From the monthly archives:

April 2009

If it were a bit warmer today, if high school graduates could read, if the New York subway system had hard plastic barriers up (that opened when the trains came) so that no one could jump or fall or be pushed on the tracks, if diet coke were good for you, if my maternal grandparents were still alive and healthy, if I weighed 15 pounds less, if Chai came directly out of one of my faucets, if there were no rats in Manhattan, if there were already a good health insurance system in effect in this country, if all the women who wanted to get pregnant could and all the women who didn’t want to be pregnant weren’t, if — if — if –

Well, let’s get to the point: if dating profiles were honest, well, hey, then where would the sport be in internet dating??

All the fun would go out of it.

Yeah, and dating profiles — or at least the profile of one man I dated recently — would read something like this:

If it’s a warm day when we meet, I’ll be wearing a t-shirt, and you’ll notice a bluish-purplish mark on the inside of my left wrist. What is it? you’ll wonder. Well, I was a heroin addict in my youth, and that’s what it comes from. You gotta problem with that? If so, go away.

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Sugasm #162

by Viviane on 04/03/2009

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Photo: Gabriela (errotica archives)

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #163? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Justify My Love
“All I could think of was to have his arms around me so that they could make everything right.”

Tied Naked In A Field Of Grass
“Growing up on a farm has its advantages.”

On Machismo
“It’s very weird, this rigid interpretation of gender in America.”

Sugasm Editor
Sex Work And Compassion: The Angry Family

Editor’s Choice
Heat

BDSM & Fetish
brock’s Task
Golden Spike
Impish
Let’s try how it works
Playing Safe
Ritual
Roommate’s Revenge
Sleeping with Daddy

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Beneath Him
He Likes Me
In The Shadows
Jenniffer from AFF
Red Pajamas
Stripper Sex. Stripper Fuck. Stripper Fun
Three Views of a Nude
Watching Girls IV, Personal Invitation
Work Violation
You Ask Me

Sex Humor
Dancing dildo’s and other sundry details…

Sex News, Reviews, and Interviews
Mistress Kara Chains, a wicked toy, and my naughty behind
The Mistress Manual review
Pixazza + Adsense for Porn & Adultworld
A review on 32″ curved Walnut and Maple Cane by Wycked Synsations with Sera Miles.
Sex Toy Review: ShowerBabe
Think of Your Sex Toy Chest Like a Golf Bag
Top Five Tuesday – Sports Edition

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bijou – All woman
Nicole Scherzinger Sexy Maxim Photoshoot
Within Temptation -HNT
Womanizer (in sign language)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Admonishment Comes at a Heavy Price
Advertising: Sex, Commerce and Sexual Turn-Ons
Caveat, Qualifier, Disclaimer …
An Escort to Remember
HNT ~ Blood Makes Noise
Is Kink Oppressed? Is it Oppressed like ____?
Labels, identities, and asking

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

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. . . The next day, I had some very weighty thoughts, but I was lightened by them. One of the things that struck me was that, apparently, it’s completely possible to have a give and take of control, just because he enjoyed taking, and I enjoyed giving. It was a simple symbiotic fulfillment experience with no messy emotions and promises wanted or offered. I saw for a brief moment that someone else could show me things about myself I had never seen. I learned that I can give up control and not be devoured or seek to destroy myself in the process. I discovered I can cum exactly as and exactly when instructed. I confirmed that a measure of structure and authority makes me more productive and joyful. And apparently, playing with my pussy can make me more creative and focused. I am very grateful to have shared this experience with Mr. Sevven, and most of all, for making me put the damn pitchfork away

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3 NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Apr 2 8

Maestro and Kristine on thetrainingofo.com

Thursday, April 2
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue www.Baroness.com

Friday, April 3
DSF: “The Master slave Playground” w/ Master Larry & slave barb
NYC Munch

Saturday, April 4
ClubFEM NYC Party
SWITCH One Year Anniversary Party

Sunday, April 5
LSM Member Safety and Orientation
MAsT Metro NY: “Performance Review and Feedback in Our Structures”
Kinky Jews 4th Annual Kinky Passover Seder
Book Launch Party for “Secret Identity: The Fetish Art Of Superman’s Co-Creator Joe Shuster”

Monday, April 6

Tuesday, April 7
TES: “Tight Immobilizing Bondage” w/ Jay Wiseman

Wednesday, April 8
TES Novice Group: “Play Piercing & Skin Stapling 101″ w/ Slutress
GMSMA: Better Homes & Dungeons

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form6 splash Form 6 by Jimmyjane

I have had the pleasure to review many luxury vibrators from various companies, but this is my first time reviewing a Jimmyjane vibrator.  I have used Jimmyjane’s Afterglow Massage Candles [my review] and fell in love with them.  So I was very curious to see what they would do with a vibrator.  After all, Jimmyjane is a “design centric brand that believes sexy is smart, and the pleasure is in the details”.

