From the monthly archives:

February 2009

Do you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, bi-curious, queer, questioning, or otherwise same-sex attracted? Are you of African American or Latina descent? Are you age 18 and older? Even if you prefer not to label yourself, we are interested in your experience!

I am a doctoral student at Emory University conducting research on attitudes about sexual identity and community held by same-sex attracted women of African American or Latina descent

Participation involves the completion of an online questionnaire and will take approximately 30 minutes of your time.

Your participation is voluntary and anonymous.

If you are interested in participating in this study please follow the link provided below or cut and paste the link into your web browser:

http://emory.qualtrics.com/SE?SID=SV_bskzTz0WmmBpzA8&SVID=Prod

You may also assist with this project by forwarding this e-mail request to LGBT-themed organizations and listservs, and/or to same-sex attracted individuals.

To request additional information or questions about this study, or to request a hard copy of the questionnaire in English or Spanish please contact Monique Carry at ccarry@emory.edu.

Thank you,

Monique Carry
Doctoral Candidate, Department of Sociology
Emory University, Atlanta GA
ccarry AT emory DOT edu

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ncsf National Coalition for Sexual Freedom  ACTION ALERT

Support the Holiday Inn Worthington, the Host Hotel for Winter Wickedness

Please make a phone call now to support the Holiday Inn Worthington, the host hotel for Adventures In Sexuality’s (AIS) Winter Wickedness Event taking place February 6-8th . The religious extremist group, Americans for Truth About Homosexuality, along with a local religious radio station in the Columbus, Ohio, area are running a smear campaign against this pansexual BDSM event.

Peter LaBarbara of Americans for Truth About Homosexuality calls the event “a freakish sadomasochistic perversion-fest” and urges people to call the hotel’s corporate headquarters to pressure them into canceling “for the sake of decency and public health.”

Bob Burney, a religious extremist Talk Radio DJ, devoted an entire segment of his show slamming Winter Wickedness and attempting to link the event with non-consensual and criminal activities. He urged his listeners to call and mount a campaign against the hotel. (Tuesday, Part 3 starting at 10 min 42sec)

It will only take a minute for you to help! It doesn’t matter where you live or if you’re not going to attend this event. Please call the Intercontinental Hotels Group Corporate Customer service line at 800-621-0555, then press option 1, then option 5, and thank them for not discriminating against groups, and for being willing to face minor adversity for the sake of our freedom.

You can also call the Holiday Inn Columbus-Worthington today at 614-436-0700 they’ll be very glad tohear a friendly voice to counter the hatred of the religious extremists.

Suggested points to make:

1. Thank you for upholding the Fair Accommodations Act and choosing not to discriminate against legal events.

2. Please don’t let a small number of religious extremists manipulate you by drumming up fear with their misinformation campaigns.

3. There are over 200 weekend-long BDSM events that take place every year in America – we bring in a lot of revenue in these hard times. We like to stay at hotel chains where we have been welcomed when we’re traveling on personal or business travel.

4. Organizers of BDSM events such as Winter Wickedness at The Holiday Inn comply with state and local laws prohibiting public sexual intercourse and other forms of sexualintimacy. Demonstrations, lectures and discussion groups as well as dinners and evening parties compose the variety of offerings to guests, nothing different from any of the other hundreds of conventions hosted by your franchisees on a weekly basis.

5. Thank you for standing strong against hate and ignorance.

Please pass this on to your friends to call now!

February 4, 2009

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The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a national organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights of consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual expression. NCSF is primarily focused on the rights of consenting adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory communities,who often face discrimination becauseof their sexual expression.

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
822 Guilford Avenue, Box 127
Baltimore, MD 21202-3707
917-848-6544
media@ncsfreedom.org
www.ncsfreedom.org

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10 NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Feb 5 11

Ami Emerson and Joey Nobody on publicdisgrace.com

Thursday, February 5
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue

Friday, February 6
NYC Munch
DSF: “The Invisible Leash, a How, When, Where, and Why Guide to Protocols” w/ Master Tallen
StrictlySpankingNY: Valentine’s Spanking Party

Saturday, February 7
GMSMA: Leather Fetish Fashion Show IV
ClubFEM NYC Party
Skin Tight USA

Sunday, February 8
MAsT Metro NY: Non-Traditional Dynamics w/ Master Tallen & Levi

Monday, February 9

Tuesday, February 10
TES: “Erotic Humiliation” w/ Thrash

Wednesday, February 11
TES Novice Group: “What the Cuck! A Beginner’s Guide to Cuckholding” w/ Skully
GMSMA: “When Love Hurts: The Psychology of S/M “

