
Porn’s Future as a Digital Force (Tom Hymes, Daily Babylon)
Working In Adult – The Double Standard (Connor Young, YNOT.com)
Dating & Relationships
CyberSex2.0: Is Social Networking Ruining Your Sex Life? (Dayna Nicole, UglyNot!)
Social Media Konkatsu (Thomas Edwards, The Professional Wingman)
Privacy
Data Portability for Multiple Identities
Making Sense of Privacy on the Social Web
Social Security: Protecting Your Privacy in Social Media
Sex & Sexuality
An Avatar’s Eye View of Sex in Games (Kathee Brewer, YNOT Network LP)
Engaging The Queer Community (Trish Bendix, MTV/AfterEllen.com )
A discussion on maintaining successful and active blogs and social networking sites that are geared toward the LGBT community and its niches.
Interactive Sex & Love (Stephanie Frasco, AskFrasco – Video Advice)
Negotiating the Parent/Teen Divide Over Social Networking (Karen Rayne, Adolescent Sexuality Today)
Parents are often at odds with their teenagers being on social networking sites. Can these sites please parents and appeal to teens simultaneously? This panel brings parents, teens, and experts together to address this digital divide and offer suggestions on how social networking sites can build a workable bridge.
Professionally Naked: What Women Gain From Exposing Ourselves Online (Melissa Gira, Audacia Ray and Sarah Dopp)
Can you be sexual and professional online, even if sex isn’t your job? However women get naked online – in revealing photos, or in revealing our lives – we draw scrutiny and judgment. From blogging to porn, these panelists push the lines of “respectable” behavior with honesty and success.
Sex Education in a Web 3.0 World (Herbert (Herb) Coleman with panelists Shelby Knox (from The Education of Shelby Knox), Laura Rad (The Smitten Kitten & Sex is Fun) and Heather Corinna (AKA Scarleteen).
This will be a discussion with podcasters, internet based and college sex educators, on the present and future of sex education, the internet and digital technology. The panel will address issues such as countering misinformation, appropriate information for teens and younger, availability of resources, proper and improper use of technology and their own experiences with sex education and social networks.
Social Issues
The Porn Police Are STILL at the Door (Lisa Vandever, Cinekink)
Not just for pornographers, the notion for this panel grew out of our work curating CineKink, as we noticed that entries submitted by filmmakers from the adult sphere typically included notice that federal record-keeping requirements for sexually explicit material had been properly met, while those coming from the independent film world did not. (If you’re thinking “2257, huh?†that could probably be you!)Making matters worse, the regulations have recently been expanded to cover not just actual or documentary depictions of sex, but simulated situations—ie fiction—as well.
Was It Something I Said? TOS And Content (Lisa Vandever, Cinekink)
Meanwhile, this panel was inspired by the frustrations we’ve experienced over the years trying to position and promote a sex-related endeavor on the internet–from finding a web host and sending email blasts, to processing ticket sales and donations, to creating an identity in social marketing and getting our videos placed on popular sites. Seemingly the old adage–“I’ll know it when I see it‖flourishes online, where murky definitions of what content is and is not allowed abound. One gatekeeper’s “inappropriate†is another’s “adult†is another’s “offensive, obscene and/or pornographic.†How are we affected as users and creators–and is there any recourse?
Sex, Drugs and Social Media — What’s Legal, What’s Not? (Adam Metz, METZ Consulting)
Sexting+Nudie Pics = Digital Violence Among Teens (Chloe Gottlieb, R/GA)
South African Sexting, Colombian Cyber-Bullies: Global Virtual Risks (Katherine Maher, UNICEF)
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. . .If he stood in the center of the ring, he had the perfect view of her pussy: the tight tangerine fabric clinging to her crotch, the tiny bulge of labia, the occasional wet spot. He was alone, practicing his new act, when she walked in and climbed the ladder to the trapeze. She untied the trapeze, clasped the bar, swung out, and did a number of positions as she swung back and forth. He followed her motions, watching her closely. He held his breath a few times. He had never seen an aerialist practice without a partner. After she climbed down, she smiled at him as she passed by. He wanted to ask her questions. Where was she from? Why was she practicing alone? But all he could do was offer her the banana cream pie he had been spinning on his finger. She dipped her finger in the cream, smelled it, sucked it slowly. Then she disappeared behind the red velvet curtains.
