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	<title>Viviane's Sex Carnival</title>
	
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<li><a href="http://midwestteensexshow.com/2008/12/01/mtss-21-boobies/">MTSS #21 (Boobies)</a><br/>
Boobies. Boobs. Breasts. Knockers. Jugs. Tits. Fun Bags. Dirty Pillows. Milk Sacks. Hooters. Ta Ta’s. Melons. Headlights. Rack. The Twins. Boulders. Sweater Meat. Udders. Bee Stings. Jubblies. Chesticles. Bazookas. Mammaries. Blouse Bunnies. Yabbos. Flapjacks. Orbs. Twin Peaks. Dairy Section. Bosom. Lady Bollocks. Lunch.</li>
<li><a href="http://essin-em.com/2008/12/my-take-on-the-eden-fantasys-drama/">My Take on the Eden Fantasys Drama (Sexuality Happens)</a><br/>
&quot;I am owed $168.80 from my affiliate partnership with Eden. I have fulfilled my end of everything with them, up to completing my last product review. I finished their last giveaway, because I didn’t want to cheat my readers out of anything (should they back out of the giveaway in anger any me). I assume (and hope) that I will receive the affiliate earnings I am owed. I will not say Eden Fantasys is a bad company. In my opinion, it is not. I put so much of my heart, blood, energy and soul into the community, the company, into EdenFantasys. If you joined because of me, and are now angry, please accept my apologies. I’m unsure why all of these things are happening…and I certainly hope that they are able to change direction, and bring this company back to what it used to me; a caring and concerned member of the online community, with sex-positive, ethical attitudes and being queer/disability/age/etc friendly.&quot;</li>
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://midwestteensexshow.com/2008/12/01/mtss-21-boobies/"&gt;MTSS #21 (Boobies)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
Boobies. Boobs. Breasts. Knockers. Jugs. Tits. Fun Bags. Dirty Pillows. Milk Sacks. Hooters. Ta Ta’s. Melons. Headlights. Rack. The Twins. Boulders. Sweater Meat. Udders. Bee Stings. Jubblies. Chesticles. Bazookas. Mammaries. Blouse Bunnies. Yabbos. Flapjacks. Orbs. Twin Peaks. Dairy Section. Bosom. Lady Bollocks. Lunch.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://essin-em.com/2008/12/my-take-on-the-eden-fantasys-drama/"&gt;My Take on the Eden Fantasys Drama (Sexuality Happens)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&amp;quot;I am owed $168.80 from my affiliate partnership with Eden. I have fulfilled my end of everything with them, up to completing my last product review. I finished their last giveaway, because I didn’t want to cheat my readers out of anything (should they back out of the giveaway in anger any me). I assume (and hope) that I will receive the affiliate earnings I am owed. I will not say Eden Fantasys is a bad company. In my opinion, it is not. I put so much of my heart, blood, energy and soul into the community, the company, into EdenFantasys. If you joined because of me, and are now angry, please accept my apologies. I’m unsure why all of these things are happening…and I certainly hope that they are able to change direction, and bring this company back to what it used to me; a caring and concerned member of the online community, with sex-positive, ethical attitudes and being queer/disability/age/etc friendly.&amp;quot;&lt;/li&gt;
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<li><a href="http://io9.com/5096491/ten-of-the-kinkiest-science-fiction-books-youll-ever-read">Books: Ten of the Kinkiest Science Fiction Books You'll Ever Read</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200811/transgender-children">A Boy's Life - The Atlantic (November 2008)</a><br/>
An article about transgender kids, their parents, and the choices made about their lives. Draws on a range of research and interviews with therapists and researchers as well as following a couple of families&#039; stories. Includes examples of kids who defied gender norms for a while but didn&#039;t ultimately adopt a gender different from their assigned one, as well as kids who reassigned at different points in their lives.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=why-do-men-buy-sex">Why Do Men Buy Sex?: Scientific American</a><br/>
Rather men’s motives for buying sex are hotly contested among researchers. Some believe the practice serves as a salve for common psychological afflictions, such as an unfulfilled appetite for sex, love or romance. Others paint a dimmer ­portrait of johns, believing they are typically driven by chauvinistic motives, such as a desire to dominate and control ­women. A similar debate rages among experts about the morality of prostitution itself.</li>
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://io9.com/5096491/ten-of-the-kinkiest-science-fiction-books-youll-ever-read"&gt;Books: Ten of the Kinkiest Science Fiction Books You'll Ever Read&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200811/transgender-children"&gt;A Boy's Life - The Atlantic (November 2008)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
An article about transgender kids, their parents, and the choices made about their lives. Draws on a range of research and interviews with therapists and researchers as well as following a couple of families&amp;#039; stories. Includes examples of kids who defied gender norms for a while but didn&amp;#039;t ultimately adopt a gender different from their assigned one, as well as kids who reassigned at different points in their lives.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=why-do-men-buy-sex"&gt;Why Do Men Buy Sex?: Scientific American&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
Rather men’s motives for buying sex are hotly contested among researchers. Some believe the practice serves as a salve for common psychological afflictions, such as an unfulfilled appetite for sex, love or romance. Others paint a dimmer ­portrait of johns, believing they are typically driven by chauvinistic motives, such as a desire to dominate and control ­women. A similar debate rages among experts about the morality of prostitution itself.&lt;/li&gt;
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		<title>Crash Pad Series, Volume 2-Unlocked</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 20:17:18 +0000</pubDate>