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womolia Womolia Vibrator from Babeland

The Womolia is a rechargeable vibrator by Emotional Bliss, an European manufacturer that is only available in North America through select stores like Babeland.  It is a high quality sex toy, made out of ABS plastic, with silicone tip for added comfort.  The end of the Womolia is petal-shaped, so perfect for fitting inside the inner labia and stimulating the entire vulva area.  I really enjoyed the feeling of my entire vulva being stimulated by this toy, and the vibrations run from subtle to fairly intense depending on the speed or vibrating pattern you choose.  It is comfortable to hold, discrete looking and fairly powerful for a mid-size massager.  I was impressed at how powerful this vibrator is on the maximum setting.  Be prepared to have your socks knocked off!

The good thing is that it is a rechargeable vibrator, so no batteries to buy or change.  It comes with an international converter for charger, and takes approximated fourteen hours to charge.  The vibe lasts from 60-90 minutes fully charged.  This is the only problem I saw with this vibrator, as unlike many other rechargeable vibes, this one does not hold the charge long.  So if you don’t use it right away (after charging) it will loose the charge by the following day.  That is too bad, because this is such an excellent toy in every other way and would be a fav, if the charge lasted longer, so it was ready when you are.  Solution?  I guess you could leave it plugged in, except when not in use, like the We-Vibe [my review], but I’m not sure if that too would wear down the charge after time.  I am going to try this with the Womolia, as I would like to play with it more often.

I really enjoyed trying the Womolia by Emotional Bliss and look forward to more of their products.  Thank you to Babeland for offering me this product for review.  Check out Babeland for lots of sexy Valentine’s Gift Ideas!


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Geek Entertainment TV goes to the Adult Entertainment Expo and interviews Tera Patrick, Evan Seinfeld, Evan Stone, Stevie Hart, Buck Angel, Satine Phoenix and Nikki Jay about their geeky interests.

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A bra for men becomes the hottest selling men’s underwear item on a Japanese online shopping site.

The move has provoked heated online discussion in Japan with thousands debating the merits of male use of the item of underwear.

Toshi Maeda reports.

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mistressyin Azia Dia in coversation with Mistress Yin

Mistress Yin

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Azia Dia

The Monkey NYC
37 West 26th St. 12th Floor
FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 13th
Admission is Free
10pm (not as posted on event page)

Azia Dia hosts an intimate interview series that focuses on the sex lives of some of NYC’s most fascinating characters.

Azia Dia is a life coach, dominatrix and practitioner of erotic esoteric arts. In 1997, she began her career in the adult business through work in print media and film. Her radio show ‘Eradio’ aired from 2001-2002 on NYC’s WBAI and was eventually taken off the air when it was considered ‘too controversial”.

Mistress Yin is a professional dominatrix and writer. She wrote her undergraduate thesis on the theory and psychology of BDSM at Barnard-Columbia University. Yin has been now practicing the healing arts of erotic pain and dominance for over 9 years and is currently gaining her MFA. Some of her articles can be seen online at:   http://www.smithmag.net/diaries/2007/01/13/the-dominatrix-next-door/ and http://mistressyin.livejournal.com.

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nq9qfd Pleasurists #14

Tiffany’s Boudoir by Dev1l-5pawn found by Marla Singer.

Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #13? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #15? Submit it here before Sunday February 8th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick

Madame Editrix

Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Vibrators

Dildos

Anal Toys

Toys for Cocks

Sex Kits

Lube/Massage Oil/Bath Stuff

BDSM/Fetish

Adult Books

Adult Movies/Porn

Storage

Miscellaneous

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10 Find Lolita – February 2009 and beyond

Calico on hogtied.com

February 13-15 – Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire: teaching How To Play With Needles, Flogging: Different Strokes For Different Folks and Sensory Deprivation & Control

February 19 – NYC
TES Relationships SIG: on a panel “Intersection of Love, Sex and SM”

February 20 – NYC
LSM: teaching “Single Tails – The Epitome of SM”

February 27 – March 1 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching Decorative Piercing, Co-Topping and Metal Bondage

March 19 – San Francisco, CA
The Citadel: teaching Fantasy Role Play

March 19-22 – San Francisco, CA
IMsL: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching Mummification

April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching three classes TBA

July 2-5 – Piscataway, NJ www.tesfest.org
TES Fest: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching classes TBA

July 17-19 – Denver, CO
Thunder In The Mountains: teaching classes TBA

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