From the monthly archives:

January 2009

ninasguidetothreesomes Nina Hartleys Guide to Threesomes   2 Girls & a Guy

Nina Hartley turned her skills to making “how-to” DVDs in 1996 with her first instructional DVD “Guide to Swinging”. These guides, directed by her husband Ernest Greene, are educational videos targeted at couples as an introduction to the pleasures of sex featuring many topics including erotic bondage, spanking, submission, anal sex, multiple orgasms, g-spot, masturbation, strap-ons and more. All of her guides feature Nina’s conversational demonstrations and genuine enthusiasm.

Nina Hartley’s Guide to Threesomes (2 Girls & a Guy) is the twentieth sex guide in Nina’s repertoire. The format includes a prologue sex talk between Nina and her assistant Nicole Sheridan; two threesome porn scenes featuring two guys and a girl; an interview with Nina, a bonus scene, behind the scenes, previews, a gallery and more.

All of Nina’s sex guides begin with a prologue introducing the subject matter with a guest star. In this guide, Nina recruits Nicole Sheridan to read viewer’s mail on the subject of three-way sex, a common fantasy that is most likely to take place in our daily sex lives. During this segment, Nina and Nicole talk about major concerns regarding three-way sex including finding a third partner, initiating sexual contact, respecting boundaries, jealousy issues, and communication. During their conversation, Nina and Nicole discuss their own experiences and make it sound easy to find a third lover and spice up your sex life. If only it were that easy!

The main attractions include two sex scenes between two women and a solo man. The first features Nina, Nicole and her husband Voodoo. There is a lot of chemistry between the performers who genuinely look like they enjoy each other. Nina shows how to initiate sex with Voodoo, which leads to foreplay between the trio. Nicole and Voodoo are careful not to leave Nina out of the sex as Nicole feeds Nina Voodoo’s considerable cock. The sex continues with lots of fucking, girl-girl action and the climax scene where Nina is fucked in the ass by Voodoo. Nina addresses the viewer at various intervals throughout the scene, relating various tips. Some people may find this a distraction that takes them out of the mood. Despite this, the scene is pretty hot.

The second scene features Alec Knight, Mika Tan and Shy Love in many positions, doing oral, anal, fucking and toy play. It was a let-down after watching Nina, Nicole and Voodoo. Nina’s scene was more natural and the performers were comfortable with each other, while the second appeared scripted and lacked that special spark.

The bonus scene is a short, lesbian scene featuring Xara Diaz and Devon Michaels that includes playful, soft-core food-play. The “Interview With Nina” includes her tips for successful threesomes and some of her own disappointments as well.

You can get all Nina’s Guides at Sextoy.com where they have an amazing selection of sex toys and DVDs.

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Sapphica Erotica

by Viviane on 01/16/2009

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Thursday, January 15
TES Queer SIG: What Do You Mean, `Queer?”
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, January 16
DSF: “Making Good Choices in Scene Partners” w/ forsythia
LSM: “Take-Downs, Resistance Play and Kidnappings” w/ Angel & Sebastien
SWITCH

Saturday, January 17
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Orgasm Workshop w/ Dr Charley Ferrer
TES Novice Excursion
TES Spanking SIG: “Cold Nights, Hot Bottoms”
TES Winter Fires Party w/ 007
SPAM
STIMULATE

Sunday, January 18
NY Rubber Ball

Monday, January 19

Tuesday, January 20
TES: “ Where are the Minorities in the Scene?” panel w/ Lady Sabrina

Wednesday, January 21
TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group: “Straps, Dicks, & Butt Plugs” w/ Felice Shays

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The Internet may not be such a dangerous place for children after all.

A task force created by 49 state attorneys general to look into the problem of sexual solicitation of children online has concluded that there really is not a significant problem.

The findings ran counter to popular perceptions of online dangers as reinforced by depictions in the news media like NBC’s “To Catch a Predator” series. One attorney general was quick to criticize the group’s report.

The panel, the Internet Safety Technical Task Force, was charged with examining the extent of the threats children face on social networks like MySpace and Facebook, amid widespread fears that adults were using these popular Web sites to deceive and prey on children.

But the report concluded that the problem of bullying among children, both online and offline, poses a far more serious challenge than the sexual solicitation of minors by adults.

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For immediate release
Los Angeles, CA, January 13, 2009

Seeking to organize sex-positive retailers, organizations, distributors, and manufacturers in the adult industry into a powerful force for change and progress, the SHEE adult trade association will debut January 25, 2009 with its 2nd annual Love LA Show at the Music Box/Henry Fonda Theater in Hollywood, CA.