Introducing the new Form 6 vibrating massager from Jimmyjane, Generation 2.  The new Form 6 is a redesigned so that it is one of the only rechargeable vibrators that is completely waterproof and submersible up to 1 meter.  Most rechargeable vibrators have a plug-in hole at the end of the vibe to allow it to plug-in to the recharger.  Form 6 is different.  It is cordless and features a metal band around the “neck” of the vibrator that allows it to lay upon the recharger where it connects with two tiny metal prongs which activates the charger.  Because of this, the Form 6 is able to have a sealed chassis so no water can get inside and destroy the vibrator.  The sealed body is also virtually soundproof as well, so even on the highest speed, this vibe will not wake your roommates.  The enclosed charging case also is a convenient storage and travel case that is discreet and will keep your Form 6 clean and safe.

form6 charger Form 6 by Jimmyjane

Another interesting design element with the Form 6 is that it has dual digitally-controlled motors on either end of the vibrator, allowing either end to be used.  The smaller curved end is perfect for both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, while the larger, thicker end works well as a fully insertable vibrator.  Both ends feature six vibration modes from mild vibration, to oscillation, to throbbing pulses.

The controls on the Form 6 are fairly simple, yet sophisticated featuring (.) (~) (o) symbol controls that are inline with the wand. Pressing the smaller (.) with increase the power level on the smaller curved head, where as pressing the larger (o) will increase the power level on the larger head.  The (~) symbol is pressed to cycle through the six different vibration modes.  It also features a fail-safe lock, so it will not turn on automatically by just touching it randomly, and you need to hold any button for 2 seconds to activate the vibrations.  These buttons also light up, which is nifty if you are using it in a dark bedroom at night.  Once fully charged, the Form 6 runs approximately 2 hours on maximum power.

The vibrator itself is coated with medical-grade silicone with a smooth matte finish, over a firm curved body.  It feels lush against the skin and the smooth organic contours mold perfectly to the body.  I preferred using the smaller, curved end as the power was ideal for clitoral stimulation that lead to a very satisfying orgasm.  When used internally as a G-spot toy, this vibrator rocks.  The curved head is perfectly formed to reach the G-spot easily and the thicker wand-shaped handle allows you to comfortably hold the vibrator and rock it up and down for maximum G-spot stimulation.  I have said this time and again in my reviews, that the G-spot requires firm thrusting stimulation, which the Form 6 is immaculately designed for.

Now some of you may shudder at the $185 price tag that this luxury vibrator has.  However, I believe that the quality design, sophisticated vibrations, rechargeable aspect and durability of this vibrator is worth it.  Hell, I think I’m worth it!  Besides, the Form 6 also comes with a one year warranty, and in the world of sex toys what you pay is what you get.  So I would much rather have a quality vibrator that I will use again and again for years of pleasurable orgasms, than something I might use once a throw away.  The Form 6 is an elegantly designed seriously sexy vibrator that is a must have for savvy sex toy connoisseurs.  Once you own a vibrator from Jimmyjane, you won’t need anything else!

jimmyjane Form 6 by Jimmyjane

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I have been waiting for this building for the past 4 years. I stayed at The Standard in L.A. years ago and wondered why wasn’t there one in New York City? I cheered when I heard that there was finally going to be one built. I delighted when I learned it was going to be built over the High Line. When I first saw the renderings, I may have gotten a little wet.

My first thought was, “I have to have sex in that building.”

I’ve realized that place has become something of a fetish for me. Some people like feet, some people like food, some people like corsets and stockings. I like having sex in architecturally significant buildings.

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21 Find Lolita – April 2009 and beyond

Madison Young and Le Rock on meninpain.com

April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching How to Play With Needles, Stuff Yer Hole, Sensory Deprivation and Fantasy Role Play

May 10 – Washington, DC
Whole DC: teaching TBA

June 20 – NYC
Leather Pride Night: coordinating volunteer

June 24-29 – Northern MD
Leather Retreat: teaching classes TBA

July 2-5 – Piscataway, NJ
TES Fest: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching TBA

July 17-19 – Denver, CO
Thunder In The Mountains: teaching Decorative Bloodsports, The Dynamics of Co-Topping and Metal Bondage.

October 23-25 – Chicago, IL
Kinky Kollege : teaching Kidz Rule and CBT in a Nutshell

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