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Crash Pad Series, Volume 2: Unlocked
Director: Shine Louise Houston
Studio: Pink and White Productions/Blowfish Video
Production Date: 2007
Cast: Shawn, Jiz Lee, Micah, Dallas, Vai, Legs, Johnny, Jake, Wilder, Michelle Aston, Julie, Cameo by Shine Louise Houston as the Voyeuristic Landlord
“Crash Pad Series, Volume 2: Unlocked” returns to the secret apartment that started it all, and this time [...]]]></description>
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<p>Crash Pad Series, Volume 2: Unlocked<br />
Director: Shine Louise Houston<br />
Studio: Pink and White Productions/Blowfish Video<br />
Production Date: 2007<br />
Cast: Shawn, Jiz Lee, Micah, Dallas, Vai, Legs, Johnny, Jake, Wilder, Michelle Aston, Julie, Cameo by Shine Louise Houston as the Voyeuristic Landlord</p>
<p>“Crash Pad Series, Volume 2: Unlocked” returns to the secret apartment that started it all, and this time unlocks the door to new clandestine encounters between queer gender-bending dykes for some hot fucking, pussy banging action.</p>
<p>It includes scenes with performers from other Pink and White productions: real-life lovers Jiz Lee and Shawn with a new playmate Micah; Johnny (Crash Pad Vol. 1: see <a title="Crash Pad Series Vol 1" href="http://lucreziamagazine.com/popmycherry/2008/11/porn-4-pussies-crash-pad-series-volume-1/">my review</a>) with Legs; and Jake (Superfreak: see <a title="Superfreak" href="http://www.thesexcarnival.com/2008/11/femme-film-fridays-superfreak/">my review</a>) with newcomer Wilder.  Jake is just as hot as in Superfreak and this scene with Wilder will rock your jock-straps as these bois bang each other, call each other faggots and masturbate their silicone cocks.  Johnny and Legs are two femmes who get it on with some fairly authentic fisting and strap-on play.  Jiz and Shawn never get to reach their usual height of sizzling action with Micah, who submits silently to their whim.</p>
<p>The highlights of this film are the scenes between Dallas and Vai, and Michelle Aston and Julie.  Vai is a cute pixyish dyke who goes to study at the crash pad.  She has an excellent solo sex scene, and then Dallas enters and gets her squirting fountains of come.  Their sex is playful, giggling, fun and super wet.  Study sex at its best.</p>
<p>Alt-porn star Michelle Aston—recognizable in her Mohawk and half-body tattoo—is the bomb in her scene with submissive Julie.  She makes poor Julie squirm with ecstasy as she works her over in some of the hottest rough lesbian action ever to grace the screen.  At least my TV screen that is.  I love how Michelle talks dirty and dominates Julie all scene while Julie can only moan, come and beg her not to stop.</p>
<p>It’s hard to compete with Crash Pad Vol. 1 for authentic performances, raw intensity and the chemistry between the players.  However, Unlocked continues to push the boundaries and exceed expectations of porn for pussies by featuring some wicked hardcore, real lesbian action that is sure to make you cream your jeans or give your dildo a woody.  Get in while the door is still unlocked, as they are sure to throw away the key.</p>
<p>Watch <a title="Crash Pad Series Vol 2" href="http://radio.blowfish.com/video/cpsv2/v-bvi-1594.wmv">the Trailer</a>.</p>
<p>Buy Pink and White DVDs from <a title="Blowfish Video" href="http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/videos/blowfish_presents.html">Blowfish</a>.</p>
<p>Visit <a title="Pink and White Productions" href="http://pinkwhite.biz/PWWP/crash-pad-series-volume-2-now-out-on-dvd/">Pink and White Productions</a>.</p>
<p>See Pink and White Porn at <a title="Crash Pad Series.Com" href="http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=934717-0000&amp;PA=1835961">CrashPadSeries.com</a>.</p>

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		<title>Sugasm #153</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 05:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Viviane</dc:creator>
		
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Photo: Sonia (errotica archives)
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #154? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re [...]]]></description>
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Photo: <a href="http://hosted.errotica-archives.com/hosted/112973/1401391">Sonia</a> (errotica archives)</p>
<p>The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #154? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.</p>
<p><strong>This Week’s Picks</strong><br />
<a href="http://birdsaresmart.blogspot.com/2008/11/this-was-never-his-fantasy-or-so-he.html">For tonight, we’ll forget who and what we are.</a><br />
“I want to play with you all night.”</p>
<p><a href="http://domme-chronicles.blogspot.com/2008/11/please-please-dont.html">Please, please don’t</a><br />
“It will hurt, but it will be fine”</p>
<p><a href="http://phaedrafallen.wordpress.com/2008/11/11/rough/">Rough</a><br />
“I want you on top of me.”</p>
<p><strong>Sugasm Editor</strong><br />
<a href="http://radicalvixen.com/">Radical Vixen</a></p>
<p><strong>Editor’s Choice</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.sexnshoes.com/?p=204">Sometimes You Find You Get What You Need</a></p>
<p><strong>Thoughts on Sex and Relationships</strong><br />
<a href="http://onania.org/asm/archives/1398">Are You a Penis Person? [podcasturbation]</a><br />
<a href="http://blog.blisswarrior.com/ask-miss-bliss-bi-and-tired-of-being-pressured-into-threesomes/">Ask Miss Bliss:  Bi and Tired of Being Pressured Into Threesomes</a><br />
<a href="http://dailybedpost.com/2008/11/college-confessional-the-naked.php">College Confessional: The Naked Truth About Male Bonding</a><br />
<a href="http://www.smutandsteff.com/2008/11/eharmony-gay-rights-in-a-nutshell.html#more-2587">eHarmony: The Battle for Gay Rights in a Nutshell</a><br />
<a href="http://femmeinistfucktoy.com/2008/11/12/kinky-vs-queer-vs-straight-sex/">Kinky vs. Queer vs. Straight Sex</a><br />
<a href="http://essin-em.com/2008/11/l-o-v-e-the-other-l-word/">L-O-V-E (the other L Word)</a><br />
<a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/3571/our-blogs/den-of-d-bauchery/top-five-tuesday-porn-people-i-want-to-hang-out-with/">Porn People I Want To Hang Out With</a><br />