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Sabrina Fox and Lobo on meninpain.com
Thursday, August 27
Staten Island Kink Munch
Alphabet Soup
Friday, August 28
Le Cercle des Dommes
DSF: “End of the Summer BDSM Barbeque Party & The Speed Dating Gameâ€
Saturday, August 29
Sunday, August 30
NY Bondage Club
Suspension party
Monday, August 31
Tuesday, September 1
TES“Trans 101″ w/ Dr.Lisa O’Connor, MD
Wednesday, September 2
Pleasure Salon
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “Vanilla Side of Things”
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Not the Bradys XXX: Marcia, Marcia, Marcia (2009)
Studio- Hustler
Director- Will Ryder
Cast- Teagan Presley, Gina Lynn, Kris Slater, Aurora Snow, Alexis Love, Scotty Lyons, Emma Heart, Maya Gates, James Deen, Sienna West, Mikey Butders, Kacey Jordan, Daniel, Evan Stone
Porno spoofs are the biggest thing in the industry these days, and “Not the Bradys XXX: Marcia, Marcia, Marcia†(2009), the sequel to “Not the Bradys XXX†(2008)–the biggest selling film in all of porn—is hilarious.
I don’t know if any of you are old enough to have watched the Brandy Bunch as a kid (1969-1974), but I was hooked on it. NTB2 is a groovy tribute to the original series which has been sexed up for mainstream porn. The set is amazing and looks just like the old Brady’s home, with all the punchy retro-colored outfits to match.
The cast is great, especially Aurora Snow as Jan, Teagan Presley as Marcia, and James Deen as Peter. It was actually kind-of creepy watching it as the cast is so much like the originals, that… well, they all seem like goofy, underage teenagers. Luckily, we know they are not, and the parody can be forgiven, since it is meant to be a comedy.
Hottest scenes in the film include Jan (Aurora Snow) and girl-friend Alexis Love girl-girl scene who are later joined by Scott Lyons; Peter (James Deen) three-way with Emma Hart and Maya Gates; and Bobby (Mikey Butders) getting it on with the big-breasted neighborhood milf Sierra West. Marcia (Teagan) and Evan Stone’s scene wraps it up, and is super hot. God Stone knows how to talk dirty and when he knocks Teagan off the bench as he comes, it is hilarious!
This film made me laugh and laugh, which is normally hard to do. I really loved it and highly recommend it to anyone who wants to watch a bit of light-hearted, retro-styled parody porn instead of the same-old boring scripts and usual old in-and-out mainstream sex.
Get “Not the Bradys XXX: Marcia, Marcia, Marcia†at AdamEve.com
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Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #42? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #44? Submit it here before Sunday August 30th at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.
Note: No Editor’s Pick again this week, instead enter one of the many many contests that are going on!
Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.
Madame Editrix
On to the reviews…
Vibrators
Dildos
Anal Toys
Toys for Cocks
Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.
BDSM/Fetish
Adult Books
Adult Movies/Porn
Sex Furniture
Miscellaneous
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Mark Davis and Ten on sexandsubmission.com
Thursday, August 20
Staten Island Kink Munch
Friday, August 21
Switch Party
Saturday, August 22
Sunday, August 23
NY Bondage Club
Monday, August 24
Tuesday, August 25
TES: “Minute Talesâ€
Wednesday, August 26
TES Switchables & Other Polymorphous Perverts Group: “Hot & Sexy Story Time”
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Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #41? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #43? Submit it here before Sunday August 16th at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.
Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.
Madame Editrix
On to the reviews…
Vibrators
Dildos
Anal Toys
Toys for Cocks
Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.
BDSM/Fetish
Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraints by Him & Her
Adult Books
Adult Movies/Porn
Sex Furniture
Lingerie
Miscellaneous
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August is G-spot month (I have officially christened it!) and I continue to further my experience and knowledge of the G-spot, female ejaculation and G-spot toys.
If you have read any of my reviews on G-spot toys, you will know that my favorite G-spot toy is the Curve by Fun Factory [my review]. Errr… That was until I got my hands on Ophoria’s Beyond No. 3.
I can’t begin to tell you how much I am in love with this toy. As far as the Curve goes, it is the only toy I have tried that even comes close, and perhaps even improves on that design.
The Beyond No. 3 is made of velvety soft, 100% silicone and features the lazy “f†shape that is perfect for G-spot massage. This beautiful design is also functional, with a rounded bulb shape on the G-spot end and an enclosed loop finger-hole on the other end, allowing for easy, ergonomically controlled, single finger manipulation. The shaft is long and slender and ribbed near the bulb end (which also makes it ideal for P-spot massage). The G-spot bulb is the perfect size and shape for rubbing the G-spot into deep body orgasms and provoking female ejaculation. And, because it is firm, yet flexible, it feels quite comfortable as it molds to your body to allow you to relax, which is important when trying to ejaculate. Once you warm up to the toy (which also warms up to you) the firm material allows for G-spot pummeling and thrusting which the G-spot especially enjoys once it gets fully aroused.