The brainchild of a collective group of attendees at last year’s debut Love LA event, the SHEE group (which stands for Sexual Health, Education, and Entertainment – www.sheegroup.org) mission will be to cast sexuality under the umbrella of overall health, focusing on promoting healthy sexuality as vital to not only sustaining relationships/marriages, but as an undeniable component of overall well-being.

SHEE will bring together a wide variety of companies, educators, retailers, experts, and medical health professionals to assist in redefining the landscape under which the adult industry is defined. SHEE will also be a resource for members to provide and dispense information, including new and present product offerings, training (in the form of video, text, and audio), distribution points, services, and pricing, as well as a vehicle for which accurate information is propelled into the mainstream consciousness.

As a not-for-profit organization, funding will be provided by revenue generated at several planned “Love” events, as well as private contributions, membership dues, and advertising on its website and planned newsletter publication.

“Our goal is to create an unbiased, reliable repository of sex-positive information accessible to professionals seeking to better people’s lives through the dissemination of accurate information, safe and effective products, fun and dignified retail outlets, and credentialed professionals spreading accurate and timely sex-related information,” said Love LA creator Ian Denchasy.

“As we build SHEE company by company, I envision some sort of independent product testing matrix, a set of guidelines for adult stores and websites to have at our disposal, and perhaps even a credit union or fund in which adult companies and entrepreneurs could obtain small loans or lines of credit at competitive rates.” Metis Black, president of Tantus added, “It’s time we distinguished ourselves from some of the negative elements that have dragged down our overall public image – SHEE is a great way to begin to build the new sex industry and move it forward.”

As such, SHEE will disassociate itself from the porn industry, which the group views as its own separate entity. “We understand the intertwining of porn and novelties from a historical perspective,” Denchasy stated, “And we acknowledge that pornography is not in any way something we cast aspersion toward; however, we think it’s time for pornography to prosper as its own distinct industry.”

For more information regarding SHEE, contact Ian Denchasy at freddyat freddyandeddy dot com .

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rockchickvibrator Rock Chick G Spot Vibrator

I just recently received the Rock Chick G Spot Vibrator from Vibrator.com. I have tried a few other vibrators similar to the Rock Chick including the Snugglepuss and the We-Vibe, both with not so great results. The Rock Chick is different, however. Unlike like those other sex toys the Rock Chick fits my anatomy much better which is an important consideration with G Spot Vibrators. Also, unlike those other vibes, the Rock Chick is made of very firm silicone which translates into firm G-spot stimulation, which most women respond best to.

I tried this vibrator laying down first and it worked well to stimulate my G-spot but was missing my clitoris. So, I decided to sit on it, and well, rock. I guess that is why they named it the Rock Chick. When you sit on this vibe it penetrates deeper and also snuggles the clitoral area and vulva much better. Using a rocking motion, you can get the vibe to “fuck” you (I couldn’t find a more appropriate word) hands-free which is an incredible sensation, much like riding reverse cowgirl. If you want, you can even bounce a bit on the bed, and get the vibe really rocking and penetrating, although if anyone saw you, you’d most likely look very silly. Lucking, no-one usually watches me when I masturbate.

The Rock Chick G Spot Vibrator gave me an amazing orgasm using this method and I really love it. It is like the Curve dildo (my favorite dildo) but with vibrations and a clitoral stimulator as well. The Rock Chick is really the best vibrator I had ever tried for dual stimulation, although I have never been a huge fan of rabbit vibrators. This is the ultimate sex toy I have been looking for and dreaming about. The Rock Chick really rocks!

The Rock Chick G Spot Vibrator is brought to you by my friends at Vibrator.com, home of high quality sex toys for women who love their G-spot.

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geisha stealyoursoul Pleasurists #12

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Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #11? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #13? Submit it here before Sunday January 26th at 11:59pm PST. Note: there will be no Pleasurists next week, January 19th due to the editrix moving to Seattle. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

Want to be part of the Best Sex Toy Reviewers List of 2008?

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick

  • Fun Factory Laya Spot by Thursday’s Child
  • I think I might finally understand all of the buzz surrounding the Laya Spot! I’m a fan of strong vibrators, and most of the battery powered vibrators just can’t compare to my go-to vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. But this funny little vibrator is strong! Really strong. And quiet, too!

Madame Editrix

Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Vibrators

Dildos

Anal Toys

Toys for Boys

Lube/Massage Oil/Bath Stuff

BDSM/Fetish

Adult Books/Games

Adult Movies/Porn

Toy Storage

Miscellaneous

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ren hard 08 shanna 0204 241x300 Poly and Relationship Mapping Workshop in SF, Jan 16th

This Friday January 16th at 7pm Femina Potens brings you Shanna Katz aka Essin’ Em. Essin’ Em will be presenting Basics of Poly and Relationship Mapping workshop.
This workshop is primarily a lecture and discussion on the ideas of polyamory, open-relationships, non-monogamous relationships, etc. In addition to talking about what poly is (and what it can and does mean to different people), we’ll go over the basic types of relationships that people have (primary, secondary and tertiary) in their lives, how we can map them, patterns to look for, and what we can get out of these maps. We’ll also discuss communication and negotiation with your partners, mediation, and what to do when one or more of you is feeling hurt. Come open minded, and prepared examine your own relationship(s).