<a href="http://ropespringseternal.blogspot.com/2008/11/tie-me-to-ends-of-love-part-1.html">Tie Me to the Ends of Love, Part 1</a><br />
<a href="http://7000milesapart.blogspot.com/2008/11/wood-and-lace.html">Wood and lace?</a></p>
<p><strong>Sex Work</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.brattytrisha.com/diary/?p=63">All School and No Kink make Princess a Bitch</a><br />
<a href="http://radicalvixen.com/blog/2008/11/20/sex-worker-solidarity-craig-seymour/">Sex Worker Solidarity: Craig Seymour</a></p>
<p><strong>BDSM &amp; Fetish</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.leatheryenta.com/2008/11/17/at-his-house/">At his house</a><br />
<a href="http://www.mollena.com/2008/11/captured-at-folsom/">Captured at Folsom.</a><br />
<a href="http://transformher.blogspot.com/2008/11/christmas-came-earlyor-late.html">Christmas came early…or late</a><br />
<a href="http://sapphirejay.wordpress.com/2008/11/12/deprived-depraved-fucked-and-satisfied/">Deprived, depraved, fucked and satisfied</a><br />
<a href="http://waitadamnminute-sin.blogspot.com/2008/11/paulas-story-part-four_12.html">Paula’s Story [Part Five]</a><br />
<a href="http://www.heartfullofblack.com/2008/11/sex-camp-2008-wherein-i-learn-fishnets-chafe.html">Sex Camp 2008: Wherein I learn fishnets chafe</a><br />
<a href="http://unspeakableaxe.com/?p=474">A Testament To Douchebaggery</a></p>
<p><strong>NSFW Pics, Videos &amp; Audio</strong><br />
<a href="http://longdistancesub.wordpress.com/2008/11/10/catsuit/">Catsuit</a><br />
<a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/index.php/archive/femme-fatale-hnt/">Femme Fatale</a><br />
<a href="../2008/11/iga-a-met-art/">Iga A (Met Art)</a><br />
<a href="http://www.fetishexotique.com/content/view/22">Natali Demore tying Vivian Ireene Pierce Preview</a><br />
<a href="http://lastbreath.wordpress.com/2008/11/12/picture-47-the-pet/">Picture 47: the pet</a><br />
<a href="http://hotbox.thumblogger.com/home/log/2008/46/sandra-shine-and-judy-nero.html">Sandra Shine and Judy Nero</a><br />
<a href="http://erogarden.blogspot.com/2008/11/silky.html">Silky</a><br />
<a href="http://www.thebootcam.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;task=view&amp;id=131">Sybil hawthorne trying on a ballgag</a></p>
<p><strong>Sex Advice</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/3512/sex-tips/hot-and-handy-giving-the-perfect-penis-handjob/">Hot and Handy: Giving The Perfect Penis Handjob</a><br />
<a href="http://dailybedpost.com/2008/11/how-tohave-a-onenight-stand.php">How to Have a One-Night Stand</a></p>
<p><strong>Erotic Writing and Experiences</strong><br />
<a href="http://asexualadventure.blogspot.com/2008/11/airport-conversations-with-c.html">Airport Conversations</a><br />
<a href="http://wanklog.blogspot.com/2008/11/back-wank.html">The Back Wank</a><br />
<a href="http://www.saucynights.com/adult/2008/11/15/cleo-and-lisa/">Cleo and Lisa</a><br />
<a href="http://andeatingit2.blogspot.com/2008/11/commando.html">Commando</a><br />
<a href="http://shouldhavebeenhereyesterday.blogspot.com/2008/11/monday-morage-tuesday-edition.html">I want more</a><br />
<a href="http://miscellaneoussex.wordpress.com/2008/11/14/lucid-dreams/">Lucid Dreams</a><br />
<a href="http://sexhobbyist.com/?p=967">My strippers are spying on me</a><br />
<a href="http://swingerwife.wordpress.com/2008/10/17/painting-the-picture/">Painting the Picture</a><br />
<a href="http://dragonmage.wordpress.com/2008/11/08/so-about-monday-night/">So, about Monday night …</a><br />
<a href="http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com/2008/11/tasting-sun-flower.html">Tasting The Sun Flower</a><br />
<a href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com/2008/11/twenty-four-hours.html">Twenty Four Hours</a><br />
<a href="http://nattyspanked.blogspot.com/2008/11/when-nerd-night-gets-nasty.html">When Nerd Night gets nasty</a><br />
<a href="http://inkyblueallusions.net/wrestling-with-eric.html">Wrestling With Eric</a><br />
<a href="http://uncommoncuriosity.blogspot.com/2008/11/z-part-2-blade.html">Z Part 2 - Blade</a></p>
<p><strong>Sex Humor</strong><br />
<a href="http://confessionsfrommyopenmarriage.blogspot.com/2008/11/blast-from-past-confession-178.html">Blast From the Past. Confession #178</a></p>
<p><strong>Sex News, Reviews, &amp; Interviews</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.eroticachallenge.com/2008/11/19/erotica-audio-stories/custom-404-file-not-found-page/">404 File Not Found… It’s Not Here, But Angela Is</a><br />
<a href="http://greg69sheryl.blogspot.com/2008/11/cuckold-cumming-to-dvd.html">The Cuckold - Cumming to DVD</a><br />
<a href="http://nycsexblogs.com/?p=14">NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar Party Post Roundup</a><br />
<a href="http://lucreziamagazine.com/popmycherry/2008/11/porn-4-pussies-crash-pad-series-volume-1/">Porn 4 Pussies: Crash Pad Series, Volume 1</a><br />
<a href="http://fantasy-nuggets.blogspot.com/2008/11/sex-toy-review-lelo-mia.html">Sex Toy Review: Lelo Mia</a><br />
<a href="http://executiveerotica.blogspot.com/2008/11/sex-toy-review-zone.html">Sex Toy Review - The Zone</a></p>
<p>See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each <a href="http://fleshbot.com/5097304/sex-blog-roundup-lets-be-thankful">Tuesday</a> and <a href="http://fleshbot.com/5095722/sex-blog-roundup-ladies-with-an-attitude">Friday</a>.</p>

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		<title>Trailer: Milk by Gus Van Sant (2008)</title>
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&#8220;I&#8217;m Harvey Milk, and I&#8217;m here to recruit you.&#8221;
Directed by Gus Van Sant
Sean Penn    &#8230;     Harvey Milk
Emile Hirsch    &#8230;     Cleve Jones
Josh Brolin    &#8230;     Dan White
Diego Luna    &#8230;     [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m Harvey Milk, and I&#8217;m here to recruit you.&#8221;</p>
<p>Directed by Gus Van Sant<br />
Sean Penn    &#8230;     Harvey Milk<br />
Emile Hirsch    &#8230;     Cleve Jones<br />
Josh Brolin    &#8230;     Dan White<br />
Diego Luna    &#8230;     Jack Lira<br />
James Franco    &#8230;     Scott Smith</p>
<p><a href="http://http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1013753/">IMDB listing<br />
</a></p>
<p><a href="http://tinyurl.com/5hwzjx">Reviews on Rotten Tomatoes</a></p>