While I still love my Curve dildo, the Beyond no. 3 is much more beautifully designed and has become my newest, most favorite G-spot toy.
If you haven’t visited Ophoria Toy’s website, make sure to check it out. They have some of the most gorgeously designed sex toys on the market, specifically designed for pleasure, including the amazing Beyond no. 3.
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“I am who I am. I am not ashamed of who I am — not one bit.”
Harvey “Jack” McGeorge passed away on August 18, 2009. He was 59 years old. The quote above is what he said when the Washington Post outed him in 2002 when he was a weapons inspector with U.N. Monitoring, Verification and Inspection Commission (UNMOVIC). He did offer his resignation to Hans Blix, who had known of his BDSM from the beginning. Blix refused to accept his resignation. Jack was a former Marine, a munitions expert, a sharpshooter and a chemical and biological warfare expert. He had his own consulting company, Public Safety Group.
Jack was a bondage enthusiast and a metal bondage collector. He acquired his first pair of handcuffs when he was eight years old. His first explorations with others came while he was in the Marine Corps and, then later, in Mensa. He was a founding member and an emeritus board member of Black Rose in DC and served in several capacities including Chairman of the Board, President, Secretary and Co-chair for BR10. Additionally he had been a member of TES, GMSMA and Delta where he had served as a chief DM.
Jack was also passionate about latex, role play, teaching and activism. He taught on a wide variety of topics for many groups and events over the years. Jack served for five years on the Leather Leadership Conference board, was the Co-chair for LLC2000 and an Emeritus Board Member. Jack was a past Chairman of the Board of National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and served as Chair for the CARAS Board.
Over the past dozen year, Jack explored a passion for Master/slave dynamics. He established a household, the Order for Discipline and Service. He was greatly influenced by monastic and military structure and developed household manuals, uniforms, brochures, and a household philosophy. Jack and slave raven held the Northeast Master and slave title in 2005.
His community awards included:
Black Rose Vaughn Keith National Education Award in 1998
Dr. Anthony F DeBlase Professor of SM Arts and Letters in 1999
Pantheon of Leather Mid Atlantic Regional Award in 1998 and 2000
Black Rose Elder Award in 2000
Pat Bond Community Service Award from TES in 2003
Pantheon of Leather Man of the Year Award in 2004
Jack was my primary partner from 1993 to 1999. He seduced me with his fascinating stories and kept me enthralled with his incredible play style. Together we built our first leather family. I helped him with his metal bondage collection and he encouraged me with my teaching (It’s not a real presentation if there’s no handout!). We worked together on projects like BR10, LLC and NCSF. We did not always agree on everything, but we were always on the same side. And we were friends until the end.
Many others in the BDSM/Leather community were touched and inspired by Jack. This is a huge loss.
Funeral Arrangements for Jack McGeorge are as follows:
Service Sunday, August 23, 2009 7PM (Completely vanilla)
Mountcastle Funeral Home
4143 Dale Blvd.
Dale City, VA 22193
Please, no flowers.Times have been hard for many, including Jack and his family. If you would like to send a donation to help, you can do so by sending a check or money order to:
Justin Tanis
8750 Georgia Ave Apt 131A
Silver Spring, MD 20910
There will also be a basket at the service if you would like to place a donation there.
Jack’s wishes were that the community be able to attend his funeral service. It is our hope that those of you who can attend do.
A Leather family Memorial Service will take place on Saturday, August 29th at 2pm at the Crucible.

Jack teaching Leadership at IML 1999

Jack and I at Len and Michele’s jumping the broom ceremony
circa 1995

Me and Jack at a Fetish Factory party at The Vault
circa 1995
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Sugar High Glitter City (2001)
Studio: SIR Productions
Director: Jackie Strano, Shar Rednour
Cast: Shar Rednour, Jackie Stran, and many others not on credits.
Nominated by AVN:
Best Soundtrack
Best All-Girl Feature
Best All-Girl Sex Scene
I love reviewing porn for Babeland, because they always have the most interesting, unique and sexy films. This week’s review is Sugar High Glitter City, by Sir Video.