Workshop is $10 – $15 sliding scale, no one turned away for lack of funds.

Shanna Katz (aka Essin-Em) is a kinky, queer, non-monogamous, feminist, politically active, sex-educator Femme, with a bit of twisted sense of humor. Her sexuality blog “Sexuality Happens” can be found at www.Essin-Em.com. She spends her time pondering sex, sexuality, the gender spectrum, non-traditional relationships, sex toys, erotic writing, queer sexuality, new definitions of feminism and more.

She has a Master’s in Human Sexuality Education, and does work both online and face-to-face, educating people in a variety of ways about a variety of subjects. She has done trainings, workshops and written curricula for numerous universities including SUNY-Purchase, Colorado College and Princeton University, and has presented at the Planned Parenthood Association of Bucks Country (Doylestown, PA), Passional Toys (Philadelphia, PA), Hysteria Boutique (Denver, CO) and S.E.X. PhD (Denver, CO). In her free time, she’s a mother to her kitty Kinsey, and is a roller derby referee for the Denver Rollers Dolls. For more information on Shanna, go to www.ShannaKatz.com.

Femina Potens is located at 2199 Market St. @ Sanchez. SF,CA 94114. www.feminapotens.org.

Reserve your tickets early at Brown Paper Tickets.

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darkodysseywinterfire Dark Odyssey Winter Fire: Discount rates extended/Win a free ticket!

Dark Odyssey Winter Fire

Imagine a vacation where you can explore the many facets of sexuality in a private, intimate community of like-minded people. A wholly unique experience which brings together sexuality, spirituality, education, and play in a fun, supportive, non-judgmental, diverse environment where fantasy becomes reality.

Dark Odyssey is a weekend convention for open-minded adults from all walks of life. More info

Yesterday I got an email from the producers saying that the early discount discount hotel and registration rates have been extended until Thursday, January 15.

This blog is one of the participating groups supporting this event, you can register and get $25 off the registration fee. (When registering, select “Viviane’s Sex Carnival” from the list. When asked for a membership number, just type in anything.)

Want to know more? You can read roundups of past summer camps here, here, and here. There’s a great list of presenters, that you will not want to miss.

And I’m doing a contest! I have two complimentary admissions to give away to this amazing three day event (it does not include hotel, the Saturday night banquet). You are eligible to enter if 1) you’ve never attended a Dark Odyssey event before and 2) are not currently registered for the event.

To enter the contest, please comment to this post below and tell me in 100 words or less why you’d like to attend Dark Odyssey Winter Fire. The contest will end Sunday, January 18, 2009 at 6:00 PM EST. I will pick two random entry numbers  and I’ll announce the winner sometime on Monday, January 18th.

What are you waiting for? Go register! Enter the contest! See you at Winter Fire.

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Men, Women, Trans welcome!
You must be over 18 year of age.
Date/time:  Saturday January 31st, 1pm
Location:   Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site)
Specific building number will be emailed upon registration.
Minimum Donation: $20- and up/per person

Instructors: Andy Weiner, DeLano, Yin, and Michele Serchuk

The Rope Share is a bondage workshop that is structured to fit your skill levels and interests. There are three highly skilled, bondage instructors and a teaching assistant. The attendance will be limited to 12 students and divided into three groups so you will get individual attention and tutoring.

If you are a beginner, an instructor will teach you the basics of safety, negotiations, and the elemental ties needed to start your bondage exploration. If you are an intermediate player and are interested in advancing your rope skills, are curious about how to tie a certain harness or position, or want to learn more about body positions and how certain ties affect your bottom’s headspace, this is a perfect environment to ask those questions. If you are an advanced player and want to see how other rope tops tie, how different styles can enhance your own, this is a safe, non-ego space to hang out and play.

Couples are encouraged to attend together, but singles are also welcome as this will be held in a lab environment. Please be open to dance both parts for the sake of the education.

Bring Rope: 4 lengths of 25 ft. rope; 2 lengths of 50 ft.; and safety scissors. Cotton, nylon, hemp, and jute are all fine.

ALL proceeds will be donated to benefit our dear friend and rope bondage enthusiast, Vanessa, as she fights the battle of Lymphoma B cancer. We plan to continue this workshop as a monthly event for as long as it is necessary. Future workshops will include Men-only and Women-only attendance so please inquire about those dates if that is a concern.