<p>Check showtimes by typing in Milk and your zip code into Google.</p>
<p>Thursday was also the 30th anniversary of Harvey Milk&#8217;s death. Thomas Roche has an <a href="http://thomasroche.livejournal.com/366749.html">appreciation here</a>.</p>

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		<title>Call for Submissions: Sexual Ability</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Call for Submissions (Anthology)
Working Title: Sexual Ability: Embracing the Intersection of Sexuality and (dis)Ability
 Editor: Shanna Katz, M.Ed, Human Sexuality Education, Widener University
 Contact: sexualability at gmail dot  com
 Submission Deadline: March 31, 2009
Even as we approach the end of the first decade of the 21st century, there is still a large gap in people&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Call for Submissions (Anthology)</p>
<p><strong>Working Title</strong>: <em>Sexual Ability: Embracing the Intersection of Sexuality and (dis)Ability</em><br />
<strong> Editor:</strong> Shanna Katz, M.Ed, Human Sexuality Education, Widener University<br />
<strong> Contact:</strong> sexualability at gmail dot  com<br />
<strong> Submission Deadline</strong>: March 31, 2009</p>
<p>Even as we approach the end of the first decade of the 21st century, there is still a large gap in people&#8217;s minds when they think about sexuality as it relates to people who are disabled, whether cognitively or physically. While some studies have been performed regarding the potential for differently-abled people to lead satisfying sexual lives, in which satisfying seems to center around the ability to orgasm, very little has been written about the experiences involving the sexualities and experiences of people who identify as handicapped/disabled/differently-abled, as well as their partners.</p>
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<p>People of all ability levels are sexual beings. Sex is hard enough to navigate and negotiate when one fits in with society&#8217;s notions of what a sexual being is, but once you add in the concept of ability, it can become quite challenge. This anthology, Sexual Ability, seeks to bring forward the stories, challenges and experiences of differently-abled people and their partners, putting a face on the trials that so many valuable members of our society must face. By sharing the experiences of the disabled community in relation to sexuality, Sexual Ability hopes to challenge people&#8217;s viewpoints, foster discussion and conversation, and open doors towards a shift in the social constructions surrounding sexuality and disability.</p>
<p>Essay submissions should be well thought out, and written in a scholarly manner. Acceptable submissions can be in the form of short research papers, non-fictional accounts of personal experience(s), discussions on issues regarding sexuality and disability, etc. Fictional pieces/erotica will NOT be considered. Each author may submit a total of two (2) essays for consideration.</p>
<p>Some topics that authors might consider (but are certainly not limited to) include;</p>
<p>*Coming out to a new partner and facilitating the &#8220;disability discussion&#8221;<br />
*Reclaiming words surrounding sexuality and disability, such as &#8220;crip,&#8221; &#8220;handicapped,&#8221; etc.<br />
*Issues within the medical community; talking with doctors about being sexually active when you&#8217;re differently-abled.<br />
*Having to create new sex techniques, positions, conversations, or having to re-define the traditional definitions of sex, etc.<br />
*Disabled and queer, disabled and of color, disabled and religious; reconciling multiple identities alongside sexuality.<br />
*Re-conceiving your sexuality after loss of previous abilities, either solo or with a partner.<br />
*Ability and kink; negotiating within the BDSM community when differently-abled.<br />
*Sexuality and ability through out different cultural experiences.<br />
*Portrayal of disabled people in the media (film, TV, art, advertisements, etc) and the connection to sexuality.<br />
*Disability rights; the fight for them, and how they affect sexuality amongst the disabled community.<br />
*Birth control/contraception; getting it, using it, adapting it, as well as pregnancy/adoption/abortion.<br />
*Creating your identity as a disabled person who is a sexual being; how did it evolve, and what was your journey.<br />
*Any other subjects you feel cover the topic of sexuality and (dis)ability.</p>
<p>By March 31, 2009, please send:</p>
<p>*Your 2,000 – 6,000 word submission, as a word document attachment. It should be titled as such: SubmissionTitleAuthorName.doc (example: SexualAbility.ShannaKatz.Doc). Submissions must be received in 12 point Times New Roman font and sent in via Word documents (other files and cut/pasted text will not be accepted).</p>
<p>* Your complete contact information, including legal name, pen name (if you have one), phone number, email, address, and website (if you have one).</p>
<p>*A 50-100 word biography about yourself.</p>
<p>Please submit the above to: sexualability@gmail.com with the subject line of &#8220;Sexual Ability – Submission.&#8221; Submissions will be read and reviewed as received, but decisions will be made final by July 2009. Please note that accepted submissions will be approved on a tentative basis, pending editorial board approval once the anthology has secured a publisher.</p>
<p>Questions can be directed to Shanna Katz at sexualability@gmail.com or please visit the Sexual Ability MySpace page at www.myspace.com/sexualability.</p>
<p>Please distribute widely. Feel free to post on blogs, websites, social networking sites, listserves, etc.</p>
<p>A Note: I would not dare to define what disabled/handicapped/differently-abled meant to anyone. Please do not ask me if your disability counts; if you or your partner identify as such, then I welcome your submission to this anthology.</p>

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		<title>My queerdoes, come to EqualityCamp (Melissa Gira)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[. . . The fifteen year old part of me, that’s still a riot grrrl, and really wishes she’d had the courage and foresight to start a band called Ramona and the Quimbys? She’s definitely a queerdo.
