by rdb@blarg.net (plus two by Vamp and seven by RJ)
I don’t use primary/secondary terminology, since I don’t see my relationships as hierarchical.
You’re a secondary.
For me sex is about energy, so breathing and heart connection are more important than ejaculation.
I’m more sophisticated than the guy over there, please sleep with me instead.
* I see polyamory as being more about relationships and intimacy, while swinging is just about sex, and sex without intimacy is just not where I’m at right now.
I’m more sophisticated than the guy over there, please sleep with me instead.
* The most important thing to me is keeping agreements.
If you start seeing someone else and I’d feel unsophisticated just saying that I’m jealous, then I’ll reinterpret one of our agreements until I’m able to say you broke it.
Even secondary relationships for me aren’t just about sex.
Secondary relationships for me are just about sex.
Right now the most important things to me are building poly family and intentional community.
I’m getting concerned that I won’t always be able to easily find new partners, plus I’m tired of driving from place to place, and oh yeah, I’m more sophisticated than the guy over there, so please sleep with me instead.
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