Sugar High Glitter City is set in a retro-dystopia where sugar and candy is outlawed and addicted candy ‘hos have to sell their bodies to feed their sweet obsession. Of course, the cops are just as bad as the prostitutes and pimps, keeping the girls in supply for special tricks and treats.
The film features all dyke hardcore porn with an array of sweet candy-colored glitter dildos, saccharine pussy eating, and finger-licking good fisting sex. The mise-en-scene is retro reminiscent of 70s sexploitation films with glitter make-up and strange spandex costuming, a Puss Puss Glitter Palace whorehouse, mean graffiti streets, and disco balls.
The sex is authentic dyke porn, but I had a hard time getting into some of it because of the poor lighting in several scenes. But, you do get a lot of different scenes, various body types and genders including lipstick lesbians, dykes and gender-bending bois. This film had great potential, but fell short of my expectations, mainly because the camera and lighting was rather shoddy.
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Satine Phoenix and Maestro on thetrainingofo.com
Thursday, August 13
Queens BDSM munch
Suspension party
Friday, August 14
DSF: “The G Spot, and the art of Female Ejaculation” w/ Sammi Sui
Saturday, August 15
LSM 4th Annual Naked (or Not) Beach Party
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group – Spanking Hot Story Night
TES Novice Excursion
TES Summer Luau Barbeque Party
NyboL “Stretch†Tight Gear Party
Spam party
Sunday, August 16
TES Beach Excursion
Instigate NYC: “Heart of Darkness: The Art of Sensory Deprivation” w/ Goddess Roze
NY Bondage Club
Fixe Fetish Party
Monday, August 17
Tuesday, August 18
TES: “Meet The Candidates Nightâ€
Wednesday, August 19
TES Relationships Group: “Who Am I? – Dynamic Identity in Relationships†w/ August & Sue
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Ceramic dildos are nothing new. According to Wikipedia, “Dildos in one form or another have been present in society throughout historyâ€, the oldest one known, a 28,000 year old “sculpted and polished phallus†made from siltstone found in a German cave. From the same time period, the earliest known ceramic objects are dated: “Gravettian figurines from the Upper Paleolithic period†such as Venus statuettes “of a nude female figure… made by molding and then firing a mixture of clay and powdered bone.â€Â Given this data, it is not a huge leap to think our Cro-Magnon sisters were enjoying cold, hard ceramic dildos in their stone-age pussies.
Fast forward to 2009 and now we can enjoy the luxury of gorgeous, designer dildos made of glazed ceramic by Lovemoiselle that turn your sex toy into a work of art. These lovely dildos are as beautiful to behold as they are practical to use. Why? Ceramic is smooth and sleek, so feels great as a sex toy. It is a non-porous, hypo-allergenic, body-safe material that makes them the most hygienic and easy to clean adult toys on the market. Ceramic can be heated or cooled for temperature play, and little bit of your favorite lube goes long way. Add to that, the quality of these dildos, that if cared for properly, should last a lifetime, and you have a product that is very environmentally friendly as well.
When I tell my friends about my new ceramic dildos, they always say, “Well aren’t they kind-of hard for putting in your vagina?â€Â The answer is, “Yes, they are hard, but the G-spot LOVES hard, unyielding objects rubbing against it.â€Â So, ceramic dildos are perfect for G-spot stimulation and learning to female ejaculate.
The Aveline by Lovemoiselle was designed specifically for G-spot play. It is a slow curving toy with a rounded head that is angled to massage the G-spot once inserted about 1â€-2†deep. The curving waves of this dildo make it ergonomically comfortable to hold as well. The base features a small, rubber plug that can be removed to fill your toy with hot or cold water, making it ideal for temperature play. Like glass, ceramic toys should not be subjected to extreme temperature, or dropped for obvious reasons. We wouldn’t want our lovely dildo to chip, crack or break.
The dildo is the color of bone, with a turquoise long-stemmed flower, making it simply elegant. It comes packaged in a nice black cardboard box that is great for storage as well. Lovemoiselle’s vision is to “help human’s sexuality to bloom by creating unique and innovative objects that combine perfect function with elegant designâ€, and they have definitely reached their goal with the Aveline. Beautiful, practical, and excellent quality makes Lovemoiselle’s ceramic dildos some of the sexiest and most innovative sex toys on the market. These toys are sure to get you squirting.
Pick up a Lovemoiselle Aveline and other sex toys at Vibrator.com in the green toys section, and make your Cro-Magnon sisters green with envy!
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