I’m a bad gay myself. I keep sleeping with boys. I’m a bad straight. I keep on fucking, and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>. . . The fifteen year old part of me, that’s still a riot grrrl, and really wishes she’d had the courage and foresight to start a band called Ramona and the Quimbys? She’s definitely a queerdo.</p>
<p>I’m a bad gay myself. I keep sleeping with boys. I’m a bad straight. I keep on fucking, and not getting married. I don’t think I’ll ever get married, even though I almost did when I was 23. I don’t think I’ll ever be gay or straight. Bisexual is a term that barely even fits. I gave up on this notion that I’d only ever want to sleep with or love someone of “my gender” or its “opposite” a long time ago. I don’t even know what the “opposite” of my sex is anymore. I forgot before I even moved to San Francisco.</p>
<p>So for lack of a better word, queerdo will do.</p>
<p>And if I have a generation — I barely have one of those, straddling X and Y as my birthday does — we’re the queerdoes. We don’t fit. We grew up with the internet. We barely had to come out. We’re hyper and more likely to get our community organizing chops from teaching our baby queer friends how to have safer sex with a latex glove, how to sneak into a dyke bar, how to cruise boys on the subway, than how to organize a rally. We learned what we know about politics from fucking and keeping our communities together amidst all the fucking. We’re spastic and driven and can do eight things at once.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.melissagira.com/2008/11/30/my-queerdoes-come-to-equalitycamp/">more . . </a>.</p>

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Image: The Chair by Sean Coetzer
Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere.  Did you miss Pleasurists #5?  Read it all here.  Do you have a review for Pleasurists #7?  Submit it here before Sunday [...]]]></description>
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<p>Image: <a href="http://seancoetzer.deviantart.com/art/The-Chair-I-52869129">The Chair by Sean Coetzer</a></p>
<p><a href="http://pleasurists.com/">Pleasurists</a> is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere.  Did you miss Pleasurists #5?  <a href="http://pleasurists.com/2008/11/24/pleasurists-5/">Read it all here</a>.  Do you have a review for Pleasurists #7?  <a href="http://pleasurists.com/submission/">Submit it here</a> before Sunday December 7th at 11:59pm PST.  Please re-post this list on your own blogs if listed.</p>
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<p>On to the reviews…</p>
<p><strong>Editor’s Pick</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.heartfullofblack.com/2008/11/review-ophoria-pleasure-6.html">Ophoria Pleasure #6</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.heartfullofblack.com/">Wendy Blackheart</a></p>
<p>“Well fuck me in the ass.</p>
<p>No really. That’s what I did as soon as I got this toy out of the package!”</p>
<p><em>Note: How could I resist picking a toy called Pleasure #6 for Pleasurists #6?  But more than that, this review made me want to own an Ophoria Pleasure #6, which is the highest criteria for my weekly pick.</em></p>
<p><strong>Madame Editrix</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://femmeinistfucktoy.com">Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek</a></p>
<p><strong>Vibrators</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://erinleone.wordpress.com/2008/11/24/hitachi-magic-wand-on-vimeo/">Hitachi Magic Wand</a> by <a class="external" href="http://erinleone.wordpress.com">Erin Leone</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://feministinpink.blogspot.com/2008/11/slimline-vibrator-review.html">Slimline Vibrator Review</a> by <a class="external" href="http://feministinpink.blogspot.com/">FeministInPink</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://erinleone.wordpress.com/2008/11/24/dynamic-duo/">Dynamic Duo</a> by <a class="external" href="http://erinleone.wordpress.com">Erin Leone</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://sexorcism.blogspot.com/2008/11/acuvibe.html">Acuvibe</a> by <a class="external" href="http://sexorcism.blogspot.com/">Sexorcism</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://heyepiphora.blogspot.com/2008/11/review-waterproof-rhapsody-symphony.html">Waterproof Rhapsody, Symphony Edition</a> by <a class="external" href="http://heyepiphora.blogspot.com/">Epiphora</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://femmeinistfucktoy.com/2008/11/25/finger-sleeve-with-vibrating-bullet/">Finger Sleeve with Vibrating Bullet</a> by <a class="external" href="http://femmeinistfucktoy.com/">Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com/2008/11/raunchy-review-lelo-elise.html">LELO Elise</a> by <a class="external" href="http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com/">Curvaceous Dee</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://femmeinistfucktoy.com/2008/11/28/strawberry-cheesecake-omy-lube-and-g-spot-dream-massager/">G-Spot Dream Massager</a> by <a class="external" href="http://femmeinistfucktoy.com/">Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com/2008/11/review-slimline.html">Slimline Vibrator</a> by <a class="external" href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com/">Holden of Packing Vocals</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://catalinaloves.com/2008/11/25/catalina-tried-to-love-the-hop-n-rabbit-stroker-vibrator/">Hop ‘n Rabbit Stroker Vibrator</a> by <a class="external" href="http://catalinaloves.com/">Catalina Loves</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://lucreziamagazine.com/popmycherry/2008/11/pretty-in-pink/">The Seduction: Pretty in Pink</a> by <a class="external" href="http://lucreziamagazine.com/popmycherry/">Domina Doll</a></p>