To sign up, send email to RopeShare at gmail dot   com. Title the subject line as “Rope Share Sign Up” and include the following information in your email:

1. Your name (Scene name or legal)
2. Contact number and email address
3. Rope bondage experience and skill level (Please be brief)
4. What you are interested in learning
5. How you heard about this workshop

Sign up now as places are expected to fill quickly! Beginners to advance rope players are all welcome!! If you have never tried rope before, but are curious, this is a safe space to share and learn rope bondage as a top or a bottom.

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Sugasm #156

by Viviane on 01/11/2009

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #157? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Mouth Music
“Can you feel the heat of my lips taunting you yet?”

4 a.m.
“My mouth craves skin and I dip my head to her shoulder.”

Wanting
“I want my whisper in your ear to make you shiver”

Sugasm Editor
Sex Work And Honesty: Being Too Honest

Editor’s Choice
To Richard, A Dedication. Confession #205

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Body like a battleaxe
The Fantasy of Infidelity
Hollywood-The Diva Bull Who Hated Condoms
The Making of a Stripper With Benefits
Sex In A Bar Fantasy
Touch
Unbidden Fantasies
Yearning
Your Smug Grin

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Fetish Interview with Mistress160
Immagini di un convento — Sexually Active Nuns
Top Five Tuesday: Our Favorites of 2008!

Sexual Poetry
When I think of her eyes…

BDSM & Fetish
A day in the life…
Donald D.U.C.K.
Energy Independence
Flip the switch, and make it burn…
His piss slut
Pre-Christmas Adventure
Seaside Vacation Spanking with a Switch
Seven In One Day
Short Sweet Visciousness

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Merry Christmas

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
But You Don’t LOOK Gay!
Dirty Boy
Interracial Depth
The Perverted Negress: Origins
This is Your Brain, on Masturbation [podcasturbation]
What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

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amazing orgasm front cover Annie Sprinkles Amazing World of Orgasm

Annie Sprinkle has been exploring sexuality and orgasm for over thirty six years, from her early years as a porn star and prostitute, to her current incarnation as a sex activist, filmmaker, performance artist, AIDS educator, and Ph.D. sexologist. One of the first women to inspire the term “sex positive feminist”, Annie describes herself as “metamorphosexual”, and brings her years of sensuous experience and knowledge of the pleasures and diversity of orgasm to this film.

In Annie Sprinkles Amazing World of Orgasm, Annie plays host to 26 “sexperts” on the topic of orgasm, inviting them to share their experiences and theories on orgasm as an introduction to this vast topic with the viewer. There is one type of orgasm that most people encounter, the tension/release type, but, according to these sexperts, there are, in fact, multiple (if not hundreds) of ways to experience orgasm. For women, these include clitoral and inter-vaginal orgasms, dream-gasms, microgasms, breath and energy orgasms, and Annie’s favorite megagasm (she experiences her famous 5 minute orgasm on screen). Other sexperts describe laugh-gasms, fake orgasms, outer-body experiences, orgasms that are experienced giving birth and upon death, spiritual orgasm, fusion orgasms, full body orgasms that run through the charkas, g-spot orgasms, tantra orgasms, multiple orgasms, hour long expanded orgasms that take one to different levels of consciousness, cosmic orgasms, orga-bumps orgasms that transfer orgasm energy all over the body, and fear-gasms. The film shows a diverse range of people experiencing orgasm through masturbation, GLBT and hetero sex, sadomasochism, and disability. Other experts talk about the physiology of orgasm and the stages of arousal.

The film is structured into segmented interviews with the various sexperts describing their experience as they talk to the camera, montaged and super-imposed over archival footage of orgasm (often their own) with swirling new-age backgrounds. These special effects are sometime dizzying and distracting, and often kitschy, and although it was the filmmaker’s intent to make the subject playful and less clinical, it also serves to show the sexperts in a less credible light. Still, this film is an amazing and fascinating introduction into the world of orgasm and a must see for sex educators and orgasm enthusiasts.

Buy the film through Amazon.com

Annie Sprinkle’s Amazing World of Orgasm Annie Sprinkles Amazing World of Orgasm

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Maitresse Madeline and Natalie Minx on whippedass.com

Thursday, January 8
Queens BDSM Munch

Friday, January 9
DSF: “Interactive Demo on the Violet Wand” w/ Master Jay
ClubFEM NYC Munch

Saturday, January 10

Sunday, January 11
Brooklyn LeatherFolk Munch

Monday, January 12

Tuesday, January 13
TES Membership Meeting (members only)

Wednesday, January 14
TES Novice Group: “Boo-Boos, Blunders, & BDSM” w/ Princess Wendy
GMSMA: “Turn Up The Heat”

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