<p><strong>Dildos</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://phaedrafallen.wordpress.com/2008/11/23/sextoycom-cobalt-dutchess/">Cobalt Dutchess</a> by <a class="external" href="http://phaedrafallen.wordpress.com/">Phaedra Fallen</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://agentansley.wordpress.com/2008/11/24/acute-and-silk/">Acute and Silk</a> by <a class="external" href="http://agentansley.wordpress.com/">Ansley Agnello</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://heyepiphora.blogspot.com/2008/11/review-don-wands-blue-tip-clear-rings.html">Don Wands Blue Tip Clear Rings Glass Dildo</a> by <a class="external" href="http://heyepiphora.blogspot.com/">Epiphora</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://agentansley.wordpress.com/2008/11/29/ophoria-pleasure-no-6/">Ophoria Pleasure no. 6</a> by <a class="external" href="http://agentansley.wordpress.com/">Ansley Agnello</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://longingsend.wordpress.com/2008/11/28/toy-review-pure-pleasure-glass-dildo/">Pure Pleasure Glass Dildo</a> by <a class="external" href="http://longingsend.wordpress.com/">Sylvanus and Mina of At Longing’s End</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/12/01/blueberry-twist-glass-juicer-dildo-review/">Blueberry Twist Glass Juicer</a> by <a class="external" href="http://shastagibson.com/">Shasta Gibson of Stiletto Diaries</a></p>
<p><strong>Anal Toys</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.sexnshoes.com/?p=272">Pure Perfection - njoy Pure Plug</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.sexnshoes.com/">Thursday’s Child</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://agentansley.wordpress.com/2008/11/29/bootie/">Bootie</a> by <a class="external" href="http://agentansley.wordpress.com/">Ansley Agnello</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=318">The Flexi Felix - Best. Pet. Evar.</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.pornocracy.org/">Elizabeth and Gabe of Pornocracy</a></p>
<p><strong>BDSM/Fetish</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.leatheryenta.com/2008/11/27/upside-down/">Upside Down</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.leatheryenta.com/">Lolita Wolf</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/11/review-lollipop-crop/">Lollipop Crop</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.sugarbutch.net/">Sinclair Sexsmith</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.rocketsrockstarlife.com/2008/11/leopard-restraints.html">Leopard Restraints</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.rocketsrockstarlife.com/">Betty Rocket</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.swelteringcelt.com/blog/?p=798">Blue Leather Blindfold</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.swelteringcelt.com/blog/">Ang</a></p>
<p><strong>Lube/Massage Oil</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://erinleone.wordpress.com/2008/11/24/babeland-massage-spray/">Babeland Massage Oil Spray</a> by <a class="external" href="http://erinleone.wordpress.com">Erin Leone</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/3619/sex-toys/babeland-body-kit/">Babeland Body Kit</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/">Hot Movies for Her</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://essin-em.com/2008/11/sex-toy-review-eros-bodyglide/">Eros Bodyglide</a> by <a class="external" href="http://essin-em.com/">Essin’ Em</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://femmeinistfucktoy.com/2008/11/28/strawberry-cheesecake-omy-lube-and-g-spot-dream-massager/">Strawberry Cheesecake O’My Lube</a> by <a class="external" href="http://femmeinistfucktoy.com/">Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.rocketsrockstarlife.com/2008/11/maximus-best-lube-evah.html">Maximus - Best Lube Evah</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.rocketsrockstarlife.com/">Betty Rocket</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.bbgtoys.com/?p=252">Not a box of bees</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.bbgtoys.com/">Bad Bad Girl</a></p>
<p><strong>Adult Movies/Porn</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/3625/featured-movies/straight-guys-for-gay-eyes-women-too-nick/">Straight Guys For Gay Eyes &amp; Women Too! - Nick</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com">J.D. Bauchery</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/3689/featured-movies/bree-sasha/">Bree &amp; Sasha</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/">The Porn Librarian</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com/3674/featured-movies/safe-is-desire/">Safe is Desire</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.hotmoviesforher.com">J.D. Bauchery</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.thesexcarnival.com/2008/11/crash-pad-series-volume-2-unlocked/">Crash Pad Series, Volume 2-Unlocked</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.thesexcarnival.com/">Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://lucreziamagazine.com/popmycherry/2008/11/perversions-of-lesbian-lust-vol-1/">Perversions of Lesbian Lust Vol. 1</a> by <a class="external" href="http://lucreziamagazine.com/popmycherry/">Domina Doll</a></p>
<p><strong>Miscellaneous</strong></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://dangerouslilly.com/2008/11/sextoycom-review-devine-satchel/">Devine Satchel</a> by <a class="external" href="http://dangerouslilly.com/">Dangerous Lilly</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.sexnshoes.com/?p=218">The Velvet Touch Harness</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.sexnshoes.com/">Thursday’s Child</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.rocketsrockstarlife.com/2008/11/jaguar-harness.html">Jaguar Harness</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.rocketsrockstarlife.com/">Betty Rocket</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.sexnshoes.com/?p=232">How Dirty Toys Get Clean - Toy Cleaner</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.sexnshoes.com/">Thursday’s Child</a></p>
<p><a class="external" href="http://www.thesexcarnival.com/2008/11/smart-balls/">Smart Balls</a> by <a class="external" href="http://www.thesexcarnival.com/">Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival</a></p>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Joel Stashenko
New York Law Journal
November 28, 2008
ALBANY - A transgender individual should be allowed to legally assume a new name to reflect her identity as a woman, a state appeals court ruled Wednesday.
In Matter of Earl William Golden III, 504992, the Appellate Division, Third Department, reversed the finding of Supreme Court Justice Jeffrey A. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By Joel Stashenko<br />
<a href="http://www.law.com/jsp/nylj/index.jsp">New York Law Journal</a></p>
<p>November 28, 2008</p>
<p>ALBANY - A transgender individual should be allowed to legally assume a new name to reflect her identity as a woman, a state appeals court ruled Wednesday.</p>
<p>In <em>Matter of Earl William Golden III</em>, 504992, the Appellate Division, Third Department, reversed the finding of Supreme Court Justice Jeffrey A. Tait of Broome County. Justice Tait had dismissed Ms. Golden&#8217;s petition in May 2008 to formally change her name to Elisabeth Whitney Golden because the change from a traditional male name to a female name &#8220;is fraught with possible confusion.&#8221;</p>
<p>The decision will be published Thursday.</p>
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<p>Justice Tait said that no matter how &#8220;sensitive the Court is to petitioner&#8217;s personal goals,&#8221; he was wary of &#8220;confusing or misleading the public in its dealings with petitioner.&#8221; The justice noted that Ms. Golden was free to exercise her common-law right to take any name she chooses as long as &#8220;fraud, misrepresentation, or interference with the rights of others&#8221; is not involved.</p>
<p>Justice Tait also noted in his ruling that Ms. Golden had declined to present medical or psychological evidence that she is undergoing an &#8220;irreversible or permanent&#8221; gender transition - a showing that Ms. Golden argued is not required by New York Civil Rights Law in a memorandum of law before the Third Department.</p>
<p>Justice Tait issued an ex parte order denying Ms. Golden&#8217;s petition.</p>
<p>Presiding Justice Anthony V. Cardona, writing for a unanimous appeals panel, held that under common law &#8220;a person may change his or her name at will so long as there is no fraud, misrepresentation or interference with the rights of others.&#8221; In addition, Civil Rights Law §63 empowers courts to authorize name changes if satisfied that &#8220;the petition is true, and that there is no reasonable objection to the change of name proposed,&#8221; the judge noted.</p>
<p>In the instant case, Justice Cardona wrote that &#8220;possible confusion&#8221; was not a sufficient basis for Justice Tait&#8217;s denial of Ms. Golden&#8217;s petition since &#8220;confusion is a normal concomitant of any name change.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Thus, under the particular circumstances herein and in the absence of factors inferring &#8216;fraud, misrepresentation or interference with the rights of others&#8217; . . . we conclude that the petition should be granted,&#8221; Justice Cardona wrote.</p>
<p>In sending the petition back to Justice Tait, the Third Department directed that the language in the order changing Ms. Golden&#8217;s name should specify that the &#8220;name change order cannot be used as evidence that the gender of petitioner has been changed from male to female.&#8221;</p>
<p>Justices Edward O. Spain, Anthony J. Carpinello, Bernard J. Malone Jr. and Leslie E. Stein joined the ruling.</p>
<p>According to the decision, Ms. Golden first sought the name change in October 2007 to reflect her preference to be identified as a female.</p>
<p>Ms. Golden, 57, has been married since 1980. In her petition, she said she has been using the name &#8220;Elisabeth&#8221; in her personal life since 2004 and professionally since 2006.</p>
<p>Ms. Golden was represented by Franklin H. Romeo of the Manhattan-based Sylvia Rivera Law Project, which seeks to protect the right of self-determination of transgender and other &#8220;gender non-conforming&#8221; people. Mr. Romeo did not return a call for comment.</p>

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		<title>reflections on Lori Drew, bullying, and solutions to helping kids (Danah Boyd)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 18:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Viviane</dc:creator>
		
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>. . . Bullying is a horrific practice, but it&#8217;s also a common response when people struggle to attain status. Backstabbing, rumor-mongering, and enticement aren&#8217;t unique to teenagers. Look in any corporate office or political campaign and you&#8217;ll see some pretty nasty bullying going on. The difference is that adults have upped the ante, learned how to manipulate and hide their tracks. In other words, adults are much better equipped to do dreadful damage in their bullying that children and teens. They have practice. And it&#8217;s not a good thing.</p>
<p>Lori Drew abused her power as a knowledgeable adult by leveraging her adult knowledge of psychology to humiliate and torment a teen girl. Put another way, Lori Drew engaged in psychological and emotional child abuse. Child abuse includes the psychological or emotional mistreatment of a child. Unfortunately, most legal statutes focus on sexual and physical abuse and neglect because emotional abuse is very hard to substantiate and prosecute. But realistically, she should&#8217;ve been tried with child abuse, not a computer crime.</p>
<p>The fact that technology was involved is of little matter. Sure, she couldn&#8217;t have said those things to Megan&#8217;s face, but she could&#8217;ve hired a boy to do so. (How many movies have been made of boys being roped into teen girls&#8217; humiliation schemes?) The crime she should be convicted of should have nothing to do with technology. She should be tried (and convicted) of psychologically abusing a child.</p>
<p>Why do we focus on the technology? Is it because it is the thing that we don&#8217;t understand? Or is it because if we were actually forced to contend with the fact that Drew was abusing a minor to protect her own that we&#8217;d have to face our own bad habits in this regard? How many of you have done something problematic to protect your child? I suspect that, at the end of the day, many parents could step in Lori Drew&#8217;s shoes and imagine themselves getting carried away in an effort to protect their daughter from perceived injustices. Is that why we&#8217;re so centered on the technology?</p>
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January 23-25 - Phoenix, AZ
Southwest Leather Conference: teaching Relationships From Scratch and Mixing Rope Bondage  and Sex
February 13-15 - Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire:  teaching TBA
February 27 - March 1 - Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching  Decorative Piercing, The Dynamics of Co-Topping and Fettered &#38; hackled:Metal Bondage
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<p><strong>January 23-25 - Phoenix, AZ</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.southwestleather.org/">Southwest Leather Conference</a>: teaching <em>Relationships From Scratch</em> and <em>Mixing Rope Bondage  and Sex</em></p>
<p><strong>February 13-15 - Washington, DC</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.darkodyssey.com/">Dark Odyssey Winter Fire</a>:  teaching TBA</p>
<p><strong>February 27 - March 1 - Dallas, TX</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.southplainsleatherfest.com/">South Plains Leatherfest</a>: teaching  <em>Decorative Piercing</em>, <em>The Dynamics of Co-Topping</em> and <em>Fettered &amp; hackled:Metal Bondage</em></p>
<p><strong>March 19 – San  Francisco, CA</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.sfcitadel.org/">The Citadel</a>: teaching <em>Fantasy Role  Play</em></p>
<p><strong>March 19-22 – San Francisco, CA</strong><br />
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<p><strong>May 15 – NYC</strong><br />
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		<title>Equality Camp is coming: 1/3/09, San Francisco</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Equality Camp is a Bar-Camp style one day meet up to discuss and organize around marriage equality after the failure to defeat of California&#8217;s Proposition 8.    (See more on the bar camp model here. . . http://barcamp.org/EqualityCamp).
Blog here: http://equalitycamp.com/
Wiki here: http://barcamp.org/EqualityCamp
Follow them on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/equalitycamp
Follow the conversation on Seesmic: http://seesmic.com/equalitycamp
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.equalitycamp.com">Equality Camp</a> is a Bar-Camp style one day meet up to discuss and organize around marriage equality after the failure to defeat of California&#8217;s Proposition 8.    (See more on the bar camp model here. . . <a href="http://barcamp.org/EqualityCamp" target="_blank">http://barcamp.org/EqualityCamp</a>).</p>
<p>Blog here: <a href="http://equalitycamp.com/">http://equalitycamp.com/</a></p>
<p>Wiki here: <a href="http://barcamp.org/EqualityCamp">http://barcamp.org/EqualityCamp</a></p>
<p>Follow them on Twitter: <a href="http://www.twitter.com/equalitycamp">http://www.twitter.com/equalitycamp</a></p>
<p>Follow the conversation on Seesmic:<a href="http://seesmic.com/equalitycamp"> http://seesmic.com/equalitycamp</a></p>
<p>More info at <a href="http://upcoming.yahoo.com/event/1367655/" target="_blank">http://upcoming.yahoo.com/event/1367655/</a></p>
<p>Eventbrite signup page here: <a href="http://equalitycamp.eventbrite.com/">http://equalitycamp.eventbrite.com/</a></p>

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		<title>Lava Lotion Massage Candle</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 17:22:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Domina Doll</dc:creator>
		
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I love scented candles, especially when they function as a warming massage oil.  So when I had the opportunity to review Sunset Mountains Lava Lotion massage candle from Vibe Review, I was very pleased.  My massage candle came in Sandalwood Sage scent which is a nice mild, sensual scent, not overpowering at all.  The candle [...]]]></description>
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<p>I love scented candles, especially when they function as a warming massage oil.  So when I had the opportunity to review Sunset Mountains <a title="Lava Lotion Massage Candle" href="http://www.vibereview.com/sex_toys/lava_lotion_massage_candle?minion=DFL">Lava Lotion massage candle</a> from <a title="Vibe Review" href="http://www.vibereview.com/?minion=DFL">Vibe Review</a>, I was very pleased.  My massage candle came in Sandalwood Sage scent which is a nice mild, sensual scent, not overpowering at all.  The candle is scented with sandalwood, sage and rosemary essential oils which are a wonderful blend, as the sage and rosemary soften the sandalwood fragrance and give it a fresh aroma.</p>
<p>Most massage candles take about 20-30 minutes to melt down enough for use as a massage oil.  I lit mine while in the bath and enjoyed the soft fragrance while I soaked.  By the time I was finished, the candle had melted sufficiently to give my body a rub down.  I was experiencing pre-menstrual cramps, so decided to rub the warm oil all over my belly, breasts and thighs.  The oil felt so warm and wonderful as I rubbed it in, the scent soothing my mood.  The melting point of the oil is very low, and it never gets too hot, so can be poured directly from the tin onto the skin.  The oil itself is made of all natural vegan ingredients: Veggie Wax, Coconut oil, Olive Oil and fragrant essence oils and the company boasts that it does not test on animals.  The texture of the oil is medium and it absorbs well into the skin, leaving your body soft, gleaming and moisturized. Best of all was the soft subtle scent it left on my body that soon had me sleeping sound as a baby.</p>
<p>The package said that it could also be used cold, so the next day I removed some of the creamy wax and rubbed it into my hands which are so dry this time of year.  The wax almost melted on contact with the heat from my hands and turned into a thick oil that penetrated and moisturized.  You could also use this oil once melted to add it your bath for a fragrant, moisturizing experience.  I have used other massage candles before but was really impressed with the all natural vegetable ingredients in this candle which only enhanced it use as a massage oil.</p>
<p>You can buy this product and other great sex toys at <a title="Vibe Review" href="http://www.vibereview.com/?minion=DFL">VibeReview</a>.</p>

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		<title>Call for Submissions: Whore Lover</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 17:48:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Viviane</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Call for Submissions: Whore Lover (working title)
Deadline: March 4th 2009
Compiled/Edited by Sadie Lune
Whore Lover: Lovers and Partners of Sex Workers Speak
An anthology of non-fiction essays written by the non-paying partners (queer-trans-straight) of sex workers about their experiences and feelings regarding their unique position in the marketplace of love.
From casual dates, to long term relationships, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Call for Submission</strong>s: <em>Whore Lover</em> (working title)<br />
<strong>Deadline</strong>: March 4th 2009<br />
<strong>Compiled/Edited by Sadie Lune</strong></p>
<p><strong>Whore Lover: Lovers and Partners of Sex Workers Speak</strong><br />
An anthology of non-fiction essays written by the non-paying partners (queer-trans-straight) of sex workers about their experiences and feelings regarding their unique position in the marketplace of love.<br />
From casual dates, to long term relationships, to going down in flames, <em>Whore Lover</em> will explore the personal narratives of people attracted, intimate and in love with those who work in the sex industry.  Present and former lovers and partners of sex workers are encouraged to submit. Whore Lover is looking to represent the stories of a multiplicity of people: people of color, trans, queer, gay, straight, of all ages. Partners in all areas of the sex industry will be featured.</p>
<p>Topics of interest include but are not limited to:<br />
*Day to day negotiations<br />
*My partner and I turned each other out<br />
* I was a trick and then became a lover<br />
*Loving a Sex Work Celebrity<br />
*My partner’s job turns me on<br />
* My partner’s work inspired me to be a sex work client<br />
* I’m a sex worker and I only date other sex workers<br />
*How I deal with family and friends around my partner’s work<br />
*How I’ve dealt (or not) with my own ego around my partner’s sex work<br />
*My partner switched jobs within the industry and how that worked for us<br />
* My partner’s sex work is a secret from everyone (including me?)<br />
*I broke up with my partner because of sex work</p>
<p>People who have dated/loved/married all variety of sex workers including but not limited to: porn actors, strippers, FBSM/sensual massage providers, street-based workers, tantra providers, erotic body workers, sexual surrogates, escorts, fetish workers, phone-sex workers, pro-Dominants and pro-submissives,  are welcome to submit.</p>
<p>A limited number of interviews are possible to those who are interested in having their voices heard but  feel more comfortable talking than writing. First-time writers definitely welcome. No poetry, please.<br />
Pseudonyms or anonymous submissions are fine and will be honored.<br />
Pieces should be between 1000-7000 words.</p>
<p>Please submit via email attachment (pdf or doc file) to: partnersanthology AT gmail dot com</p>
<p>[via <a href="http://deepthroated.wordpress.com/">Bound Not Gagged</a>]</p>

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		<title>Prop 8 - The Musical (video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 19:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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Mark Davis and Bella Rossi on sexandsubmission.com
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